演唱会现场求婚通常被视为一种浪漫的举动,许多人会为之感动。然而,这种行为也可能引发一些争议。以下是一些可能的问题和观点:
1 干扰演出:在演唱会现场求婚可能会干扰其他观众的观演体验,特别是在大型演唱会上。这种行为可能导致其他观众分心,影响他们欣赏音乐和表演。
2 对艺人和团队的尊重:在演唱会现场求婚,可能让艺人和团队感到为难。他们可能需要为求婚者提供额外的时间和关注,这可能会影响到他们的表演和舞台安排。
3 求婚成功与否:在演唱会现场求婚,成功率可能会受到多种因素的影响。如果求婚成功,这可能是一个美好的时刻;但如果求婚失败,这可能会让求婚者和其他观众感到尴尬和沮丧。
4 安全隐患:在演唱会现场求婚,可能会引发安全问题。如果求婚者在现场过于兴奋或激动,可能会引发意外事件,影响其他观众和场内的安全。总之,关键是确保您的求婚行为既浪漫又不打扰其他观众。希望这些建议能对您有所帮助!
张国荣之所以向毛舜筠求婚失败,主要有下面几点原因:01、毛舜筠太小不懂珍惜;02、毛舜筠还没做好结婚的准备。所以面对张国荣的求婚,毛舜筠则是开始慢慢疏远他,后来两个人也渐渐发展成了兄妹。
01、毛舜筠太小不懂珍惜
哥哥张国荣第一次在走廊里相遇的时候,张国荣就喜欢上了毛舜筠,因为两个人都是在同一家公司主持节目,所以相处的时间还是比较多的。在相处的过程中,张国荣觉得毛舜筠就是自己喜欢的类型,于是开始追求毛舜筠,经过一段时间的恋爱,张国荣向毛舜筠求婚了。
当时毛舜筠只有十七岁,面对张国荣的求婚,她的第一反应不是惊喜而是害怕,因为她觉得哥哥张国荣长得这么帅气,还这么优秀,所以如此之下,竟然慢慢疏远了张国荣。
后来毛舜筠回忆这件事情的时候,则表示自己当时真的是太小,还不懂得珍惜,所以没有答应哥哥张国荣的求婚。
02、毛舜筠还没做好结婚的准备
毛舜筠当时只有十七岁,这个年纪的女孩可以说对恋爱有着无限的向往,却可能从未想过自己有一天结婚之后会是怎么样,所以她们接受恋爱,却不会立马结婚。
张国荣的求婚也让毛舜筠觉得自己被吓到了,毕竟她还没考虑到婚姻这个事情,所以就采取了逃避的态度,甚至慢慢疏远张国荣,也致使两个人的感情走到了尽头。
不过两个人虽然没成为情侣,却也变成了兄妹,经常在一起逛街、打麻将,甚至两个人还合作出演了《家有喜事》、《花田喜事》、《大富之家》等影片。只能说因为毛舜筠太年轻,而且不懂得珍惜,而张国荣也没能及时开导,所以最终才变成了兄妹,但是两个人的感情结局却都不是很好:毛舜筠自张国荣后,经历了几段失败的感情,张国荣最终因为抑郁症而跳楼自杀。
DARCY: Might I ask why, with so little endeavour at civility, I am thus repulsed
LIZZIE: (trembling with emotion) I might as well enquire why, with so evident a design of insulting me, you chose to tell me that you liked me against your better judgement If I was uncivil, that was some excuse -
DARCY: Believe me, I didn't mean
LIZZIE: But I have other reasons, you know I have!
DARCY: What reasons
LIZZIE: Do you think that anything might tempt me to accept the man who has ruined, perhaps for ever, the happiness of a most beloved sister
Silence Darcy looks as if he's been struck across the face
LIZZIE: (cont'd) Do you deny it, Mr Darcy That you've separated a young couple who loved each other, exposing your friend to the censure of the world for caprice, and my sister to its derision for disappointed hopes, and involving them both in misery of the acutest kind
DARCY: I do not deny it
LIZZIE: (blurts out) How could you do it
DARCY: Because I believed your sister indifferent to him
LIZZIE: Indifferent
DARCY: I watched them most carefully, and realized his attachment was much deeper than hers
LIZZIE: That's because she's shy!
DARCY: Bingley too is modest, and was persuaded that she didn't feel strongly for him
LIZZIE: Because you suggested it!
DARCY: I did it for his own good
LIZZIE: My sister hardly shows her true feelings to me! (pause, takes a breath) I suppose you suspect that his fortune had same bearing on the matter
DARCY: ( sharply) No! I wouldn't do your sister the dishonour Though it was suggested (stops)
LIZZIE: What was
DARCY: It was made perfectly clear thatan advantageous marriage (stops)
LIZZIE: Did my sister give that impression
DARCY: No!
An awkward pause
DARCY: (cont'd) There was, however, I have to admit the matter of your family
LIZZIE: Our want of connection Mr Bingley didn't vex himself about that!
DARCY: No, it was more than that
LIZZIE: How, sir
DARCY: (pause, very uncomfortable) It pains me to say this, but it was the lack of propriety shown by your mother, your three younger sisters - even, on occasion, your father Forgive me
Lizzie blushes He has hit home Darcy paces up and down
DARCY: (cont'd) You and your sister - I must exclude from this
Darcy stops He is in turmoil Lizzie glares at him, ablaze
我就找到这里,后面的没有找到,还是从贴吧上看到的,抱歉~
兄弟啊,同病相连啊,自己上次在广场给我的女朋友求婚,可我的女朋友不答应,自己都快哭了,公共场所啊,大家都在看着呢,当我单膝下跪的那一瞬间,希望我的女朋友快点答应啊,人越来越多啊,到时候场面没有办法解决啊,自己处于一个尴尬的地位,难受啊。
我的女朋友最后还是不同意,她说还没有考虑要结婚,这一切都太突然了,我没有办法接受,而且我不想那么早结婚,结婚太束缚我了,我还有自己的梦想没有完成,你是一个很好的男生,对我也很好,我自己的心里想,如果你可以再等我两年出国回来,我们就结婚,可你这几天一直暗示你妈催婚的事情,原来我是想跟你好好的说这件事情,但今天的一切都太意外了,还来不及说出一切,我们先不要那么早结婚,可以吗?
啊,当时自己除了对自己的女朋友表示疑惑意外,很想找个地洞钻进去,为什么拒绝我啊,好伤心啊,我那时候笑笑的说,没事,宝贝,我们回家再慢慢的说,在公开场合有些事情没有办法说清楚,我们两个人一起潇洒的离开,不能答应你的求婚。
但离开你们可以一起,不要一直质问对方,给双方都有一个台阶下,语气不要咄咄逼人,要学会将场面缓和一下,不要让现场充满尴尬的气氛,一起离开可以让这件事情的结尾留有想象的空间,不会一直让路人停留在求婚失败那一瞬间。
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