Niulang and Zhinv
This is a beautiful story that has been narrated for thousands of years, and also one of Chinese four top folk love stories For generations, many young men and women are moved too much
It was said that there was a Zhinv Star (Vega) who was a beautiful girl on heaven and a Qianniu Star (Altair) who was a handsome young man Both of them fell in love with each other deeply However, on heaven, the love between gods was forbidden And their love was finally found by Empress Zhinv was the granddaughter of Empress Niulang was punished to fall down to the earth, and Zhinv was penalized to do the non-stop job of weaving the brocade day and night The job of Zhinv was weaving endless colorized clouds in a marvelous kind of silk, and the clouds changed in accordance with the change of time and seasons Since Niulang left, Zhinv shed tears all days long and still missed Niulang too much She worked hard every second as to wish to satisfy Empress and let Empress allow Niulang’s return
One day, several fairies begged Empress to allow their earth trip in Bilian Pool At that day, empress had a good mood and agreed them These fairies also suggested going there together with Zhinv when they saw she was so sad Empress both could not withstand seeing her granddaughter was so unhappy all the time, and also agreed their suggestions on the condition that they should go and come back as soon as they can
After Niulang fall down to earth, he was reborn in a farmer’s family Later, his parents passed away and he lived with his elder brother and brother’s wife But this couple treated Niulang badly, and separated the family with Niulang They just gave Niulang an old ox and a broken wheelbarrow Since then, Niulang led a life with this old ox They worked hard to assart the wild land and do the farming as well as build their house But actually, Niulang’s life was isolated and lonely except this speechless ox In fact he did know this ox was also a god on heaven, and it was Gold-Ox Star One day, the old ox suddenly mouthed and said to Niulang: Niulang, go to Bilian Pool; some fairies are having bath there, and you hide the red clothes, because the fairy wearing red will be your wife Niulang was shocked and asked Ox:”Borther Ox, you can speak! Is your word true” Ox nodded, and Niulang arrived and hid in the reed of Bilian Pool to wait the arrival of the fairy In a short time, these fairies flew down and put off their clothes to have a bath in pool Niulang quickly came out and took the red clothes away The fairies saw him and suddenly put on their clothes and flew away like bird except the fairy without clothes, and she was Zhinv Zhinv was worried and shy when her clothes were stolen At this time, Niulang appeared and let Zhinv be his wife Zhinv found carefully this young man was indeed her Qianniu star Hence, Zhinv became Niulang’s wife After marriage, this couple loved each other and led a happy life; also they had one son and one daughter
However, Empress was quite angry when she knew this, and appointed the heavenly army to catch Zhinv On this day, when Zhinv was cooking, Niulang came back and cried to Zhinv that Ox died Before the death, ox told Niulang to denude his skin, because some day it was needed for flying Zhinv knew that this ox was God-Ox Star who was demoted to earth just for speaking out some impartial words They buried the ox well
But later, the gales happened The heavenly army suddenly appeared and caught Zhinv away Zhinv was very sad and suddenly heard the word from Niuliang:”Zhinv, waiting me!” Zhinv in the sky turned around and saw Niulang shouldering two baskets where their son and daughter sat Niulang wore the ox skin and flew behind her and her infants were crying aloud When they almost came together, Empress appeared by clouds She pulled out hairpin from her hairs and took a draw amid them A large heavenly river (Milky Way) appeared between this couple They could not go across any more This family was separated unconditionally and unreasonably Zhinv crazily cried on one side, and Niulang together with his infants cried on the other side They can not meet any more All the fairies and gods at present were touched deeply, even Empress was also a little bit moved by their love and then agreed that Niulang and his infants can stay on heaven, also they can meet once a year The meeting day is lunar 7, July
Since then, both of them lived on both sides of the Milky Way, and they looked at each other from afar In autumn’s evening, people can easily find tow brighter stars lying in the both sides of Milky River They are Niulang and Zhinv And beside Niulang, there are two little stars, which are their son and daughter On the evening of lunar 7 July, a large number of pied magpies built a temporary bridge with their bodies for this couple’s meeting It is said that on July 7 every year, people under the grape shelf can hear the heavenly music latently and also hear this couple is affectionately talking
So Lunar 7 July, or Qixi(七夕,Evening of July 7) in folk society becomes Chinese Saint Valentine's Day It is also one of important Chinese traditional festivals in folk communities On the evening of this day, the girls would peer at the sky and pray that they could be as smart and skillful as Zhinv, and the young men would hope for a satisfactory marriage and beautiful love like Niulang This is a story but also the origin of Chinese important traditional folk festival
有关爱情的英语作文About Love About Love
Anton Chekhov 第二天的午饭是非常美味的馅饼,小龙虾和羊肉片。我们正吃饭时,厨子尼卡诺来问客人们晚上想吃些什么。他是一个中等身材,胖脸,小眼睛的人,齐胡子根刮了脸,这使得看起来他的胡子仿佛不是刮掉的,而是被连根拔掉的。阿列恒告诉我们美丽的帕拉吉爱上了这个厨子,因为他喝酒且性格粗暴,帕拉吉不想嫁给她,但是愿意与他婚外同居。厨子是个很虔诚的人,他的宗教信仰不允许他“过着有罪的生活”。他坚持帕拉吉嫁给他,此外其它的事都答应她,可是他喝醉时经常大骂帕拉吉,甚至打她。无论何时厨子喝醉了酒,帕拉吉就习惯于躲到楼上哭泣,每当这个时候阿列恒和仆人们就待在屋里准备万一需要保护帕拉吉。
At lunch next day there were very nice pies, crayfish, and mutton cutlets; and while we were eating, Nikanor, the cook, came up to ask what the visitors would like for dinner He was a man of medium height, with a puffy face and little eyes; he was close-shaven, and it looked as though his moustaches had not been shaved, but had been pulled out by the roots Alehin told us that the beautiful Pelagea was in love with this cook As he drank and was of a violent character, she did not want to marry him, but was willing to live with him without He was very devout, and his religious convictions would not allow him to “live in sin”; he insisted on her marrying him, and would consent to nothing else, and when he was drunk he used to abuse her and even beat her Whenever he got drunk she used to hide upstairs and sob, and on such occasions Alehin and the servants stayed in the house to be ready to defend her in case of necessity
我们开始谈论爱情。
“爱情是如何产生的呢?”阿列恒说,“为什么帕拉吉在身心上不像爱自己一样地爱别人,她为什么会爱上尼卡诺,那个丑陋的猪嘴——我们所有人都叫尼卡诺‘猪嘴’——个人的幸福跟爱情的结果有多大关系——所有这些问题我们都不明所以;个人能获得的见解只是他从中希望获得的罢了。迄今为止,说到爱无可置疑的事实就是:‘爱是一个大大的谜。’关于爱所说和所写下的一切都不是结论,而只是这个仍然没有答案的问题的陈述罢了。这个解释似乎只适合一份份单独的爱情,而不适用于其它众多的例子。在我看来,的做法就是单独解说每一份爱情,而不要企图归纳爱情。就像医生们说的,我们应该个别对待每一个例子。”
“完全正确。”伯京同意。
We began talking about love
“How love is born,” said Alehin, “why Pelagea does not love somebody more like herself in her spiritual and external qualities, and why she fell in love with Nikanor, that ugly snout—we all call him ‘The Snout’—how far questions of personal happiness are of consequence in love—all that is unknown; one can take what view ones likes of it So far only one incontestable truth has been uttered about love: ‘This is a great mystery’ Everything else that has been written or said about love is not a conclusion, but only a statement of questions which have remained unanswered The explanation which would seem to fit one case does not apply in a dozen others, and the very best thing, to my mind, would be to explain every case individually without attempting to generalize We ought, as the doctors say, to individualize each case”
“Perfectly true,” Burkin assented
“我们这些受过教育的俄国阶层都偏爱那些还没有答案的问题。爱情通常都被诗意化,用玫瑰、夜莺来装饰。我们俄国人却用些重大的问题来装饰爱情,且选择了其中最无趣的部分。在莫斯科读书时,我有一位与我一起生活的朋友,一位迷人的女士,每次我把她抱在怀里,她就在想我这是允许她帮我料理一个月的家务以及一磅牛肉多少钱。同样地,坠入爱河时我们总不厌其烦地问自己:这是合乎名誉的还是违背名誉的,明智的还是愚蠢的,这份爱在通往何处,等等。想这些问题是好事还是坏事我不知道,但是这些问题困扰着你,找不到答案且令人气恼,我就十分清楚了。”
“We Russians of the educated class have a partiality for these questions that remain unanswered Love is usually poeticized, decorated with roses, nightingales; we Russians decorate our loves with these momentous que stions, he peasants, men and women, from the neighbouring villages; the work went on at a tremendous pace I myself ploughed and sowed and reap “这有点出乎意料,因为我和卢格诺维奇并不熟,跟他只是职务上的交往,从未去过他家里。我刚刚回旅馆房间换好衣服要出去吃晚饭。这是我命中注定要与卢格诺维奇的妻子,安娜·阿列克丝耶夫娜相遇。那时她还很年轻,至多二十二岁,她的第一个孩子刚刚半岁。这都是过去的事了,而现在我发现很难说得清她到底有何例外,以及她那么吸引我的原因。当时,在那次晚宴上,这一切对我非常清晰,我看到了一个年轻可爱,善良聪明而迷人的女人,仿佛之前我从未遇到过一个这样的人。我立刻觉得她是某个我已经很熟悉很亲密了的人,好像那张脸,那诚恳聪慧的眼神,我小时候已在某处——搁在我母亲衣柜里的相 pring
“After that I spent the whole summer at Sofino without a break, and I had no time to think of the town, either, but the memory of the graceful fair-haired woman remained in my mind all those days; I did not think of her, but it was as though her light shadow were lying on my heart
“深秋,城里举行一场以慈善为目的的戏剧演出。中场休息时我接到邀请去了镇长的包厢,我一看,安娜·阿列克丝耶夫娜正坐在镇长夫人的旁边。她的美丽温柔,她那亲切的眼神,再一次令我不可抗拒,令我激动不已,我的心里再次涌起了那种亲近的感觉。我 所有包裹,为了某种原因每次我都会像一个孩子一样满怀爱意,一样一本正经地拿过那些包裹。
‘Who is there’ I would hear from a faraway room, in the drawling voice that seemed to me so lovely
“ ‘It is Pavel Konstantinovitch,’ answered the maid or the nurse
“Anna Alexyevna would come out to me with an anxious face, and would ask every time:
“ ‘Why is it so long since you have been Has anything happened’
“Her eyes, the elegant refined hand she gave me, her indoor dress, the way she did her hair, her voice, her step, always produced the same impression on me something ing in the same way at the window, he would come up to me, with red ears, and say:
“ ‘My wife and I earnestly I beg you to accept this present’
“And he would give me studs, a cigar-case, or a lamp, and I would send them game, butter, and flowers from the country They both, by the way, had considerable means of their own In early days I often borrowed money, and was not very particular about it—borrowed wherever I could—but nothing in the world have induced me to borrow from the Luganovitchs But why talk of it
“我闷闷不乐。在家里,在地里,在牲畜棚里,我都在想她。我苦苦思索一个美丽、聪明的年轻女人为什么要嫁给一个无趣、几乎可以做她父亲的人(她丈夫已四十出头),还跟他生孩子;想弄懂这个无趣、善良、心思简单的男人,在舞会和晚会上一直待在更刻板的人身边,用令人厌烦的机智争论着,看上去倦怠而多余,脸上的表情顺从而无动于衷,就像他被带到那 tter if I had had a beautiful, interesting life—if, for instance, I had been struggling for the emancipation of my country, or had been a celebrated man of science, an artist or a painter; but as it was it would mean taking her from one everyday humdrum life to another as humdrum or perhaps more so And how long would our happiness last What would happen to her in case I was ill, in case I died, or if we simply grew cold to one another
“同样地,显然她也有充分的理由。她要考虑她的丈夫,孩子,还有她的母亲,她母亲爱她父亲就像爱孩子一样。如果她放纵自己到感情里她将不得不说谎,要不然说出事实真相,以她的地位这两种后果都同样糟糕和不便。且她还要受到她的爱是否将带我给幸福这个问题的折磨——事实上,我的生活已经够辛苦和困难重重了,她不会使我的生活更复杂吗?她认为对我来说她不够年轻了,要开始一种新生活她既不勤奋也没有足够的精力。她常常跟她丈夫说娶一个聪明的好女孩对我来说很重要,她会成为我的助手,成为一个能干的主妇,不过她会立刻补充说要在全城找到一个这样的女孩子并不容易。
“And she apparently reasoned in the same way She thought of her husband, her children, and of her mother, who loved the hu t each other; but by some strange misunderstanding, when we came out of the theatre we always said good- bye and parted as though we were strangers Goodness knows what people were saying about us in the town already, but there was not a word of truth in it all!
“后来的几年里安娜·阿列克丝耶夫娜开始时常去看望她母亲或去她姐姐那。她开始情绪低落,开始认为她的生活被扰乱,并感到不满了,她有时不再关心她的丈夫,也不关心她的孩子了。她已开始接受神经衰弱的治疗。
“我们在一起时除了沉默还是沉默。而在外人面前她对我表现出一种奇怪的愤怒,不管我说什么,她都跟我唱反调,要是我与人争论,她就支持我的对手。如果我掉了什么东西,她会冷冷地说:
“‘恭喜你了。’
“去剧院时如果我忘了拿观剧望远镜,过后她会说:
“‘我知道你会忘记的。’
“In the latter years Anna Alexyevna took to going away for frequent visits to her mother or to her sister; she began to suffer from low spirits, she began to recognize that her life was spoilt and unsatisfied, and at times she did not care to see her husband nor her children She was already being treated for neurasthenia
“We were silent and still silent, and in the presence of outsiders she displayed a strange irritation in regard to me; w et in the compartment our spiritual fortitude deserted us both; I took her in my arms, she pressed her face to my breast, and tears flowed from her eyes Kissing her face, her shoulders, her hands wet with tears—oh, how unhappy were!—I confessed my love for her, and with a burning pain in my heart I realized how unnecessary, how petty, and how deceptive all that had hindered us from loving was I understood that when you love you must either, in your reasonings about that love, start from what is highest, from what is more important than happiness or unhappiness, sin or virtue in their accepted meaning, or you must not reason at all
“我最后一次吻了她,紧握了一下她的手,然后永远地离开了。火车已经开了,我走进下一个车厢里——那是一个空车厢——一直坐在那儿哭直到火车抵达下一个站。然后回到沙非诺的家……。”
“I kissed her for the last time, pressed her hand, and parted for ever The train had already started I went into the next compartment—it was empty—and until I reached the next station I sat there crying Then I walked home to Sofino…”
在阿列恒讲述他的故事时,雨停了,太阳出来了。伯京和伊凡·伊凡诺维奇去了阳台,从那儿能看到花园和磨坊池塘那边的美丽景色,磨坊池塘此刻在阳光下像镜子一样闪闪发光。他们赞赏这美丽的景色,同时伤感目光亲切睿智的阿列恒——他饱含真情地给他们讲述了这个故事——一直像轮子上的松鼠一样旋转不息地在
Love makes the world go around
Love to us human is what water to fishLove shines the most beautiful light of humanity,we born in it,we live by itToo often we take it as granted,but we should know love is a priceless gift we should cherishBut how to cherish the loveI have heard a saying :the quickest way to receive love is to give it; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly the best way to keep love is to give it wings
It is important for us to learn to love as the first class in our lifeOnly when you know how to love than you will be a real man in this worldLove brings us warmth in the fearful coldness,love brings us bright when life gets hard and darkLove brings us confidence toward life when we are tired out and want to give up
Love deserves all the admiring words,and love is even beyond the life and deathThat is what love is all about in my eyes
校园爱情有自身的特殊性,作为校园生活的一部分,情感替代、标签效应以及为了恋爱而恋爱是现实的推动因素。下面是我带来的校园爱情故事英语作文,欢迎阅读!
篇一
Love in Campus
Nowadays, campus love is popular Some college teachers argue that students should give up love for the sake of learning They maintain that love is time consuming and influences one’s learning Some students, however, hold that a student who falls in love will study harder and will make greater progress They don't believe that a person in love lags behind in his studies
There are different kinds of love on campus Some students regard love as killing time or adding color; some are pragmatic, thinking it's difficult to find a better partner after graduation; the purpose of others is for seeking the impetus of study Anyhow, far away from home and alone, seeking friendship, understanding and love, the boys and girls easily find fort and appreciation from one another
As a mater of fact, love is a sharp double-bladed knife Having it will make you very happy; while losing it, you always feel disappointed and depressed When the bond of love broken, going on studying as usual or sinking lament or even being crazy depend on us We will not let romantic entanglement interfere with our studies
Love is a natural and quiet During the process of love we will experience romantic love, frustrating love and critical love and real love True love will overe our pain and di ay, warm our heart, and spark our spirit with delight forces but not resistance
篇二
校园爱情
“Do students have the right to fall in love in college”
This is a controversial issue in our times Just as a coin has two sides, no side is better than the other; it is often difficult to distinguish what is right from what is wrong Love is a feeling deep within our hearts
Roaming around the campus, you often hear people proclaim: “Why didn’t Cupid aimed his arrow at me” “Where is my handsome prince” This is probably why songs about love are so popular among the youth
Last year, I remember when one of my roommates met her Romeo First, she ate very little for days and just sat opposite from the mirror singing: “Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who is the fairest of them all” We thought that she must be crazy and got the urge to ship her to the hospital Later, they became lovers and we saw a twinkle in her eyes She said: “Our match is made in heaven, there is a chemical bond between us” In the days following, a ile always hung from her face Isn’t love powerful
Another one of my roommates was not as fortunate She had a boyfriend but now all that is history The boy was a couch potato They used to fight over very trivial things She finally got fed up with the boy and separated quite unpleasantly We better not go through this kind of love
I am the only one who is still single in my dormitory My friends asked me why I haven’t found my Mr Right They said when I got older, there would be no one waiting for me To be honest, I’m not afraid at all The ratio of man versus woman is 133 to 100 Thus, I think it is the boys who would have to act quickly or they will be single for the rest of their lives In addition, I’m also the youngest in my class I have more time left and I would like to enjoy my life freely without the hindrance from another person
Our elders exaggerate about love in college They say love is a waste of time and money It will often cause people to forget their studies and eventually may even destroy their lives I think we are all grown-ups and we have the ability to manage our own affairs
So, go with your heart and never regret!
“大学生有权谈恋爱吗”
这是我们这个时代颇有争议的话题。正如一个硬币有两面一样,不能说正面就比反面好;通常明辨是非是很难的吧爱情是我们内心一种很深的感情。
漫步大学校园,你经常都可以听到这样感叹:“为什么丘位元之箭不射向我呢”“我的白马王子在哪里”这也许就是为何爱情歌曲在年轻人中如此流行的原因吧。
我还记得去年当我的一个舍友遇到她的罗密欧的情景。先是她一连几天吃得很少,只是每天对着镜子,不停地唱:“魔镜,魔镜告诉我,谁是天下最漂亮的”我们都认为她一定是疯了,打算把她送到医院。不久,他们成了恋人。我们从她的眼里看到了幸福的光芒。她说:“我们是天作之合,我们之间有化学反应。”接下来的日子里,她的脸上总是挂著笑容。这难道就是爱情的力量吗
我的另一个舍友就没有这么幸运了。她曾经有一个男朋友,可惜已经分手。那个男孩是一个电视迷,他们经常为了琐事吵架。最终,她厌倦了,不愉快地和他分了手。我们都不希望遭遇这样的爱情。
我是我们宿舍惟一的单身女孩。我的朋友老是问我为什么没有找到我的白马王子。她们都说再过几年就不会有人要我了。说实话,我一点也不害怕。男女的比例是133∶100。因此我认为应该是男生迅速采取行动才对,否则他们就不得不打一辈子光棍了。另外,我也是班里年龄最小的,我的时间多的是,我宁愿自由地度过,也不愿接受另一个人的限制。
我们长辈们总是过于夸张大学校园里的爱情。他们认为爱情只是在浪费时间和金钱,而且会使人们荒废学业,最终可能会毁掉他们生活。可我认为,我们都已经长大了,有能力管理自己的事情。
因此,随心而动,不必后悔!
篇三
campus love isn’t a newly-born phenomenon some people are strongly against it while some others think it’s natural i don’t advocate itthe reasons are as follows first of all, undergraduates are neither fully psychologically mature nor able to assume the responsibility, especially freshmen and sophomores second, they may indulge in it, thus dilapidate their study, which isn’t rare
third, some just take advantage of it to kill time, avoid boredom with much time at their own disposals, have someone keep pany, etc
what’s more, some change dating "partners" frequently, holding a paradox opinion that they could show off their charm or accumulate experience, but more often than not, they would leave a bad impression, such as lacking the sense of responsibility, on others, especially their former sweethearts last, the proportion of successful couples is too low the overwhelming majority reach the same end-parting just before graduation, forced by reality, etc
so, look before you leap, discard campus love and make a wiser decision after graduation
We Have to Say Goodbye
No rose, no diamond ring, that’s the simple and romantic love stories in college The graduates have to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved When their future is confronted with love, which one is more important What will the lovers do in June
没有玫瑰的芬芳,没有钻戒的世俗,这就是大学恋情——纯情而唯美。毕业生不得不面临六月的来临,也就是向心爱的人道别的时刻。当前途与爱情一同遭遇未来,该如何取舍?六月里的恋人会怎么做呢?
Don’t cry, my baby
There are so many love stories in college If the lovers met each other by note passed, the story was called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if they became lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love” Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, and they got the so-called “QQ love”
Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset So he entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time While he was roaming about on the net, a stranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you” Then he began chatting with him or her Liu poured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to be discouraged, for there was still chance After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every day and it lasted for a week Liu felt very happy On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do you want to see me” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation “Then you can turn your head back” And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu
However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice Xiao Yu is a local girl and her home is in Wuhan While Liu Bing comes from Xi’an They are both the only child in their family Their parents aren’t against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home They quarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city they would choose Xi’an or Wuhan They were up a gum tree and couldn’t come to terms
Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time When Liu typed out “Let’s break up”, Xiao Yu couldn’t restrain her tears any more
Still a long way to go
Chen Li has been unhappy recently With the coming of graduation, she’s become even more depressed She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don’t have a special story; they got to know each other in the library Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library They would go to cinema or walk on the streets at weekends Three years have passed quietly They promised to take the postgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 points margin in English
Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there Considering the economic condition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus On the one hand, the living expense is lower here On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies
At night, thinking that her lover would leave for Beijing, Chen Li’s tears fell down her cheeks silently, making her pillowslip wet all over Although Jia Hao encouraged her over and over again that she would succeed at the second try and they would reunion in Beijing, however, he said so at the last time Will their love still go on in case she fails
A new life for us
Different from those sorrowful lovers, Ye Qing is like a happy bird flying in and out of her dormitory She and her boyfriend were in the same class in high school Fortunately they both came to Beijing though not in the same university They’re not far from each other, although they can’t be very much in love every day like other love birds Ye Qing feels contented that they can spend weekends together Sometimes, Ye Qing would call her boyfriend and asked him to see her in half an hour and bring some snacks passingly
Her boyfriend majors in the pop Communication He has been employed by a well-known communicating corporation in Shenzhen Ye Qing hasn’t found a satisfying job, but they’ve planed that she also goes to Shenzhen to hunt a job As a major in Economic and Trade English, Ye thinks it not difficult in finding a job such as secretary or assistant As far as buying house and car, she told us secretly, “He promised that I needn’t consider that kind of things”
To the moment they have enough time to wile away Ye has decided it was time to make up for the past 4 years’ loss of romance Now they’ve been shopping around, going to movies and playing badminton every day Seeing her boyfriend being “tortured”, Ye felt as happy as a princess in fairy tales
Point of view
Hu Juan, graduate of 2002
My love came to the end with the coming of graduation Nobody could taste my sorrow at that time I felt I lost the man I loved most in the world Such is not the fact I worked, fell in love with another guy and then got married Looking back on my love in college, I found that we were just in the same camp on entertainment While my husband and I are living our lives
Liu Xiaoming, graduate of 2003
I’ve been married Of course, my wife was my girlfriend in the university We had been in love for 3 years Compared with other husband and wife, we feel it a superiority to own each other’s past We would talk about our university life and recall dribs and drabs Whenever we recollect together, we could feel each other’s heartbeat And the expression in our eyes would become very gentle The beautiful memory will always nourish our marriage
Li Rong, senior
It’s enough that each love starts with a beautiful beginning As for whether it will come to an end, I feel it unnecessary to think too much Love out of campus doesn’t always have a happy ending Therefore, when love comes, we should enjoy the pleasure of loving When love comes to an end, we could also taste its grief of parting Tears taste sweet as long as you love your life
Wang Qin, senior
I don’t have a boyfriend, but some boys are wooing me I feel they’re not my cup of tea, so I refused I have a wish that they could give me a hug before I leave by train when I graduate I admire those who are in love on campus and at the same time I felicitate myself on not choosing at random During the four years in university, as long as you live in earnest, you won’t regret, whether you own love or not, whether your love has future or not
毕业了,该分手了
宝贝,别哭
校园里上演着那么多的爱情故事。如果恋人通过纸条表白爱情,就被称为“白条之恋”;如果他们在快餐店里相识、相恋,就叫“快餐之恋”;如果是在野炊时相爱,当然就是“野炊之恋”了。刘冰是通过QQ聊天认识小雨的,也就是所谓的“QQ之恋”。
他们的故事开始于大二下半学期。刚开学,刘冰在四级考试中挂了,没有通过,他非常沮丧,就来到学校附近的网吧打发时间。正当他在网上神游时,突然QQ上有人问a他:“可以和你聊聊吗?”刘冰就和她聊了起来,其实他还不知道对方是男是女。刘冰将自己的苦恼一倾而出,对方就耐心地开导他,说别灰心,还有机会呢。此后,有一个星期,他们约定每天8点来聊天,刘冰觉得很开心。到了第7天,对方问刘冰:“想见面吗?”刘冰没有任何犹豫地打下一个字:“想!”对方说:“那你就回头吧!”于是,刘冰转身就看到了那个可爱的女孩,小雨。
然而,面对毕业,他们却不知道如何选择。小雨的家就在武汉本地,而刘冰来自于西安。作为家里的独生子女,双方父母不反对他们在一起,但都希望儿女能回到自己的身边。他们俩为了毕业后的去向问题吵翻了天,矛盾的焦点是“要留在哪个城市?”。选择西安,还是选择武汉,两人犯难了,而且谁都不肯让步。
最后,刘冰和小雨又去网吧上网聊天,依然是背对背。当刘冰打出“我们分手吧”几个字后,小雨的眼泪再也忍不住了。
路漫漫其修远兮
晨丽最近郁郁寡欢,看着毕业的日子一天天逼近,越来越无精打采。她和男朋友贾皓的故事没有什么特别的,就是在图书馆认识的。两个爱学习的人,最大的乐趣就是泡图书馆,然后在周末去看看**,逛逛街。三年下来,倒也平淡。大三时他们就约定一起考研到北京,然而晨丽却因英语2分之差落榜了。
贾皓鼓励晨丽和他一起去北京,然后在北京专职考研。然而考虑到两人的经济状况,晨丽还是觉得留在学校再考比较合适,一方面这里的生活费用相对较低,再者自己也熟悉这里的环境,能安心学习。
夜里想着自己心爱的人就要远赴北京了,晨丽的眼泪就无声无息地流出来了,枕巾被打湿了一大片。尽管贾皓一再鼓励她,说她第二次一定会考上的,那时他们就会在北京相聚。可是,第一次考研时贾皓就是这么鼓励她的,万一她第二次还没考上,那么他们的爱情会怎么样呢?
新生活在向我们招手
和那些悲伤的恋人不同,叶晴快乐地像只小鸟,整天从宿舍飞进飞出。她和男友是高中同学,虽然高考没考到同一所学校,但幸运的是都考到了北京,而且两个学校也相距不远。虽然不能像别的恋人一样天天卿卿我我,但能在一起快乐地度过周末,对叶晴来说已经很满足了。有时候,实在忍不住,叶晴就给男友打电话,让他半小时内立即赶到,并且带点零食过来。
男友学的是炙手可热的通讯工程,已经被深圳一家有名的通讯企业录取。虽然叶晴还没有找到工作,但他们已经计划好了,就是叶晴也去深圳,然后在深圳找工作。由于学的是经贸英语,叶晴相信找个秘书、助理之类的工作还是没有问题。至于以后买房子、买车子,她偷偷告诉我们:“他已经答应不用我考虑了!”
正好毕业前这一段时间有大把的时间可以挥霍,叶晴决定把过去4年的浪漫损失弥补回来,天天拉着男友逛商场、看**、打羽毛球,看着男友被折磨的样子,叶晴幸福得像传说中的公主。
◆观点
扈娟 02届毕业生
我的爱情随着毕业而终结,当时的感伤没有人能体会,感觉天底下最爱的人就这样失去了。事实上不是这样的,我工作了,然后恋爱、结婚。现在回过头来审读大学时代的感情,发现那时的我与他,不过是“玩乐”上的志同道合;而与现在的先生,则是生活上的志同道合。
刘小明 03届毕业生
我已经结婚了,老婆当然是大学热恋三年的女友了。我觉得我们比起其他夫妻最大的优势就是拥有对方的过去,隔段时间我们不由自主就会去谈论大学时光,回忆那时的点点滴滴。每当此时,都能感应到对方的心跳,彼此注视的眼神也变得格外柔软。美好的回忆,将滋养我们以后的婚姻之花。
李蓉 大四学生
每一段恋情都以美好开端,这就够了。至于有没有结果,我觉得没必要想那么多。社会上的爱情,也不一定因为美好就有结果啊。所以,爱情来了,我们就享受爱的欢乐;爱情走了,我们就体验爱的离愁。只要热爱生活,泪水也是甜的。
王琴 大四学生
我没有男朋友,不过追求我的男生倒有几个,我觉得他们不适合我,所以一直拒绝着。我有一个奢望,希望毕业时上车的那一刻,能得到他们的一个拥抱。我羡慕那些拥有校园爱情的同学,也为我自己的宁缺勿滥喝彩。大学四年,用心去过了,就无怨无悔,不论有没有爱情,不论爱情有没有未来。
心酸的浪漫
1不管你曾经多么内向,你一定要在全班同学面前,认认真真地讲一次话,或者唱一支歌,即使你和开学时一样,再介绍一回你自己。
2拜访一回你最尊敬的老师,在毕业时,认真地记住一条关于人生的经验。
3在一个太阳还没有升起来的早晨,去操场跑一次步,和那些生猛的大一新生们比较一下懒觉睡多了后体力上的差距。
4在宿舍里不要有类似于写“某某到此一游”的行为。
5下定决心,班集体的活动这次一定不会借故溜走——如果还有的话。
6很认真地穿一次西装(套装),看看自己和4年前,变化的地方在哪里?
7花一个下午的时间,认真地整理一次自己的书箱,哪些是可以留的,哪些是不要了的。在某本书里,是不是看见了一张陌生已久的纸条,或者是某人的名字。
8男生整理衣柜的时候,记得把你的球衣送给你的学弟,CD送给学妹,游戏碟记得自己带走。
9记得留下每一个你觉得应该是朋友的****,然后把你新单位的电话给他们。
10终于要走了,再剪一次发,让自己崭崭新新地离开,然后,崭崭新新地开始。
11记得归还你的证件,陪伴了你4年的桌子、椅子和凳子——我们不提倡你宁愿罚钱也要留下你的图书证、学生证、医疗证、食堂饭卡……但我们对此表示理解。
12论文答辩可能是你人生当中最后一次的课堂作业了,请你认真地书写每一个字。
13和你一起睡了4年的床,一定要记得和它合一张影。
14尽可能地送走每一个你能送的同学,你要明白,他们是你4年的同学,他们中的某人,也许是你最后一次能见到了。(编译:陈秀丽)
还有一篇:
Do students have the right to fall in love in college”
This is a controversial issue in our times Just as a coin has two sides, no side is better than the other; it is often difficult to distinguish what is right from what is wrong Love is a feeling deep within our hearts
Roaming around the campus, you often hear people proclaim: “Why didn’t Cupid aimed his arrow at me” “Where is my handsome prince” This is probably why songs about love are so popular among the youth
Last year, I remember when one of my roommates met her Romeo First, she ate very little for days and just sat opposite from the mirror singing: “Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who is the fairest of them all” We thought that she must be crazy and got the urge to ship her to the hospital Later, they became lovers and we saw a twinkle in her eyes She said: “Our match is made in heaven, there is a chemical bond between us” In the days following, a smile always hung from her face Isn’t love powerful
Another one of my roommates was not as fortunate She had a boyfriend but now all that is history The boy was a couch potato They used to fight over very trivial things She finally got fed up with the boy and separated quite unpleasantly We better not go through this kind of love
I am the only one who is still single in my dormitory My friends asked me why I haven’t found my Mr Right They said when I got older, there would be no one waiting for me To be honest, I’m not afraid at all The ratio of man versus woman is 133 to 100 Thus, I think it is the boys who would have to act quickly or they will be single for the rest of their lives In addition, I’m also the youngest in my class I have more time left and I would like to enjoy my life freely without the hindrance from another person
Our elders exaggerate about love in college They say love is a waste of time and money It will often cause people to forget their studies and eventually may even destroy their lives I think we are all grown-ups and we have the ability to manage our own affairs
So, go with your heart and never regret!
译: 这是我们这个时代颇有争议的话题。正如一个硬币有两面一样,不能说正面就比反面好;通常明辨是非是很难的吧?爱情是我们内心一种很深的感情。
漫步大学校园,你经常都可以听到这样感叹:“为什么丘比特之箭不射向我呢?”“我的白马王子在哪里?”这也许就是为何爱情歌曲在年轻人中如此流行的原因吧。
我还记得去年当我的一个舍友遇到她的罗密欧的情景。先是她一连几天吃得很少,只是每天对着镜子,不停地唱:“魔镜,魔镜告诉我,谁是天下最漂亮的?”我们都认为她一定是疯了,打算把她送到医院。不久,他们成了恋人。我们从她的眼里看到了幸福的光芒。她说:“我们是天作之合,我们之间有化学反应。”接下来的日子里,她的脸上总是挂着笑容。这难道就是爱情的力量吗?
我的另一个舍友就没有这么幸运了。她曾经有一个男朋友,可惜已经分手。那个男孩是一个电视迷,他们经常为了琐事吵架。最终,她厌倦了,不愉快地和他分了手。我们都不希望遭遇这样的爱情。
我是我们宿舍惟一的单身女孩。我的朋友老是问我为什么没有找到我的白马王子。她们都说再过几年就不会有人要我了。说实话,我一点也不害怕。男女的比例是133∶100。因此我认为应该是男生迅速采取行动才对,否则他们就不得不打一辈子光棍了。另外,我也是班里年龄最小的,我的时间多的是,我宁愿自由地度过,也不愿接受另一个人的限制。
我们长辈们总是过于夸张大学校园里的爱情。他们认为爱情只是在浪费时间和金钱,而且会使人们荒废学业,最终可能会毁掉他们生活。可我认为,我们都已经长大了,有能力管理自己的事情。
因此,随心而动,不必后悔!
别急,还有一篇:
这篇希望对你有帮助:)~~
The love of the campus
In campus study can be boosted in many ways, one of them is study with your girlfriend(boyfriend), if you are the guys who abandoned yourself in the PC games, and can not push yourself out of it, then this time, your lover is very power of study( except that your lover is also the addicter in PC game or something else), she(he) can force you to the library or somewhere,and she(he) will also make you aware of the importance of knowledge with knocking your head or pretending to be angree with you, how romantic the actions are
In addition, Of course, not all the lovers can do that, it is depended on both of your view of love and personality, Take man as example, if you are a responsible man, you may have already realized that knowledge was the most important, without that you can not stand stably in the competitive society, much less your love OK, you said,"We do not need the bread, we can be full with drinking the love spring" However, that's your own opinion, as you are still in campus, you haven't seen the brutal aspect of the society, the experience accumulated by the former cases have shown that bread is the basic stone for our love, without that , you can not reach anything
We can blame on the fast developing world cause it destroy the chaste love and make it a little dirty, but we have to acknowledge that, it is true, what should we do Only one, keep the "bread is the basic stone for our love" as our motto
Campus love can be seen everywhere, the undergraduate students are generally about 19 to 24 years old, their bodies and their mind both long for love
There are often two attitudes on campus love, one is it is acceptable and natural , the other is it is surely opposed since it will affect the students' main task- study
To my surprise when I worked in an university , I've found some excellent students fall in love and both male and female students's study are improved greatly and they feel happy too
It seems to me whether campus love will affect their study depends on the individuals and their self-discipline
I suppose whether a student in college will have a gf or bf should be a natural course , however I often told my students it's not necessarily to have a bf or gf within the four years, anyway, the campus is relatively small and they surely have more or better choice after they graduate
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1、QQ a friend sent this to me a little short, look after the deeply about。 Sometimes love really helpless, when you miss, and perhaps will not come back to your side The opportunity comes, if we failed to grasp that fleeting。
2、A 18-year-old boy from the falling in love with a girl。They are next, but it is not a class, the boys would like, and so on the university he will tell the truth, because the boys like girls laugh flowery face, like her voice pure and thin Dan Fengyan, he felt that the girl should be on his He would like to, and so it no longer。
3、At the same time, they admitted to the University。To his beloved girl, he chose the same university, and he could have been a better school。After the girls to go to college to start a colorful campus life, every day that this society organizations, boys see girls wanted to live so happy, and so it He still did not say。
love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you
我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。
2) No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won‘t make you cry
没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。
3) The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can‘t have them
失去某人,最糟糕的莫过于,他近在身旁,却犹如远在天边。
4) Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile
纵然伤心,也不要愁眉不展,因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。
5) To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world
对于世界而言,你是一个人;但是对于某个人,你是他的整个世界。
6) Don‘t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn‘t willing to waste their time on you
不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。
7) Just because someone doesn‘t love you the way you want them to, doesn‘t mean they don‘t love you with all they have
爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你,那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。
8) Don‘t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to
不要着急,最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。
9) Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful
在遇到梦中人之前,上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人;在我们终于遇见心仪的人时,便应当心存感激。
10) Don‘t cry because it is over, smile because it happened
不要因为结束而哭泣,微笑吧,为你的曾经拥有。
The Positive Meanings of Love
We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us
Love means that I know the person I love I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level
Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the other person back On the contrary, my caring frees both of us If I care about you, I'm concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become Consequently, I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times
Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I expect you to be for me I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own needs
Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for you It does mean acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your suffering A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you
Love means making a commitment to the person I love This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, struggle, and despair, as well as in times of calm and enjoyment
Love means trusting the person I love If I love you, I trust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt me I trust that you will find me attractive, and that you won't abandon me; I trust the mutual nature of our love If we trust each other, we are willing to be open to each other and reveal our true selves
Love can tolerate imperfection In a love relationship there are times when I am bored, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times I feel I can't move forward Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness I can stay during rough times, however, because I can remember what we had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through We agree with the idea that love is a spirit that changes life Love is a way of life that is creative and that transforms However, love is not reserved for a perfect world Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go wrong Love is meant to be a spirit that works in painful situations Love is meant to bring meaning into life where nonsense appears to rule In other words, love comes into an imperfect world to make it possible to live
Love is open If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships Although our love for each other and our commitment to each other might prohibit certain actions on our parts, we are not totally and exclusively married to each other It is a false love that cements one person to another in such a way that he or she is not given room to grow
Love is selfish I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, and respect myself If I am empty, then all I can give you is my emptiness If I feel that I'm complete and worthwhile in myself, then I'm able to give to you out of my fullness One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with you
Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now By taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better
To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one's individuality In love, two beings become one and yet remain two
爱的真谛
我们想把我们对爱情的一些积极看法跟大家分享。
爱就意味着了解所爱的人。能够认识到这个人多个方面——不仅仅是美好的一面,还有他的局限,他的矛盾之处和他的缺点。要看到对方的情感、思想,感觉他的内心,要能够透过他在社交场合的表现和他的社会角色而看到他内心的深处。
爱就意味着关心所爱之人的幸福。事实上,爱不是占有,也不是束缚。相反,两人都在爱中得到自由。关心一个人就是关心他的成长,希望他可以成为最好的他。因此,我不会为他的个人发展设置障碍,即使这样有时使我难受。
爱就意味着尊重所爱之人。爱一个人,就是将其卸任一个独立的人,有自己的价值观、思想和感情。我不会为自己而坚持要他放弃个性变成我所希望的他。我能允许,也鼓励他我行我素,成为他自己。我不会视他为物,或利用他主要来满足自己的需要。
爱就意味着对所爱之人负责。爱一个人,就要对他作为独立个体的需求做出回应。这种负责并不包括替他做他可以自己做到的事,也不是操纵他的生活。这种负责是承认我的所作所为会影响到他,他的欢乐痛苦都与我直接相关。相爱者确有伤害或忽略所爱的人的能力。从这个意义上说,我们认为,爱就要为自己的行为对对方产生的影响承担某种责任。
爱就意味着对所爱之人做出承诺。这种承诺并非意味着把自己完全交给对方,也并不是说这一关系必然是天长地久,这种承诺否认在平静愉快时,还是困苦挣扎、失意绝望时,都愿意厮守相伴。
爱就意味着信赖所爱之人。爱一个人,就要相信他会接受我的关心,接受我的爱,相信他不会故意伤害我;相信他会认为平静愉快有吸引力,相信他不会抛弃我;相信爱是相互的。如果我们彼此信赖,我们就愿彼此坦诚相待,敞开心扉。
爱能够容忍不完美。爱人之间也会有时感到厌倦,有时想放弃,有时感到压力,有时感到无法前进。真正的爱并不意味着永远的幸福。但是,在困难时期我能坚守,因为我仍记得我们共同度过的日子,我也能想象如果我们愿意面对我们之间的问题、渡过难关、我们将共同拥有什么样的未来。我们一致认为爱是一种能改变人生的精神。爱是一种生活方式,它具有创造和改变的力量。但是爱并不是为完善世界而存在的,爱本来就是我们这个不完美、有缺陷的世界而存在的。爱应该是一种能缓解痛苦的精神力量。爱应该给我们这无聊的生活带来意义。换言之,是爱使我们能够在这不完美的世界上生活下去。
爱是包容的。爱一个人,就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。尽管对彼此的爱与承诺不允许我们有某些行为,这种结合也不是全然排他的。两个人密不可分,再无个人发展的余地,这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。
爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊,才能接受别人。如果自己空虚,那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空虚。如果认为自己是充实的、出色的,那么我就能以自己的充实为所爱之人增光,给对方以爱的最好方法之一就是与所爱之人一起充分体验自己。
爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个人,在接受今日的他的同时,还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人静止不变,则令其退步,而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力已经发挥,则助其进步。
总而言之,成熟的爱就是在保持个体独立条件下的双方结合。在爱情中,两个人变成了一个人同时还保持着两个独立的个体。
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