I,[Groom's name],take you [brede's name],to be my wife,my partner in life and my one true love
I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever
I will trust you and honor you
I will laugh with you and cry with you
I will love you faithfully
Through the best and the worst,
Through the difficult and the easy
What may come I will always be there
As I have given you my hand to hold
So I give you my life to keep
So help me God
I,[brede's name],take you [Groom's name],to be my husband,my partner in life and my one true love
I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever
I will trust you and honor you
I will laugh with you and cry with you
I will love you faithfully
Through the best and the worst,
Through the difficult and the easy
What may come I will always be there
As I have given you my hand to hold
So I give you my life to keep
So help me God
In unison
Entreat me not to leave you,or to return from following after you,
For where you go I will go,
and where you stay I will stay
Your people will be my people,
and your God will be my God
And where you die,I will die and there I will be buried
May the Lord do with me and more if anything but death parts you from me
i want to take this man/woman to my lawful wedded husband/wife,
to love him/her and cherish him/her,
for better or worse,for poorer and richer
英国
在英国的约克市,小伙子如果要求找某个姑娘作为自己的伴侣,是比较容易的。因为该市的女子,到了结婚年龄,便采用一种“交通灯”的方式,特地穿上不同颜色的紧身衣服,向男子示意。如果是穿绿色,就表示:“来吧,通行无阻”、如果穿**,则表示:“可能,机会是一半”;如果是红色,那表明:“停止,不要碰我!”
意大利
在意大利的西西里岛,男女,主动权往往操纵在女子手里。如果女子在一个男子面前把头发打了一个尖结,那就表明:“你被我猎取了。”
特洛布里安群岛
在太平洋的特洛布里安群岛上,青年人的方式也很特别,如果有一个姑娘用牙猛咬了一个小伙子,那就表示姑娘爱上了他。刚果的小伙子向姑娘求婚时,常常是把一只烤熟的鸟送给姑娘,并说:“这鸟是我亲手打来的。”如果姑娘爱他,也回赠给他一个玉米棒子,并说:“这是我亲手种出来的。”
墨西哥
墨西哥的男青年,如果爱上了一个姑娘,他就聘请乐队到姑娘的窗下奏小夜曲,表示求婚,有时可以从半夜唱到天亮。
坦桑尼亚
坦桑尼亚的马萨伊族中,小伙子要想找到一个称心如意的姑娘,他必须首先杀死一头诸如狮子之类的猛兽,表示自己的勇敢,才能娶得好姑娘。
在坦桑尼亚的帕雷族中,如果男青年看中某个女青年,男方就选择日子,带着一个宽瓷罐到女方家。女方如果同意,便把瓷罐留下,否则就退回男方。
南美洲
南美洲北部苏里南的印第安人,把雪茄作求婚的媒介物。如果小伙子爱上了一位姑娘,便告诉自己的父母,选定一个吉日良辰,亲自到女家,并把精心制作的雪茄赠送给女家,表示男方求婚的诚意。如果女方的父亲欣然接受,这门亲事就算成功了。
在南美洲的马怀安族中,多是姑娘向小伙子求婚。姑娘平时注意观察自己受慕的小伙子的去向。当发现小伙子在田里劳动,便不声不响地下田,靠近小伙子的身边,帮助他耕作,若是小伙子不离开她,那就意味着,他们情投意合了。
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