I know different people has different ideas on something, but I feel embarrasment when my parents have different ideas on a question, sometimes they will quarrel I think many kids have met this situations before so I want to tell something when I am in this situation
first, I watch and listen to them quietly they will notice that I am watching them may be they will realize it is not good to quarrel in front of their kidsand they will stop
so let them know you are in their life, it is my way to stop quarrel我知道不同的人在不同的事有不同的观点,但在父母在一个问题上有不同意见时我会感到尴尬,有时他们会吵起来。我想许多孩子曾面对过这种情况,所以我想介绍一下我面对这种情况时我会怎么做。首先,我先悄悄地看、听着他们,他们会注意到我在看他们,也许他们就会意识到在孩子面前吵架是不好的,然后他们就停止了。所以,要让父母知道你是父母生命的一部分。这就是我劝说他们停止吵架的方法。
Try to communicate with them Make them understand what you are thinking Figue out a way to solve problem together And always keep in mind that your parents love you more than anyone in the world Don't shout them down just besause some trifle things
My friend Fleur had an argument with her parents yesterday since her parents did not allow her to watch the midnight shift of the movie Their parents insisted that watching midnight movie will affect her sleeping schedule and health But Fleur argued that she has grown up already and does not need her parent to tell her what to do and what not to do
I told Fleur that I can totally understand her objection to the parental control Teenagers like us are often disobedient to their parents And it is also true that a single visit to a midnight movie will not cause grave health problem However, we should also understand that her parents stopped her to go to movie out of their love to their child They try to protect her from any potential danger that a midnight movie incurs So I made my suggestion to her that if she really wants to go, she can certainly try to have a nice conversation with her parents, telling them that she is going with her friends, along with the reassurance that she will not go to midnight movie frequently She can also leave her friends' phone number to her parents in case that they cannot contact with her
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