求类似美剧中男女主角日常争吵的英文对白

A: i was so nervous about that letterBut the way you owned up to everything it just showed me how much you've grown(我在担心你看了那封信会怎样反应。但你承认了所有让我感到你真的成长了）

B：I was kind of hoping that wouldn’t be an issuebut i really don't agree with youyou wants me to take responsibility for everthing that went wrong with our relationship you goes on for five pages about how i was unfaithful to youwe are on a break it took two people to break up this relationship（我真不想提这事，我不同意你的说法，你想我为所有事负责任？你用了5大页叙述我对你的不忠？那时我们在冷静期，这是两个人的责任）

A: yeah,you and that girlyou know,once a cheater,always cheaterif you say that one more time,i"ll break up with you again（对，是你和那个女孩，你知道吗？一次不忠，百次不用，如果你再这些，我们就再分手吧）

B:for that thing,you had rambled on for 18 pages,front and back!you know,it just a mistake ,i have nothing with her!（为了这件事，你写了18页废话，从头到尾！那只是一个误会，我和那个女孩是清白的）

A:i don't believe you i can't believe i thought of getting back with you!we are so over（我不会相信你，我真不敢相信我会和你和好！这次我们真的分手了）

　角色：T----Tom J----John M----Miss Yang (teacher)

　　道具：两个书包， 一副眼镜，讲义夹

　　(One morning, Tom and John 在上学路上)

　　T: Hi,John,What does your father do

　　J: My father is great He is a boss He has a big company

　　T: (嘲笑) Your father …great…hah …hah … My father is really great

　　J: (不服气的样子) What does your father do

　　T: He is a TV reporter He works in …

　　J: My father goes to work by car Does he go to work by car

　　T: Of course

　　J: My father has a lot of money, he is great

　　T: My father has a lot of fans , he is great

　　(They 在校门口吵架， Miss Yang comes )

　　M: What’s the matter

　　J: My father is a boss, he is great

　　T: My father is a TV reporter , he is great

　　M: Really Tom and John ,I think they are both great But who are your fathers

　　J&T:(吱吱唔唔)He is …

　　M: Who are they

　　J: I’m sorry Miss Yang

　　T: Me too I’m sorry

　　M: What does your father do

　　T&J: He is a worker/driver

　　M: Where does he works

　　T&J: He works in a factory/FHTV

　　M: How does he go to work

　　T&J: He goes to work by bus/bike

　　M: Ok, kids All jobs are useful And you must be honest

1关于生气的英语词组比如beangrywithbemadatbeannoyed还有多想几

关于生气：1make sb angry 使某人生气例：他的粗鲁让我生气His rudeness made me really angry2be angry over sth 因某事而生气例：别为这些琐事生气Don't be angry over such trivial matters3get angry with; get annoyed with 对（人）生气 4be enraged 使动怒，使气愤He was enraged at the waste他觉得这样荼毒生灵实在令人气愤He was enraged that he was shut out他对被拒于门外一事极为愤怒He was enraged to hear the news他听到这消息而发怒关于吵架：1quarrel with sb 和某人吵架我理论，而不是和他吵架I reasoned rather than quarreled with him2have a row吵架He have a row with his wife and just walk out on her他和妻子吵架后就把她抛弃了。

2用英语骂人的句子有

1 stop complaining！ 别发牢骚！ 2 you make me sick！ 你真让我恶心！ 3 what's wrong with you？ 你怎麽回事？ 4 you shouldn't have done that！ 你真不应该那样做！ 5 you're a jerk！ 你是个废物/混球！ 6 don't talk to me like that！ 别那样和我说话！ 7 who do you think you are？ 你以为你是谁？ 8 what's your problem？ 你怎麽回事啊？ 9 i hate you！ 我讨厌你 ！ 10 i don't want to see your face！ 我不愿再见到你！ 11 you're crazy！ 你疯了！ 12 are you insane/crazy/out of your mind？ 你疯了吗？（美国人绝对常用！） 13 don't bother me 别烦我。

14 knock it off 少来这一套。 15 get out of my face 从我面前消失！ 16 leave me alone 走开。

17 get lost 滚开！ 18 take a hike！ 哪儿凉快哪儿歇著去吧。 19 you piss me off 你气死我了。

20 it's none of your business 关你屁事！ 21 what's the meaning of this？ 这是什麽意思？ 22 how dare you！ 你敢！ 23 cut it out 省省吧。 24 you stupid jerk！ 你这蠢猪！ 25 you have a lot of nerve 脸皮真厚。

26 i'm fed up 我厌倦了。 27 i can't take it anymore 我受不了了！（李阳老师常用） 28 i've had enough of your garbage 我听腻了你的废话。

29 shut up！ 闭嘴！ 30 what do you want？ 你想怎麽样？ 31 do you know what time it is？ 你知道现在都几点吗？ 32 what were you thinking？ 你脑子进水啊？ 33 how can you say that？ 你怎麽可以这样说？ 34 who says？ 谁说的？ 35 that's what you think！ 那才是你脑子里想的！ 36 don't look at me like that 别那样看著我。 37 what did you say？ 你说什麽？ 38 you are out of your mind 你脑子有毛病！ 39 you make me so mad你气死我了啦。

40 drop dead 去死吧！ 41 i don\'t give a 我才不管（理都不理）呢。 42 don't give me your 别跟我胡扯。

43 don't give me your excuses/ no more excuses 别找借口。 44 you're a pain in the ass 你这讨厌鬼。

45 you're an asshole 你这缺德鬼。 46 you bastard！ 你这杂种！ 47 get over yourself 别自以为是。

48 you're nothing to me 你对我什麽都不是。 49 it's not my fault 不是我的错。

50 you look guilty 你看上去心虚。 51 i can't help it 我没办法。

52 that's your problem 那是你的问题。 53 i don't want to hear it 我不想听！ 54 get off my back 少跟我罗嗦。

55 give me a break 饶了我吧。 56 who do you think you're talking to？ 你以为你在跟谁说话？ 57 look at this mess！ 看看这烂摊子！ 58 you' re so careless 你真粗心。

59 why on earth didn't you tell me the truth？ 你到底为什麽不跟我说实话？ 60 i'm about to explode！ 我肺都快要气炸了！ 61 what a stupid idiot！ 真是白痴一个！ 62 i'm not going to put up with this！ 我再也受不了啦！ 63 i never want to see your face again！ 我再也不要见到你！ 64 that's terrible 真糟糕！ 65 just look at what you've done！ 看看你都做了些什麽！ 66 i wish i had never met you 我真后悔这辈子遇到你！ 67 you're a disgrace 你真丢人！ 68 i'll never forgive you！ 我永远都不会饶恕你！ 69 don't nag me！ 别在我面前唠叨！ 70 i'm sick of it 我都腻了。 71 you're such a ！ 你这个婊子！ 72 stop screwing/fooling/ messing around！ 别鬼混了！ 73 mind your own business！ 管好你自己的事！ 74 you're just a good for nothing bum！ 你真是一个废物！/ 你一无是处！ 75 you've gone too far！ 你太过分了！ 76 i loathe you！ 我讨厌你！ 77 i detest you！ 我恨你！ 78 get the hell out of here！ 滚开！ 79 don't be that way！ 别那样！ 80 can't you do anything right？ 成事不足，败事有余。

81 you're impossible 你真不可救药。 82 don't touch me！ 别碰我！ 83 get away from me！ 离我远一点儿！ 84 get out of my life 我不愿再见到你。

/ 从我的生活中消失吧。 85 you're a joke！ 你真是一个小丑！ 86 don't give me your attitude 别跟我摆架子。

87 you'll be sorry 你会后悔的。 88 we're through 我们完了！ 89 look at the mess you've made！ 你搞得一团糟！ 90 you've ruined everything 全都让你搞砸了。

91 i can't believe your never 你好大的胆子！ 92 you're away too far 你太过分了。 93 i can't take you any more！ 我再也受不了你啦！ 94 i'm telling you for the last time！ 我最后再告诉你一次！ 95 i could kill you！ 我宰了你！ 96 that's the stupidest thing i\'ve ever heard！ 那是我听到的最愚蠢的事。

（比尔盖茨常用） 97 i can't believe a word you say 我才不信你呢！ 98 you never tell the truth！你从来就不说实话！ 99 don't push me ！ 别逼我！ 100 enough is enough！ 够了够了。

3生气时可以用的几个英语句子

生气时可以用的几个英语句子

1 Stop complaining！ 别发牢骚！33 How can you say that？ 你怎么可以这样说

2 You make me sick！ 你真让我恶心！34 Who says？ 谁说的？

3 What's wrong with you？ 你怎么回事？35 That's what you think！ 那才是你脑子里想的！

4 You shouldn't have done that！ 你真不应该那样做！36 Don't look at me like that 别那样看着我。

5 You're a jerk！ 你是个废物/混球！37 What did you say？ 你说什么？

6 Don't talk to me like that！ 别那样和我说话！38 You are out of your mind 你脑子有毛病！

7 Who do you think you are？ 你以为你是谁？39 You make me so mad。你气死我了啦。

8 What's your problem？ 你怎么回事啊？40 Drop dead 去死吧

9 I hate you！ 我讨厌你！41 off 滚蛋。

10 I don't want to see your face！ 我不愿再见到你！42 Don't give me your shit 别跟我胡扯。

11 You're crazy！ 你疯了！43 Don't give me your excuses/ No more excuses 别找借口。

12 Are you insane/crazy/out of your mind？ 你疯了吗？（美国人绝对常用！） 44 You're a pain in the ass 你这讨厌鬼。

13 Don't bother me 别烦我。45 You're an asshole 你这缺德鬼。

14 Knock it off 少来这一套。46 You bastard！ 你这杂种！

15 Get out of my face 从我面前消失！47 Get over yourself 别自以为是。

16 Leave me alone 走开。4

4用英语吵架的句子

英语吵架100句 1 You make me sick！ 你真让我恶心！ 2 What's wrong with you？ 你怎么回事？ 3 I'm very disappointed 真让我失望。

5 You're a jerk！ 你是个废物/混球！ 6 Don't talk to me like that！ 别那样和我说话！ 7 Who do you think you are？ 你以为你是谁？ 8 What's your problem？ 你怎么回事啊？ 9 I hate you！ 我讨厌你！ 10 I don't want to see you ce！ 我不愿再见到你！ 11 You're crazy！ 你疯了！ 12 Are you insane/crazy/out of your mind？ 你疯了吗？ 13 Don't bother me 别烦我。 14 Knock it off 少来这一套。

15 Get out of my face 从我面前消失！ 16 Leave me alone 走开。 17 Get lost滚开！ 18 Take a hike！ 哪儿凉快哪儿歇着去吧。

19 You piss me off 你气死我了。 20 It's none of your business 关你屁事！ 21 What's the meaning of this？ 这是什么意思？ 22 How dare you！ 你敢！ 23 Cut it out 省省吧。

24 You stupid jerk！ 你这蠢！ 25 You have a lot of nerve 脸皮真厚。 26 I'm fed up 我厌倦了。

27 I can't take it anymore 我受不了了！（李阳老师常用） 28 I've had enough of your garbage 我听腻了你的废话。 29 Shut up！ 闭嘴！ 30 What do you want？ 你想怎么样？ 31 Do you know what time it is？ 你知道现在都几点吗？ 32 What were you thinking？ 你脑子进水啊？ 33 How can you say that？ 你怎么可以这样说？ 34 Who says？ 谁说的？ 35 That's what you think！ 那才是你脑子里想的！ 36 Don't look at me like that 别那样看着我。

37 What did you say？ 你说什么？ 38 You are out of your mind 你脑子有毛病！ 39 You make me so mad你气死我了啦。 40 Drop dead 去死吧！ 41 Don't give me your 别跟我胡扯。

42 Don't give me your excuses/ No more excuses 别找借口。 43 Nonsense！ 鬼话！ 44 You're a pain in the ass 你这讨厌鬼。

45 You're an asshole 你这缺德鬼。 46 You asked for it 你自找的。

47 Get over yourself 别自以为是。 48 You're nothing to me 你对我什么都不是。

49 It's not my fault 不是我的错。 50 You look guilty 你看上去心虚。

51 I can't help it 我没办法。 52 That's your problem 那是你的问题。

53 I don't want to hear it 我不想听！ 54 Get off my back 少跟我罗嗦。 55 Give me a break 饶了我吧。

56 Who do you think you're talking to？ 你以为你在跟谁说话？ 57 Look at this mess！ 看看这烂摊子！ 58 You're so careless 你真粗心。 59 Why on earth didn't you tell me the truth？ 你到底为什么不跟我说实话？ 60 I'm about to explode！ 我肺都快要气炸了！ 61 What a stupid idiot！ 真是白痴一个！ 62 I'm not going to put up with this！ 我再也受不了啦！ 63 I never want to see you ce again！ 我再也不要见到你！ 64 That's terrible 真糟糕！ 65 Just look at what you've done！ 看看你都做了些什么！ 66 I wish I had never met you 我真后悔这辈子遇到你！ 67 You're a disgrace 你真丢人！ 68 I'll never forgive you！ 我永远都不会饶恕你！ 69 Don't nag me！ 别在我面前唠叨！ 70 I'm sick of it 我都腻了。

71 Don't you dare come back again！ 你敢再回来！ 72 Stop screwing/ fooling/ messing around！ 别鬼混了！ 73 Mind your own business！ 管好你自己的事！ 74 You're just a good for nothing bum！ 你真是一个废物！/ 你一无是处！ 75 You've gone too far！ 你太过分了！ 76 I loathe you！ 我讨厌你！ 77 I detest you！ 我恨你！ 78 Get the hell out of here！ 滚开！ 79 Don't be that way！ 别那样！ 80 Can't you do anything right？ 成事不足，败事有余。 81 You're impossible 你真不可救药。

82 Don't touch me！ 别碰我！ 83 Get away from me！ 离我远一点儿！ 84 Get out of my life 我不愿再见到你。/ 从我的生活中消失吧。

85 You're a joke！ 你真是一个小丑！ 86 Don't give me your attitude 别跟我摆架子。 87 You'll be sorry 你会后悔的。

88 We're through 我们完了！ 89 Look at the mess you've made！ 你搞得一团糟！ 90 You've ruined everything 全都让你搞砸了。 91 I can't believe your never 你好大的胆子！ 92 You're away too far 你太过分了。

93 I can't take you any more！ 我再也受不了你啦！ 94 I'm telling you for the last time！ 我最后再告诉你一次！ 95 I could kill you！ 我宰了你！ 96 That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard！ 那是我听到的最愚蠢的事！ （比尔·盖茨常用） 97 I can't believe a word you say 我才不信你呢！ 98 You never tell the truth！ 你从来就不说实话！ 99 Don't push me ！ 别逼我！ 100 Enough is enough！ 够了够了。

5跟情绪有关的英文短语

有关情绪的英语短语 be alive and kicking 生气勃勃 be crossed in love 爱情受挫 be on edge 紧张，急躁不安 be thrilled to bits 兴奋至极 burn up 发怒 calm down 镇静下来 feel an urge to 有强烈的欲望或冲动想。。。 feel down 情绪消沉 feel left out 感到受冷落 have a fit 大怒，大惊 have a short temper 脾气暴躁 lose one's temper 发脾气

采纳哦

6英语中表示愤怒的话

汉语习语英译13[偷懒耍滑头]goof-off小王总是偷懒耍滑头。

上班时，不是去打电话，就是跑到医务室去看病。Xiao Wang's always goofing-off -- either making phone calls or going to the clinic to see doctors during office hours汉语中“偷懒耍滑头”很接近英语goof-off这一短语的意思。

此语主要用于逃避工作或故意偷懒的场合。14〔大动肝火]be up in arms由于公司最近几个月的销售业绩不佳，老板正在大动肝火。

The boss is up in arms about the company's poor sales record in the past few months 汉语中“大动肝火”或“愤怒已极”之类的概念除了可以用fly into a rage, be filled with indignation的片语表示外，还可以用be up in arms的习语来表达。此语的意思是“举起双臂，抖动两个拳头”，表示愤怒。

15[保持冷静〕keep cool即使是在十分气愤的情况下她也能保持冷静。She can keep cool even under heavy pressure of anger汉语中“保持冷静”的说法在英语中有以下几种表示方法：to keep cool, to keep calm, cool it, hold one's horses，等等。

但是在口语中，英美人通常keep cool和keep calm两种。16[说话兜圈子]beat about the bush别跟我兜圈子了，快说你到底想干什么吧！Stop beating about the bush Just tell me what you want！“说话兜圈子”意指“说话拐弯抹角”或不能“直来直去”。

可以用 beat about (around) the bush的片语来表示。此语直译为“在灌木丛中胡乱拍打”，意思就是“分敲侧击”或“兜圈子”。

17[心怀叵测]have an ax to grind她总是心怀叵测，对她说的话你得多留神。She always has an ax to grind You should take whatever she say with a pinch of salt“心怀叵测”相当于汉语口语中“没安好心”或“没好心”的意思。

接近于英语have an ax to grind的说法。此语直译为“有一把斧子要磨”。

据说，此语源于美国政治家本杰明·富兰克林（Benjmin Franklin,1706--1790）的少年生活，一天有一男子想磨斧子。由于他不知怎样使用磨石，于是，年幼的富兰克林便用尽全身力量把重达一百多公斤的grindstone推转很多次。

此间，那个男子连连夸奖富兰克林。可是，斧子刚一磨好，他就嘲笑地对富兰克林说：“是故意让你这样干的”说罢转身就走了。

后来此语转喻“心怀叵测”。18[心术不正〕not have one's heart in the right place他的心术不正，动不动就在别人的背后涌刀子。

He doesn't have his heart in the right place He would find every opportunity to stab in the back of others上面谈到的“心怀叵测”强调“另有企图”或“用心不良”的某段时间内的行为，而“心术不正”则指人坏的品质。因此，偶尔“心怀叵测”的人倒不一定是个一贯“心术不正”的人。

有人曾用not have a good heart译之，但不如用not have the heart in the right place的表示法更符合口语习惯。此语直译为“心没长在正地方上”，即“心术不正”。

19[背后捅刀子]stab in the back我万万没有想到张某会在背后捅我一刀。我过去太信任她了。

I was taken aback and didn't think Zhang would stab me in the back I placed too much trust in her汉语中“背后捅刀子”、“暗下毒手”以及“脚底使绊”之类的概念在很多情况下都可用 stab somebody in the back的片语来表示。此语与汉语的“背后捅刀子”几乎是形合意切。

20[说某人的坏话〕badmouth somebody我从来没说过任何人的坏话。I've never badmouthed anyone“说人的坏话”在英语口语中有两种表示方法：一是speak evil of somebody， 二是badmouth somebody。

比较起来，后者更具口语色彩。

看看是不是这段~~嘿

Darcy: Miss Elizabeth I have struggled in vain and can bear it no longer These past months have been a torment I came to Rosings only to see you I have fought against judgement, my family's expectation,the inferiority of your birth, my rank I will put them aside and ask you to end my agony

Elizabeth: I don't understand

Darcy: I love youMost ardently Please do me the honour of accepting my hand

Elizabeth: Sir, I appreciate the struggle you have been through, and I am very sorry to have caused you pain It was unconsciously done

Darcy: Is this your reply

Elizabeth: Yes, sir

Darcy: Are you laughing at me

Elizabeth: No

Darcy: Are you rejecting me

Elizabeth: I'm sure the feelings which hindered your regard will help you overcome it

Darcy: Might I ask why with so little civility I am thus repulsed

Elizabeth: I might enquire why you told me you liked me against your better judgement If I was uncivil, then that is some excuse But you know I have other reasons

Darcy: What reasons

Elizabeth: Do you think anything might tempt me to accept the man who has ruined the happiness of a most beloved sister Do you deny that you separated a young couple who loved each other, exposing your friend to censure for caprice and my sister to derision for disappointed hopes, involving them both in acute misery

Darcy: I do not deny it

Elizabeth: How could you do it

Darcy: I believed your sister indifferent to him I realised his attachment was deeper than hers

Elizabeth: She's shy!

Darcy: Bingley was persuaded she didn't feel strongly

Elizabeth: You suggested it

Darcy: For his own good

Elizabeth: My sister hardly shows her true feelings to me I suppose his fortune had some bearing

Darcy: I wouldn't do your sister the dishonour It was suggested

Elizabeth: What was

Darcy: It was clear an advantageous marriage

Elizabeth: Did my sister give that impression

Darcy: No! No There was, however, your family

Elizabeth: Our want of connection

Darcy: No, it was more than that

Elizabeth: How, sir

Darcy: The lack of propriety shown by your mother, younger sisters and your father Forgive me You and your sister I must exclude from this

Elizabeth: And what about Mr Wickham

Darcy: Mr Wickham

Elizabeth: What excuse can you give for your behaviour

Darcy: You take an eager interest

Elizabeth: He told me of his misfortunes

Darcy: Oh, they have been great

Elizabeth: You ruin his chances yet treat him with sarcasm

Darcy: So this is your opinion of me Thank you Perhaps these offences might have been overlooked had not your pride been hurt

by my scruples about our relationship I am to rejoice in the inferiority of your circumstances

Elizabeth: And those are the words of a gentleman Your arrogance and conceit, your selfish disdain for the feelings of others made me realise you were the last man in the world I could ever marry

Darcy: Forgive me, madam, for taking up so much of your time

不得不说洛枳和淮南两个人吵架真的是太有看点太有趣了。我们正常人吵架，怎么会去飙英语呢？大部分的人英语都不是那么好。而且一个人在太急躁的状态下应该不会说英文吧，可见两个英文学霸的英语是有多好。我不知道这一段是哪一个编剧编出来的，但是我感觉她真的脑洞特别大。应该是想要给观众朋友们一点乐趣吧，我在看这一段表演的过程中非常想笑，虽然这部电视剧是拍的暗恋的故事，整体来说有一种悲伤的情绪，但是青春的痛能有多痛呢？一般都是从里面夹杂着一些欢乐的，所以还是有很多特别有趣的小情绪。

两个人在相处的过程中也非常开心，虽然偶尔会闹一些小别扭，但只要是真正的感情就好了。我们都知道洛枳从小的时候就对盛淮南有感情，一个人悄悄的暗恋了人家十多年的时间，在高中的时候就开始收集人家各种的相关爱好，在大学的时候正式付诸行动，得到了盛淮南的关注，但同时也是有目的的靠近盛淮南，所以还算是撒了一个谎，不过不管怎么样她的目的都是善意的，只是因为真的喜欢这个人才会靠近，没有其他很多的复杂的情绪。虽然中间有很多很多的误会，但是最终的结局还是比较好的。

我之前是看过暗恋橘生淮南的小说，当时是特别喜欢的，能够理解到女孩暗恋一个男生的心情，真的是爱的非常卑微，淮南靠近洛枳的时候是那么容易，但离开也是比较容易的，因为洛枳怎么能够留住一个心不在自己这里的人呢？如果对方接受不了欺骗的话，那么她一切的努力都化作泡影了。幸亏盛淮南的心里还是有洛枳的，所以两个人也走到了最后。

其实我比较喜欢洛枳生气的时候，不喜欢她一直卑微的求取爱情。反而两个人斗嘴的时候还是特别有趣的，有一次洛枳在电脑前面看东西，淮南就过来问了一句你怎么样了，然后洛枳就直接回怼了一句：关你屁事。哈哈，原来一个文科学霸也会说这样的话呀，本来还以为她就是一个文静又有水平的姑娘，说话都是那种小说的感觉，原来在自己喜欢的人的面前，这才是最本性的自己。这样的洛枳是不是还让人有一些小心动呢？

吵架可以用英语表达为：quarrel 或 argument

拓展：吵架是指两个或以上的人在情感、价值观、观念等问题上产生不同意见，进而发生口角或激烈争执的行为。吵架可能会导致情绪的急剧激动，从而产生愤怒、压抑等不良感觉。如果处理不当，吵架还可能会引发更严重的冲突，甚至导致伤害和损失。

吵架是人际交往中比较常见的一种现象，尤其是在亲密关系中，如夫妻、情侣、朋友等之间经常会因为一些琐碎之事而发生吵架。吵架可以是一种情感表达的方式，当一方对某些事情感到不满或者不理解时，他们可能会用狠话、抱怨的方式来表达自己的情感；另外，吵架也可以是改变别人态度的方式，有时候通过吵架能够促使对方改变自己的观点或者态度。

然而，吵架也会带来一些不良后果。首先，吵架会引起人们情绪上的波动，使人们无法正常地思考和理智地分析问题，这样就很难做出明智的决策。其次，如果吵架过于激烈，可能会伤害其他人的感情，甚至会导致关系的破裂。此外，吵架也容易引发其他问题，如焦虑、恐慌、抑郁等情绪和心理问题。

要避免吵架带来的负面后果，双方需要控制自己的情绪，不要用压抑、攻击的方式表达自己的想法，并且要试着站在对方的角度去理解他们的观点。在面对争执时，我们需要学会尊重和理解对方的想法，积极沟通和解决问题，而不是通过争吵来解决问题。

吵架

　讲英语难， 吵架更难。 虽说人在国外总是想尽办法以和为贵， 但要跟人家吵架怎么办？ 很多人一生气， 所有的英文都忘光了， 平常英文就说不出口， 更何况是吵架， 所以满脑子浮现的不是 Fxxx 就是 Sxxx 这样是很不好的。 我还听过有一个人很绝， 英文骂不过人家就用中文骂， 反正对方听得懂听不懂都无关紧要， 重要的是让他知道你很凶， 而且你正在骂他就行了。 这集还是让我们来看看一些比较文雅的骂人以及吵架的方式。

　1 I'm so fed up with your BS Cut the crap

　我受够了你的废话， 少说废话吧。

　美女 （美国的女人） 是不喜欢说 shit 这个不雅的字的， 所以她们就说 shoot， 或是 BS （=Bull shit） 来表示她们还是很有气质的。 “Cut your crap” 是当你听到对方废话连篇， 讲个不停时， 你就可以说， “Cut the crap” 相当于中文里的废话少话。

　2 Hey！ wise up！

　放聪明点好吗？

　当别人作了什么愚蠢的事时， 你可以说， “Don't be stupid” 或是 “Don't be silly” 但是这是非常不礼貌的说法。 比较客气一点的说法就是， wise up！ 它就相当于中文里的放聪明点。 你也可以用坚酸刻薄的语气说。 Wise up， please 然后故意把 please 的尾音拉得长长的。

　也有人会说， Hey！ grow up 意思就是你长大一点好不好？ 例如有人二十岁了却还不会自己补衣服， 你就可以说 Hey！ grow up 这根 wise up 是不是也差不多呢？

　3 Put up or shut up

　要吗你就去做， 不然就给我闭嘴。

　有些人就是出那张嘴， 只会出意见， 此时就可以说， Put up or shut up 要注意的是， Put up 字典上是查不到“自己去做” 的意思， 但是见怪不怪， 很多笔记本上的用法都是字典上查不到的。 比方说今天你在写程式， 有人明明不懂却喜欢在一旁指挥你， 这时候你就可以说， Put up or shut up

　有时为了要加强 shut up 的语气， 老美会把它说成， shut the fuck up 这句话常在二人火气很大时的对话中可以听到， 例如** The house on the haunted hill 女主角身陷鬼屋之中， 其它人又七嘴八舌时， 她就很生气地说了一句， shut the fuck up

　这句话也让我想到一句成语， walk the walk， talk the talk， 也就是说到就要作到， 有点像是中文里知行要合一的意思， 或是只说， walk the talk 也可以。

　4 You eat with that mouth？

　你是用这张嘴吃饭的吗？

　别人对你说脏话， 你就回敬他这一句， 言下之意， 就是你的嘴那么脏， 你还用这张嘴吃饭。 还有一种说法， “You kiss your Momma with that mouth？” 就是说你也是用这脏嘴亲你妈妈的吗？ 所以下次记得如果有老美对你说脏话， 记得不要再 Fxxx 回去， 保持风度， 说一句， “You eat with that mouth？” 就扯平了

　5 You are dead meat

　你死定了。

　我们说你完蛋了， 可以说 “You are dead” 或是像这样说 “You are dead meat” 意思都是一样的， 比如说你跟别人说过不淮碰我的东西， 但有人他就是老爱用你的东西， 下次要是再被你抓到， 你就可以说， “You are dead meat”

　6 Don't you dare！

　How dare you！

　你好大的胆子啊！

　这句话跟中文里 “你好大的胆子” 是一样， 可以在二种场合说， 第一种是很严肃的场合， 比如说小孩子很调皮， 讲又讲不听， 父母就会说， “Don't you dare！” 那意思就是这个小孩要当心点， 不然等会就要挨打了。 另一种场合是开玩笑， 比如有人跟你说我跟某网友约会去了， 你说 “Don't you dare？” 就有点开玩笑的语气。 （你不怕被恐龙给吃了吗？）

　Dare 在英文里还有许多有趣的用法， 例如， “You dare me” 或是 “I double dare you” 还有一种游戏叫 Truth or Dare， 限于篇幅， 容后再作介绍。

　7 Don't push me around

　不要摆布我。

　这个词很有意思， 把你推来推去， 作摆布解释， 如果有人指挥你一下作这个一下作那个， 你就可以用这一句 Hey！ Don't push me around 通常当我讲 “Don't push me around” 时， 我还会想到一个字 bossy Bossy 就是说像是老板一样， 喜欢指挥别人。 例如， “You are so bossy I don't like that”

　这句话也可以单讲， “Don't push me” 或是 “Don't push me any further” 还有一句根 push 有关的成语， 叫 push the button， 意思就是， 指使， 操纵。 例如， “I know why you are doing this， someone is pushing your button！”

　8 Are you raised in the barn？

　你是不是乡下长大的啊？

　这句话是形容一个人没教养， 但是是比较开玩笑的语气。 比如说有人坐没坐像， 你就可以对他说这一句。 Barn 原指　仓。 我翻成乡下比较能跟中文的意思结合。 老美常用 barn 或是 backyard 来形容一个人没有教养或是没有文化， 像是那天在电视上听到一句， “No backyard language in my house” 就是说， 在我的家里不准讲粗话。

　9 You want to step outside？

　You want to take this outside？

　你想要外面解决吗？

　老美跟我们一样， 要是二个人一言不合吵起来了， 可能就有人要说这一句了。 指的就是要不要出去打架啦。 还有一些我听过类似的用法， 例如， “Do you want to pick a fight？” 你要挑起争端吗？ 或是 “This means war” 这就意谓著跟我宣战。

　10 You and what army？

　You and who else？

　你和哪一路的人马啊？

　要是有人跟你说 “Do you want to step outside？”， 就回他这一句吧。 意思是说， 是喔…… 那你找了多少人马要来打架啊？ 有时候电视里出现这句对白的时候， 还会打出一排军队的计算机动画， 非常地有意思。

　还有一句话也很好玩， 叫 “Who's side are you on？” 这就是在快要打架时， 你问人家说， 你到底是站在哪一边的？