求婚为什么送钻戒求婚送钻戒的三大定义

如今，求婚几乎已经等同于钻戒。在美国，甚至有一个默认的浅规则——如果一个小伙子不买一颗相当于他三个月工资的钻石向你求婚，说明他不够爱你。

求婚为什么要送钻戒(三大特点)

钻石是恋人们表明忠诚，许下誓言的东西，是见证爱情和婚姻的东西。它承载着人们对坚如磐石的爱情的憧憬和祝福，求婚送钻戒表达了对婚姻长久幸福的祝愿。钻石之所以能成为爱情的象征，与其自身的特性密切相关。它有三个特点:明亮、持久、稀有。这与人们心目中美好的爱情特征不谋而合，自然成为男女订婚誓言的最佳选择。

求婚钻戒的美丽

钻戒之所以能成为恋人之间最好的订婚信物，主要是因为钻戒的内在含义。求婚钻戒代表无与伦比的美丽。人们之所以喜欢用钻戒作为爱的信物，恰恰是它的内在含义。首先，求婚钻戒的美，它属于宝石之王，散发着无与伦比的美，它的光彩是任何宝石都无法比拟的。可以说钻石是宝石中的贵族，它的美丽也象征着爱情的幸福和甜蜜。而这种美也是爱情最好的象征。

求婚钻戒的永恒

众所周知，钻石的成分非常单一，只有一种物质造就了钻石，而且无论在任何环境条件下，都不会改变钻石的美丽。因为它的质地坚硬，不会随时间而改变。这也是钻石最大的特点。其实就像恋人之间的爱情，坚如磐石。钻石随时都能绽放出最美的光泽，爱情也是。不管岁月流逝了多久，这份爱情依然会让我们感到幸福和甜蜜，这才是真正的爱情。一份真挚的情感不会随着时间而改变。

求婚钻戒的稀有性

钻戒之所以能象征最完美的爱情，也源于钻石的稀有性。一颗钻石的形成需要上万年的时间，而开采一颗钻石也需要很多工序，这也是钻石的稀有性。钻石之所以能成为宝石中的极品，也是因为钻石的各种特性。在今天的珠宝市场上，钻石有不同的大小和价格。相信通过上面的介绍，你会更加了解为什么求婚时一定要有钻戒。我必须要钻戒吗？答案肯定是肯定的。我相信只要你真的爱她，你一定会为她的求婚买一枚精致的钻戒。

对于一对情侣来说，求婚这个仪式也是非常重要的，其重要性仅次于结婚，所以很多男生都会精心准备一个求婚仪式，来向自己的女友求婚，美国的一个小伙的求婚仪式非常别出心裁，他在高空跳伞的时候向自己的女友求婚，我觉得这个求婚的创意是非常新颖的，如果女友也喜欢跳伞，那么这样的求婚仪式是受双方所喜欢的，但像我这种不喜欢跳伞运动的，我觉得这样的求婚方式虽然新颖，但是并不满意，而且对于不喜欢跳伞的人来说，在高空跳伞时求婚一点都没有浪漫气息，所以我觉得是否要选择过于新颖的求婚方式，还是要看女方的需求，毕竟求婚的目的就是让女方答应结婚这件事情。

对于每一个女生来说，都希望自己能拥有一个梦幻的求婚仪式所以很多女生对求婚仪式的要求是非常高的，但这并不意味着女性在求婚仪式这方面的要求非常苛刻，因为女性都是感性动物，所以如果一个男生平时对自己的女朋友非常好，那么即使求婚仪式是没有那么浪漫，女友也会答应求婚，所以我觉得在一对恋爱中求婚仪式并不是最重要的一件事情，最重要的还是平时要多关心自己的另一半，有很多女生在挑选结婚对象的时候，并不是看这个男生的浪漫细胞有多少，而是看这个男生平时对自己好不好，是不是一个值得托付终生的人。

女生的心思其实是没有那么容易猜透的，所以我觉得每一个男生在和自己的女友求婚之前，还是应该探探女友的口风，看看女友喜欢什么样的求婚仪式，如果女友喜欢的求婚仪式是比较浪漫的，那么还是要尽力去准备，如果女友对仪式感的要求没有那么高，那完全可以准备一个不用那么浪漫，但是非常合女友心意的求婚仪式。

有很多男生用自己以为的方式去求婚，而且还会进行自我感动，觉得这么浪漫的仪式对方一定会答应，但踩到对方的雷点也是非常有可能的，想给对方一个惊喜的心情是我们能够理解的，但是也不能让对方太过于惊讶，毕竟求婚这件事情的主角还是女生，还是要看女生是否同意，所以一切准备还是要按照女生的要求来进行。当然最重要的还是平时要对女生比较好，这样即使求婚仪式准备的没有那么好，女生也会答应求婚，毕竟女生结婚挑选对象的原则还是要看是否值得托付终身。

你要的是克林顿昨天在美国民主党代表大会上的讲话？下面是你要的那部分：

In the spring of 1971,I met a girl The first time I saw her, we were, appropriately enough, in aclass on political and civil rights She had thick blond hair, big glassesWore no makeup And she exuded this strength of self-possession I found magnetic

After the class, Ifollowed her out, intending to introduce myself I got close enough to touchher back, but I couldn't do it Somehow, I knew this would not be just anothertap on the shoulder, that I might be starting something I couldn't stop I saw herseveral more times the next few days but still didn't speak to her Then onenight in the law library talking to a classmate who wanted me to join the YaleLaw Journal, he said it would guarantee me a job at a big firm or a clerkshipwith a federal judge I really wasn’t interested — I just wanted to go home toArkansas

Then I saw the girlagain, standing at the opposite end of that long room Finally, she was staringback at me So I watched her She closed her book, put it down, and startedwalking toward me She walked the whole length of the library, came up to me,and said, "Look, if you are going to keep staring at me, we at least oughtto know each other's name I'm Hillary Rodham, who are you" I was soimpressed and surprised that, whether you believe it or not, momentarily, I wasspeechless

Finally, I sort ofblurted out my name and we exchanged a few words, and she went away Well, Ididn't join the Law Review, but I did leave that library with a whole new goalin mind A couple days later, I saw her again, wearing a long, white, floweryskirt, and I went up to her and she said she was going to register for classesfor the next term I said I would go too

We stood in line andtalked — you had to do that to register back then I thought I was doing prettywell until we got to the front of the line and the registrar looked up andsaid, "Bill, what are you doing here You registered this morning"

I turned red and shelaughed that big laugh of hers and I thought, well, heck, since my cover hasbeen blown, I asked her to take a walk down to the art museum We have beenwalking, and talking, and laughing together ever since

And we have done it ingood times, through joy and heartbreak We cried together this morning on thenews that our good friend and a lot of your good friend, Mark Weiner, passedaway early this morning We built up a lifetime of memories After the firstmonth and that first walk, I drove her home to Park Ridge, Illinois, to meether family and see the town where she grew up, a perfect example of post-WorldWar II middle-class America Street after street of nice houses, great schools,good parks, a big public swimming pool And almost all white

I really liked herfamily, her crusty, conservative father, her rambunctious brothers, allextolling the virtue of rooting for the bears and the cubs And for the peopleof Illinois here, they even told me what waiting for next year meant — could benext year, guys

Now, her mother wasdifferent She was more liberal than the boys She had a childhood that mademine look like a piece of cake She was easy to underestimate with her softmanner and she reminded me all over again of the truth of that old saying thatyou should never judge a book by its cover Knowing her was one of the greatestgifts Hillary ever gave me

I learned that Hillarygot her introduction to social justice through her Methodist youth minister,Don Jones He took her downtown to Chicago to hear Martin Luther King Jr speakand he remained her friend for the rest of his life This will be the onlycampaign of hers he ever missed

When she got tocollege, her opposition to the Vietnam War compelled her to change parties andbecome a Democrat And then between college and law school, on a total lark,she went alone to Alaska and spent time sliming fish

More to the point, bythe time I met her she had already been involved in the law school's legalservices project and she had been influenced by Marian Wright Edelman She tooka summer internship interviewing workers in migrant camps for Sen WalterMondale’s subcommittee She had also begun working in the Yale New Havenhospital to develop procedures to handle suspected child abuse cases

She got so involved inchildren's issues that she actually took an extra year in law school working atthe child studies center to learn what more could be done to improve the livesand futures of poor children She was already determined to figure out how tomake things better

Hillary opened my eyesto a whole new world of public service by private citizens In the summer of1972, she went to Dothan, Alabama, to visit one of those segregated academiesthat enrolled over a half a million white kids in the South The only way theeconomics worked was if they claimed federal tax exemptions to which they werenot legally entitled She got sent to prove they weren't

So she sauntered intoone of these academies all by herself, pretending to be a housewife that justmoved to town and needed to find a school for her son And they exchangepleasantries and finally, she said, "Look, let's get to the bottom lineIf I enroll my son in this school, will he be in a segregated school Yes orno" And the guy said "Absolutely" She had him I’ve seen it athousand times since

And she went back andher encounter was part of a report that gave Marian Wright Edelman the forcethey needed to keep working to get the Nixon administration to take those taxexemptions away and give our kids access to an equal education

Then she went down toSouth Texas, where she met one of the nicest fellows I ever met, the wonderfulunion leader Franklin Garcia, and he helped her register Mexican-Americanvoters I think some of them are still around to vote for her in 2016 Andthen, in our last year in law school, Hillary kept up this work She went toSouth Carolina to see why so many young African-American boys — I mean, youngteenagers — were being jailed for years with adults in men's prisons She fileda report on that, which led to some changes too Always making things better

Meanwhile, let's getback to business I was trying to convince her to marry me I first proposed toher on a trip to Great Britain, the first time she'd ever been overseas Wewere on the shoreline of this wonderful lake, Lake Ennerdale I asked her tomarry me and she said, "I can't do it"

So in 1974, I wenthome to teach in law school and Hillary moved to Massachusetts to keep workingon children's issues This time, trying to figure out why so many kids countedin the census weren't enrolled in school

She found one of themsitting alone on her porch in a wheelchair Once more, she filed a report aboutthese kids and that helped influence ultimately the Congress to adopt theproposition that children with disabilities, physical or otherwise, should haveequal access to public education You saw the result of that last night whenAnastasia Somoza talked She never made fun of people with disabilities Shetried to empower them based on their abilities

Meanwhile, I was stilltrying to get her to marry me The second time I asked, I tried a differenttactic I said, "I really want you to marry me, but you shouldn't doit" She smiled and looked at me like what is this boy up to She said,"That is not a very good sales pitch" I said, "I know but it'strue" And I meant it It was true I said, "I know most of the youngDemocrats our age who want to go into politics, they mean well and they speakwell, but none of them is as good as you are at actually doing things to makepositive changes in people's lives"

So I suggested she gohome to Illinois or move to New York and look for a chance to run for officeShe laughed and said, "Are you out of your mind Nobody would ever votefor me" So I finally got her to come visit me in Arkansas And when shedid, the people at the law school were so impressed, they offered her ateaching position And she decided to take a huge chance

She moved to a strangeplace, more rural and conservative than anywhere she had been Where she knewgood and well that people were wondering what in the world she was like andwhether they could or should accept her Didn't take them long to find out whatshe was like

She loved herteaching She got frustrated when one of her students said, "What do youexpect, I'm just from Arkansas" She said, "Don’t tell me thatYou’re as smart as anybody You just have to believe in yourself and work forit and set high goals" She believed anyone could make it She alsostarted the first legal aid clinic in northwest Arkansas, providing legal aidservices to poor people who couldn't pay for them

One day, I was drivingher to the airport to fly back to Chicago when we passed this little brickhouse that had a for-sale sign on it and she said, "Boy, that's a prettyhouse" It had 1,100 square feet, an attic fan and no air conditioner inhot Arkansas, and a screened-in porch Hillary commented on what a uniquelydesigned and beautiful house it was

So I took a bigchance I bought the house My mortgage was $175 a month When she came back, Ipicked her up and said, "You remember that house you like" I said,"While you were gone, I bought it, and you have to marry me now" Thethird time was the charm We were married in that little house on October 11,1975 I married my best friend

导读：“你愿意嫁给我吗？”——它应该是人生最重要的问题之一，选择一个恰当的地方可能让美好记忆更加弥足珍贵。精品酒店旅游网站Mr&Mrs Smith选出了全世界最棒的十家适合求婚的酒店，每一处都

“你愿意嫁给我吗？”——它应该是人生最重要的问题之一，选择一个恰当的地方可能让美好记忆更加弥足珍贵。精品酒店旅游网站Mr&Mrs Smith选出了全世界最棒的十家适合求婚的酒店，每一处都美不胜收，感觉各异。

1、意大利威尼斯的PALAZZO BARBARIGO酒店

这家本身就是威尼斯旅游景点之一的精品酒店拥有18个房间，豪华的装饰洋溢着现代气息。客房内的小吧台可圈可点，定一个普通套房，欣赏美丽绝伦的大运河美景，然后拉伴侣去酒店附近的水上“刚朵拉”平底船共度美好时光。

2、摩洛哥马拉喀什的NOIR D’IVOIRE

NOIR D’IVOIRE酒店赏心悦目之处在于细节：宽大的牀与巨大的浴室；冬季有真正的炉火；每晚都有新鲜的橘子；美味可口的干果。如果两人感情八字已有一撇，还想进一步发展的话，那就定个“皇家套间”，那里有只属于你们两个人的露天阳台和冷水浴池。

3、伯利兹卡潘多岛度假酒店Cayo Espanto

这家度假酒店距离伯利兹海岸三英里，四周都是棕榈树。做为私人、专属性小岛度假村，它却给人一种悠闲、谦逊的感觉。

4、澳大利亚大堡礁威尔森岛WILSON ISLAND

威尔森岛为大堡礁的一个单独的热带小岛，其上仅设有六个沿海的豪华帐篷。这里可说是全世界最最浪漫的宿营地。你可以从帐篷内舒适的牀上直接远望碧蓝的大海，或与爱侣在点缀着珊瑚的海滩上漫步，亦或在可以容纳两个人的吊牀上度过闲散的时间。如果想要求婚，那选择“Isolation”吧，它是六间海边帐篷中最为悠静和私密的一间。

5、新西兰奥克兰OLLIES酒店

美味的食物和天籁般音乐形成了OLLIES酒店优雅又闲适的风格，为爱侣们营造了浓浓的爱情培养氛围。钢琴、歌剧、美食与spa相融合，让人仿佛置身童话世界。

6、美国纽约CROSBY STREET酒店

Cro y Street酒店有一种英式的优雅氛围，你可以定酒店11层与10层的普通套间。在这个高度通过房间的大窗向外望去，曼哈顿南部最美丽的风景尽收眼底。

7、澳大利亚布诺萨山谷“THE LOUISE”

酒店在美食方面首屈一指，这里处处都折射着酒店对客人情绪和对美食美酒热情的重视。酒店亦非常重视私人空间。

8、南非“LA RESIDENCE”

LA RESIDENCE的波斯毯、充满异域风情的古董与艺术品令人眼前一亮。住在这里会给爱侣们一种居住在私人皇宫的错觉。

9、不丹AMANKORA

Amankora经营理念特别，并非单独一家酒店，而是由五个分布在不丹全景的高档旅舍组成。AMANKORA对入住游客十分贴心，无论是10日游也好，或者是时间受限选主要景点游也好，AMANKORA都能为游客量身定做，做出适当安排和确定游玩路线。

10、柬埔寨暹粒酒店DE LA PAIX

这家疗养酒店的外观异常豪华，内部亦毫不逊色。白色作为酒店的主色调，与深色的砖瓦、色彩单一的寺庙雕刻等形成鲜明对比。酒店整体透露着一种低调的奢华。

 蒲甘，缅甸

日出本来就够浪漫的了，但在蒲甘的日出简直像是梦境。9世纪到13世纪，这里曾是蒲甘王国的首都，有10000座佛寺、庙宇和佛塔。如今，蒲甘的平原上仍伫立着2000多处佛教建筑。爬到塔顶（洛克桑塔庙群就不错）看日出，朝阳把暗色的大地瞬间变成一块金色的画布，还有塔影随着日照扫过，增添了灵动的生气。这绝对是一幅令人难忘的场景，接下来就该问对方：你愿意嫁给我吗？

Skjeggedal的“巨人之舌”，挪威

如果她喜欢亲近大自然，不恐高，并且愿意与你一起走在世界的边缘，那她一定不会介意你是在“巨人之舌”上单膝跪地。这大自然的史诗画卷，巨人之舌，是一片从700米深渊绝壁上伸出的岩石，俯瞰深渊下的Ringedalsvatnet湖。但来之前你要做好充足准备，因为这里是很偏僻的山区，从这里的小径徒步返回需要8到10小时。

巨人之舌只在六月中（融雪后）到九月中对游客开放。卑尔根是附近最大的城市。

纽约，美国

到处都是浪漫之地的纽约是求婚的恰当之选。一些地方甚至能帮你更进一步：洛克菲勒中心的户外溜冰场为你提供专属的冰雪时刻，还可以播放你选择好的CD；帝国大厦著名的86层观景台有一位萨克斯管演奏家，可以帮你助兴。还有一处能看到城市标志性景观的高地非常低调，是布鲁克林大桥的人行道。夏天，中央公园罗艾柏船屋是个很能给人灵感地方—两人租一条划桨小船，雇一艘贡多拉(两头尖的平底船)或者在湖边的阶地上求婚。

NamibRand自然保护区，纳米比亚

在纳米布沙漠，你不需要月光来摇曳情绪，星星就足够明亮了。NamibRand是全世界三大金牌夜空保护区之一。观赏了一整个白天的沙丘、山峦和各种野生动物之后，落日会诱使你求婚（那里的落日美得令人窒息），但最好等到漫天烟火绽放之后。

阿玛菲海岸，意大利

是的，威尼斯，罗马和佛罗伦萨都是很好的选择。但那不勒斯南部的阿玛菲海岸是专为相爱的人存在的。意大利有不少绝妙地点适合提出这人生重要一问，比如拉维洛辛波乃别墅前的漫长阶梯，波西塔诺高处的众神通道（Sentier degli Dei）。但阿玛菲海岸是那种能找到属于你的最佳求婚地的地方。

乌代浦，拉贾斯坦邦，印度

拉贾斯坦邦的城市乌代浦，在1829年被James Tod中校冠以“印度大陆上最浪漫地点”的美称。James是当地第一个东印度公司督察。这里，华丽的宫殿、庙宇和宅邸，遍布皮丘拉湖岸，还有那白色大理石外观的湖上宫殿，像是浮在柔软的湖面上。现在它是座奢华的酒店，正适合书写童话般的诺言。