快要结婚了，可是总是为了钱而吵架。

你好，快要结婚了，却总是为了钱而吵架，说明你们两人感情很好，但经济上肯定不是很宽裕。

那么具体为了什么事情吵架就很重要了，只有明白两个人为了钱吵架的矛盾点，才能解决你们之间的问题。

你可以疏理一下每次吵架的原因。是因为钱不够花，还是因为钱没有花在原计划上面，临时增加了多余的不必要的开支。

如果是前者，那么就要从两个方面来解决，开源节流；如果是后者，那么就要改变一下购物的习惯，既然没有计划，那么说明是不需要的。

知道了吵架的原因，相信以后碰到这类的事情，你肯定会先想一想要怎么做才更好，两个人自然不会再为了钱吵架。

结婚英文为marry。

1、marry用法：

（1）marry sb跟某人结婚。

（2）get married secretly；steal a marriage秘密结婚。

（3）marry for love/money为爱情/金钱而结婚。

（4）contemplate marriage打算结婚。

（5）register for marriage登记结婚。

2、marry短语：

（1）get hitched（幸福牵手）。

hitch本意是指车辆后的拖钩，用get hitched表示两个人从此牵在了一起。

（2）tie the knot（永结同心）。

据说是因为婚床上的'帐子必须用打结的绳子才能支起来。

（3）walk down the aisle（步上红毯）。

aisle是指婚礼礼堂宾客之间的走廊，走过这段就到了举行仪式的地方。

marry例句：

1、他看上了谁就可以和谁结婚。

He was free to marry whomever he chose

2、许多人情愿不结婚。

Many people choose not to marry

3、即使他们很快就结婚，我也不会感到意外。

It wouldn't surprise me if they got married soon

4、不要为结婚而结婚。

Don't get married just for the sake of it

5、要是你们彼此相爱，干吗不结婚呢？

If you love each other, why not get married

    两个年轻的人在一起相知相爱，毕竟也要走进婚姻殿堂，但是在结婚之前会有很多问题困扰着小两口，比如最重要的就是经济问题，虽然说感情是最重要的东西，但是在金钱面前，人们似乎将感情看得很淡，如果在准备结婚的时候，做个因为钱的问题产生了小矛盾，应该将这个矛盾尽快解决，不能再遗留到婚姻中，如果现在不能够将问题解决，对婚姻来说就是一个定时炸弹，哪怕现在解决的结果是两个人分开，也要比结了婚之后再因为钱的问题吵架要好的多。

    至于解决办法，其实也很简单，首先你们两个人要面对面的谈清楚这个问题，既然决定要共度余生，想要白头偕老，那么就应该愿意为对方做出一点点退步，如果两个人都能够做到退步的话，也许之前的问题就很容易解决。

    但是要注意，在你们两个人谈之前，千万不要将这件事惊动父母，一方面父母参与进来，可能会让结果越来越糟，因为他们的想法可能和我们有很大的差别，会导致解决起来非常困难，另一方面，每一个父母都会向着自己的孩子，根本就不会客观的判断问题。

    不知道你是因为什么钱都产生了矛盾，如果是在买房子方面，我个人建议男方最好能够多出一些钱，其实在现在的农村基本都是男方来出买房子的钱，但是如果经济条件有限的话，也可以先付首付，然后两个人第一次努力再继续还贷款，而女性也不要在这个时候计较谁拿的钱多，谁拿的钱少，你们的未来是掌握在你们两个人手里，只有心往一处使，才能做到齐心协力，白头偕老。

    也许你们是因为存款方面的问题，女性在存钱方面智商可以说比男性要高得多，他们懂得怎样去打理钱财，也知道买什么样的理财产品，或者是选择哪一个银行能够利息高一些，所以如果是因为存钱产生的矛盾，建议还是男性多听一下女性的意见，两个人在没有矛盾的基础上进行精细的存款，才是最大的效益。

    如果在解决过程中，还是会有很多的问题出现，建议男性拿出自己的责任和担当，女性拿出自己的贤惠和淑德，都把最原始的初心放在前面，在一起不是为了钱，而是为了能够幸福，小吵小闹是生活中经常出现的，但是在这些小问题中，能够做到为对方考虑，其实还是比较困难的，也许这是你们婚前的一个小考验，需要你们真心的为彼此考虑，勿忘初心。

IS marriage unnecessary

Of course marriage is unnecessary It's a choice that some couples make because that was the traditional way in our culture that they could publicly declare their love or that they were 'off the market' Hollywood hasn't helped much by romanticising everything by implying that marriage is what people who love each other do to achieve the 'happily ever after'

All committed relationships take work and effort to keep them going It's only a lucky few that survive the test of time pleasurably without having to make an effort Marriage is just an expensive way to say that you're willing to make that effort

Whether you're for it or against it, marriage is not necessary

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Should College Students Be Allowed to Get Married

(1)

There is no denying the fact that it is a hotly debated topic today whether college students should be allowed to get married Some time ago, the ban was lifted by some universities on students getting married To this people’s attitudes differ sharply Some hold the positive view They say that most college students are adults and that it is a basic right for those who have reached the appropriate ages to get married Besides, they argue that with their biological and emotional needs met, these students will study better The ban on this means a severe violation of human rights

Many others, however, hold the negative opposite view They claim that the university or college is a place to study instead of a community to lead family life Allowing college students to get married would adversely affect their study For instance, they would spend too much time attending their family and love, unable to concentrate on their school work

As far as I am concerned, Weighing the arguments of both sides, I believe that college students should not be allowed to get married Though mostly adults, they are actually immature psychologically Their wishes to get married are, more often than not, impulses Besides, as students, they are not ready to support a family financially

（2）

According to the newly revised Chinese Marriage Law, undergraduates are entitled to the right to get married Many people are against this revised item since they are worried that this may disturb their pure campus life and exert negative effects on undergraduate students However, I firmly hold that undergraduates should be allowed to get married

According to Chinese Marriage Law, women are endowed with the right to get married as long as they reach20, and men 22 But the law did not apply to undergraduates for quite a long time Why could an adult undergraduate enjoy the legal right of being educated but had to be deprived of the right to get married Isn’t the latter an equally fundamental human right as the former

Second, undergraduates should not be excluded from marriage for the simple reason, as many claim, that they need to concentrate on academic study Having higher education is only one aspect of a person’s life Love and marriage, as one important lesson of life course, should be learned sooner or later Actually, more often than not, true love can kindle enthusiasm of life, and may motivate the student couples to strive for their common bright future

Meanwhile, many people say that, college students are not mature enough to maintain a successful marriage On one hand, they only tell half the truth The whole truth is that few are mature enough to handle such a delicate and unpredictable relationship On the other hand, undergraduates should not be seen as naïve children

Nowadays, our government aims at promoting a human-oriented and harmonious society So our mind should also be updated to keep pace with the rapidly developing world To give the undergraduates legal permission to get married is just a case in point that indicates the awakened respect for individuals’ human rights and the diversity of life course

（3）

As for me, I surely side with the opinion that undergraduates are entitled to the right to get married And the major reason is that college students are adults with free wills and initiatives, and we are mature enough to be responsible for our choices We are no different from those who graduated from high school and got married at an early age Be it the permission from Marriage Law or forbiddance from school regulations, these are nothing but objective conditions created to protect younger generation and guide them to the right path Actually, as a college student, the problems we are facing are how to earn some bread and how to achieve further development In many cases, we are afraid to make commitments because we cannot make a living or guarantee the future yet In this sense, if you are able to ensure a bright future, if you can enjoy long-lasting happiness, say, you have started a company of your own or two of you are designated to stay in the university after graduation as faculty members, what’s the problem with getting married