生气或吵架时，哪些英文话不该脱口而出？

当一个人正在气头上时，他/她可能会口不择言，脱口而出一些伤人的话。在英文里，有些句型在吵架时也带有指责意味，反而可能更加恶化两人的关系。

Go Natural English的讲师Gabby Wallace提出了两个在吵架时不应该使用的句型，与两个可以用来取代的句型。她希望任何人在吵架时都能试着保持理智，并用平和的语气、不过度情绪化的说词来沟通喔！

1 Two phrases to avoid 两个该避免的句型

(1) You always / never Eg You have always been so selfish 你总是这么自私。 eg You never care about me! 你从不在乎我！

(2) If you really…, you will… eg If you really love me, you will buy the purse for me 如果你真的爱我，你就会买那只皮包给我。

2 Two suggestions to say instead 两个建议的句型

(1) I’m upset that…… eg I’m upset that we didn’t meet the deadline 我对于我们没有在时限内完成感到沮丧。 eg I’m upset that you didn’t take care of the dirty dishes 我对于你没有洗完这些碗盘感到不高兴。

(2) I feel like…… eg I feel like we should work harder 我觉得我们应该更努力。

always, anger, angry, feel like, fight, never, upset, 吵架 英文, 英文 吵架

吵架可以用英语表达为：quarrel 或 argument

拓展：吵架是指两个或以上的人在情感、价值观、观念等问题上产生不同意见，进而发生口角或激烈争执的行为。吵架可能会导致情绪的急剧激动，从而产生愤怒、压抑等不良感觉。如果处理不当，吵架还可能会引发更严重的冲突，甚至导致伤害和损失。

吵架是人际交往中比较常见的一种现象，尤其是在亲密关系中，如夫妻、情侣、朋友等之间经常会因为一些琐碎之事而发生吵架。吵架可以是一种情感表达的方式，当一方对某些事情感到不满或者不理解时，他们可能会用狠话、抱怨的方式来表达自己的情感；另外，吵架也可以是改变别人态度的方式，有时候通过吵架能够促使对方改变自己的观点或者态度。

然而，吵架也会带来一些不良后果。首先，吵架会引起人们情绪上的波动，使人们无法正常地思考和理智地分析问题，这样就很难做出明智的决策。其次，如果吵架过于激烈，可能会伤害其他人的感情，甚至会导致关系的破裂。此外，吵架也容易引发其他问题，如焦虑、恐慌、抑郁等情绪和心理问题。

要避免吵架带来的负面后果，双方需要控制自己的情绪，不要用压抑、攻击的方式表达自己的想法，并且要试着站在对方的角度去理解他们的观点。在面对争执时，我们需要学会尊重和理解对方的想法，积极沟通和解决问题，而不是通过争吵来解决问题。

quarrel

quarrel 1

AHD:[kwôr“…l, kw¼r“-]

DJ[6kw%8rl, 6kw%r-]

KK[6kw%rl, 6kw$r-]

n（名词）

An angry dispute; an altercation

争吵：怒气冲冲的争辨；口角

A cause of a dispute or an argument:

争吵或争论的原因：

We have no quarrel with the findings of the committee

我们对委员会的判决没有任何怨言

vintr（不及物动词）

quarreled或 quarrelled quarreling或 quarrelling quarrels或 quarrels

To engage in a quarrel; dispute angrilySee Synonyms at argue

争吵：进行争辩；愤怒地争吵参见 argue

To disagree; differ:

不同意；不和：

I quarrel with your conclusions

我不同意你的结论

To find fault; complain

挑剔；抱怨

Middle English querele

中古英语 querele

from Old French [complaint]

源自 古法语 [牢骚]

from Latin querella, quer¶a

源自 拉丁语 querella, quer¶a

from querº} [to complain] see kwes-

源自 querº} [抱怨] 参见 kwes-

quar“reler 或

quar“reller

n（名词）

quarrel

quarrel 2

AHD:[kwôr“…l, kw¼r“-]

DJ[6kw%8rl, 6kw%r-]

KK[6kw%rl, 6kw$r-]

n（名词）

A bolt for a crossbow

四角箭：用于十字弓的一种弩箭

A tool, such as a stonemason's chisel, that has a squared head

凿子：有一方头的工具，如石匠用的凿子

A small diamond-shaped or square pane of glass in a latticed window

菱形玻璃板：花格窗上菱形或正方形方框的小玻璃

Middle English quarel

中古英语 quarel

from Old French

源自 古法语

from Vulgar Latin quadrellus

源自 俗拉丁语 quadrellus

diminutive of Late Latin quadrus [square]

后期拉丁语 quadrus的小后缀 [正方形]

from Latin quadrum see k wetwer-

源自 拉丁语 quadrum 参见 k wetwer-

quarrel

[5kwRrEl; (@) 5kwC:rEl]

n

争论；争辩；口角

We had a quarrel about money

我们就钱的问题争吵起来。

争吵的理由；争论的原因

He has no quarrel with us

他没有理由和我们争论。

quarrel

vi

-ll-; (AmE) -l-

争吵；争辩；口角

Those children are always quarrelling over little things

那些孩子们总是为小事而争吵。

quarrel with

抱怨；不同意

quarrel

中古英语 quarel〈古法语 querele〈拉丁语 querela 埋怨

quarrel with sb about sth= argue with sb about sth因为某件事与某人争吵。

二者都有“辩论，争吵，说理”之意，主要区别如下：

argue指提出理由或证据为自己或自己一方的看法或立场辩护，侧重于说理、论证和企图说服。

quarrel指两人之间不友好的、吵吵嚷嚷地大声争论某事，主要指“吵嘴、吵架”。

英语学习方法

1、英语基础

要想学好高三英语，英语基础是必须学好的，英语基础没有想象中的那么难，不管是单词还是句型、语法。

在高三复习的第一轮复习中，关于复习系会和语言点，一定要注意听，哪怕是一节课掌握几个短语也行，至于课后就自己拿起高中英语书，从单词背起，考英语一定要有词汇基础，否则什么都是白搭。

2、词典不离手

当在学习高三英语的时候，遇到不会的单词就要查，看到相近的单词分不清也得查明白，不要求自己一遍记住，就看一看给自己一个印象，大概一个单词你查五遍的时候就能记住了。

另外，一定要看英文解释！这个是避免完形填空选项中英语翻译发生歧义很有用的方法，希望能够帮助到大家。

　　当我们与同学，朋友吵架的时候应该怎么办呢大家不妨写一篇英语作文说一下你的看法吧。下面是我推荐给大家的和同学吵架的英语作文，供大家参考。

和同学吵架的英语作文篇一

　I had a big argument with my good friend yesterday because of the baseball teamsDuring the break time,we argument about which team is the best in the league big

　I thought it is yangqi and he thought it is redsocksAfter the argument,he went of to say goodbye to me and close the door loudlyI was so angry with him

　Then he still didn't talk to me during the next break timeHe didn't even look at meI started to feel sad because he is my best friend

　When it was time to go home I asked him if he wanted to go with me as usualHe looked at me with a strange look and still turned awayBut this time,he did say goodbye to me quietly

　In the end,while I was watching TV the phone ringIt was him and he said he was sorry about what he did,he felt childish

　I said never mind we are still good friendsNow I feel much better I hope we won't argument any more

和同学吵架的英语作文篇二

　Weeks ago I witnessed the quarrel between my two roommates It shocked me the two good friends fired out just for a very trifling matter

　It was in the morning at weekend when I was washing my face in the bathroom Suddenly I heard Ann and Sue shouting at each other

　I hurried to come out to see what happened It turned out that the noise of Sue’s closing the door waked Ann, whose bed is just beside the door Ann thought Sue deliberately closed the door heavily

　Sue didn’t have made her fault and said Ann was making trouble out of nothing So their argument became ambits of quarrel

　Though later they stopped quarreling under our persuasion, neither of them would like apologize to the other

　Such a quarrel leaves me to think a lot about dormitory harmony If either Ann or Sue can be a little tolerant or take a better way to express herself, this quarrel, I think, can be avoided easily

　It is no doubt that a harmony dormitory life benefits all the members But it needs our common efforts to build it

和同学吵架的英语作文篇三

　The other week I had a bitter quarrel with one of my roommates Six of us live in small room about eight square meters, desperate for more space

　Weeks ago, one of my roommates brought in a very large suitcase and placed it under her bed, but days later she (he) found something wrong with her (his) suitcase As we live on the ground floor, her case soon got wet

　She took it out and, after drying it up, she/he just put it on her desk because she had no other choices

　I happened to be opposite her desk and her suitcase was so large that it not only occupied the whole of her desk but half of mine as well I was very much annoyed, so I angrily pushed it forward without first talking to her about it

　I pushed a bit too hard and the case fell off her desk, messing up everything it contained On seeing this, she flew into a temper and angrily shouted at me

　The quarrel started and lasted about two hours

　When I calmed down days later, I thought over the quarrel and began to see something I should have talked to her about it first and then worked with her to find a solution to the problem

　Living in a room with limited space, we should learn to get on well with one another

和同学吵架的英语作文其他推荐：

1 抱怨信英语作文模版

2 描写同学的初中英语作文

3 school life英语作文带翻译

4 英语四级作文:印象最深的大学同学

5 英语介绍朋友作文50词 带翻译

我和我最好的朋友吵架了英语是：I had a fight with my best friend。

我翻译为I，表示第一人称。

和翻译为with，表示两个人或物之间的联合。

我最好的朋友翻译为my best friend，表示是最好的朋友。

吵架翻译为had a fight，表示两个人因为某种原因争吵或争执。

因此，我和我最好的朋友吵架了翻译为I had a fight with my best friend。

学习英语的方法

学习英语基础：首先学习英语的基础知识，包括语法，词汇和发音。

学习英语的日常用语：学习一些常用的英语语句，可以帮助你更好地理解和运用英语。

阅读英语资料并听英文歌曲或**或电视节目：通过阅读英语书籍，杂志或文章，你可以提高你的词汇量，并加强你的阅读理解能力。同样，听英文歌曲或**或电视节目可以帮助你练习听力和口语。

练习英语口语：与英语母语者或其他学习者练习英语口语，可以帮助你提高口语表达能力，加强听力和语音发音。

制定学习计划：根据自己的学习进度和目标制定一个学习计划并坚持下去。

我要和父母沟通，反思谁对谁错，找到解决的办法来化解矛盾，真诚向他们道歉。下次不要犯这样的错误了。我们互相谅解尊重，每天都温馨快乐。爸爸妈妈，好吗 这样可以

　　和父母吵架了怎么解决英语作文篇2

　　When you have quarrels with your parents, the best way for you to appease the situation is to force yourself to concede Parents have undergone far more experiences in life than you do; therefore, it is invariably the case that you are the one who turns out to be wrong Bravely admit your faults and actively pursue ways to harmonize the atmosphere, and all the family members will live together in harmony again

　　和父母吵架了怎么解决英语作文篇3

　　"You quarrel and then, if I do not do their homework in!" I roared forward, homeopathy should still be done plot mode squeezed a few drops of tears Oh, this mode is really useful, Mom and Dad hurriedly said: "okay, okay, we do not quarrel, and you hurry to do work there" I said: "Then you have to do that we three together Gogo little finger, and deceptive is a dog," said, we all laughed

　　I remember once at home, I was doing homework, I suddenly heard voices outside the quarrel was originally my father and mother, where they are to a minor quarrel At that time I may Huang Leshen, ran out when the Quanjia messenger , Said: "Mom and Dad Yeah, on the 1st marital day-yan, a total of ten years of cultivation bed pillow, you have a husband and wife pull fourteen years, how the tragedy are still here to go" Result was that I had one father said: "Here you do not, ah Guaier Zi to the house to do work," the mother is also next to the perfunctory No I can not make this a fight the spread of smoke and then continues, there is no way in I had to use my stream of killer

　　和父母吵架了怎么解决英语作文篇4

　　Teenager is at the sensible age, on the one hand, they are not mature enough, on the other hand, they are very bolshy, they don’t listen to what their parent tell them, they will go against parents So teenager always have argument with their parents, it hurts so much, parents have to deal with such situation

　　青少年处于一个敏感的年纪，一方面，他们还不够成熟，另一方面，他们很反叛，不听父母的话，和父母作对。所以青少年总是和父母争吵，这很受伤，父母不得不处理这样的情况。

　　As a teenager, they want to chase for freedom, they are at the age of pursing individualism They want to show that they are mature enough, they can make their own decision While as parents, they watch their kids all their life, they haven’t realized that their kids are already mature enough, so they always treat their children as the small one, making every decision for them That is why the conflict comes, the only way to solve it is to understand each other

　　作为青少年，他们追求自由，他们处在追求个性的年纪。他们想要展示自己的成熟，可以自己做决定。然而对父母来说，他们一生都在看着孩子，还没有意识到孩子已经成熟了，所以他们总是把孩子当小孩子看待，替孩子做一切的决定。这就是矛盾的来源，唯一的解决方法就是彼此理解。

　　For parents, they must have the though that the kids are growing up, they are no more the small ones, they should learn to let them go For teenagers, they should have a good talk with their parents, trying to explain and show the courage they have They should not be angry with parents, to find a better to solve argument

　　对于父母来说，他们必须意识到孩子已经长大，不再是小孩子，他们应该学会放手。对于青少年来说，应该和父母好好谈谈，试着解释和展示自己的勇气。他们不应该生父母的气，找到觉得争端的更好解决方法。

　　Though teenagers are at the sensible age, there is always a way to find the solution about the argument The better understanding between parents and teenagers is the key point

　　虽然青少年处于敏感的年纪，但是总是会有解决争端的好方法。父母和青少年之间的理解是最重要的点。