It is nice to talk about the things about marrying a foreigner,my ideas about the cross-country marrying are as follows:
Firstly ,I think the couple must have had a deeply understanding of tolerance,compromise ,and being open with each other , Because ,as we all know,marriages are based on mutual trust and respect Secondly , to some degree ,mixed marriages will also have a good effect in the world peace , or the social progress, because of the cultural exchange between the two different nations
However,on the other hand ,both of the couple have to live with the problems of their marriage,for there is always gap between two different culturesFor example:when shopping or eatting with your spouse out,he or she may request an aa paid Besides you should also take the ideas from your parents into account,which is especially important in our country china here, not only is te communication problemsbetween yourfrients orrelationship is a barrar
In a word , mixed-marriage is a sign of the open society If you love somebady, just do it, that's all that matters
Veil Occasion is the only in one's life
Therefore, it should be beautiful、elegant and stately as others cannot be anticipated
When the night comes without any sights, the song "Dream Wedding" starts Everyone here sits on the bench on the church
There is one pair of couple waiting for the most impressive ceremony in their life
The girl ,is wearing a suit of white wedding veil, which is as chaste as the angel
The boy,is wearing a black suit and walking to the girl along the path to the stage of the church, with the dignity and refinement
They go to the stage of the church and looking at each other
After a while, a accustomed but enchanting question is asked to the gril:"Would u marry him and be the one who accompanies with him for the rest of your life"
She agreed, without any hesitation
Then, the boy is asked:" Would u marry her and be the one who takes care of her and bevote all you have to her"
The boy agreed, with some tears on his eyes
Just a sudden, the slience crumbles and turns into the euphoria
How wonderful, how beautiful
Under no circumstance can it stop the couples from this abiding love
Isn't it
一个结婚典礼,对每个人来讲,都是唯一的,只有一次。
而且是别人预计不到的美丽的,典雅的和庄严。
当夜幕降临,结婚歌曲"Dream wedding "响起了。在教堂的每个人,都坐在长凳上,等待着婚礼的进行。
这个时刻,可能是这对情侣一生中最难忘的时候。
女孩,穿着一套美丽庄严的婚纱,如天使一样纯贞,美丽。
男孩,穿着一套黑色的礼服,在大道上往着女孩的方向走着,走起路来,是多么的有尊严,显得多么地有教养。
此时,一个人们早就耳熟能详却仍然能扣动心旋的问题,问了女孩:“你愿意嫁给他,而且还要成为一名愿意在你的余生里一直陪伴着他吗?”
女孩答应了,一点犹豫也没有。
此时,牧师又问了男孩:“你愿意娶她而且讲你所拥有的一切奉献给她吗?”
男孩答应了,此时眼角还闪烁着泪花。
突然,寂静被人们的欢呼声和喜悦声打破了!
这是多磨地好,多磨地美丽呀
任何阻力都不会阻止他们这至死不渝的爱情。
难道不是吗?
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English introduction: Chinese Wedding
Marriage is the most
important occasion in the whole life In China, a traditional wedding is lively,
ceremonious, and joyful There are some unique features in this ceremony, but in
modern society, especially in the cities, it is hardly seen any more
The bridal sedan is the core of the traditional wedding In wedding, the
bride should sit in the sedan, then be lifted from her mother's home to her
husband' home Generally, there are two kinds of sedan, that is ,four-lifter
and eight-lifter, also divided into "dragon sedan" and "phoenix sedan" There
are so many suites who hold gongs, umbrellas, fans and so on, besides lifters,
In group, there are more than ten people at least, and the occasion is very
magnificent In a traditional weddin, accompanied with a bridesmaid, the bride
wearing a red veil and led along by the bridesgroom who holds a red silk in his
hand, enters the bridal sedan On the way to the husband's home, lifters jolt
the sedan as it is necessary in a joyful wedding Lifters swing the sedan from
left to right, causing the bride to sit unsteadily inside Some times the
bridegroom has to substitute for his bride or beg to everyone else, while all
laugh to adding to the jubilance
The wedding ceremony is the most
important part of a traditional Chinese wedding The newlyweds go to the table
for heaven and earth where there is a dou(a kind of basket)full of grain The
dou is written with red paper There are many coins placed in the four corners
of the dou to provide the "luck" meaning to the guests There is a cypress
branch, called "ready source of money", decorated with copper coins Besides,
one steelyard ,a mirror ,a loom, a lamp or a candle are also placed near the
dou Afterwards, the groom stand on the left side, the bride right by his side,
while the director prompts, "First bow to the heaven and earth; second bow to
the parents; third bow to each other" According to the folk saying, they will
not be the formal couple until bowing to the heaven and earth As a result,
people pay a great attention to this ceremony An interesting custom is that if
the groom cannot come to this ceremony, he should ask his sister to hold a cock
instead
After taking the bridal sedan, bowing to the heaven, it's
time for the newlyweds to go to the bridal chamber According to custom, their
relatives and friends get together in the bridal chamber to banter the newly
weds At this time, the newlyweds will never get angry even if the teasing games
are a bit outrageous, but will try to skillfully dissolve since the relatives
and friends intend to delight them
一场婚礼 A Wedding
Today is my sister’s wedding I take part in it with my parents We get to the hotel at about 6:00 pm My sister and her husband is waiting for the guests in front of the lobby She is so beautiful today that I have never seen Of course her husband is handsome, too I met him before, and he is so kind to me The ceremony starts at 7:00 pm They exchange their rings and vows and thank for their parents And then we enjoy the wedding feast The dishes are so delicious that I eat too much I show my best wishes to them, hoping their love last forever and a happy life
尊敬之领导;
安好。我于贵公司时日甚久,多承公司及某某领导之照顾,在此深表感谢。近日舍妹将要出嫁,作为其兄,理应到场主持及祝福。并安抚获嫁女之痛之二老,本二三日足矣,奈何春节期间并无闲暇,未与家人团聚,对此,父母家人怨言颇多,而自心亦深感不孝。故欲借此机会,归至家中,与家人团聚一番,尽一子孙之孝道,需二三日。合共需请假五日,还望领导予以体谅,成全之。待我送妹出嫁,安抚家中后,必尽快回归公司,以最佳之态为公司效力。
某某敬上。
请假条的格式有些忘了。我这个只是大概的范本,具体之处,还需你自己改正。
wedding ceremony
结婚典礼
wedding anniversary
结婚纪念日
bride
新娘
bridegroom or groom
新郎
officiator
主婚人
pastor
牧师
groomsman
伴郎
bridesmaid
伴娘
honeymoon
蜜月
最好在典礼上请一个幽默一点的主持人,如果要热闹一点的话,就要去准备一些小礼物,主持人在台上提问题,让台下的人抢答,答对者就送一个。
另外,就要看新郎新娘大方不大方了。
我可是一字一字大的!
篇一结婚聘礼Betrothal Gifts
There are always news about how many betrothal gifts a man has to prepare to get a bride in China In fact, this is not only happened in China, many less developed countries also have the same problem Though the marriage is about two families but only two people in love, but I can't agree that the groom have to paid overload to the bride's family to get marry 在中国,关于一个男的要准备多少聘礼才能娶到新娘的新闻总是层出不穷。实际上,这不仅仅发生在中国,许多落后国家也有相同的问题。尽管婚姻是两个家庭之间的事而不仅仅关于两个相爱的人,但是我不同意新郎必须要付超额的聘礼给新娘家才能结婚。 The betrothal gifts in the old time of China were given to the parents in law by the groom to thank them for having been taking care the bride, and after being marry, the bride would have very few chances to come back to see them So the betrothal gift was also called “bride price” But this is not suitable for today’s situation The young couple will always visit the parents and support them, it is unfair for the man to pay much money to the parents in law anymore 聘礼在中国的旧时是新郎给岳父母用来感谢他们对新娘的养育之恩,而结婚之后,新娘便很少有机会回娘家看完他们。所以聘礼也被叫做“卖女钱”。但是这不适用于现代的情况。年轻小两口还是时常看完父母赡养他们,这时男人还要给岳父母付很多钱就很不公平。 On the other hand, the bride’s parents requirement too much bride price would rise the conflict between two families and then hurt feelings of the young couple The marriage would come to a crisis 另外,新娘父母要求太多的卖女钱会升起两个家庭之间的矛盾,继而伤年轻两口子的感情。婚姻会陷入危机。 Two people get marry should be based on love, not doing business They have their own life to go on, the parents should give them the best blessings, not obstacles The sound betrothal gifts and enough love, the marriage will have a wonderful start 两个人结婚要建立在爱情的基础上,而不是做交易。他们有自己的生活要过,父母应该给他们的祝福,而不是障碍。合理的聘礼和足够的爱,婚姻会有一个美好的开始。
篇二推迟退休年龄Raising the Retirement Age
Recently, there is a controversial policy published by Chinese government says that will raise the retirement age gradually to 65, which is 5 and 10 years longer than the current ages for men and women This news is being the hot topic on internet 近来,中国政府颁布一项政策,决定逐渐推迟退休年龄,男女分别是70岁和65岁,比现有的退休年龄长了5年。这个新闻在网上成为了热门话题。 Why would this happen Most people assumed that it is because of the aging problem Since last 80’s, the population and family planning had been carried out, all family was allowed to have one child to have the population of China controlled It did work for 2 decades, but as the first “only children” have been growing up, their parents growing old, and the aging problem is becoming increasingly evident There is not enough people of young generation support the old, therefore, the problem of burden of the social insurance and the medical insurance is getting worse So this raising the retirement age is needed in this situation 为什么会这样?许多人认为这是因为人口老龄化问题。自从上世纪80年代起人口与计划生育政策实施以来,许多家庭只能生一个孩子,旨在控制人口。这在20年里确实起了作用,但是随着第一代独生子女成长,他们的父母年老,老龄化的问题变得日益明显。如今没有足够的年轻人来支撑老年人,因此,社会保险和医疗保险的负担问题也会变得日益严重。所以在这种情况下推迟退休年龄也是当务之急。 However, this may not be the best answer to the problem Raising the retirement age will require the old people would be still doing their job, the young generation would be jobless since they were occupied by those aged, and it will certainly increase many other social problems 但是,这可能不是解决问题的方案。推迟退休年龄要求那些老年人依然坚守岗位,岗位被占着,年轻人将无从就业,这势必会引发其他许多的社会问题。 Anyway, I think the government should have other plans to prevent the problem getting worse Such as encourage people to buy commercial insurance, promote the medical reform, not just raise the retirement age 无论如何,我想政府应该有备用方案来防止这类问题恶化。例如鼓励人们购买商业保险,推进理疗改革,而不是仅仅推迟退休年龄。
篇三社交网络的影响 The Influence of The Social Network Service
As been popular in young people’s daily life, the social network service have influenced not only the ways we are socializing but also the culture and the tradition of the country 自从社交网络在年轻人的生活里变得普遍,它不但影响了我们社交的方式,也影响了这个国家的文化和传统。 Take the spring festival as an example, traditionally, in the evening of the Chinese New Year eve, the whole family usually would have a reunion meal Many of the family members are not really be at home quite often spending time with others especially with their old parents, so this reunion meal is very important for every family to have a chance to talk, enjoy the together time But today all has changed The most common look of the reunion meal now is that all young people eat quietly meanwhile the eyes are staring at their cell phone, checking out their “Friend Circle” to see if anyone update the status They only make sounds when someone grab a red envelop with very lousy money in it The old parents feel awkward when facing this weird situation, no one would even like to talk to them, the reunion meal turns out that there is just a bunch of strange people eating at the same table 就拿春节来说,传统上说,在除夕的晚上,全家人通常会在一起吃团圆饭。许多人也没有真正经常呆在家里跟家人在一起,尤其是跟老人们在一起,所以团圆饭尤其重要,大家可以一起聊聊天,享受在一起的时光。但是如今一切都变了。团圆饭最普遍的画面就是,年轻人们都安安静静的吃饭,眼镜死死的盯着手机,查看他们的“朋友圈”有没有人更新状态。只有在他们抢到一个红包的时候才会发出声响,而红包里的钱少得可怜。老人们在面对这种怪异的场面时异常尴尬,没人愿意跟他们说说话,团圆饭变成了只是一群陌生的人在同一张桌子吃饭而已。 And the TV shows are pushing this more far ahead They will set some interactive sessions to encourage people use the social network service on their cell phone to get some bonus So even TV time people still stick to their cell phone and have no word for others sitting around Seems like the social network service is completely replace the normal communication offline That will obviously ruin the relationship with family 而电视节目也在推波助澜。他们会设置一些互动环节,鼓励观众用他们的手机上的社交网络服务获取一些奖励。所以即使是看电视的时候,人们也始终跟手机粘在了一起,不跟周围的人说一句话。好像社交网络已经完全代替了正常的线下交流。这显然会破坏家庭关系。 I wouldn’t say the social network service is all bad, but somehow, I prefer to communicate face to face with someone I really care 我不是说社交网络有什么不好,但是我想我更喜欢跟我在乎的人面对面进行交流。
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