Avoid Misunderstanding
"Why do they keep misunderstanding me" We often hear people complainMisunderstanding seems to be one of the most disturbing issues in interpersonal relationshipsWe often see how it undermines the harmonious relationships between people
Several factors contribute to misunderstandingFirst,people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectives in interpreting one behaviorSecond,the language we use as a vehicle of conveying thought can be ambiguous,and various ways of decoding (解码) words may result in barriers in communicationThird,misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trustIf you have prejudice (偏见) against someone,whatever he says may sound iii intentioned to you
Having gone so far in the exploration of the causes of misunderstanding,we can easily arrive at the ways to avoid themFirstly,we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among peopleSecondly,we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language,avoiding misleading wordsThirdly,we should be constructive and patient in dealing with peopleIf we try hard enough,there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world
If this is your best friend's words Jiugen him to explain to the contrary,if it is not very important person,would not have had
(2)Because it explains also no use,but people think you have problems
In fact,a person's life there are many things you do will be misunderstood
You should have an interaction with your parents and make them stop quarrelingPherhaps they quarrel because of youThat's the best way to solve the problem
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My friend Fleur had an argument with her parents yesterday since her parents did not allow her to watch the midnight shift of the movie Their parents insisted that watching midnight movie will affect her sleeping schedule and health But Fleur argued that she has grown up already and does not need her parent to tell her what to do and what not to do
I told Fleur that I can totally understand her objection to the parental control Teenagers like us are often disobedient to their parents And it is also true that a single visit to a midnight movie will not cause grave health problem However, we should also understand that her parents stopped her to go to movie out of their love to their child They try to protect her from any potential danger that a midnight movie incurs So I made my suggestion to her that if she really wants to go, she can certainly try to have a nice conversation with her parents, telling them that she is going with her friends, along with the reassurance that she will not go to midnight movie frequently She can also leave her friends' phone number to her parents in case that they cannot contact with her
Dear friend,
I have heard that you sometimes argue loudly with your parents I would like to offer you some suggestions, and therefore I am now writing to you In my opinion, parents are our best friends in the world They love us and dedicate everything to us I love my parents so I alwasy ask myself to be kind, generous, and good to them Every time I went to some places for travelling, I brought my parents some gifts I would suggest you that not to argue loudly with your parents because it is a rude behavior If there is something that you don't agree with your parents, please discuss the issue with them patiently and quietly I hope you can be a good friend with your parents
Sincerely,
father and mother,i really love this homeyour arguement maked me really sadso i can't pay
attention to my subjucefor me and our family,please stop arguingi want a happy familyparents,do you think my dream will come true
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