孩子跟别的小朋友吵架了，父母要如何解决？

孩子跟别人吵架了，父母该怎么办呢？其实小孩子在一起闹矛盾，甚至有时拍一下打一下也是很正常的，他们还小，不懂社会相处的规则，这时他们需要的是父母的教育而不是暴力回击。

父母对此最好的做法就是制止施暴方，控制住他的手然后眼神坚定地说这样不可以，对视一会他会松软的，毕竟孩子小不够跟大人对抗，也不需要再多讲长篇大论，他们也不太懂。

制止后再关心受暴方有没有受伤，通常安慰和拥抱一下就好了。如果两个冲突的孩子等下自己和好了，一切顺其自然，家长不用去干涉，这是他们的相处之道，在冲突中学会和好交往，是好事，大人不用去添加自己的评价，不用我们成人的那一套去破坏孩子的世界。

如果某个孩子总是施暴，要么父母就要带自己孩子回避，如果表现接纳也得小心留意孩子的互动，一旦有争端及时出手制止。因为有的孩子动手惯了，一时半会难改。再加上这样的孩子通常会有个暴力的家庭，会不讲理，那就只能惹不起躲得起，避而远之了。

1、如果遇着爱打人的家长：对没有素质的成年人，出面battle到底。

2、如果遇着爱打人的小朋友：让孩子跟他保持距离。

3、如果孩子被同龄人打了，不严重的话：家长在旁观察，最好让孩子先自行处理。事后家长再和孩子复盘事件和情绪。

4、如果孩子被同龄人打了，比较严重的话：家长介入，与对方孩子的家长沟通，尽量理性解决。

5、如果孩子被同龄人的父母打了：报警、出面battle到底。

6、如果孩子被比自己小的孩子打了（比如才2岁）：不管，孩子自己有能力管教小弟弟小妹妹。

I need to see you cry 我需要看见你哭泣

I wanna, I wanna see you cry 我想，我希望见你哭泣

Won't rest until I see you cry 在看见你哭泣之前我不会停止努力

Yeah I cry, I cry, I cry 是的，我哭泣，我哭泣

Had me convinced that I just wasn't enough, 我深信我作的努力是不够的，

Me and you fussing and fighting cursing all of that stuff, 我和 你在不断埋怨一切，我们在吵架

Now I know, that I might've done you wrong, 现在我知道了，我在做着你所做错的事

Didn't know I'd pay so long, 'til you did the same, 原来在你做同样事情之前，我已经付出了这么

I know I'd done you wrong I was making it up to you, 我知道我我犯了和你一样的错误，我成为了你

I apologised in a million ways but I thought that was that, 我用了无数种方式道歉，但是我想事实就是事实

But I guess you got me back,不过我猜想你会 回到我身边

Didn't know itd be like that, but you did the same不知道已经成为这样子了，但你也做了同样的

Now we're caught in a circle 现在，我们陷入了一个巨大的旋涡

A constant battle 一场没完没了的斗争

The day that u hurt me 你伤害我的那天

The clouds cast a shadow on us 云层在我们头上投下了阴影

And I hope that your happy we're even now, so cry baby cry 我希望你能像以往那样开心，所以，哭吧，宝贝，哭吧

Let me see you cry, cry, cry 让我看见你哭泣

I need to see you cry, cry, cry 我需要看见你哭泣

Until your tears run dry, dry, dry 直到眼泪流干了，干了，干了

Like the deserts need the rain 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want ya tears to fall down on me 希望眼泪

Cry, cry, cry 哭吧，哭吧，哭吧

I need to see you cry, cry, cry 我需要看见你哭泣

Until your tears run dry, dry, dry 直到眼泪流干，流干流干

Like the deserts need the rain 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want ya tears to fall down on me 希望眼泪流在我身上

Before the love just turns to hate, 在由爱变恨前，

Before I ask for you to stay, 在我请求你留下之前

And just before you walk away, yeah 在你离开之前

What is this What happens to relationships 这是什么？我们的关系怎么了？

Started off so good and ended up so bad开始时那么好，最终如此糟糕

Baby I just wanna know, 宝贝，我只是想知道

Ooh tell me do you know, baby 噢，告诉我你是否知道

Before we knew it we were at it again, 在知道我们在一次这样之前

No no no, somehow I don't think we can ever be friends, 不不不，不知道我们会不会永远是朋友。

Wish it wasn't so, wish it wasn't so, but you did the same 希望不是这样，希望不是这样，但是你成了我的朋友

Now we're caught in a circle现在，我们陷入了一个巨大的旋涡

A constant battle一场没完没了的斗争

The day that u hurt me你伤害我的那天

云层在我们头上投下了阴影

The clouds cast a shadow on us云层在我们头上投下了阴影

And I hope that your happy we're even now, so cry baby cry我希望你能像以往那样开心，所以，哭吧，宝贝，哭吧

Let me see you cry, cry, cry, 让我看见你哭泣，哭吧，哭吧

I need to see you cry, cry, cry, 我需要看见你哭泣，哭吧，哭吧

Until our tears run dry, dry, dry, 知道眼泪流干了，干了，干了

Like the deserts need the rain, 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want your tears to fall down on me, 希望你的眼泪流在我身上

Before the love just turns to hate, 在爱变成恨之前

Before I ask for you to stay, 在我请求你留下之前

And just before you walk away, yeah 在你离开之前

So we go on and on on this merry go round, 我们继续，快乐将会在我们身边

Trying to chase a love that can never be found, 努力去追寻一种永远不会被发现的爱

Time to say goodbye and step off of it now, 现在是时候说再见和出发了

It's over girl, it's over X2 一切都结束了，女孩，结束 了……

Let me see you cry, cry, cry, 让我看见你哭泣，哭吧，哭吧，哭吧

I need to see you cry, cry, cry, 我需要看见你哭泣。哭吧，哭吧

Until your tears run dry, dry, dry, 知道眼泪流干，干了，干了

Like the deserts need the rain, 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want your tears to fall down on me X2 希望你的眼泪能留在我身上

Speaking-

I need to see you cry 我需要看见你哭泣

I wanna, I wanna see you cry 我想，我希望看见你哭泣

Won't rest until I see you cry 在你哭泣之前我不会停止努力

Yeah I cry, I cry, I cry是的，我哭泣，哭了，哭了。

I need to see you cry 我需要看见你哭泣

I wanna, I wanna see you cry 我想，我希望见你哭泣

Won't rest until I see you cry 在看见你哭泣之前我不会停止努力

Yeah I cry, I cry, I cry 是的，我哭泣，我哭泣

Had me convinced that I just wasn't enough, 我深信我作的努力是不够的，

Me and you fussing and fighting cursing all of that stuff, 我和 你在不断埋怨一切，我们在吵架

Now I know, that I might've done you wrong, 现在我知道了，我在做着你所做错的事

Didn't know I'd pay so long, 'til you did the same, 原来在你做同样事情之前，我已经付出了这么

I know I'd done you wrong I was making it up to you, 我知道我我犯了和你一样的错误，我成为了你

I apologised in a million ways but I thought that was that, 我用了无数种方式道歉，但是我想事实就是事实

But I guess you got me back,不过我猜想你会 回到我身边

Didn't know itd be like that, but you did the same不知道已经成为这样子了，但你也做了同样的

Now we're caught in a circle 现在，我们陷入了一个巨大的旋涡

A constant battle 一场没完没了的斗争

The day that u hurt me 你伤害我的那天

The clouds cast a shadow on us 云层在我们头上投下了阴影

And I hope that your happy we're even now, so cry baby cry 我希望你能像以往那样开心，所以，哭吧，宝贝，哭吧

Let me see you cry, cry, cry 让我看见你哭泣

I need to see you cry, cry, cry 我需要看见你哭泣

Until your tears run dry, dry, dry 直到眼泪流干了，干了，干了

Like the deserts need the rain 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want ya tears to fall down on me 希望眼泪

Cry, cry, cry 哭吧，哭吧，哭吧

I need to see you cry, cry, cry 我需要看见你哭泣

Until your tears run dry, dry, dry 直到眼泪流干，流干流干

Like the deserts need the rain 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want ya tears to fall down on me 希望眼泪流在我身上

Before the love just turns to hate, 在由爱变恨前，

Before I ask for you to stay, 在我请求你留下之前

And just before you walk away, yeah 在你离开之前

What is this What happens to relationships 这是什么？我们的关系怎么了？

Started off so good and ended up so bad开始时那么好，最终如此糟糕

Baby I just wanna know, 宝贝，我只是想知道

Ooh tell me do you know, baby 噢，告诉我你是否知道

Before we knew it we were at it again, 在知道我们在一次这样之前

No no no, somehow I don't think we can ever be friends, 不不不，不知道我们会不会永远是朋友。

Wish it wasn't so, wish it wasn't so, but you did the same 希望不是这样，希望不是这样，但是你成了我的朋友

Now we're caught in a circle现在，我们陷入了一个巨大的旋涡

A constant battle一场没完没了的斗争

The day that u hurt me你伤害我的那天

云层在我们头上投下了阴影

The clouds cast a shadow on us云层在我们头上投下了阴影

And I hope that your happy we're even now, so cry baby cry我希望你能像以往那样开心，所以，哭吧，宝贝，哭吧

Let me see you cry, cry, cry, 让我看见你哭泣，哭吧，哭吧

I need to see you cry, cry, cry, 我需要看见你哭泣，哭吧，哭吧

Until our tears run dry, dry, dry, 知道眼泪流干了，干了，干了

Like the deserts need the rain, 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want your tears to fall down on me, 希望你的眼泪流在我身上

Before the love just turns to hate, 在爱变成恨之前

Before I ask for you to stay, 在我请求你留下之前

And just before you walk away, yeah 在你离开之前

So we go on and on on this merry go round, 我们继续，快乐将会在我们身边

Trying to chase a love that can never be found, 努力去追寻一种永远不会被发现的爱

Time to say goodbye and step off of it now, 现在是时候说再见和出发了

It's over girl, it's over X2 一切都结束了，女孩，结束 了……

Let me see you cry, cry, cry, 让我看见你哭泣，哭吧，哭吧，哭吧

I need to see you cry, cry, cry, 我需要看见你哭泣。哭吧，哭吧

Until your tears run dry, dry, dry, 知道眼泪流干，干了，干了

Like the deserts need the rain, 就像沙漠需要雨水

Want your tears to fall down on me X2 希望你的眼泪能留在我身上

Speaking-

I need to see you cry 我需要看见你哭泣

I wanna, I wanna see you cry 我想，我希望看见你哭泣

Won't rest until I see you cry 在你哭泣之前我不会停止努力

Yeah I cry, I cry, I cry是的，我哭泣，哭了，哭了。