婚礼当天迎亲的流程 结婚迎亲男方去几个人

有的地方对于人数，没有特别的要求，双数就可以了，因为双数会吉利一些。只要随行来的婚车可以坐得下，几个都不是问题，但记得还要留下足够的位子给女方的亲友团。

迎亲的流程如下：

一出发

新郎出发， 出发可以从父母家出发，也可以从新房出发，如果婚车需要扎花车，提前扎好花车到新郎家集合，在新郎家做一个简短的出发仪式！。

二堵门

堵门是迎亲中新郎最大的考验：不管怎么刁难，新郎都不可以红脸，切记切记!

三进门

进门后先求婚历经千难万险，终于进门了，可以见到新娘啦。进门后第一件事就是手捧鲜花，来个干净漂亮的单膝跪地，向新娘求婚，动作要连贯，漂亮一气呵成，入新娘的闺房后，第一件事就是老老实实的求婚。

四找鞋子：找鞋就要看新郎伴郎的机智了。

五敬茶：求婚穿鞋完毕后就要向长辈敬茶改口了，敬茶的顺序是先敬父母，后敬爷爷奶奶外公外婆。

六出门：由新娘的哥哥弟弟或新郎抱/背出去，背新娘的肯定是要给大红包的。

七穿鞋：婚车的车门前要放两条糕，新郎给新娘穿鞋时，新娘的脚就踩在糕上，这叫步步高升！

八上车:出门时新娘手上要拿一个苹果!伴郎要在前面开车门哦！

九到新房：好不容易把新娘接了回来，回新房就要新郎自己背新娘了，新娘回到新房后把苹果放在床头，意思是把平安从娘家带到了夫家，很好寓意哈。

十坐福：到新房以后要在婚床“面北朝南”坐福，然后吃面条，喝甜汤！化妆师补补妆，新郎家准备敬茶杯！

十一改口敬茶：新娘要给公公婆婆敬茶，改口，然后再是爷爷奶奶外公外婆，这里有些地方还有认亲的习俗，伯父伯母，舅舅舅妈等……

到这里接亲基本就完成了

　　pop the question

　　（出其不意的）求婚

例句：

　　1、Susan: She found the ring and the pre-nup in your briefcase She thought youwere going to pop the question tonight

　　她发现了你公文包里的戒指和婚前协议，她以为你今晚会向她求婚。

　　2、Mathematicians have come up with a 'fiancee formula' that allows men to work outthe perfect time to pop the question。

　　日前，数学家研究出一个“求婚公式”，让男士们可以计算出求婚的最佳时间。

　　3、"You've decided to pop the question That's wonderful! I think you should buy herroses and take her out for a nice dinner, " replies Eric

　　你决定向她求婚了！太好了，你得给她买玫瑰再请她吃顿烛光晚餐。

我想以hand为例给你展示是基本词典，共您挑选。到底哪一本好，这很难说，因人而异啊。

牛津高阶英汉双解词典

hand 1

1 / hænd; hænd/ n

[C] end part of the human arm below the wrist 手: take/lead sb by the hand 拉着某人的手[牵着某人的手走] have one's hands in one's pockets 双手插在衣袋里 =>illus 见插图

a hand [sing] (infml 口) active help 积极的帮助: Give (me) a hand with the washing-up 帮（我）洗洗餐具吧 Do you want/need a hand 你需要帮忙吗

[C] pointer on a clock, dial, etc （时钟、 仪表等的）指针: the `hour/`minute/`second hand of a watch 表的时[分/秒]针

[C] (a) manual worker on a farm or in a factory, dockyard, etc （农场或工厂、 船坞等的）从事体力劳动的工人; 劳工: `farm-hands 农场工人 (b) member of a ship's crew 船员: All hands (ie All seamen are needed) on deck! 所有船员都到甲板上来!

[sing] skill in using the hands 手艺; 技能: He has a light hand with pastry, ie makes it well 他很会做糕点

[C] (a) set of cards dealt to a player in a card-game （纸牌戏中拿到的）一手牌: have a good, bad, poor, etc hand 拿到一手好、 坏、 糟牌 (b) one round in a game of cards （纸牌戏的）一局: Let's play one more hand 我们再打一局吧

[sing] style of handwriting 书法: He has/writes a good/legible hand 他字写得好[清楚]

[sing] (dated or fml 旧或文) promise to marry 许婚: He asked for her hand 他向她求婚 She gave him her hand (in marriage) 她同意嫁给他

[C] unit of measurement, about four inches (1016 cm), used for measuring the height of a horse 一手之宽（约四英寸, 即1016厘米, 用以量马的高度）

(idm 习语) all ,hands to the `pump (saying 谚) everyone must help 人人都该出把力: We've an urgent job on this week, so it's (a case of) all hands to the pump 我们本周有紧急任务, 所以人人都该出把力 at first, second, etc `hand directly/indirectly from the original source 直接、 间接地: I only heard the news at second hand 我只是间接听到这个消息的 (close/near) at `hand (a) near; close by 在附近; 在手头: He lives close at hand 他住在附近 (b) (fml 文) about to happen 即将发生: Your big moment is at hand 你的重大时刻即将到来 at sb's hands from sb 出自某人之手: I did not expect such unkind treatment at your hands 我没想到你如此刻薄 be a dab, an old, a poor, etc hand (at sth) have (or lack) the specified skill or experience 有（或缺乏）某种技能或经验: He's an old hand (ie very experienced) at this game 他是玩这种游戏的老手（很有经验） I was never much of a hand (ie never very good) at cookery 我从来不是干烹饪的好手（未做过好饭菜） bind/tie sb hand and `foot (a) tie sb's hands and feet together 捆住某人的手脚 (b) (fig 比喻) take away sb's freedom of action 使某人不能行动自如 a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush => bird bite the hand that feeds one => bite1 blood on one's hands => blood1 bring sb/sth up by hand rear (a person or an animal) by feeding from a bottle 用奶瓶喂养（人或动物）: The lamb had to be brought up by hand 这只小羊要用奶瓶喂养 by `hand (a) by a person, not a machine 用手而不用机器; 以手工: made by hand 手工制作的 (b) by a messenger (not through the post) 由传递者（非经邮局）: The note was delivered by hand 这封短信经由专人送交 by one's own fair hand => fair1 cap in hand => cap change hands => change1 the dead hand of sth => dead the devil makes work for idle hands => devil1 eat out of sb's hand => eat fall, etc into sb's, etc `hands be taken or obtained (esp by an enemy) 落入某人（尤指敌人）之手; 为某人所获得: The town fell into enemy hands 该城已落到敌人手中 I would hate my diary to get into the wrong hands 我不愿意别人看我的日记 a firm hand => firm1 fold one's hands => fold1 force sb's hand => force2 from ,hand to `hand from one person to another 从一人之手转到另一人之手: Buckets of water were passed from hand to hand to put the fire out 人们一桶又一桶传递着水以便把火扑灭 gain/win sb's hand (fml 文) make sb promise to marry one 获得某人本人对婚事的应允 gain, get, etc the upper hand => upper get one's eye/hand in => eye1 get, have, etc a free hand => free1 give sb/get a big hand => big give one's `hand on sth (fml 文) take sb's hand and clasp it when agreeing to sth 紧握某人的手表示同意某事物 (be) ,hand in `glove (with sb) working in close association 密切合作: He was found to be hand in glove with the enemy 已发现他跟敌人勾结在一起 ,hand in `hand (a) holding each other's hand 手拉手 =>illus at arm 见arm插图 (b) (fig 比喻) closely associated; linked together 密切关联的; 连在一起的: War and suffering go hand in hand 战争和苦难是同时并存的 ,hand over `hand using one's hands alternately (as when climbing) 双手交替使用（如攀登时） ,hands `off (sth/sb) (infml 口) don't touch (sth/sb); don't interfere 不许触及（某物[某人]）; 不许干涉: ,Hands off my `sandwiches!别动我的三明治! ,hands `up (a) (said when addressing a group of people) raise one hand (eg to show agreementor to answer a question) （对大家说的话）举手（举一只手, 如用以表示同意或准备回答问题）: Hands up, anyone who knows the answer 能回答的举手 (b) raise both hands (eg to show that one is surrendering) 举手（举双手, 如表示投降）: Hands up and drop your gun! 举起手来, 把抢放下! ,hand to `hand (of fighting) involving physical contact with one's opponent 短兵相接; 肉搏: [attrib 作定语] hand-to-hand combat 肉搏战 have/take a hand in sth participate in sth; be partly responsible for sth 参与或介入某事物; 对某事物有一定责任: I bet he had a `hand in it 我敢说他一定参与了此事 have one's `hands free/tied be/not be in a position to do as one likes 可以[不能]自行其是 have one's `hands full be so busy that one cannot undertake anything else 忙得腾不出手来; 无暇兼顾 have sb in the palm of one's hand => palm1 have time on one's hands/time to kill => time1 have, etc the whip hand => whip a heavy hand => heavy a helping hand => help1 hold sb's `hand comfort or help sb in a sad or difficult situation 安慰或帮助某人（减轻痛苦或摆脱困境） hold `hands (with sb) sit, walk, etc beside another person with hands linked, usu as a sign of affection 与别人手拉手地坐着、 行走等（通常含有爱意）: two lovers holding hands 手拉着手的一对恋人 in `hand (a) in one's possession and available for use 在手中（持有）; 在手头（随时可用）: I still have somemoney in hand 我手中还有些钱 Cash in hand, ￡3725手头现金共3725英镑 (b) in control 在控制下: We have the situation well in hand 我们完全控制住了局面 (c) receiving attention and being dealt with 得到照顾并在处理之中: the job in hand 正在办理的工作 The work is in hand and will soon be completed 这工作在进行中, 不久即可完成 in one's/sb's `hands in one's/sb's possession, control or care 在本人的[某人的]支配、 控制、 照料或监护之下: The affair is no longer in my hands 这事已不归我管了 Put the matter in the hands of a solicitor 把这事交给律师去办 in capable, good, etc `hands being well managed, etc 在妥善的管理等中: I've left the department in Bill's very efficient hands 我已把这个部门交由非常得力的比尔去管理 an iron fist/hand in a velvet glove => iron1 join hands => join keep one's `hand in retain one's skill by practice 藉练习以保持熟练程度: I like to play tennis regularly, just to keep my hand in 我喜欢经常打打网球, 以免技术生疏 know (a place) like the back of one's hand => know lay one's `hands on sb/sth (a) find sb/sth 找到某人[某物]: The book's here somewhere, but I can't lay my hands on it just now 那本书就放在这儿的什麽地方, 但我现在就是找不到 (b) (infml 口) catch sb/sth 捉住某人[某物]: If I ever lay my hands on the thief, he'll be sorry 我要是什麽时候抓到了那个贼, 有他好受的 (c) (of a priest) put the hands on the head of sb, to bless, confirm or ordain him （指牧师）对某人行按手礼（将双手按在某人的头上表示祝福、 对其施行坚信礼或授予圣职） hand 2

1 / hænd; hænd/ n

lend a hand => lend lift/raise a finger/hand (to do sth) => lift lift/raise a/one's `hand against sb threaten or attack sb 威胁或攻击某人 live from ,hand to `mouth satisfy only one's present basic needs (esp for food) 仅能满足眼前的基本需要（尤指食物方面的需要）: [attrib 作定语] a hand-to-mouth existence仅能糊口的生活 make money hand over fist => money many hands make light work (saying 谚) a task is soon completed if many people help 人多好办事 not do a hand's `turn not do any work 什麽工作也不做: He never does a hand's turn around the house his wife does everything 家里的事儿他从来都不做--一切都由妻子操劳 off one's `hands no longer one's responsibility 不再承担责任: They'll be glad to get their son off their hands 他们再不必为儿子操心, 感到很高兴 offer one's hand => offer on either/every `hand (fml 文) on both/all sides 在两[每一]边; 在两个[各个]方面 on `hand available 现有（随时可用） on one's `hands resting on one as a responsibility 由本人照管; 由本人处理; 由本人负责: I have an empty house on my hands, eg one for which I want to find a buyer or tenant 我手中有一所空房子要处理（如想找买家或租客） on the `one hand on the `other (hand) (used to indicate contrasting points of view, opinions, etc 用以引导出相互矛盾的观点、 意见等) out of `hand (a) out of control; undisciplined 无法控制; 无纪律: The football fans have got completely out of hand 那些足球迷已经完全失去控制 (b) at once; without further thought 立即; 不假思索地: The proposal was rejected out of hand 这个建议当即遭到了拒绝 ,out of one's `hands no longer under one's control 不再受本人控制: I can't help you, I'm afraid the matter is out of my hands 我爱莫能助, 很抱歉--此事已非我力所能及 overplay one's hand => overplay ,play into sb's `hands do sth that is to (an opponent's) advantage 做有利於（对手）的蠢事; 让（对手）占便宜 put one's ,hand in one's `pocket be ready to spend or give money 伸手掏腰包（准备花钱或付款） putty in sb's hands => putty see, etc sb's hand in sth notice sb's (esp unfriendly or harmful) influence in sth 注意到某人对某事物的（尤指坏的）影响: Do I detect your hand in this 你在这件事情上起的作用, 能瞒得了我吗 set one's hand to sth (dated or fml 旧或文) sign (esp a formal document) 签署（尤指正式文件）: set one's hand to a treaty 在条约上签字 shake sb's hand/shake hands/shake sb by the hand => shake1 show one's hand/cards => show2 a show of hands => show1 sit on one's hands => sit sleight of hand => sleight take one's courage in both hands => courage ,take sb in `hand take control of sb in order to improve his behaviour 管教某人: Those dreadful children need to be taken in hand 那些讨厌的孩子需要加以管教 take the law into one's own hands => law take one's life in one's hands =>life take matters into one's own hands => matter1throw one's `hand in (infml 文) abandon sth in which one is engaged 从正在做的某事中退出; 放弃某事物 time hangs/lies heavy on one's hands => time1 to `hand (a) within reach; readily available 在手头; 随时可用: I don't have the information to hand 我手头没有现成的资料 (b) (commerce 商) received 收到: Your letter is to hand, ie has reached me and is receiving attention 来函敬悉 try one's hand => try1 turn one's hand to sth (be able to) undertake sth （能够）担任某工作: She can turn her hand to all sorts of jobs 她能做各种工作 wait on sb hand and foot => wait1 wash one's hands of sb/sth => wash2 win hands down => win wring one's hands => wring

> -handed (in compound adjs 用以构成复合形容词)

having hands as specified 有某类型手的: big-handed

(a) using the specified hand usually, in preference to the other 常用某只手的（而不常用另一只手）: right-handed people (b) made by or for the specified hand 用某只手做的; 为某只手做的: a left-handed blow a one-handed catch

handful / ˈhændful; ˋhændfʊl/ n (pl -fuls)

1 [C] ~ (of sth) as much or as many as can be held in one hand 一把: pick up a handful of sand 抓起一把沙子

2 [sing] ~ (of sb/sth) small number 少数; 少量: a handful of people 少数几个人

3 a handful [sing] (infml 口) person or animal that is difficult to control 难控制的人或动物: That young lad is quite a handful, ie is lively and troublesome 那个小伙子真难管束（活泼而淘气）

# `handbag (US purse) n small bag for money, keys, etc, carried esp by women （装钱、 钥匙等的）小手提包（尤指女用的） =>illus at luggage 见luggage插图

`hand-baggage n [U] (US) = hand-luggage

`handball n [U] any of several games in which players throw a ball to each other or hit it (usu with a gloved hand) against a wall 手球运动

`hand-barrow n light two-wheeled barrow （两轮的）手推车

`handbill n printed advertisement or announcement distributed by hand 传单

`handbook n small book giving useful facts; guidebook 手册; 指南: a car handbook 汽车手册 a handbook of wild flowers 野生花卉手册 Cf 参看 manual n 1

`handbrake n (in a motor vehicle) brake operated by hand, used when the vehicle is stationary （机动车的）手刹车, 手闸: Don't drive with the handbrake on 手闸扳上时不可开车 =>illus at App 1 见附录1插图, page xii

`handcart n = cart 1

`handclap n [sing] clapping of the hands 拍手; 鼓掌: give sb a slow handclap, ie clap slowly and rhythmically to show impatience 对某人缓慢而有节奏地鼓掌（表示不耐烦）

`handcuffs n [pl] pair of metal rings joined by a chain, for fastening round the wrists of prisoners 手铐: The prisoner wore (a pair of) handcuffs 犯人戴着（一副）手铐 =>illus at shackle 见shackle插图 `handcuff v [esp passive 尤用於被动语态: Tn, Tnpr] ~ sb (to sth/sb) put handcuffs on sb 给某人戴手铐: The demonstratorhad handcuffed herself to the railings 有个示威的妇女把自己铐在栏杆上

`hand-grenade n grenade thrown by hand 手榴弹

`hand-gun n (esp US) gun that is held and fired with one hand; pistol 手枪

,hand-`held adj held in the hand 手提式的; 便携式的: film taken with a ,hand-held `camera 用手提式摄影机拍摄的影片

`handhold n thing that a climber may grip, eg on a rock face 攀登者可以抓牢的东西（如岩石上的）

`hand-luggage (US `hand-baggage) n [U] luggage that is light enough to be carried by hand 手提行李

,hand`made adj made by hand 手工制的: ,handmade `pottery 手工制作的陶器 Cf 参看 machine-made (machine)

`handmaid (also `handmaiden) n (arch 古) female servant 女仆; 侍女

,hand-`picked adj carefully chosen 仔细挑选的; 精选的

`handrail n narrow rail for holding as a support, eg when going up or down stairs 扶手（如楼梯的） =>illus at stair 见stair插图

`handsaw n saw used with one hand only 手锯

`handshake n 1 shaking of sb's hand with one's own, as a greeting, etc 握手

(idm 习语) a ,golden `handshake => golden

,hands-`on adj [attrib 作定语] practical 亲身实践的;实习的: have ,hands-on ex`perience of a computer keyboard有操作计算机的实际经验

`handspring n somersault in which a person lands first on his hands and then on his feet 手翻; 前手翻腾越

`handstand n balancing on one's hands with one's feet in the air 手倒立: do a handstand 做手倒立动作

`handwriting n [U]

1 writing with a pen, pencil, etc 书写

2 person's particular style of this 书法; 笔迹: I can't read his handwriting 我看不懂他的笔迹

`handwritten adj written by hand (ie not printed ortyped) 手写的: Letters of application must be handwritten申请信必须手写 hand 3

2 / hænd; hænd/ v

[Tnp, Dnn, Dnpr] ~sth (to sb) give or transfer sth with one's hand or hands 交; 递: He handed round the biscuits 他把饼乾传递过去 Please hand me that book 请把那本书递给我 She handed it to the boy 她把它交给了那个男孩子

(idm 习语) hand/give sb sth on a plate => plate1

(phr v) hand sth down (to sb) (a) pass sth on by tradition, inheritance, etc 传递某物; 把某物往下传: stories handed down from generation to generation 代代相传的故事 Most of my clothes were handed down to me by my older brother 我的衣服大多是我哥哥传给我的 (b) (esp US) announce sth formally or publicly 正式宣布某事物; 颁布某事物: hand down a budget, legal decision, verdict 公布预算、 判决、 裁定 hand sth in (to sb) bring or give sth; offer or submit sth 交来、 交上、 提交或呈交某物: Hand in your examination papers now, please 请把试卷交上来 She handed in her resignation 她提交了辞呈 hand sth on (to sb) send or give sth to another person 将某物送交或转交他人: Please hand on the magazine to your friends 请把这本杂志传给你的朋友们看 hand sth out (to sb) distribute sth 分发或分配某物: Relief workers were handing out emergency rations (to the survivors) 救济人员在（向生还者）分发紧急配给品 hand (sth) over (to sb) transfer (a position of authority or power) to sb 把（权位或权力）移交给某人: I am resigning as chairman and handing over to my deputy 我现在辞去主席职位, 交由我的副手接替 hand over power to an elected government 把权力移交给经选举产生的政府 hand sb over to sb (esp at a meeting, on TV, etc or on the telephone) let sb listen or speak to another person （尤指在会议、 电视等中或在电话里）让某人听另一个人的讲话或与另一个人谈话: I'm handing you over now to our home affairs correspondent 现在请听本台记者报道的国内新闻 hand sb/sth over (to sb) deliver sb/sth, esp to authority 把某人[某物]交出（尤指交给当局）: They handed him/their weapons over to the police 他们把他[武器]交给了警方 hand it to sb (infml 口) (always with must or have (got) to 需与must或have (got) to连用) give sb the praise that he deserves 给某人以应得的赞扬; 肯定某人的优点: You've got to hand it to her she's damned clever 你不能不佩服她--她简直聪明到了极点

# `hand-me-downs (also `reach-me-downs) n [pl] used or unwanted things (esp clothes) that are given to another person, esp a younger brother or sister 某人用旧的或不要的而传给他人的东西（尤指留给弟弟妹妹用的衣物）: I don't want your old hand-me-downs! 我不要你那些用过了的旧东西!

`hand-out n

1 (esp) food, money or clothes given free to a needy person 施舍物（尤指食物、 金钱或衣物）

2 (a) leaflet, etc distributed free of charge 免费散发的印刷品 (b) prepared statement given, eg by a politician, to newspaper men （政治家等对报界发表的）声明 (c) duplicated sheet containing examples, etc distributed by a teacher 教师分发给学生的讲义等

`hand-over n (period of) transfer, esp of power or responsibility （尤指权力或职责的）移交（时期）