我和妈妈吵架了
My mother and I had a fight
爸爸经常对我说:“做事情要多从对方的角度考虑。”我每次都把这话当耳旁风。
Father often said to me: "do things more from the other side of the point of view" Every time I put it take like a passing wind
有一天,顽皮的小狗在阳台的地砖上撒了一泡尿。妈妈在房间里看见了,让我赶紧去擦掉。我拿起抹布擦了好几遍,可妈妈一直说:“没擦干净,再擦一下。”我十分委屈:明明擦干净了,为什么还让我擦妈妈则火冒三丈地说:“我说有就是有,你为什么不擦”
One day, naughty puppy in the balcony of the floor tiles and a bubble of urine Mother in the room to see, let me quickly to erase I picked up the cloth to wipe it several times, but my mother always said: "I did not wipe clean, and then wipe" I am very grievance: clearly clean, why let I wipe Mother furious said: "I said is there, why don't you clean"
这时,爸爸走过来,他先把几滴水洒在阳台的地砖上,然后问我:“你现在能看见水滴吗”我看了看,咦,怎么看不见爸爸又说:“你再站到妈妈那个位置看一下。”我走过去,咦,怎么又看见了爸爸和颜悦色地说:“水是会反光的,滴在白色的地砖上,你在正面看不见,站在侧面就看见了。”我和妈妈都恍然大悟,互相道了歉。
At this time, my father came, he first put the spill a few drops of water on the balcony, floor tiles, then asked me: "now that you can see water droplets" I looked at, hey, why can't I see Dad said: "you stand to the mother to see" I walked past, hey, how he saw the Dad obligingly said: "water is reflective, drop in white tiles, you in front of the invisible, standing on the side saw" My mother and I can see light suddenly, apologized
通过这次吵架作文人网 你也可以投稿,我终于明白了爸爸以前经常对我讲的话:要多从别人的角度考虑问题。也许换个角度就有不同的观点呢!
You can also contribute to the fight through the network, I finally understand that my father used to say to me: to consider the issue from the perspective of others Maybe there's a different point of view from another angle!
Avoid Misunderstanding
"Why do they keep misunderstanding me" We often hear people complainMisunderstanding seems to be one of the most disturbing issues in interpersonal relationshipsWe often see how it undermines the harmonious relationships between people
Several factors contribute to misunderstandingFirst,people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectives in interpreting one behaviorSecond,the language we use as a vehicle of conveying thought can be ambiguous,and various ways of decoding (解码) words may result in barriers in communicationThird,misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trustIf you have prejudice (偏见) against someone,whatever he says may sound iii intentioned to you
Having gone so far in the exploration of the causes of misunderstanding,we can easily arrive at the ways to avoid themFirstly,we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among peopleSecondly,we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language,avoiding misleading wordsThirdly,we should be constructive and patient in dealing with peopleIf we try hard enough,there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world
If this is your best friend's words Jiugen him to explain to the contrary,if it is not very important person,would not have had
(2)Because it explains also no use,but people think you have problems
In fact,a person's life there are many things you do will be misunderstood
I want to communicate with their parents, a reflection of who is right and who is wrong, to find a solution to resolve contradictions, sincerely apologize to them
我要和父母沟通,反思谁对谁错,找到解决的办法来化解矛盾,真诚向他们道歉
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