《爱情与骗局》｜一个被爱情骗局成就的幸福人生

我们每个人的命运或许就是自己心念感召而来，不管好的还是坏的，没有好坏之分，只是我们看问题的角度不同而已。

Perhaps the fate of each of us is the inspiration of our own minds, whether good or bad, there is no good or bad, but we look at problems from different perspectives

一个人内心深处渴望什么，就会不停找寻什么，当一定机缘成熟的时候，一切与之相匹配的因缘会发生在生活中，从而产生与命运匹配的故事经历出现，一个人任何时候学会自我解读自己命运是一个特别重要的能力。

When a person desires something deep in his heart, he will keep looking for something When a certain chance is ripe, all the karma that matches it will happen in life, resulting in a story that matches fate A person learns at any time Self-interpretation of one's own destiny is a particularly important ability

故事讲述了一个名为海伦的女子因为内心深处对爱情的渴望以及婚姻生活中压力和无奈，在长期的互联网工作中遇到名为柯林斯的一个韩国人，从而产生了一段爱情骗局的经历，女主在和骗子相处的一个多月里，女主内心的变化以及她发现对方是电信咋骗的整个过程，在骗子和女主相处的这段时候，骗子扮演出女主内心深处最理想的伴侣形象，从而引发女主内心深处爱的流动，从而疗愈女主内心深处伤害，从而让女主更好的面对自己的现实生活。

The story tells the story of a woman named Helen, because of her deep desire for love and the pressure and helplessness in her marriage life, she met a Korean named Collins in her long-term Internet work, which resulted in a love fraud experience In more than a month of getting along with the cheater, the woman's inner changes and her discovery of the other party During the period when the cheater and the heroine get along with each other, the cheater plays the most ideal partner image in the heart of the heroine, thus triggering the flow of love in the heart of the heroine, thus healing the inner hurt of the heroine and making the heroine better face her real life

女主每次面对婚姻里不作为的丈夫以及世俗压力，女主不得不承受着经济压力和生育压力，女主两个女儿，而在这个偏僻落后的地方，重男轻女，女主被经常逼着生三胎，即使女主已经很努力的工作和学习成长，但是她也只能挣到不多维持自己和孩子生活开销的零花钱，他的丈夫和家人觉得女人生孩子本就天经地义，女主产生抑郁，女主各种压力只是矫情，而女主在怀孕三胎其间，生育给女主造成很大的心理创伤，而这种伤害在婚姻的世俗里是不被认可和理解的，当他遇到一个可以理解她内心深处真实想法的人以后，从而灵魂得到救赎和勇气，从而更好生活的故事，即使对方是个骗子，女主知道觉得这是上帝刻意安排给她最好的结局。

Every time the hostess faces the inaction of her husband and secular pressure in the marriage, the hostess has to bear financial pressure and fertility pressure The hostess has two daughters In this remote and backward place, the hostess is often favored by sons Forced to give birth to three children, even though the hostess has worked hard and learned to grow, she can only earn a small amount of pocket money to support herself and her children Her husband and family felt that it was natural for a woman to have children The heroine is depressed,

The pressure of the hostess is just hypocrisy, and the female host’s childbirth caused great psychological trauma to the hostess during the third pregnancy, and this kind of injury is not recognized and understood in the world of marriage When he encounters someone The story of someone who can understand her true thoughts deep in her heart, so that the soul will be saved and courage, and thus live a better life Even if the other party is a liar, the hostess knows that this is the best ending that God deliberately arranged for her

在女主心里，婚姻之外是存在一份浪漫的爱恋故事，但是她并不想让这种爱影响到现实婚姻，打破现实生活中的平衡，即使她自己婚姻她觉得很大压力，和自己老公有好多问题，但是还谈不上离婚的境界，毕竟在女主心里公婆是一对不错的父母，她和婆家相处很和谐，这让她自己觉得婆家也给予她很多关心和家的温暖，这是女主原生家庭给不了她的平凡而幸福的生活！

In the heart of the hostess, there is a romantic love story outside of marriage, but she does not want this love to affect the real marriage and break the balance in real life, even if she is married, she feels a lot of pressure and her husband There are many problems, but I can’t talk about the realm of porce After all, in the hostess’s mind, her in-laws are a good pair of parents She and her in-laws get along very harmoniously This makes her feel that her in-laws also give her a lot of care and warmth It is the heroine's native family that can't give her an ordinary and happy life!

女主不想成为安娜卡列尼娜为爱情从而选择放弃婚姻的安娜，也不想伤害到真正特别爱的人，无疑遇到骗子这是最好的结局，她觉得骗子很可爱，她内心深处从没有抱怨过骗子，哪怕女主知道对方靠近自己就是为了骗钱。

The hostess does not want to be Anna Karenina who chooses to give up her marriage for love, nor does she want to hurt the one she really loves Undoubtedly, encountering a liar is the best ending She thinks the liar is very cute From the bottom of her heart I have never complained about a liar, even if the hostess knows that the other person is close to him to cheat money

每次女主在婚姻生活中感觉委屈而无助的时候，她内心深处渴望有个人可以接纳她一切，带她逃离婚姻生活，但是当她真的邂逅这个骗子从而产生爱恋以后，她最担心的事就是怕自己因为一段 情感 而影响家庭稳定，如果没有这个骗子，女主还意识不到其实她自己很爱这个家，哪怕有时候婚姻生活某些时候让她感到不尽如人意，但是当她内心深处发现自己有新的爱产生，直接影响婚姻的时候，她害怕自己做出选择，直到女主能够完整确认对方就是正儿八经骗子的那时候，她内心有了从未有过的心安。

Every time the hostess feels wronged and helpless in her marriage life, she longs for someone to accept her everything and take her away from her marriage life But when she really meets this liar and loves her, she is most worried about it The thing is that she is afraid that she will affect the stability of the family due to a period of emotions Without this liar, the hostess would not realize that she loves this family very much, even if sometimes the marriage life makes her feel unsatisfactory

人生遇到常常会在已婚以后会发现，你依然对某个人会心动，会情不自禁渴望靠近和了解对方。常常有人问，结婚以后遇到真爱以后怎么办这样的问题，当她被骗子用心理解和深深接纳以后，她内心流动的爱让自己内心获得一次生命重生，从而使得自己生命重启，仿佛婚姻生活中本来存在问题不在是问题那一刻，她拥有了重新开始生活的勇气。

In life, you will often find that after you are married, you still have a heart for someone, and you can't help but want to get close to and understand each other People often ask how to deal with the problem of true love after marriage When she is understood and deeply accepted by a liar, the love flowing in her heart rebirths her inner life, which makes her life restart, like a married life At the moment when Zhong originally had a problem is not the problem, she has the courage to start life again

她从没有一丝一毫去恨那个骗她的人，而是发自内心的感恩对方，但是遗憾的事，骗子为了从女主身上骗钱温柔的迎合女主的内心，这种温柔的理解从而让女主内心深处产生爱的力量，从而变得更热爱生活，但是女主不得不承认，不是所有的骗子是可以被教化改过自新不去骗人的，即使女主想要用善良和理解去感化那个骗子，但是当她发现骗子把她喜欢的韩国人头像换成一个美国人的头像的那一刻，她内心深处全部的感觉都消失了，她知道即使她努力过想要那个骗子不去骗人，但是她尽力了，骗子依然改变网名头像去骗其他女性，女主此刻只能祈祷那些接触到骗子的人可以和自己一样不受到伤害。

She never hated the person who lied to her at all, but thanked him from the bottom of her heart, but unfortunately, in order to cheat money from the hostess, the liar gently catered to the heart of the hostess This gentle understanding allowed the female The power of love is generated deep in the Lord’s heart, thus becoming more passionate about life, but the hostess has to admit that not all liars can be reformed and not deceived, even if the hostess wants to use kindness and understanding Probate that liar,

But when she found out that the liar changed her favorite Korean portrait to an American portrait, all the feeling in her heart disappeared She knew that even if she tried hard to want that liar not to lie, but She tried her best The scammer still changed her screen name and profile picture to deceive other women At this moment, the hostess can only pray that those who come into contact with the scammer can be as harmless as herself

A或者B，是他们之间的一个暗语。

上A餐，韦康所扮演的角色是感情掮客；上B餐，则鲁健所扮演的角色是商业掮客。不间断地上A餐、B餐，是他们的工作。

他们的职业叫做“骗子”。

九洲公司老总秦春华为了签下一份神秘的合作协议，以五百万的价码雇佣了这对骗子搭档。为了这次骗局，两人挑战自己的职业技术，A、B餐同时运用：一幕幕美人计、借刀杀人、以逸待劳、偷梁换柱、打草惊蛇的好戏接连上演……

岂料，一个更大的局中局等待着他们的到来……

庞大的资产运作，盘根错杂的人物关系，环环相扣的骗局，宛如一部商界无间道。再加上真真假假的邂逅和浪漫制造，连爱情也越发地扑朔迷离。

究竟哪个局才是最后的一个局？

不到最后一刻，谁都无法判断谁输谁赢。

一、看见过最匪夷所思的网恋骗局是男的欺骗男的假扮成女的，各种智商骗钱，这也是新闻回应过的网恋骗局，这确定不是两个愿打愿挨的男女关系，而是以欺骗感情为目的骗取他人财产的卑劣方法。

第一次看见这种故事还是很惊讶的，网恋世界有很多成为现实恋人的现实，突然出现以恋爱为赚钱方法的犯罪故事是震惊的。

一个男的为了赚钱竟然利用女人的身份与陌生的男人谈恋爱，而且还是在社交平台发生的，这也是叹为观止了。

不停相信谎言，还自动给骗子打钱，这是智商有问题了。

二、看见最令人气愤的恋爱骗钱就是谎称得了癌症需要救助，结果不止一个女子相信骗子的爱情，给他疯狂打钱，最后这些女子知道真相后，痛心疾首又痛哭流涕，这真是最卑鄙的害人害己了。

第一次发现有男人以爱情为条件利用女人爱情赚钱，而且同时与几名女子交往，利用自己患病假账单骗出资金达成骗钱目的。

真是令人百思不得其解，一个男人不好好做人就算了，还去利用爱情拐卖同情心，这属于敲诈勒索了。

三、看见最令人悲伤不已的网恋骗局是一个男人已婚了还说自己没有结婚，在网恋平台招摇撞骗，掳获了女子芳心就开始露出丑陋目的，骗够事业基金就抛弃女人，这真是令人忍无可忍的现实世界了。

网恋从来都是单纯喜欢，后来聊成恋爱世界，本来是爱情的浪漫路途，结果是遇见吃人的道德沦丧。

突然为网恋担心，还有人敢相信网恋是缘分吗，还有人敢在网恋世界交付真心吗。

恋爱是两个人单单纯纯谈恋爱，爱情是两颗心清清纯纯遇爱情，拒绝那些不安好心的丧失美德。

还网恋一个未来信誉。

很多人都说爱情不过是一场骗局，我们之所以会对那个人产生心动的感觉，不过就是荷尔蒙的过度分泌所造成的，时间长了，荷尔蒙退去的时候，彼此之间相爱的那种感觉也会逐渐消退，真正结婚之后会有哪些真相浮出水面呢？

第一，在结婚之前不要对婚姻有太多美好的期待和幻想，我们总是在跟一个人的优点谈恋爱，跟一个人的缺点结婚，谈恋爱的时候，我们看对方的时候，总是自带滤镜，感觉对方的一举一动都是那么的完美，但是结婚之后对方身上的缺点就会逐渐暴露出来，当新鲜感退去的时候，我们对于这个人所表现出来的一切都会感到不耐烦，也因为结婚之后需要面对的那些柴米油盐，以及所有琐碎的事情，让我们没有心情再去想那些风花雪月的感情。

第二，结婚之后，你才明白物质条件是多么重要的东西，我们在谈恋爱的时候，总觉得真正的爱情可以冲破这个世界上的所有障碍，觉得真正的爱情不应该跟物质挂钩，但真正进入婚姻之后，自己开始承担起一个家庭的责任，就会明白物质条件，对于一个家庭是多么重要，两个人之间单靠感情来维系，实在是太过脆弱。

第三，结婚之后，彼此之间的感觉会逐渐消退，两个人之间的感情也会从亲密逐渐变得冷淡，婚姻生活无非就是长久的平淡，我们在婚姻当中大概有80%左右的时间都是平淡，但正是因为这些平淡，所以才构成了我们每一天的生活，我们要学会从这些平淡的生活当中找到不平淡的幸福，才能更好的经营彼此之间的婚姻。总的来说，婚姻没我们想象的那么好，也没有想象的那么不好，好好经营，各自独立。