一、浪漫没有一个准确的定义
所谓浪漫在每个人心目中的定义都是不一样的,虽然不一样但一定也不妨碍大家去追求它。
有的人觉得烛光晚餐很浪漫,有的人觉得给女孩送美丽的玫瑰花就是浪漫。
还有的人在下雨的时候,给女生撑伞,两个人一起雨中漫步也是一种浪漫。
每个人对浪漫的追求和情愫也不同。
实际上在现今的这个社会,大家迫于工作和生活上的压力,变得越来越不浪漫了。
众所周知,世界上最浪漫的国家是法国人。
法国人一年中有150天都不用工作。
他们有很多闲暇的时间去创造浪漫。
每逢夜色来临的时候,就可以来到一家很有情调的咖啡厅,一边欣赏着动人的小提琴演奏,一边品尝着浓烈的咖啡。
或者提起背包来一场所走就走的旅行,去放飞一下自由自在的心情。
所谓浪漫,就是不被世俗束缚的自由。
在繁琐的生活中,保持着一颗最爱情美好期待的心。
浪漫是你喜欢的这个人,而她恰好也喜欢你。
浪漫是花心思让喜欢的人开心,让喜欢的人动心。
所以浪漫也就是只对一个人花心。
二、浪漫的本质是它充满的种种不确定性
一段爱情中最浪漫的部分,是即将开始却尚未开始的期待。
如果爱情的一切发展在你的意料之中,想必会没有多少会那么热烈地追逐它。
喜欢你的人,你想要陪她一起去外面走走,即便是一起吃路边摊也很开心。
不喜欢你的人,就算他把整个世界送给你,你也不会开心。
三、大大咧咧的人,浪漫起来吓死人
我之前认识一个女生,她叫小丽,这是一个十分彪悍的女汉子形象。
这个小丽平时说话大不咧咧地,喜欢跟周围的人称兄道弟,让人忽略了她身上女性的因素。
自从她恋爱了以后,整个人里里外外就不一样了。
这里所说的不一样,不是说她的外貌或者行为,她还是和往常一样不拘小节,只是心思变得细腻了。
当然,这种细心,只针对她男朋友。
她跟男朋友在一起的时候特别着重自己的衣着是否整洁,妆容是否精致。
有一次她的男朋友带着平时玩的好的哥们刚喝完酒,小丽就叫着大家一起吃宵夜。
她的男朋友当时还很纳闷,因为这个小丽平时没有吃宵夜的习惯。
小丽却笑着说:“吃啥鬼宵夜,我是看你酒醒了没有?”
男友奇怪,却笑了:“哟!你咋知道我喝醉了?我还没醉了呢”
小丽说:“别狡辩了,平时你喝醉的时候,喝酒是闭眼的,清醒的时候喝酒睁着眼的。”
她的男朋友惊呆了,没想到自己居然还有这样的习惯,平时就连自己都没发现。
从那以后,她的男朋友对她更用心了,因为人的一生中很难遇到一个真正在乎自己的人。
虽然小丽平时给人的感觉很粗心大意,不会浪漫。
实际上,她也有自己的浪漫,只是她喜欢把浪漫都藏在一些细节里。
四、什么才是真正的浪漫
那么什么才是真正的浪漫呢?
所谓浪漫都是被爱和美所触动的。
实际上浪漫就是一种对“美”的感动。
当你喜欢的那个女生遇到难以解决地麻烦时,而你恰好就出现在她面前,并且帮她解决了麻烦。
在她最想要你的时候,你的出现给了她惊喜。
在夜深人静地时候,你在心里想着她的模样,想一次,笑一次。
在她生病时,你递上一杯热水给她喂药;
当你领到第一份工资时,你给她买了她最喜欢的包包;
你的外套口袋里永远都能掏出她喜欢吃的糖;
无论你怎么生气,你都会想着该怎么去哄她开心。
在爱情中,不用刻意去制造所谓的浪漫和惊喜,而是把你对她的爱变成无微不至地照顾和最深切的牵挂。
无论受到多大的诱惑,都不会让你对她的爱产生哪怕一丝丝的动摇。
为了浪漫而浪漫,那就失去了其本来存在的意义了。
浪漫的本质就是在于它的不确定性,在于你在她毫不知情的情况下,让她感动。
我们站在真实的对立面,做起了一段短暂的、狂喜又躁动的梦。
在富于浪漫色彩的废墟中,蕴藏着一种令人激越的魅力。我精心收集了关于浪漫英语情诗,供大家欣赏学习!
关于浪漫英语情诗篇1
lovers' infiniteness(情人之无限) 中英对照:
if yet i have not all thy love,
dear, i shall never have it all ;
i cannot breathe one other sigh, to move,
nor can intreat one other tear to fall ;
and all my treasure, which should purchase thee,
sighs, tears, and oaths, and letters i have spent ;
yet no more can be due to me,
than at the bargain made was meant
if then thy gift of love were partial,
that some to me, some should to others fall,
dear, i shall never have thee all
如果我还不曾得到你的全部的爱,
这全部我将永远无法获取;
我不能吐出另一声动人的磋叹,
也不能让另外一滴眼泪滚落,
叹息,眼泪,誓辞,一封封情书,
这些原应换取你的珍宝已是白费,
而假如你的爱不肯全部付出,
只是按照交易定下的份额分配,
既分给我一些,又匀给别人一些,
你的这份爱的礼物碎损残缺,
亲爱的,我永远无法全部获得。
or if then thou gavest me all,
all was but all, which thou hadst then ;
but if in thy heart since there be or shall
new love created be by other men,
which have their stocks entire, and can in tears,
in sighs, in oaths, and letters, outbid me,
this new love may beget new fears,
for this love was not vow'd by thee
and yet it was, thy gift being general ;
the ground, thy heart, is mine ; what ever shall
grow there, dear, i should have it all
而你如果把全部的爱赐与了我,
那也不过是从前的全部爱,
假如有别的男子向你的芳心潜入,
让你现在或将来产生新的爱,
他们的资本齐全,更能在眼泪,叹息
誓辞,和情书上满足你的虚荣,
那新的爱会导致新的惊悸,
因为这种爱背离了你的初衷。
既然如此,你的礼物对众人广施,
你的芳心属我,无论这土地上生长什么,
我都应该拥有那全部。
yet i would not have all yet
he that hath all can have no more ;
and since my love doth every day admit
new growth, thou shouldst have new rewards in store ;
thou canst not every day give me thy heart,
if thou canst give it, then thou never gavest it ;
love's riddles are, that though thy heart depart,
it stays at home, and thou with losing savest it ;
but we will have a way more liberal,
than changing hearts, to join them ; so we shall
be one, and one another's all
但就此得到全部井非我之所愿,
因为一经获取便不再会增添,
既然我的爱每天都有新的进展,
你也得为此准备下新的酬谢,
你不能每天都交给我一颗心,
倘若说能给出,便意味前此的不是。
爱情真是个谜团,尽管你的已出门,
却依然在家,拣回也就是丢失;
可是我们的办法却更为变通,
无须换心,只要将两颗心儿合拢,
便能将对方的全部拥入怀中。
(汪剑钊译)
关于浪漫英语情诗篇2the relic(圣骨) 中英对照:
when my grave is broke up again
some second guest to entertain,
—for graves have learn'd that woman-head,
to be to more than one a bed—
and he that digs it, spies
a bracelet of bright hair about the bone,
will he not let us alone,
and think that there a loving couple lies,
who thought that this device might be some way
to make their souls at the last busy day
meet at this grave, and make a little stay
当人们重新掘起我的坟,
去取乐某些二流的客人
(因为坟墓知道,女人的特点
是在一张床上容不得孤单),
那个掘墓的人,一眼看到
一圈手镯似的金色头发围着骨头,
那么,他会不会让我们独自逗留
这里躺着—对恩爱的情侣,他会思考——
他们曾认为,这方法也许不凡,
能使他们的灵魂,在最不忙碌的一天,
在这坟茔里相逢,停留上一小段时间。
if this fall in a time, or land,
where mass-devotion doth command,
then he that digs us up will bring
us to the bishop or the king,
to make us relics ; then
thou shalt be a mary magdalen, and i
a something else thereby ;
all women shall adore us, and some men
and, since at such time miracles are sought,
i would have that age by this paper taught
what miracles we harmless lovers wrought
如果这件事情发生在
迷信统治的地方和时代,
那把我们掘起的人,自然
会把我们带到主教和帝王面前,
将我们当作圣骨,那样一来,
你将是个马利亚·抹大拉,而我,
附近的某一个家伙;
女人,还有一些男人将把我们崇拜;
既然在这样的年代,人们寻找奇迹,
我要用这一张纸告诉这个世纪,
我们没心眼的爱人能造成什么样的奇迹。
first we loved well and faithfully,
yet knew not what we loved, nor why ;
difference of sex we never knew,
no more than guardian angels do ;
coming and going we
perchance might kiss, but not between those meals ;
our hands ne'er touch'd the seals,
which nature, injured by late law, sets free
these miracles we did ; but now alas !
all measure, and all language, i should pass,
should i tell what a miracle she was
首先,我们爱得热烈,爱得执着,
但又不知道爱的是什么或为什么,
也不知道男人和女人不同的地方,
就和守卫着我们的安琪儿一样,
来来去去,我们
也许亲吻,但不在那一餐餐中间;
我们的手从不去碰那些让自然
解放了的封条,虽然又为新法所损;
我们造成了这些奇迹;但现在,吁,
纵然我能使用所有的方法和言语,
我可能讲出曾是个什么样的奇迹(裘小龙译)
关于浪漫英语情诗篇3song 歌 john donne 中英对照:
go and catch a falling star, 用曼德拉草变回孩提原形,
get with child a mandrake root, 就像追逐一颗陨落的流星,
tell me where all past years are, 何处能找回逝去的光阴。
or who cleft the devil's foot, 是谁拖长了恶魔的脚印,
teach me to hear mermaids singing, 教会我倾听人鱼的乐音,
or to keep off envy's stinging, 让我摆脱嫉妒的心,
and find 然后感受,
what wind 一阵微风,
serves to advance an honest mind 拂起升华的灵。
if thou be'st born to strange sights, 如果你要看独特的风景
things invisible to see, 勇于尝新
ride ten thousand days and nights, 游历你一生的光阴
till age snow white hairs on thee, 直到白发结上双鬓。
thou, when thou return'st, wilt tell me, 当你回来,讲给我听
all strange wonders that befell thee, 一切事情你曾历经
and swear, 然后相信
no where 这个世界
lives a woman true and fair 没有真实美丽的女人心
if thou find'st one, let me know, 如果找到,讲给我听
such a pilgrimage were sweet; 如此甜蜜一定不虚此行
yet do not, i would not go, 但找不到,我也不愿远行
though at next door we might meet, 尽管下一次邂逅我们相信
though she were true, when you met her, 尽管她真实你也能看清
and last, till you write your letter, 直到,你写下这封信
yet she 而她已经
will be 铸成错误
false, ere i come, to two, or three 在我来之前已有人光临
We Have to Say Goodbye
No rose, no diamond ring, that’s the simple and romantic love stories in college The graduates have to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved When their future is confronted with love, which one is more important What will the lovers do in June
没有玫瑰的芬芳,没有钻戒的世俗,这就是大学恋情——纯情而唯美。毕业生不得不面临六月的来临,也就是向心爱的人道别的时刻。当前途与爱情一同遭遇未来,该如何取舍?六月里的恋人会怎么做呢?
Don’t cry, my baby
There are so many love stories in college If the lovers met each other by note passed, the story was called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if they became lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love” Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, and they got the so-called “QQ love”
Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset So he entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time While he was roaming about on the net, a stranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you” Then he began chatting with him or her Liu poured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to be discouraged, for there was still chance After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every day and it lasted for a week Liu felt very happy On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do you want to see me” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation “Then you can turn your head back” And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu
However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice Xiao Yu is a local girl and her home is in Wuhan While Liu Bing comes from Xi’an They are both the only child in their family Their parents aren’t against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home They quarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city they would choose Xi’an or Wuhan They were up a gum tree and couldn’t come to terms
Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time When Liu typed out “Let’s break up”, Xiao Yu couldn’t restrain her tears any more
Still a long way to go
Chen Li has been unhappy recently With the coming of graduation, she’s become even more depressed She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don’t have a special story; they got to know each other in the library Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library They would go to cinema or walk on the streets at weekends Three years have passed quietly They promised to take the postgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 points margin in English
Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there Considering the economic condition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus On the one hand, the living expense is lower here On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies
At night, thinking that her lover would leave for Beijing, Chen Li’s tears fell down her cheeks silently, making her pillowslip wet all over Although Jia Hao encouraged her over and over again that she would succeed at the second try and they would reunion in Beijing, however, he said so at the last time Will their love still go on in case she fails
A new life for us
Different from those sorrowful lovers, Ye Qing is like a happy bird flying in and out of her dormitory She and her boyfriend were in the same class in high school Fortunately they both came to Beijing though not in the same university They’re not far from each other, although they can’t be very much in love every day like other love birds Ye Qing feels contented that they can spend weekends together Sometimes, Ye Qing would call her boyfriend and asked him to see her in half an hour and bring some snacks passingly
Her boyfriend majors in the pop Communication He has been employed by a well-known communicating corporation in Shenzhen Ye Qing hasn’t found a satisfying job, but they’ve planed that she also goes to Shenzhen to hunt a job As a major in Economic and Trade English, Ye thinks it not difficult in finding a job such as secretary or assistant As far as buying house and car, she told us secretly, “He promised that I needn’t consider that kind of things”
To the moment they have enough time to wile away Ye has decided it was time to make up for the past 4 years’ loss of romance Now they’ve been shopping around, going to movies and playing badminton every day Seeing her boyfriend being “tortured”, Ye felt as happy as a princess in fairy tales
Point of view
Hu Juan, graduate of 2002
My love came to the end with the coming of graduation Nobody could taste my sorrow at that time I felt I lost the man I loved most in the world Such is not the fact I worked, fell in love with another guy and then got married Looking back on my love in college, I found that we were just in the same camp on entertainment While my husband and I are living our lives
Liu Xiaoming, graduate of 2003
I’ve been married Of course, my wife was my girlfriend in the university We had been in love for 3 years Compared with other husband and wife, we feel it a superiority to own each other’s past We would talk about our university life and recall dribs and drabs Whenever we recollect together, we could feel each other’s heartbeat And the expression in our eyes would become very gentle The beautiful memory will always nourish our marriage
Li Rong, senior
It’s enough that each love starts with a beautiful beginning As for whether it will come to an end, I feel it unnecessary to think too much Love out of campus doesn’t always have a happy ending Therefore, when love comes, we should enjoy the pleasure of loving When love comes to an end, we could also taste its grief of parting Tears taste sweet as long as you love your life
Wang Qin, senior
I don’t have a boyfriend, but some boys are wooing me I feel they’re not my cup of tea, so I refused I have a wish that they could give me a hug before I leave by train when I graduate I admire those who are in love on campus and at the same time I felicitate myself on not choosing at random During the four years in university, as long as you live in earnest, you won’t regret, whether you own love or not, whether your love has future or not
毕业了,该分手了
宝贝,别哭
校园里上演着那么多的爱情故事。如果恋人通过纸条表白爱情,就被称为“白条之恋”;如果他们在快餐店里相识、相恋,就叫“快餐之恋”;如果是在野炊时相爱,当然就是“野炊之恋”了。刘冰是通过QQ聊天认识小雨的,也就是所谓的“QQ之恋”。
他们的故事开始于大二下半学期。刚开学,刘冰在四级考试中挂了,没有通过,他非常沮丧,就来到学校附近的网吧打发时间。正当他在网上神游时,突然QQ上有人问a他:“可以和你聊聊吗?”刘冰就和她聊了起来,其实他还不知道对方是男是女。刘冰将自己的苦恼一倾而出,对方就耐心地开导他,说别灰心,还有机会呢。此后,有一个星期,他们约定每天8点来聊天,刘冰觉得很开心。到了第7天,对方问刘冰:“想见面吗?”刘冰没有任何犹豫地打下一个字:“想!”对方说:“那你就回头吧!”于是,刘冰转身就看到了那个可爱的女孩,小雨。
然而,面对毕业,他们却不知道如何选择。小雨的家就在武汉本地,而刘冰来自于西安。作为家里的独生子女,双方父母不反对他们在一起,但都希望儿女能回到自己的身边。他们俩为了毕业后的去向问题吵翻了天,矛盾的焦点是“要留在哪个城市?”。选择西安,还是选择武汉,两人犯难了,而且谁都不肯让步。
最后,刘冰和小雨又去网吧上网聊天,依然是背对背。当刘冰打出“我们分手吧”几个字后,小雨的眼泪再也忍不住了。
路漫漫其修远兮
晨丽最近郁郁寡欢,看着毕业的日子一天天逼近,越来越无精打采。她和男朋友贾皓的故事没有什么特别的,就是在图书馆认识的。两个爱学习的人,最大的乐趣就是泡图书馆,然后在周末去看看**,逛逛街。三年下来,倒也平淡。大三时他们就约定一起考研到北京,然而晨丽却因英语2分之差落榜了。
贾皓鼓励晨丽和他一起去北京,然后在北京专职考研。然而考虑到两人的经济状况,晨丽还是觉得留在学校再考比较合适,一方面这里的生活费用相对较低,再者自己也熟悉这里的环境,能安心学习。
夜里想着自己心爱的人就要远赴北京了,晨丽的眼泪就无声无息地流出来了,枕巾被打湿了一大片。尽管贾皓一再鼓励她,说她第二次一定会考上的,那时他们就会在北京相聚。可是,第一次考研时贾皓就是这么鼓励她的,万一她第二次还没考上,那么他们的爱情会怎么样呢?
新生活在向我们招手
和那些悲伤的恋人不同,叶晴快乐地像只小鸟,整天从宿舍飞进飞出。她和男友是高中同学,虽然高考没考到同一所学校,但幸运的是都考到了北京,而且两个学校也相距不远。虽然不能像别的恋人一样天天卿卿我我,但能在一起快乐地度过周末,对叶晴来说已经很满足了。有时候,实在忍不住,叶晴就给男友打电话,让他半小时内立即赶到,并且带点零食过来。
男友学的是炙手可热的通讯工程,已经被深圳一家有名的通讯企业录取。虽然叶晴还没有找到工作,但他们已经计划好了,就是叶晴也去深圳,然后在深圳找工作。由于学的是经贸英语,叶晴相信找个秘书、助理之类的工作还是没有问题。至于以后买房子、买车子,她偷偷告诉我们:“他已经答应不用我考虑了!”
正好毕业前这一段时间有大把的时间可以挥霍,叶晴决定把过去4年的浪漫损失弥补回来,天天拉着男友逛商场、看**、打羽毛球,看着男友被折磨的样子,叶晴幸福得像传说中的公主。
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