It's my the third time to read this book,这是我第三次读这本书
We haven't seen each other for several years我们好几年没见了
Up to now,I have learnt about 3500 words
你好,关于他的爱情观我是选自新浪的一位博友所写,而翻译使用的是有道翻译。可能会有语法上的偏差,请注意
"You can't make me happy, and I, believe me also absolutely cannot make you happier" This is in "pride and prejudice", Elizabeth refuses to cousin Collins said a word of the proposal, this is the hostess point of view, I believe it is actually the author Jane Austen's point of view Film become Jane Austen "vividly describe these for us for writers of love life, everything with" pride and prejudice "very similar
"Pride and prejudice" is the masterpiece of Austin, it with daily life for material, the vivid reflection of the 18th century to the early 19th century in conservative and unenlightened condition of British town life and ways of the world human sentiment In the story, male leading role, the heroine prejudice, two arrogance has experienced many kinds of joys and sorrowsthere finally ruled out the previous misunderstandings, walk to arrive together In real life, Jane couldn't get what we want happiness, in his own imaginary world, she got a satisfied In "pride and prejudice" Elizabeth has three times by the proposal scene, first cousin Collins, Elizabeth are well aware that they want is what, "you can't make me happy, and I, believe me also absolutely cannot make you happier" She is a rational person In addition, from Collins words, readers can learn at that time, the so-called upper-class lady gentlemen: how is the least The second is Mr Darcy proposal of marriage, in spite of his family and wealth gap, and asked her to marry him, but was rejected Elizabeth to his misunderstanding and prejudice is a reason, but main is she hates his arrogance, "she will never had a moment of shake," and her love and family are oined, hurt her family person she is up her mind cannot together with him As she spoke of "like you such a person, even if all men are dead, I don't like to marry to you" Darcy's arrogance is actually status difference, as long as there is a reflection of the arrogance, he and Elizabeth could not have common ideas, the more impossible to have perfect marriage The third is the lady Catherine to Elizabeth guarantee not with darcy after the marriage, darcy again asked her to marry him At this time of Elizabeth have observed darcy of communicating and a series of actions, especially after he changed in the past that pride conceited expression, Elizabeth against darcy have absolutely no misunderstanding and prejudice, also began to acknowledge himself on his feeling of his love Eventually, jack shall have Jill
Elizabeth to Collins and darcy successively proposed different attitudes, actually reflects women to independent personality rights such as the pursuit of peace, it reflects the author discusses, if to property, money and position and marriage is wrong, such as charlotte and Collins though marriage lived a comfortable material life, but they do not have between sentiment, this kind of marriage is actually cover in luxuriant coat social tragedy And if they marry they are not considered also stupid, she objected to marry for money, also opposes the marriage drakes with, like her little sister of marriage In her opinion, men and women both parties of love is the cornerstone of marriage, is certain to have
In the real life, Jane Austen abandoned parents hand-picked for her rich and have great expectations of husband, fell in love with the handsome, intelligent people but also very cramped Irish Tom Taylor eph Roy, but parents and relatives are against them, and Tom proposal to elope, but Jane's family finances is bad, and she will face poverty and shame Francois le Roy in Ireland's family also expect him to be somebody If they choose the fled, and everything will be dismantled: family, friends, and wealth Finally, Jane chose to give up her love But in her works, we can feel her to love the yearning, and of an ideal marriage longings
Jane Austen in "pride and prejudice" tells a love of four points: first, love to make mutual happiness, otherwise can is each other's tomb At my cousin Elizabeth refuses to marry him, "you can't make me happy, and I, believe me also absolutely cannot make you happier" Have strong expressed the opinion Second, love is a very good thing, but unfavorable hare-brained, should deliberate before deciding to own life happiness Elizabeth little sister li bottom and and negative scarred gambling debts of the love is between WeiKeHan indiscreet portraiture, love is not imagination in so simple Third, choose love, eye cannot too shortsighted, see it long, see the shorter, may lose their happiness and despised Elizabeth's good friend charlotte and Collins marriage is no love, although the surface they very satisfied, but actually is hidden social tragedy In addition, Elizabeth eliminates to Mr Darcy misunderstanding and bias, grasp his happiness also demonstrates this view Fourth, behave and sometimes must adhere to the principles, in any strong pressure before all't back down When the lady Catherine wildly to Elizabeth promise not to marry with darcy Elizabeth flatly refused the unreasonable demands, finally with darcy concluded a happy marriage Of course, Elizabeth against darcy attitude change was not stick to their principles
Depending on the ball in money full of society, love has become not marriage all, even in many people's eyes, money, position is marriage of all But I still believe, as Jane Austen remarked, "men and women both parties of affection is the cornerstone of an ideal marriage", yearning love, longings happy marriage, in love as the foundation, comprehensive money, family and other conditions of marriage, is the ideal perfect marriage
以下是原文:
“你不能使我幸福,而且我,相信我也绝对不能使你幸福。”这是《傲慢与偏见》中,伊丽莎白拒绝表哥柯林斯的求婚时说的其中一句话,这是女主人翁的观点,相信这其实也是作者简·奥斯汀的观点。影片《成为简·奥斯汀》中生动地为我们描述了这为女作家的爱情生活,一切都与《傲慢与偏见》那么地相似。
《傲慢与偏见》是奥斯汀的代表作,它以日常生活为素材,生动地反映了18世纪末到19世纪初处于保守和闭塞状态下的英国乡镇生活和世态人情。故事中,男主角傲慢,女主角偏见,两人经历了很多的悲欢离合,终于排除了以前的误解,走到一起。现实生活中,简无法得到自己想要的幸福,在自己虚构的世界里,她获得了满足。《傲慢与偏见》中伊丽莎白有三次被求婚的情景,第一次是表哥柯林斯,伊丽莎白很清楚自己想要的是什么, “你不能使我幸福,而且我,相信我也绝对不能使你幸福。”她是个理智的人。另外,从柯林斯的言辞中,读者可以了解到在当时,所谓上流社会的淑女绅士们是怎样的矫揉造作。第二次是达西先生的求婚,他不顾门第和财富的差距,向她求婚,却遭到拒绝。伊丽莎白对他的误会和偏见是一个原因,但主要的是她讨厌他的傲慢,“她的意志不曾有过片刻的动摇”,而且她的爱情跟家人是连在一起的,伤害她家人的人她是决计不能跟他在一起的。就如她所说的“象你这样一个人,哪怕天下男人都死光了,我也不愿意嫁给你。”达西的傲慢实际上是地位差异的反映,只要存在这种傲慢,他与伊丽莎白就不可能有共同的思想,更不可能有完美的婚姻。第三次是在凯瑟琳夫人要伊丽莎白保证不与达西结婚之后,达西再次向她求婚。这时候的伊丽莎白亲眼观察了达西的为人处世和一系列所作所为,特别是看到他改变了过去那种骄傲自负的神态,伊丽莎白对达西已经完全没有误会和偏见了,也开始正视自己对他的感觉,对他的爱恋。最终,有情人终成眷属。
伊丽莎白对柯林斯及达西先后求婚的不同态度,实际上反映了女性对人格独立和平等权利的追求,也反映了作者本人的婚姻观,如果为了财产、金钱和地位而结婚是错误的,例如夏绿蒂和柯林斯虽然婚后过着舒适的物质生活,但他们之间没有感情,这种婚姻实际上是掩盖在华丽外衣下的社会悲剧。而如果结婚不考虑它们也是愚蠢的,她反对为金钱而结婚,也反对把婚姻当儿戏,就像是她的小妹妹的婚姻。在她的观点中,男女双方的爱情是婚姻的基石,是一定要具备的。
现实生活中,简·奥斯汀放弃了父母为她挑选的富裕且有远大前程的丈夫,爱上了长相英俊、聪明过人但也十分拮据的爱尔兰人汤姆·勒弗罗伊,但父母以及亲戚都反对他们,于是汤姆提议私奔,但简的家庭经济状况不好,而她也将面临贫困和蒙羞。勒弗罗伊在爱尔兰的家庭也指望他能够出人头地。如果他们选择了逃跑,所有的一切都将毁于一旦:家人、朋友和财富。最终,简选择了放弃她的爱情。但从她的作品中,我们可以感受到她对爱情的向往,以及对理想婚姻的憧憬。
简·奥斯汀在《傲慢与偏见》中讲述了爱情的四个观点:第一,爱情要让双方彼此幸福,否则只能是彼此的坟墓。在伊丽莎白拒绝表哥求婚时,“你不能使我幸福,而且我,相信我也绝对不能使你幸福。”就已经强烈表达了这个观点。第二,爱情是一件很美好的事情,但是不宜轻率,应该深思熟虑后才决定自己的一生幸福。伊丽莎白的小妹妹丽底亚与负累累赌债的魏克翰之间的爱情就是轻率的写照,爱情并不是想象中那么简单。第三,选择爱人的时候,目光不能太短视,只见其长,不见其短,会失去自己的幸福和遭人鄙视。伊丽莎白的好朋友夏绿蒂和柯林斯的婚姻是没有爱情的,虽然表面他们很满足,但其实是被隐藏的社会悲剧。另外,伊丽莎白消除了对达西先生的误会和偏见,抓住了自己的幸福,也证明了这一观点。第四,做人有时候一定要坚持原则,在任何强大的压力面前都不能退缩。当凯瑟琳夫人蛮横地要伊丽莎白保证不与达西结婚。伊丽莎白断然拒绝了这一无理要求,最后与达西缔结了美满姻缘。当然,伊丽莎白对达西态度的转变并不是没有坚持自己的原则。
在金钱充斥视球的社会里,爱情已经变得不是婚姻的全部了,甚至在很多人的眼里,金钱、地位才是婚姻的全部。但我依然相信,正如简·奥斯汀说的那样,“男女双方的感情是理想婚姻的基石”,向往爱情,憧憬美好的婚姻,在以爱情为基础,综合金钱、家庭等条件的婚姻,才是理想的完美婚姻。
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