孩子和父母吵架给他一些建议的英语作文

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汤姆你不应该和你的父母吵架他们有时候做的事情都是为了你好,可怜天下父母心,做父母的都希望自己的孩子能快乐成长你父母有时候说你也是为了你好,你不应该和他们吵架,应该理解他们）

　　Avoid Misunderstanding

"Why do they keep misunderstanding me" We often hear people complainMisunderstanding seems to be one of the most disturbing issues in interpersonal relationshipsWe often see how it undermines the harmonious relationships between people

Several factors contribute to misunderstandingFirst,people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectives in interpreting one behaviorSecond,the language we use as a vehicle of conveying thought can be ambiguous,and various ways of decoding (解码) words may result in barriers in communicationThird,misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trustIf you have prejudice (偏见) against someone,whatever he says may sound iii intentioned to you

Having gone so far in the exploration of the causes of misunderstanding,we can easily arrive at the ways to avoid themFirstly,we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among peopleSecondly,we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language,avoiding misleading wordsThirdly,we should be constructive and patient in dealing with peopleIf we try hard enough,there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world

If this is your best friend's words Jiugen him to explain to the contrary,if it is not very important person,would not have had

（2）Because it explains also no use,but people think you have problems

In fact,a person's life there are many things you do will be misunderstood

My friend Fleur had an argument with her parents yesterday since her parents did not allow her to watch the midnight shift of the movie Their parents insisted that watching midnight movie will affect her sleeping schedule and health But Fleur argued that she has grown up already and does not need her parent to tell her what to do and what not to do

I told Fleur that I can totally understand her objection to the parental control Teenagers like us are often disobedient to their parents And it is also true that a single visit to a midnight movie will not cause grave health problem However, we should also understand that her parents stopped her to go to movie out of their love to their child They try to protect her from any potential danger that a midnight movie incurs So I made my suggestion to her that if she really wants to go, she can certainly try to have a nice conversation with her parents, telling them that she is going with her friends, along with the reassurance that she will not go to midnight movie frequently She can also leave her friends' phone number to her parents in case that they cannot contact with her

Everyone should have a life down on feelings - Thanksgiving, we have Thanksgiving life, family Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving life, the community Thanksgiving

If, like me to choose my first Thanksgiving to the parents They let me come to this colorful world during the 16 years, my parents gave me much love When I was yong,they took care of me carefully When I failed the eaxm ,they often encouraged me ,they asked me not to give up ,so I stuied very hard I made great progress thanks to my parents ,I can grow up happily

Parents' love are great !

Thanksgiving heart of life is better, life is like a piece of white paper, with the heart of Thanksgiving, this paper will be pink Thanksgiving embrace of life, the background paper is also pink, and will have a better life

If today is my last day of life, we are the first thing to do is to return education to take care of me my parents! "The water-en, when the springs of newspaper" Parents not to mention the efforts we have not just "drop", but a vast ocean

Thanksgiving, although it is an act of the verb, but it needs more action, more importantly, needs to be done in good faith To put it simply, Thanksgiving is gratitude, gratitude from the heart

does it feel like you and your parents just can't see eye to eyelare you always fighting with them about your lifeis all the arguing and butting2 heads (主要部分,要点) stressing you outfollow these steps to find some peacehere's how:

1make a list of the things that you and your parents fight about the most

2identify(确定) what it is that gets you so upset or angry--are you mad that your parents disagree with you,or are you upset that they can't/won't see your point of view3

3decide on a fair compromise (和解,妥协)--a resolution (解决)that you can live with and that you think your parents' will acceptnote:a compromise means you give up some of your demands--it does not mean that you get your way4

4set up a time to talk to your parents,do not just bring it up over dinner but make an actual ap- pointment and tell them that you have an important proposal(提议,建议) to make

5bring your notes with you to the meeting so you can stay on track if/when emmotions get highyou may even want to consider reading the note to your parents like a speech

6before talking to your parents,take a few deep breaths and think calming thoughtsmake a promise to yourself that you will not raise your voice or get angry even if your parents "turn up the volume"

7when you have presented your case(实情,情况)take another deep breath and let your parents talkreally listen to what your parents have to sayeven if you do not like what they are saying hold back your anger and keep your ears and mind open

8avoid shutting down or growing frustrated5avoid interrupting them or jumping in with a rebuttal(反驳)just listen and absorb what they say

9if your parents reject your proposal,stay focused and avoid getting emmotional (情绪激动的)thank them for their time and express your disappointmentthatyoucouldnotreacha compromise

10if your parents accept your proposal,be grateful and assure them that you will not let them downthen do everything necessary to show them they made the right decision in going along6 with you

11whatever the outcome,besure to do what your parents ask of youby going along with their wishes you build trust and show your maturity(成熟) which in turn may make them more willing to relax their stand at a future date

12if the topic is a very sensitive one and you still can't see eye to eye,ask your parents what they need from you in order for them to consider your proposal

13make a vow(誓言,誓约) to give them what they need and ask them if you can agree to revisit the subject in a few weeks time

14if the outcome disappoints you,do not throw a fit7go to your room and write your feelings in a journal or go outside and ride your bike or punch(猛击) a pillow to blow off steam8

你是否感到和父母的意见不能完全一致你是否在生活方面经常和父母发生争执所有这些争执和冲突是否都让你感到有压力试试下面的方法,来找寻一些安宁

This is the first time I communicate with you in this special way

You know I am a person who likes travelling and I want to go to Canada this summer holiday But neither of you allow me to do so In my point of view, I think after having the final exam, it is quite necessary for me to relax myself and to release the pressure from studying And this is a good chance for me to practise speaking English and French with local people as well I am old enough to take care of myself well as a sixteen-year-old girl Going abroad can also widen my view in order to have more experiences

Please understand me, my dear parents I won't make you disappointed if I go to Canada I will improve my spoken English and learn more about the culture of Canada