2014高考英语作文：大学生结婚好吗？

Many years ago, it was illegal for college students to get married, because the law declaimed it, it was believed that college students were not suitable to get married But now, the law has changed a few years ago, considering the teenagers gets mature earlier in the modern world, the law has changed the legal age to get married So the college students can marry today, though the law admits college students to come to marriage, I think they are not suitable to go that far First, the main duty of college students is to study, they should focus on their study, marriage will distract them I advise college students to keep the love relationship, they can enter the marriage when they are working Second, college students are not mature enough Marriage means duty, most students are just getting independent, they have a lot of things to learn College student should not rush to the marriage, they finish their study first 很多年前，对于大学生来说，结婚是不合法的，因为法律不允许，大家都认为大学生不适合结婚。但是现在，随着几年前法律的改变，考虑到青少年在现代变得日益早熟，法律更改了结婚的合法年龄。因此大学生今天可以结婚，虽然法律允许大学生踏进婚姻，我认为他们还不适宜走进婚姻。第一，大学生的主要任务是学习，他们应该专心学习，婚姻会让他们分心。我建议大学生保持恋爱关系，他们可以工作后结婚。第二，大学生还不足够成熟。婚姻意味着责任，大部分学生才刚刚独立，他们还有很多东西要学习。大学生不应该急着结婚，他们要先完成学习任务。

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Should College Students Be Allowed to Get Married

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There is no denying the fact that it is a hotly debated topic today whether college students should be allowed to get married Some time ago, the ban was lifted by some universities on students getting married To this people’s attitudes differ sharply Some hold the positive view They say that most college students are adults and that it is a basic right for those who have reached the appropriate ages to get married Besides, they argue that with their biological and emotional needs met, these students will study better The ban on this means a severe violation of human rights

Many others, however, hold the negative opposite view They claim that the university or college is a place to study instead of a community to lead family life Allowing college students to get married would adversely affect their study For instance, they would spend too much time attending their family and love, unable to concentrate on their school work

As far as I am concerned, Weighing the arguments of both sides, I believe that college students should not be allowed to get married Though mostly adults, they are actually immature psychologically Their wishes to get married are, more often than not, impulses Besides, as students, they are not ready to support a family financially

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According to the newly revised Chinese Marriage Law, undergraduates are entitled to the right to get married Many people are against this revised item since they are worried that this may disturb their pure campus life and exert negative effects on undergraduate students However, I firmly hold that undergraduates should be allowed to get married

According to Chinese Marriage Law, women are endowed with the right to get married as long as they reach20, and men 22 But the law did not apply to undergraduates for quite a long time Why could an adult undergraduate enjoy the legal right of being educated but had to be deprived of the right to get married Isn’t the latter an equally fundamental human right as the former

Second, undergraduates should not be excluded from marriage for the simple reason, as many claim, that they need to concentrate on academic study Having higher education is only one aspect of a person’s life Love and marriage, as one important lesson of life course, should be learned sooner or later Actually, more often than not, true love can kindle enthusiasm of life, and may motivate the student couples to strive for their common bright future

Meanwhile, many people say that, college students are not mature enough to maintain a successful marriage On one hand, they only tell half the truth The whole truth is that few are mature enough to handle such a delicate and unpredictable relationship On the other hand, undergraduates should not be seen as naïve children

Nowadays, our government aims at promoting a human-oriented and harmonious society So our mind should also be updated to keep pace with the rapidly developing world To give the undergraduates legal permission to get married is just a case in point that indicates the awakened respect for individuals’ human rights and the diversity of life course

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As for me, I surely side with the opinion that undergraduates are entitled to the right to get married And the major reason is that college students are adults with free wills and initiatives, and we are mature enough to be responsible for our choices We are no different from those who graduated from high school and got married at an early age Be it the permission from Marriage Law or forbiddance from school regulations, these are nothing but objective conditions created to protect younger generation and guide them to the right path Actually, as a college student, the problems we are facing are how to earn some bread and how to achieve further development In many cases, we are afraid to make commitments because we cannot make a living or guarantee the future yet In this sense, if you are able to ensure a bright future, if you can enjoy long-lasting happiness, say, you have started a company of your own or two of you are designated to stay in the university after graduation as faculty members, what’s the problem with getting married

成功的婚姻

成功的婚姻是最有效的支持社会的方式。它叫以缓解礼会压力的作用，使人身心健康。

丈夫似乎从婚姻中得到的好处比妻子多得多。已婚妇女在身心健康方面都优越于独身妇女，但这种影响在男人身上体现得等于女人的两倍。人们考虑了各种解释，但最合理的解释似乎是妻了比丈夫为社会提供的支持。

也许男人更需要婚姻他们在工作中面临的压力，身体比女人差，死得也早。此外，女人结婚以后，生活方式发生更大的变化，而这使她们一头扎进她们还没有准备好的、乏味的、封闭的家务活中。尽管结婚有好处，但女人们还是觉得有压力。如果她们也有工作，感觉会好一些。她们的收入和地位使她们在家里的地位大增，同时在工作中她们还可以得到社会的支持。

Successful marriage is the most effective form of social support It relieves the effects of stress, and leads to better mental and physical health Husbands seem to benefit much more from marriage then wives do Married women are in better physical and mental health, and are happier than single women, but these effects are nearly twice as great for men Various explanations have been considered, but the most plausible is that wives provide more social support than husbands Perhaps men need it more

They are more exposed to stresses at work, and have worse health and die earlier then women In addition, when women get married, their way of life is subject to much greater change and this often leads to boring and isolated work in the home for which they are ill-prepared Despite the benefits of marriage women find it stressful and in better shape if they

also have jobs, their earnings and status increase their power in the home, and they may also get social support at work

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Some believe it is reasonable for college students to select marriage in campus Because, firstly, the college students have reached the national legal ages, 22 for men and 20 for women, for marriage Secondly, suppose two students are fall in love with each other Is it necessary for them to struggle to avoid marriage until graduation The couples are supposed to help each other, love each other and conduct the harmonious little family on their own All the matters they are faced with will not only help them taste sweet produced by family but also get to know the hardness to sustain a family Furthermore, college students are usually to be found living together Such behavior has no difference from those done after marriage We should rather legalize such behavior than put aside them to happen secretly

However, some think it more negative then positive for college students to get married on campus In their opinion, the college students, especially male students, are too young and semi-matured to be likely to shoulder the burdens brought by family and take the relative responsibility On the other hand, it is showed by study that the devoice rate of those who get married early is much higher than that of those who get married late or at right time Such high devoice rate is mainly due to the less consideration taken before marriage, even being a totally prompt impulse to some extent Some stubborn problem appears gradually after marriage, which leads to the mutual discontents between couples and end up in devoice as a solution

It that case, I think, with more supports from parents and society, we can cope with study and love more intellectually if we ideally balance the positive and the negative caused by marriage on campus

With the development of The Times, people's ideas have changed, the development of transportation and information technology have shortened the distance between people, and there are more and more transnational marriages Of course, transnational marriage also has advantages and disadvantages

Some people support international marriage They believe that transnational marriage, in a sense, is the collision and communication of two cultures, which can broaden the horizon of both sides And the children of two cross-country marriages are also beautiful and intelligent They also believe that the children of people who marry abroad have better language learning environments and can master at least two languages and cultures

Others do not support international marriage They believe that two people who get married across the border will disagree because of their language and culture And it can be a big challenge for one to leave home and live abroad

In my opinion, international marriage has both advantages and disadvantages We should put it in perspective

随着时代的发展，人们思想观念的改变，交通和信息技术的发展，缩短了人与人之间的距离，跨国婚姻也越来越多了。当然跨国婚姻也有利和弊。

一些人支持跨国婚姻。他们认为跨国婚姻从某种意义上讲是两种文化的碰撞和交流，可以开阔双方的眼界。并且跨国结婚的两个人生下的孩子也是漂亮且聪明的。他们还认为，跨国结婚的人的孩子有更好的语言学习环境，可以掌握至少两种语言和文化。

另一些人不支持跨国婚姻。他们认为跨国结婚的两个人会因为语言和文化的不同而产生分歧。并且一方要离开故乡，到国外生活，会是一个很大的挑战。

我的观点是，跨国婚姻有优点也有缺点。我们应该正确看待。

National policy to allow for today's college students get married, this phenomenon for different views in society, some people agree that college students have reached the legal age for marriage, of course, can get married, some people object to it contrary to common sense to marry college students, breaking the traditional concept

I think college students should not be in school during the marriage, first of all, we are still in school, marriage is not conducive to building a good atmosphere of the campus, followed by college students are not yet ripe for the mental, can not be economically independent, can not take up the family and the double burden of learning, so I think college students should not get married

如果你是外国公民与中国公民在其他国家结婚的情况，可参考以下内容：我国婚姻家庭制度区际法律冲突的法律适用 （一）结婚的法律适用 婚姻关系的缔结及其有效成立必须符合法律规定的实质要件和形式要件。国际私法上，对结婚的实质要件，一般主张适用婚姻举行地法，或适用当事人本国法，或适用当事人住所地法或兼而有之地采用上述各种连点而依不同情况予以适用的混合制。①由于香港受英美法系的影响很深，在婚姻成立的实质要件上香港采取的是当事人住所地法。 在结婚的形式要件上，香港实行结婚注册制和结婚仪式制相结合的方式。香港关于婚姻成立形式要件的法律适用，采用婚姻缔结地法即凡在香港结婚不论当事人是否是香港居民都应适用香港法律规定。我国有关涉外婚姻缔结问题的规定，在立法上相当简单，那就是《民法通则》第147条的规定：“中华人民共和国公民和外国人结婚，适用婚姻缔结地法律。”从字面上来说，仅可作如下解释：第一，它只规定了涉外婚姻的一种即中国公民与外国人之间的结婚，至于中国公民之间在国外结婚或外国人、无国籍人以及他们相互之间在中国结婚则并非该条款所调整的范围。第二，它既指中国公民和外国人之间在中国境内的结婚，也指他们在中国境外的结婚。第三，该一条款实际上属于双边冲突规范，“婚姻缔结地”既包括结婚的实质要件，也包括结婚的形式要件。②但这条规定，并不完全符合我国的实际，不能绝对地把它作为处理所有涉外结婚法律适用的普遍规则。 值得注意的是，在我国长期的司未能实践中，对涉外婚姻的法律适用；有一系列相关批复和文件。③这些文件和批复的主要法律精神是：⑴中国公民与外国人在中国结婚必须符合我国婚姻法规定的实质要件；⑵双方都是外国人在中国境内结婚也允许双方到我国婚姻登记机关进行登记；其结婚的实质要件和形式要件仍适用我国婚姻法。如果外国人具有同一国籍，则允许他们办理领事婚姻，适用外国法，但同时也要求他们遵守我国婚姻法的原则。⑶中国公民和外国人在中国境外结婚，其实质要件和形式要件适用缔结地法，但不得违反我国婚姻法的基本原则，否则，该婚姻关系不为我国承认。⑷中国公民之间在中国境外结婚的按1983年11月28日外交部、最高法院等单位联合发布的规定，依婚姻缔结地法。④由于《民法通则》第147条未能完整而精确地概括我国的司法实践，与国际上通行的作法也不一致，表现在立法问题上的具体问题是：对结婚的实质要件和形式要件没有作不同规定。因香港的《婚姻条例》和大陆的《婚姻法》对婚姻的实质要件的规定不尽相同，最明显的就是对法定婚龄的规定，香港的《婚姻条例》规定，16岁以上的男女即可结婚；而大陆的《婚姻法》则规定“结婚年龄，男不得早于22周岁，女不得早于20周岁”。因此，香港居民在16岁时根据香港法律规定结婚，大陆法院应承认其婚姻有效。但对于16岁的香港居民与大陆已达到婚龄的中国籍公民结婚（在大陆），是否有效？这时应适用大陆法还是香港法？笔者认为，只要双方当事人符合各自属人法规定的结婚条件，就应认定其有效，而不应过于考虑他们的属人法是否存在抵触。对香港居民适用香港法，对大陆公民适用大陆法规定的条件，从而认定其有效。 因此，在处理大陆中国公民与香港居民之间的结婚问题，要分别考虑结婚的实质要件和形式要件的准据法。

We ever talk about them since participate in society activities,different people have different feeling,vision,experience of them,even now,I really don’t know what ‘s the exact mean of a love,but I have some ineffable feelings in my inner heart,maybe that is love

There would have some different meanings in different period during a man and a woman met,falls in love with each other and got marriedA feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; and the emotion of sex and romance makes them met and falls in love with each other and got marriedMarriage changed it to a deep,tender,ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude