简奥斯丁的爱情观 我需要纯英文的 谢谢

　　你好，关于他的爱情观我是选自新浪的一位博友所写，而翻译使用的是有道翻译。可能会有语法上的偏差，请注意

　　"You can't make me happy, and I, believe me also absolutely cannot make you happier" This is in "pride and prejudice", Elizabeth refuses to cousin Collins said a word of the proposal, this is the hostess point of view, I believe it is actually the author Jane Austen's point of view Film become Jane Austen "vividly describe these for us for writers of love life, everything with" pride and prejudice "very similar

　　"Pride and prejudice" is the masterpiece of Austin, it with daily life for material, the vivid reflection of the 18th century to the early 19th century in conservative and unenlightened condition of British town life and ways of the world human sentiment In the story, male leading role, the heroine prejudice, two arrogance has experienced many kinds of joys and sorrowsthere finally ruled out the previous misunderstandings, walk to arrive together In real life, Jane couldn't get what we want happiness, in his own imaginary world, she got a satisfied In "pride and prejudice" Elizabeth has three times by the proposal scene, first cousin Collins, Elizabeth are well aware that they want is what, "you can't make me happy, and I, believe me also absolutely cannot make you happier" She is a rational person In addition, from Collins words, readers can learn at that time, the so-called upper-class lady gentlemen: how is the least The second is Mr Darcy proposal of marriage, in spite of his family and wealth gap, and asked her to marry him, but was rejected Elizabeth to his misunderstanding and prejudice is a reason, but main is she hates his arrogance, "she will never had a moment of shake," and her love and family are oined, hurt her family person she is up her mind cannot together with him As she spoke of "like you such a person, even if all men are dead, I don't like to marry to you" Darcy's arrogance is actually status difference, as long as there is a reflection of the arrogance, he and Elizabeth could not have common ideas, the more impossible to have perfect marriage The third is the lady Catherine to Elizabeth guarantee not with darcy after the marriage, darcy again asked her to marry him At this time of Elizabeth have observed darcy of communicating and a series of actions, especially after he changed in the past that pride conceited expression, Elizabeth against darcy have absolutely no misunderstanding and prejudice, also began to acknowledge himself on his feeling of his love Eventually, jack shall have Jill

　　Elizabeth to Collins and darcy successively proposed different attitudes, actually reflects women to independent personality rights such as the pursuit of peace, it reflects the author discusses, if to property, money and position and marriage is wrong, such as charlotte and Collins though marriage lived a comfortable material life, but they do not have between sentiment, this kind of marriage is actually cover in luxuriant coat social tragedy And if they marry they are not considered also stupid, she objected to marry for money, also opposes the marriage drakes with, like her little sister of marriage In her opinion, men and women both parties of love is the cornerstone of marriage, is certain to have

　　In the real life, Jane Austen abandoned parents hand-picked for her rich and have great expectations of husband, fell in love with the handsome, intelligent people but also very cramped Irish Tom Taylor eph Roy, but parents and relatives are against them, and Tom proposal to elope, but Jane's family finances is bad, and she will face poverty and shame Francois le Roy in Ireland's family also expect him to be somebody If they choose the fled, and everything will be dismantled: family, friends, and wealth Finally, Jane chose to give up her love But in her works, we can feel her to love the yearning, and of an ideal marriage longings

　　Jane Austen in "pride and prejudice" tells a love of four points: first, love to make mutual happiness, otherwise can is each other's tomb At my cousin Elizabeth refuses to marry him, "you can't make me happy, and I, believe me also absolutely cannot make you happier" Have strong expressed the opinion Second, love is a very good thing, but unfavorable hare-brained, should deliberate before deciding to own life happiness Elizabeth little sister li bottom and and negative scarred gambling debts of the love is between WeiKeHan indiscreet portraiture, love is not imagination in so simple Third, choose love, eye cannot too shortsighted, see it long, see the shorter, may lose their happiness and despised Elizabeth's good friend charlotte and Collins marriage is no love, although the surface they very satisfied, but actually is hidden social tragedy In addition, Elizabeth eliminates to Mr Darcy misunderstanding and bias, grasp his happiness also demonstrates this view Fourth, behave and sometimes must adhere to the principles, in any strong pressure before all't back down When the lady Catherine wildly to Elizabeth promise not to marry with darcy Elizabeth flatly refused the unreasonable demands, finally with darcy concluded a happy marriage Of course, Elizabeth against darcy attitude change was not stick to their principles

　　Depending on the ball in money full of society, love has become not marriage all, even in many people's eyes, money, position is marriage of all But I still believe, as Jane Austen remarked, "men and women both parties of affection is the cornerstone of an ideal marriage", yearning love, longings happy marriage, in love as the foundation, comprehensive money, family and other conditions of marriage, is the ideal perfect marriage

　　以下是原文：

　　“你不能使我幸福，而且我，相信我也绝对不能使你幸福。”这是《傲慢与偏见》中，伊丽莎白拒绝表哥柯林斯的求婚时说的其中一句话，这是女主人翁的观点，相信这其实也是作者简·奥斯汀的观点。影片《成为简·奥斯汀》中生动地为我们描述了这为女作家的爱情生活，一切都与《傲慢与偏见》那么地相似。

　　《傲慢与偏见》是奥斯汀的代表作，它以日常生活为素材，生动地反映了18世纪末到19世纪初处于保守和闭塞状态下的英国乡镇生活和世态人情。故事中，男主角傲慢，女主角偏见，两人经历了很多的悲欢离合，终于排除了以前的误解，走到一起。现实生活中，简无法得到自己想要的幸福，在自己虚构的世界里，她获得了满足。《傲慢与偏见》中伊丽莎白有三次被求婚的情景，第一次是表哥柯林斯，伊丽莎白很清楚自己想要的是什么， “你不能使我幸福，而且我，相信我也绝对不能使你幸福。”她是个理智的人。另外，从柯林斯的言辞中，读者可以了解到在当时，所谓上流社会的淑女绅士们是怎样的矫揉造作。第二次是达西先生的求婚，他不顾门第和财富的差距，向她求婚，却遭到拒绝。伊丽莎白对他的误会和偏见是一个原因，但主要的是她讨厌他的傲慢，“她的意志不曾有过片刻的动摇”，而且她的爱情跟家人是连在一起的，伤害她家人的人她是决计不能跟他在一起的。就如她所说的“象你这样一个人，哪怕天下男人都死光了，我也不愿意嫁给你。”达西的傲慢实际上是地位差异的反映，只要存在这种傲慢，他与伊丽莎白就不可能有共同的思想，更不可能有完美的婚姻。第三次是在凯瑟琳夫人要伊丽莎白保证不与达西结婚之后，达西再次向她求婚。这时候的伊丽莎白亲眼观察了达西的为人处世和一系列所作所为，特别是看到他改变了过去那种骄傲自负的神态，伊丽莎白对达西已经完全没有误会和偏见了，也开始正视自己对他的感觉，对他的爱恋。最终，有情人终成眷属。

　　伊丽莎白对柯林斯及达西先后求婚的不同态度，实际上反映了女性对人格独立和平等权利的追求，也反映了作者本人的婚姻观，如果为了财产、金钱和地位而结婚是错误的，例如夏绿蒂和柯林斯虽然婚后过着舒适的物质生活，但他们之间没有感情，这种婚姻实际上是掩盖在华丽外衣下的社会悲剧。而如果结婚不考虑它们也是愚蠢的，她反对为金钱而结婚，也反对把婚姻当儿戏，就像是她的小妹妹的婚姻。在她的观点中，男女双方的爱情是婚姻的基石，是一定要具备的。

　　现实生活中，简·奥斯汀放弃了父母为她挑选的富裕且有远大前程的丈夫，爱上了长相英俊、聪明过人但也十分拮据的爱尔兰人汤姆·勒弗罗伊，但父母以及亲戚都反对他们，于是汤姆提议私奔，但简的家庭经济状况不好，而她也将面临贫困和蒙羞。勒弗罗伊在爱尔兰的家庭也指望他能够出人头地。如果他们选择了逃跑，所有的一切都将毁于一旦：家人、朋友和财富。最终，简选择了放弃她的爱情。但从她的作品中，我们可以感受到她对爱情的向往，以及对理想婚姻的憧憬。

　　简·奥斯汀在《傲慢与偏见》中讲述了爱情的四个观点：第一，爱情要让双方彼此幸福，否则只能是彼此的坟墓。在伊丽莎白拒绝表哥求婚时，“你不能使我幸福，而且我，相信我也绝对不能使你幸福。”就已经强烈表达了这个观点。第二，爱情是一件很美好的事情，但是不宜轻率，应该深思熟虑后才决定自己的一生幸福。伊丽莎白的小妹妹丽底亚与负累累赌债的魏克翰之间的爱情就是轻率的写照，爱情并不是想象中那么简单。第三，选择爱人的时候，目光不能太短视，只见其长，不见其短，会失去自己的幸福和遭人鄙视。伊丽莎白的好朋友夏绿蒂和柯林斯的婚姻是没有爱情的，虽然表面他们很满足，但其实是被隐藏的社会悲剧。另外，伊丽莎白消除了对达西先生的误会和偏见，抓住了自己的幸福，也证明了这一观点。第四，做人有时候一定要坚持原则，在任何强大的压力面前都不能退缩。当凯瑟琳夫人蛮横地要伊丽莎白保证不与达西结婚。伊丽莎白断然拒绝了这一无理要求，最后与达西缔结了美满姻缘。当然，伊丽莎白对达西态度的转变并不是没有坚持自己的原则。

　　在金钱充斥视球的社会里，爱情已经变得不是婚姻的全部了，甚至在很多人的眼里，金钱、地位才是婚姻的全部。但我依然相信，正如简·奥斯汀说的那样，“男女双方的感情是理想婚姻的基石”，向往爱情，憧憬美好的婚姻，在以爱情为基础，综合金钱、家庭等条件的婚姻，才是理想的完美婚姻。

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第一次表白是在第34章。

《傲慢与偏见》是奥斯汀最早完成的作品，她在1796年开始动笔，取名叫《最初的印象》，1797年8月完成。她父亲看后很感动，特意拿给汤玛士·卡德尔，请他出版，但对方一口回绝，这使得他们父女非常失望。于是简·奥斯汀着手修订另一本小说《理性与感性》。

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故事的主人公爱玛，爱玛是最富有的伍德豪斯先生最小的女儿，她聪明漂亮，受过家庭教师泰勒**的良好教育。父亲的爱和无忧无虑的生活环境使她养成了自命不凡的性格。爱玛20岁时，泰勒**嫁给了一位绅士韦斯顿，离开了伍德豪斯家。爱玛在孤独中遇到了当地女子学校的学生哈丽特，并和她成为了朋友。哈丽特是一个私生女，漂亮，温顺，非常可爱。爱玛设法把她介绍给一位年轻的绅士埃尔顿，并告诉她，拒绝房客罗伯特·马丁的求婚。

事实上，埃尔顿不是哈丽特的真命天子，而是爱玛自己的真命天子，埃尔顿自己是如此势利，他不会爱上哈丽特，因为她的生活是未知的。爱玛没能成功撮合哈丽特，而她又为哈丽特选择了韦斯顿前妻的儿子弗兰克。然而，半年前，弗兰克遇到了来自海布里村一个贫困家庭的简·费尔法克斯，两人相爱，并私下订了婚，但两人并没有宣布订婚的消息。

爱玛干涉别人的婚姻，引起了乔治·奈特利的不满。他提醒爱玛，应该允许情侣双方独立处理婚姻事务，其他人的干预只会让事情变得更糟。当弗兰克和简·费尔法克斯宣布恋情时，爱玛简直不敢相信。这也让爱玛开始反思自己的行为，并最终与简·费尔法克斯成为了知心朋友。

奈特利非常重视罗伯特·马丁，并经常帮助哈丽特，这使得哈丽特对奈特利产生了崇敬之情。当爱玛发现哈丽特崇拜的对象竟是奈特利时，她非常震惊，她一直暗恋着奈特利，奈特莉经常指出爱玛的缺点，但她也发自内心地对他感兴趣。泰勒**生下了一个女儿，这让爱玛对家庭生活充满了向往。经过一番波折，奈特莉和爱玛终于互相吐露心声，在奈特利的帮助下，罗伯特·马丁终于得到了哈丽特的爱。

《傲慢与偏见》内容概述：小乡绅班纳特家有五个待字闺中的千金，班纳特太太整天操心着为女儿物色称心如意的丈夫。当年轻、富有的单身汉彬格莱先生租下附近一处庄园——尼日斐花园时，轻浮的班纳特太太立即激动起来，开始筹划该将哪个女儿许配给彬格莱。

在一次舞会上，班纳特家的女儿们结识了彬格莱先生。但彬格莱的好友达西却似乎对这一家子极其傲慢，认为她们都不配做他的舞伴。自尊心极强的伊丽莎白立即对他产生偏见，甚至在另一次舞会中当众拒绝了他的邀请，令达西狼狈不堪。但这反而使相貌英俊、家财万贯的达西对她产生了好感。

彬格莱和洁英·班纳特成了朋友，但当他的妹妹发现达西有意于伊丽莎白时，这位一心追求达西的女士出于嫉妒，就与看不起班纳特太太还有班纳特家好些年幼的姑娘们的达西极力怂恿彬格莱离开本地，然而洁英对他还是一片深情。

这时候，班纳特先生的继承人柯林斯前来拜访。这位粗鄙无知、仅靠趋炎附势当上牧师的表兄向伊丽莎白求婚，但连续遭到她的拒绝。柯林斯先生并不感到羞愧，紧接着就和伊丽莎白的女友夏绿蒂·卢卡斯订了婚。

达西的一位熟人是附近小镇的一位年轻军官，名叫乔治·韦翰。伊丽莎白对他很有好感，于是韦翰趁机诽谤达西的为人，称自己应得的一大笔财产曾被达西侵吞，于是伊丽莎白对达西的恶感又增添了一层。

柯林斯夫妇请伊丽莎白去他们家作客，伊丽莎白在那里遇到达西的姨妈凯瑟琳，不久，又见到了达西。达西再次为伊丽莎白所吸引。他向她求婚，但因态度傲慢，遭到拒绝。他开始认识到骄傲自负所带来的恶果，于是写信给伊丽莎白，承认自己曾阻挠彬格莱与洁英接触，并坚决否认做过对不起韦翰的事。伊丽莎白读信后十分后悔，也开始消除自己对达西的偏见。

第二年夏天，伊丽莎白来到达西的庄园游览，在这里她对达西的为人有了进一步的了解。不久她又听说小妹妹同韦翰私奔，开始担心达西会因此而看不起她。但出乎他意料的是，达西不仅替韦翰还清赌债，还给了他一笔巨款，让他与丽迪雅完婚。自此以后，伊丽莎白往日对达西的种种偏见统统化为真诚之爱。

达西的姨母、傲慢的凯瑟琳夫人蛮横地要求伊丽莎白放弃达西，但这一无理要求遭到伊丽莎白的拒绝。受到这样的鼓舞，达西再次诚恳地向伊丽莎白求婚。至此，一对曾因傲慢和偏见而延搁婚事的有情人终成眷属。而彬格莱先生和洁英经过一番周折也终于言归于好。