翻译成英语

最强烈的表达方法是You should not quarrel with your mother

debate，argue，quarrel 最明显的区别是quarrel指人际关系不和、埋怨乃至吵架，而debate，argue，debate倾向于比较特殊和正式的场合的争辩如立法机构，argue则倾向于一般的辩论而且往往还要提出反对和坚持的理由。细微的区别比较请看下面

debate [di'beit]

vt 辩论，争论，讨论

vi 辩论，争论，讨论

n 辩论；辩论会

vi

1 (尤指在立法机构或集会上)辩论，争论；讨论：例句: When I left, the men were still debating

我离开时，那些人仍在辩论。I debated with John upon(或about) the question

我和约翰辩论这个问题。2 参加辩论比赛；参加辩论会3 仔细考虑,思考,盘算(with oneself或in one's own mind):例句: I debated with myself whether to tell her the truth or not

我盘算着是否把真相告诉她。I'm just debating whether to go or stay

我正在考虑去留问题。4 [古语]斗争；争吵

vt

1 (如在立法机构或集会上)辩论，争论，讨论(问题)：例句: They debated the matter of free will

他们辩论过自由意志的问题。2 争论(一个问题)，争执，对…不同意：例句: The homeowners debated the value of a road on the island

房东们争论岛上一条道路的价值。3 与(某人或团体)辩论(或争论，讨论)：例句: Jack will debate Jones Smith will debate Mary

杰克将与琼斯辩论。史密斯将与玛丽辩论。4 思考,考虑,盘算,细想(with oneself或in one's own mind):例句: She debated her decision in the matter

她对此事仔细考虑后做出决定。I debated the idea in my mind until I fell asleep

我入睡前脑子里一直在考虑这个主意。5 [古语]为…斗争；竞争；争夺

近义词:

discuss

短语

1 beyond debate无疑义，无可争辩2 open the debate在辩论时首先发言

argue ['ɑɡju:]

vi 争论，辩论；提出理由

vt 辩论，争论；说服；证明

vi

1 提出(或提供)理由(赞成或反对某事)，表示赞成(或反对)的意见，为赞成(或反对)而辩论(与for或against连用)：例句: He argued in favour of capital punishment

他提出理由赞成严惩。to argue for(或against) a proposed law

辩论赞成(或反对)某法律草案2 争辩，争论；争吵，争执；持异议：例句: The senator argued with the President about the new tax bill

参议员与总统为新税法案争辩。

vt

1 辩论；争论；讨论；议论；提出赞成(或反对)的理由：例句: The lawyers argued the case

律师们辩论这案件。2 用辩论(企图)证明，论证；坚持；(坚决)主张，认为：例句: to argue that the news report must be wrong

论证此项新闻报道必定错误3 提供…证据；证明；表明(原因等)；表示；意指：例句: His manners argue a good upbringing

他的举止表明受过良好教育。His clothes argue poverty

他的衣衫表明贫穷。4 说明,劝告(into或 out of)：例句: to argue someone out of a plan

说服某人不作计划5 [1275 ～ 1325]

近义词:

discuss

短语

1 argue in a circle用循环论证来辩论；辩论不出结果2 argue someone into(或 out of)(doing)something劝告，说服某人做(或不做)某事，通过争论使某人做(或不做)某事3 argue something away(或off)找理由把某事辩解过去4 argue with(或against)someone about(或on) something与某人辩论某事

quarrel ['kwɔ:rəl]

vi 吵架；争论；挑剔

n 吵架；反目；怨言；争吵的原因；方头凿

n

1 争吵，吵架，口角2 不和，不睦3 争吵原因

vi

1 争吵；不和：例句: This newly wedded couple are always quarreling

这对新婚夫妇总是吵架。2 挑剔；埋怨：例句: Don't quarrel with your fate You should take it into your own hands

不要埋怨命运，你应该掌握自己的命运。

近义词:

wrangle altercation squabble spat

反义词:

agreement harmony

短语

1 espouse someone's quarrel帮助某人争吵；为某人鸣不平；为某人报仇2 fasten a quarrel upon (或 on) someone向某人找茬儿吵架，向某人寻衅3 fight someone's quarrel (for him)为某人鸣不平；帮助某人争辩(为了主持公道或帮助某人取得赔偿等)；帮某人报仇4 find quarrel in a straw找茬儿，挑剔，吹毛求疵5 have no quarrel against (或 with)对…无所责难；没有理由抱怨6 in a good quarrel争吵得有理，有正当争吵的理由7 patch (或 make)up a quarrel暂修旧好，暂时和解，暂停争吵8 pick(或 seek) a quarrel with someone借故寻衅，向某人挑衅；故意和某人争吵9 quarrel of long standing世仇；宿仇10 take up a quarrel

a 参加争吵

b 排解，调停 [莎士比亚语]

参考资料：

Each time when we quarrel, I'd lay my opinions detailly and patiently, yet you never cared

You seems to feel my thinkings are just junk You would never face your own shortbacks

When two hedgehogs embrace, one is willing to pull its own quills inspite of the pain But then it seems the hug then brings more pain as his body armor is gone You are the one who would refuse to pull your own quills

Efforts made from one side is completely useless

We quarrel almost everyday, and then make up and enjoy the peace which is always too short