我和女朋友说了我追我的前女友时做过一些很浪漫的事，她生气了，怎么哄呀！

你很笨，告诉你女友关于你前女友的事，你女朋友的话推测是赌气成分居多，你要做的就是别管什么脸面，干些比追前女友时更浪漫的事，坚持个一两回估计就没问题了，要让你女友感受到你的爱，当然，还有一种方法是直接分手

We Have to Say Goodbye

No rose, no diamond ring, that’s the simple and romantic love stories in college The graduates have to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved When their future is confronted with love, which one is more important What will the lovers do in June

没有玫瑰的芬芳，没有钻戒的世俗，这就是大学恋情——纯情而唯美。毕业生不得不面临六月的来临，也就是向心爱的人道别的时刻。当前途与爱情一同遭遇未来，该如何取舍？六月里的恋人会怎么做呢？

Don’t cry, my baby

There are so many love stories in college If the lovers met each other by note passed, the story was called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if they became lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love” Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, and they got the so-called “QQ love”

Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset So he entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time While he was roaming about on the net, a stranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you” Then he began chatting with him or her Liu poured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to be discouraged, for there was still chance After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every day and it lasted for a week Liu felt very happy On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do you want to see me” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation “Then you can turn your head back” And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu

However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice Xiao Yu is a local girl and her home is in Wuhan While Liu Bing comes from Xi’an They are both the only child in their family Their parents aren’t against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home They quarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city they would choose Xi’an or Wuhan They were up a gum tree and couldn’t come to terms

Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time When Liu typed out “Let’s break up”, Xiao Yu couldn’t restrain her tears any more

Still a long way to go

Chen Li has been unhappy recently With the coming of graduation, she’s become even more depressed She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don’t have a special story; they got to know each other in the library Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library They would go to cinema or walk on the streets at weekends Three years have passed quietly They promised to take the postgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 points margin in English

Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there Considering the economic condition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus On the one hand, the living expense is lower here On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies

At night, thinking that her lover would leave for Beijing, Chen Li’s tears fell down her cheeks silently, making her pillowslip wet all over Although Jia Hao encouraged her over and over again that she would succeed at the second try and they would reunion in Beijing, however, he said so at the last time Will their love still go on in case she fails

A new life for us

Different from those sorrowful lovers, Ye Qing is like a happy bird flying in and out of her dormitory She and her boyfriend were in the same class in high school Fortunately they both came to Beijing though not in the same university They’re not far from each other, although they can’t be very much in love every day like other love birds Ye Qing feels contented that they can spend weekends together Sometimes, Ye Qing would call her boyfriend and asked him to see her in half an hour and bring some snacks passingly

Her boyfriend majors in the pop Communication He has been employed by a well-known communicating corporation in Shenzhen Ye Qing hasn’t found a satisfying job, but they’ve planed that she also goes to Shenzhen to hunt a job As a major in Economic and Trade English, Ye thinks it not difficult in finding a job such as secretary or assistant As far as buying house and car, she told us secretly, “He promised that I needn’t consider that kind of things”

To the moment they have enough time to wile away Ye has decided it was time to make up for the past 4 years’ loss of romance Now they’ve been shopping around, going to movies and playing badminton every day Seeing her boyfriend being “tortured”, Ye felt as happy as a princess in fairy tales

Point of view

Hu Juan, graduate of 2002

My love came to the end with the coming of graduation Nobody could taste my sorrow at that time I felt I lost the man I loved most in the world Such is not the fact I worked, fell in love with another guy and then got married Looking back on my love in college, I found that we were just in the same camp on entertainment While my husband and I are living our lives

Liu Xiaoming, graduate of 2003

I’ve been married Of course, my wife was my girlfriend in the university We had been in love for 3 years Compared with other husband and wife, we feel it a superiority to own each other’s past We would talk about our university life and recall dribs and drabs Whenever we recollect together, we could feel each other’s heartbeat And the expression in our eyes would become very gentle The beautiful memory will always nourish our marriage

Li Rong, senior

It’s enough that each love starts with a beautiful beginning As for whether it will come to an end, I feel it unnecessary to think too much Love out of campus doesn’t always have a happy ending Therefore, when love comes, we should enjoy the pleasure of loving When love comes to an end, we could also taste its grief of parting Tears taste sweet as long as you love your life

Wang Qin, senior

I don’t have a boyfriend, but some boys are wooing me I feel they’re not my cup of tea, so I refused I have a wish that they could give me a hug before I leave by train when I graduate I admire those who are in love on campus and at the same time I felicitate myself on not choosing at random During the four years in university, as long as you live in earnest, you won’t regret, whether you own love or not, whether your love has future or not

毕业了，该分手了

宝贝，别哭

校园里上演着那么多的爱情故事。如果恋人通过纸条表白爱情，就被称为“白条之恋”；如果他们在快餐店里相识、相恋，就叫“快餐之恋”；如果是在野炊时相爱，当然就是“野炊之恋”了。刘冰是通过QQ聊天认识小雨的，也就是所谓的“QQ之恋”。

他们的故事开始于大二下半学期。刚开学，刘冰在四级考试中挂了，没有通过，他非常沮丧，就来到学校附近的网吧打发时间。正当他在网上神游时，突然QQ上有人问a他：“可以和你聊聊吗？”刘冰就和她聊了起来，其实他还不知道对方是男是女。刘冰将自己的苦恼一倾而出，对方就耐心地开导他，说别灰心，还有机会呢。此后，有一个星期，他们约定每天8点来聊天，刘冰觉得很开心。到了第7天，对方问刘冰：“想见面吗？”刘冰没有任何犹豫地打下一个字：“想！”对方说：“那你就回头吧！”于是，刘冰转身就看到了那个可爱的女孩，小雨。

然而，面对毕业，他们却不知道如何选择。小雨的家就在武汉本地，而刘冰来自于西安。作为家里的独生子女，双方父母不反对他们在一起，但都希望儿女能回到自己的身边。他们俩为了毕业后的去向问题吵翻了天，矛盾的焦点是“要留在哪个城市？”。选择西安，还是选择武汉，两人犯难了，而且谁都不肯让步。

最后，刘冰和小雨又去网吧上网聊天，依然是背对背。当刘冰打出“我们分手吧”几个字后，小雨的眼泪再也忍不住了。

路漫漫其修远兮

晨丽最近郁郁寡欢，看着毕业的日子一天天逼近，越来越无精打采。她和男朋友贾皓的故事没有什么特别的，就是在图书馆认识的。两个爱学习的人，最大的乐趣就是泡图书馆，然后在周末去看看**，逛逛街。三年下来，倒也平淡。大三时他们就约定一起考研到北京，然而晨丽却因英语2分之差落榜了。

贾皓鼓励晨丽和他一起去北京，然后在北京专职考研。然而考虑到两人的经济状况，晨丽还是觉得留在学校再考比较合适，一方面这里的生活费用相对较低，再者自己也熟悉这里的环境，能安心学习。

夜里想着自己心爱的人就要远赴北京了，晨丽的眼泪就无声无息地流出来了，枕巾被打湿了一大片。尽管贾皓一再鼓励她，说她第二次一定会考上的，那时他们就会在北京相聚。可是，第一次考研时贾皓就是这么鼓励她的，万一她第二次还没考上，那么他们的爱情会怎么样呢？

新生活在向我们招手

和那些悲伤的恋人不同，叶晴快乐地像只小鸟，整天从宿舍飞进飞出。她和男友是高中同学，虽然高考没考到同一所学校，但幸运的是都考到了北京，而且两个学校也相距不远。虽然不能像别的恋人一样天天卿卿我我，但能在一起快乐地度过周末，对叶晴来说已经很满足了。有时候，实在忍不住，叶晴就给男友打电话，让他半小时内立即赶到，并且带点零食过来。

男友学的是炙手可热的通讯工程，已经被深圳一家有名的通讯企业录取。虽然叶晴还没有找到工作，但他们已经计划好了，就是叶晴也去深圳，然后在深圳找工作。由于学的是经贸英语，叶晴相信找个秘书、助理之类的工作还是没有问题。至于以后买房子、买车子，她偷偷告诉我们：“他已经答应不用我考虑了！”

正好毕业前这一段时间有大把的时间可以挥霍，叶晴决定把过去4年的浪漫损失弥补回来，天天拉着男友逛商场、看**、打羽毛球，看着男友被折磨的样子，叶晴幸福得像传说中的公主。

我觉得全句应该是:“爱意东升西落，浪漫至死不渝”爱意可能会消失消失，东升西落，有自己的规律。人可以没有爱情，但是浪漫是一种状态，一种对生活的仪式感，是不能被轻易放弃的，人们要永远保持一个浪漫的心，要对生活有一定的热情。

女生说东升西落，可能有两种情况。 第一，“太阳东升西落，而我爱你有始而无终。”太阳会时隐时现，东升西落，有时候会消失，会让你看不见，它会遵循自己的规律，不会永远出你面前。而我爱你有始无终，一旦开始就不会轻易结束。我觉得女生这句话可能是表达了对你的喜欢，对你的爱意浓厚，不会轻易消散。

第二，我们要看看东升西落的意思。东升西落是指太阳从东边升起，从西边落下。如果把太阳升起设定为有，太阳落下设定为无。那么东升西落就可以看作是一个从有至无的过程。可能就是说明，“我喜欢过你，但也仅仅是喜欢过你。”可能这是女生失望的一种表达吧，对于男生，对于爱情，可能是会渐渐失望的，爱意也会慢慢消散。

太阳东升西落，浪漫至死不渝。我觉得女孩子是比较浪漫的生物，除非真正伤透了心，对于生活失望，才会有第二种想法。因为在女生心里，浪漫，是一种仪式感，是一种对生活的态度，是不应该被轻易放弃的。即使太阳东升西落，但我们要永远保持浪漫，保持一颗浪漫的心，永远浪漫，永远保持热情，永远热泪盈眶。

我认为，男生应该重视女生，女生喜欢的浪漫，不是注重金钱，而是注重态度，想知道自己在男生心里的地位。要知道，东升西落容易，有始无终困难。

《你好，李焕英》讲述了贾小玲穿越回到1981年和妈妈成为了闺蜜，陪伴妈妈的青春、恋爱，让她开心、快乐，营造浪漫，弥补那些被遗忘的时光。喜剧的表现手法使整个故事笑点密集，后半段又引人深思，使观众爆笑过后得到共鸣，想到自己的母亲，外婆，奶奶，亲人，不禁有“子欲养而亲不待”的同感，像薇娅的评论里最后一句话说的“希望大家都能珍惜眼下岁月，善待身边的人，时间一去不复返，再多的眼泪，我们都回不到从前”珍惜身边人成为情感主旋律。

笑点

本身主演大多都是喜剧大咖，而且《你好，李焕英》是由喜剧小品改编，笑点包袱都不用说，每一个故事情节和笑点都很高级，比如李焕英和贾小玲在医务室碰见，拿着电视票去排队买电视，贾小玲装盲人被李焕英工友识破，笑点呼应，很巧妙很高级；沈腾饰演的沈长林还有陈赫，每次的出场都是爆笑，划船闹肚子和二人转部分，都笑点十足，光是喜剧，笑点，这个票价都值了。

泪点

影片中记忆最深的台词就是妈妈李焕英说的“我未来的女儿，我就让她健康快乐就行”，贾小玲想自己多多努力，长大了有出息为母亲争气，多挣点钱，可是母亲最朴素的爱就是希望她能健健康康快快乐乐的，就够了，这也戳中无数观众的心；

父母的爱总是无私的，不求回报的，出车祸后，贾小玲和李焕英告别的一幕，很多人把口罩都哭湿了，看到的是贾玲对母亲的追忆，有太多遗憾太多不舍，但是透过**很多人的眼泪是对自己的检视，透过贾小玲的遗憾，才能让观众觉醒，好好珍惜拥有的幸福，善待身边爱的人。

整个**最大的亮点就是最直接的情感，没有很多技术、技巧、特效和华丽的渲染，也没有过多的宣传。最好的宣传就是口碑，豆瓣评分一路飙升，从75分一直打到了83分，国产**中是非常难得的，有观众评价，贾小玲和李焕英不仅仅代表的是母女感情，而是一个女性的角度对另一个女性的理解和关爱，在她心中，更希望妈妈是女儿，希望妈妈可以得到更多的爱。

父母想要的其实很简单，儿女健康快乐，多一些问候、关心、耐心与陪伴，就已足够，春节期间，少刷一会手机，多陪一会父母

作为一个木讷的老公，在平常的生活中，其实是比较无趣的那种，基本上属于很平淡的生活。如果老公突然变得非常浪漫，是什么让它发生这种改变，妻子会有很多的疑虑！从来不懂得浪漫的老公突然讨妻子欢心，他可能做了内疚的事吗？

我感觉你老公的这个变化或许和他接触的环境改变有关。他性格比较内敛，不善于表达，不知道用浪漫来让自己妻子开心！现在在他周围很多年轻人的浪漫方式影响了他，他觉得自己对妻子一直不够体贴到位，想通过浪漫的方式来弥补自己内心的亏欠也是可以理解的！对于老公的这种变化要有惊喜，毕竟他为你而改变，是想让你开心快乐！你不该揣摩他心里做了什么内疚的事！

当然也许妻子的疑虑有一定的道理！男人可能在外面背叛了妻子。觉得自己心里很内疚，想通过浪漫的方式减轻自己内心的不安。不过作为妻子对于他的这种改变要接受！浪漫能够让夫妻之间的心走近，增加夫妻感情！这也是一件好事，聪明的女人不要把什么都弄清楚，要学会把老公的心牢牢拴住！

夫妻之间最重要的是彼此之间的信任，不要无端地猜疑。如果信任的关系一旦破裂，那么将会是无底的黑暗。只有自己多做改变，加深夫妻感情，婚姻的堡垒才不会攻破！如果自己做得足够好，你老公的心一会在你身上！

首先我觉得男人在女人生育的时候的亏欠是不能弥补的，因为很多时候，其实生育是非常重要的一件事情，如果他在这个时候可以缺席的话证明了他对这件事情其实也没有多上心，证明了他对这件事情并没有很看重。

而且在女人在生育的时候，女人内心会因为缺席其实是感觉到非常的痛苦的，所以在此期间，他其实也是非常的抑郁和难过的。你的缺席，有可能会让他导致一种心理上的自卑，还有就是委屈，受了委屈之后能其实是特别的脆弱的，而且你对他说几句话的话也是不堪一击的。

而且他的内心情况也是非常的悲伤的，所以很多时候假如你后期用再多的甜言蜜语，然后无数的浪漫来弥补的话，其实人家都是不愿意接受的，因为在那个时期，本来就是属于走一趟鬼门关的情况，但是你的不理睬和不闻不问，反而会让人家彻底凉透了新。

所以很多时候男人对女人在生育过程中，一定要重视起来，这样的话呢，也是可以培养一个好的心态，而且可以让女人也是逐渐的变得越来越强，成为一个好的妈妈，然后自己也成为了一个好的父亲，都是非常不错的。

就像是现在的网络用词“迟来的深情碧草都贱，”正是这样一个道理，所以很多时候呢，男人在往往后悔之后再进行弥补这样的话呢，也是于事无补的，而且再多的好，其实都没有及时那么重要。所以这些都是你们男人在日常生活中需要注意到的，而且女人生育的过程中，其实证明着你和孩子和你的妻子都是以后要有一个婚姻幸福美满的家庭，所以都是要小心谨慎一些，要懂得安抚一下女人的心理，理解女人。所以我觉得很多时候缺席是无法弥补的，受到伤害的不仅是人，而且还有心理。