提亲是什么意思 提亲的规矩有什么？

提亲，顾名思义，就是男方向女方求婚，以结为亲家为最终目的。在中国，提亲的规矩很多，但最重要的是要看女方家长的态度，如果女方家长不反对这门亲事，那么男方就可以请媒人上门求亲了，这个时候男方要带的聘礼一般是“六礼”。“六礼”即：纳采、问名、纳吉、纳征、请期、亲迎。1、纳采。男方请媒人到女方家提亲，这是提亲的初级阶段。2、问名。男方向女方询问女子的姓名、出生年月、生辰八字等，以便确认是否属于自己命中注定的那个人。3、纳吉。4、纳征。5、请期。6、亲迎。这是六礼的最后一项，男方要选择吉日良辰，并准备礼物，去女方家提亲。在中国，提亲的过程是一件十分复杂而繁琐的事情，所以在中国，提亲的规矩也是很多。

现代求婚习俗其实就是现代人的求婚习俗。古代人的求婚习俗都是讲究六礼的，包括纳彩、问名、纳吉、纳征、请期、亲迎。现代求婚习俗确定求婚日期、确定求婚方式、确定求婚场所、确定求婚流程、准备求婚道具和人员、联系摄影等服务人员、演练、求婚执行。

古代都是包办婚姻的，所以说都是提亲的，提亲都是要带上彩礼提亲的，女方的父母同意即可。但是现代的求婚都是直接的对女方求婚，女方的父母都不在场。现代求婚习俗其实是非常简单的，就是准备好钻戒，准备好鲜花就是可以的。一切的操作布置都可以交给婚庆公司帮忙完成。

 下面就来具体的说一说现代求婚习俗策划流程：

 一：确定求婚日期，确定求婚日期并非是随便的挑选一个日子即可的，而是要挑选一个良辰吉日，这样寓意着两个人的婚姻可以美满幸福。

二：确定求婚方式，求婚方式有很多种，比如说求婚视频，无视频现场求婚等等，男生要选择一种女生肯定喜欢，肯定会感动的求婚方式求婚，以保证高成功率。

三：确定求婚场所，求婚场所也是一定要选择女友喜欢的地方，比如说女友就喜欢潜泳，那么男生的求婚场地就应该设计在海洋馆，又或者是大海海底。

四：确定求婚流程，求婚的流程是一定要走的很准的，否则应该是上甜点的时候，男生却单膝跪地了，这个时候就是乌龙，会闹笑话的。

五：准备求婚道具和人员，这一切交给婚庆公司是最省心的，但是若是朋友多的话，让朋友帮忙置办也是不错的选择。

六：联系摄像等等服务人员，这个也是很简单的，男生一定要提前的讲好，避免被摄影人员放鸽子。

七：演练，为了保证求婚仪式进行的顺利就需要演练。

八：求婚仪式正式进行。

看完以上的现代求婚习俗大家是不是觉得要比古代的更简单呢？其实这样简单的现代求婚的策划流程也是非常的耗费精力的，因而如果说工作很忙碌的男生的话可以全权的交给婚庆公司来完成，以保证求婚仪式的顺利和精彩。

你要的是克林顿昨天在美国民主党代表大会上的讲话？下面是你要的那部分：

In the spring of 1971,I met a girl The first time I saw her, we were, appropriately enough, in aclass on political and civil rights She had thick blond hair, big glassesWore no makeup And she exuded this strength of self-possession I found magnetic

After the class, Ifollowed her out, intending to introduce myself I got close enough to touchher back, but I couldn't do it Somehow, I knew this would not be just anothertap on the shoulder, that I might be starting something I couldn't stop I saw herseveral more times the next few days but still didn't speak to her Then onenight in the law library talking to a classmate who wanted me to join the YaleLaw Journal, he said it would guarantee me a job at a big firm or a clerkshipwith a federal judge I really wasn’t interested — I just wanted to go home toArkansas

Then I saw the girlagain, standing at the opposite end of that long room Finally, she was staringback at me So I watched her She closed her book, put it down, and startedwalking toward me She walked the whole length of the library, came up to me,and said, "Look, if you are going to keep staring at me, we at least oughtto know each other's name I'm Hillary Rodham, who are you" I was soimpressed and surprised that, whether you believe it or not, momentarily, I wasspeechless

Finally, I sort ofblurted out my name and we exchanged a few words, and she went away Well, Ididn't join the Law Review, but I did leave that library with a whole new goalin mind A couple days later, I saw her again, wearing a long, white, floweryskirt, and I went up to her and she said she was going to register for classesfor the next term I said I would go too

We stood in line andtalked — you had to do that to register back then I thought I was doing prettywell until we got to the front of the line and the registrar looked up andsaid, "Bill, what are you doing here You registered this morning"

I turned red and shelaughed that big laugh of hers and I thought, well, heck, since my cover hasbeen blown, I asked her to take a walk down to the art museum We have beenwalking, and talking, and laughing together ever since

And we have done it ingood times, through joy and heartbreak We cried together this morning on thenews that our good friend and a lot of your good friend, Mark Weiner, passedaway early this morning We built up a lifetime of memories After the firstmonth and that first walk, I drove her home to Park Ridge, Illinois, to meether family and see the town where she grew up, a perfect example of post-WorldWar II middle-class America Street after street of nice houses, great schools,good parks, a big public swimming pool And almost all white

I really liked herfamily, her crusty, conservative father, her rambunctious brothers, allextolling the virtue of rooting for the bears and the cubs And for the peopleof Illinois here, they even told me what waiting for next year meant — could benext year, guys

Now, her mother wasdifferent She was more liberal than the boys She had a childhood that mademine look like a piece of cake She was easy to underestimate with her softmanner and she reminded me all over again of the truth of that old saying thatyou should never judge a book by its cover Knowing her was one of the greatestgifts Hillary ever gave me

I learned that Hillarygot her introduction to social justice through her Methodist youth minister,Don Jones He took her downtown to Chicago to hear Martin Luther King Jr speakand he remained her friend for the rest of his life This will be the onlycampaign of hers he ever missed

When she got tocollege, her opposition to the Vietnam War compelled her to change parties andbecome a Democrat And then between college and law school, on a total lark,she went alone to Alaska and spent time sliming fish

More to the point, bythe time I met her she had already been involved in the law school's legalservices project and she had been influenced by Marian Wright Edelman She tooka summer internship interviewing workers in migrant camps for Sen WalterMondale’s subcommittee She had also begun working in the Yale New Havenhospital to develop procedures to handle suspected child abuse cases

She got so involved inchildren's issues that she actually took an extra year in law school working atthe child studies center to learn what more could be done to improve the livesand futures of poor children She was already determined to figure out how tomake things better

Hillary opened my eyesto a whole new world of public service by private citizens In the summer of1972, she went to Dothan, Alabama, to visit one of those segregated academiesthat enrolled over a half a million white kids in the South The only way theeconomics worked was if they claimed federal tax exemptions to which they werenot legally entitled She got sent to prove they weren't

So she sauntered intoone of these academies all by herself, pretending to be a housewife that justmoved to town and needed to find a school for her son And they exchangepleasantries and finally, she said, "Look, let's get to the bottom lineIf I enroll my son in this school, will he be in a segregated school Yes orno" And the guy said "Absolutely" She had him I’ve seen it athousand times since

And she went back andher encounter was part of a report that gave Marian Wright Edelman the forcethey needed to keep working to get the Nixon administration to take those taxexemptions away and give our kids access to an equal education

Then she went down toSouth Texas, where she met one of the nicest fellows I ever met, the wonderfulunion leader Franklin Garcia, and he helped her register Mexican-Americanvoters I think some of them are still around to vote for her in 2016 Andthen, in our last year in law school, Hillary kept up this work She went toSouth Carolina to see why so many young African-American boys — I mean, youngteenagers — were being jailed for years with adults in men's prisons She fileda report on that, which led to some changes too Always making things better

Meanwhile, let's getback to business I was trying to convince her to marry me I first proposed toher on a trip to Great Britain, the first time she'd ever been overseas Wewere on the shoreline of this wonderful lake, Lake Ennerdale I asked her tomarry me and she said, "I can't do it"

So in 1974, I wenthome to teach in law school and Hillary moved to Massachusetts to keep workingon children's issues This time, trying to figure out why so many kids countedin the census weren't enrolled in school

She found one of themsitting alone on her porch in a wheelchair Once more, she filed a report aboutthese kids and that helped influence ultimately the Congress to adopt theproposition that children with disabilities, physical or otherwise, should haveequal access to public education You saw the result of that last night whenAnastasia Somoza talked She never made fun of people with disabilities Shetried to empower them based on their abilities

Meanwhile, I was stilltrying to get her to marry me The second time I asked, I tried a differenttactic I said, "I really want you to marry me, but you shouldn't doit" She smiled and looked at me like what is this boy up to She said,"That is not a very good sales pitch" I said, "I know but it'strue" And I meant it It was true I said, "I know most of the youngDemocrats our age who want to go into politics, they mean well and they speakwell, but none of them is as good as you are at actually doing things to makepositive changes in people's lives"

So I suggested she gohome to Illinois or move to New York and look for a chance to run for officeShe laughed and said, "Are you out of your mind Nobody would ever votefor me" So I finally got her to come visit me in Arkansas And when shedid, the people at the law school were so impressed, they offered her ateaching position And she decided to take a huge chance

She moved to a strangeplace, more rural and conservative than anywhere she had been Where she knewgood and well that people were wondering what in the world she was like andwhether they could or should accept her Didn't take them long to find out whatshe was like

She loved herteaching She got frustrated when one of her students said, "What do youexpect, I'm just from Arkansas" She said, "Don’t tell me thatYou’re as smart as anybody You just have to believe in yourself and work forit and set high goals" She believed anyone could make it She alsostarted the first legal aid clinic in northwest Arkansas, providing legal aidservices to poor people who couldn't pay for them

One day, I was drivingher to the airport to fly back to Chicago when we passed this little brickhouse that had a for-sale sign on it and she said, "Boy, that's a prettyhouse" It had 1,100 square feet, an attic fan and no air conditioner inhot Arkansas, and a screened-in porch Hillary commented on what a uniquelydesigned and beautiful house it was

So I took a bigchance I bought the house My mortgage was $175 a month When she came back, Ipicked her up and said, "You remember that house you like" I said,"While you were gone, I bought it, and you have to marry me now" Thethird time was the charm We were married in that little house on October 11,1975 I married my best friend

查了一下，

提亲：男女双方到了谈婚论嫁之时，男方家长须请媒人向女方家长提亲。

求婚：亦作“ 求昏 ”。男女中的一方请求对方与己结婚。

有点抠字眼，个人感觉古代用提亲比较多。

写作思路：首先感谢各位来宾的到场，表达自己的热情，然后祝贺新人，展望未来。

例文：

各位来宾：

大家晚上好，今天我们在这里欢聚一堂，为我儿xx与xx**举行温馨的订婚典礼，承蒙各位嘉宾能在百忙之中前来贺喜，在此，我们表示热烈的欢迎和衷心的感谢！不久后，你们就要走进结婚的殿堂，希望你们在未来的日子里能够一起努力拼搏向上，给彼此创造一个美好的未来。

作为父亲我有三句话想对新人说，一是希望你们互相理解互相包容，在今后的生火中同舟同济。二是希望你们要尊敬和孝顺你们的父母，你们结婚了，意味着父母就老了，记得常回家看看。三是希望你们不断努力不断创造，用实际行动来回报国家，回社会。最后，祝你们生活幸福，互敬互爱。

表白，或称告白意为向他人表示自己的想法或心意，特指表达爱意，又称示爱，在这种情况下通常被认为是建立恋爱关系的方式。 表白可以通过各种方式，如当面表达，写情书，打电话，网络即时通讯，送礼物如送花等。这些都算是比较传统的表白，更有甚者为了追求创意，而创造出很多另类的表白方法。胆大心细脸皮厚是表白的不二法门。第一次表白表示被拒绝了后，通常后来慢慢相处再表白就成功了。要耐心，要脸皮厚，要细心。不要怕你的主动会带来她的反感，你不主动，她也不主动，也就慢慢淡下来了。如果你开始的表白被她拒绝，那也很正常呀。不要气馁，谁知道她心里在想什么呢？也许你再表白两次，她就会被你打动，一个心地善良的好孩子是很容易感动的。 如果你受到一次挫折，就立刻离开，再也不去答理这个女孩，把自己紧紧地保护起来，默默地舔舐伤口，在你痛苦的同时，殊不知，那个女孩子也许也正在心里遗憾、后悔呢！也许她会偷偷哭泣，后悔拒绝了你，再看到你漠然的眼神，她也很痛心，但是她却不会对你说，绝对不会请求你回来追她。你的过度的自尊心，可能会伤害了女孩子敏感的心。 她会认为你不是真诚的喜欢她，要不怎么会就这么放弃了她？