中国人表达情感的方式 英文

We Chinese people express emotions, mostly implicit bias, just leave people thinking, guess room for words to express their viewsUnlike Europeans and unassuming, plain talkOne is the Chinese people to other people when it comes to when it comes to own business, often using "respects", such as when sent to others is a gift, presentation said that "sending a little gift, not a tribute ”And the Europeans are not so, they even sent a little gift, to say "I have sent to you are beautiful, precious gift ”, Western like this instead of performance, there are many, many

This situation was formed after a long history of environmentalAround 2,500 years ago, Laozi advocated "sound thin", Confucius, when finishing note to the history of the spring and Autumn Annals, "a style of writing in which sublime words with deep meaning are used" to "line by line", is to use a method described in veiled terms to facts suggesting that one occurredSong dynasty writer Ouyang Xiu, the editor of the new book of Tang, the new history of the five dynasties time, Confucius also renewed style, extensive use of implied "a style of writing in which sublime words with deep meaning are used" to describe historyThis is culture in the history of our common style, of course, will lead to civil partners in working practices

Recently I looked my reading notes, see a recorded song Luo Ye (people of Luling, today jiangxijian) edit a note book in an old drunkard on record of a seven quatrains, proved once again in veiled terms of performance practices, not only in the history books, in most people's views have also become used to itThis poem is saying: "Kai Kiss under the green screen, a paper from scratch completely emptyExpect penny Lang Huai don't hate, recalling the people speak ”This is used to express the most sincere feelings of ordinary people in China, it can make people enjoy endless aftertastesIf, as Europeans did, wrote a letter to miss his wife's letters, in order to express the "Miss deep", wrote at great length, its center was a "love" WordThis and Chinese people the implicit expression was so immeasurably!Chinese "is not a Word, very style", not only saving and concentratedHow smart people!--Of course, it is said that on the bright side

Chinese convey emotion in veiled terms there are dangerous sideIt is very easy to cause someone else's misconceptionsIf that is the case of a wise man, and he (she) and accurate understanding, that effect is good;However, if a less clever, or understand a bit misplaced people, would probably have had a misunderstandingFor example, a woman received his letter came Lang Chun, top without a Word, may have a stupid girl thinks its Lang Chun parted company with her too!If this woman was disappointed, emotions or out of control, very serious consequences

Therefore, westerly winds to the East of trends in China todayIs a straightforward way to express emotions in the West, also influence the ChineseYou see, today young people in love, than their parents was straightforward, unobtrusive components decliningIn this way, instead of emotional expression and Western fusion, if they can get in the Middle, it is a very good folk

1、surprised

读音：英 [səˈpraɪzd]   美 [sərˈpraɪzd]  

adj惊讶的;惊奇的;觉得奇怪的;感觉意外的

例句：This lady was genuinely surprised at what happened to her pet 

这位女士对发生在自己宠物身上的事感到非常惊讶。

2、sad

读音：英 [sæd]   美 [sæd]  

adj悲哀的;可悲的;糟糕的;令人遗憾的

比较级： sadder 

最高级： saddest

例句：I'm sad that Julie's marriage is on the verge of splitting up 

朱莉的婚姻濒临破裂，我为此感到难过。

3、delight

读音：英 [dɪˈlaɪt]   美 [dɪˈlaɪt]  

n快乐，高兴;使人高兴的东西或人

vt使高兴，使欣喜

vi感到高兴[快乐]

第三人称单数： delights 

复数： delights 

现在分词： delighting 

过去式： delighted 

过去分词： delighted

例句：Throughout the house, the views are a constant source of surprise and delight 

从房子各处看到的景色不断给人以惊奇和欣喜

4、pleasure

读音：英 [ˈpleʒə(r)]   美 [ˈplɛʒɚ]  

n愉快;娱乐;令人高兴的事

vt使高兴;使满意

vi

觉得高兴，享受;寻欢作乐

第三人称单数： pleasures 

复数： pleasures 

现在分词： pleasuring 

过去式： pleasured 

过去分词： pleasured

例句：Watching sport gave him great pleasure 

观看体育比赛给他以极大的愉悦。

5、happy

读音：英 [ˈhæpi]   美 [ˈhæpi]  

adj快乐的;幸福的;巧妙的;〈口〉有点醉意的

比较级： happier 

最高级： happiest

例句：I'm just happy to be back running 

我很高兴能重新回到跑道上。

表示情感态度的英语词汇如下：

1、Love。

2、Hate。

3、Happy。

4、Sad。

5、Angry。

6、Excited。

7、Jealous。

8、Envious。

9、Pleased。

10、Delighted。

11、Displeased。

12、Disappointed。

13、Satisfied。

14、Dissatisfied。

15、Impressed。

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1 我的世界不允许你的消失,不管结局是否完美

No matter the ending is perfect or not, you cannot disappear from my world

2 爱情是一个精心设计的谎言

Love is a carefully designed lie

3 承诺常常很像蝴蝶,美丽的飞盘旋然后不见

Promises are often like the butterfly, which disappear after beautiful hover

4 凋谢是真实的 盛开只是一种过去

Fading is true while flowering is past

5 为什么幸福总是擦肩而过,偶尔想你的时候…就让…回忆来陪我

Why I have never catched the happiness Whenever I want you ,I will be accompanyed by the memory of

6 如果你为着错过夕阳而哭泣，那么你就要错群星了

If you weeped for the missing sunset,you would miss all the shining stars

7 如果只是遇见，不能停留，不如不遇见

If we can only encounter each other rather than stay with each other,then I wish we had never encountered

8 宁愿笑著流泪,也不哭著说后悔 心碎了,还需再补吗？

I would like weeping with the smile rather than repenting with the cry,when my heart is broken ,is it needed to fix

9 天空没有翅膀的痕迹，而鸟儿已飞过

There are no trails of the wings in the sky, while the birds has flied away

10 当香烟爱上火柴时,就注定受到伤害

When a cigarette falls in love with a match,it is destined to be hurt

11 人活着 总是要得罪一些人的 就要看那些人是否值得得罪

When alive ,we may probably offend some peopleHowever, we must think about whether they are deserved offended

12 命里有时终需有 命里无时莫强求

You will have it if it belongs to you,whereas you don't kveth for it if it doesn't appear in your life

13 没有谁对不起谁,只有谁不懂得珍惜谁

No one indebted for others,while many people don't know how to cherish others

14 永远不是一种距离,而是一种决定。

Eternity is not a distance but a decision

15 在回忆里继续梦幻不如在地狱里等待天堂

Dreaming in the memory is not as good as waiting for the paradise in the hell

16 哪里有真爱存在，哪里就有奇迹

Where there is great love, there are always miracles

17 爱情就像一只蝴蝶，它喜欢飞到哪里，就把欢乐带到哪里。

Love is like a butterfly It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes

18 假如每次想起你我都会得到一朵鲜花，那么我将永远在花丛中徜徉。

If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden

19 有了你，我迷失了自我；失去你，我多么希望自己再度迷失。

Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again

20 每一个沐浴在爱河中的人都是诗人

At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet

21 看看我的眼睛，你会发现你对我而言意味着什么。

Look into my eyes you will see what you mean to me

22 距离使两颗心靠得更近。

Distance makes the hearts grow fonder

23 如果没有相等的爱，那就让我爱多一些吧。

If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me

24 爱是长在我们心里的藤蔓。

Love is a vine that grows into our hearts

25 因为你，我懂得了爱。

If I know what love is, it is because of you

26 爱情是生活最好的提神剂。

Love is the greatest refreshment in life

27 有了你，黑暗不再是黑暗。

The darkness is no darkness with thee

28 如果没有人爱我们，我们也就不会再爱自己了。

We cease loving ourselves if no one loves us

28 治疗爱的创伤唯有加倍地去爱。

There is no remedy for love but to love more

30 如果爱不疯狂就不是爱了。

When love is not madness, it is not love

31 有爱的心永远年轻。

A heart that loves is always young

32 爱情就像月亮，不增则减。

Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases

33 灵魂不能没有爱而存在。

The soul cannot live without love

34 生命虽短，爱却绵长。

Brief is life, but love is long

35 爱比大衣更能驱走寒冷。

Love keeps the cold out better than a cloak

36 没有了爱，地球便成了坟墓。

Take away love, and our earth is a tomb

37 我的爱与你同在。

My heart is with you

38 尽管还不曾离开，我已对你朝思暮想！

I miss you so much already and I haven't even left yet!

39 我会想你，在漫漫长路的每一步。

I'll think of you every step of the way

40 无论你身在何处，无论你为何忙碌，我都会在此守候

Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you

41 热烈的爱情是不可抑制的渴望。

Passionate love is a quenchless thirst

42 在这个世界上，男人最珍贵的财产就是一个女人的心。

The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart

43 没有你的日子就像一本没有书页的书。

Every day without you is like a book without pages

44 爱很难投入，但一旦投入，便更难走出

Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of

45 爱是一盏永不昏暗的明灯。

Love is a light that never dims

46 愿你的爱乘着飞翔的白鸽，展翅高飞。

May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight

47 人活着总要爱一回。

She who has never loved, has never lived

48 生命如花，爱情是蜜。

Life is the flower for which love is the honey

49 两颗相爱的心之间不需要言语。

No words are necessary between two loving hearts

50 在这世上珍贵的东西总是罕有，所以这世上只有一个你。

Precious things are very few in this world That is the reason there is just one you

51 我的心因你而笑。

You make my heart smile

52 为何好女孩总喜欢坏男孩？

Why do the good girls, always want the bad boys

53 和你在一起就像在一个清爽的早晨漫步。

Being with you is like walking on a very clear morning

54 爱永远不会嫌晚。

It is never too late to fall in love

55 对于世界，你可能只是一个人，但对于某个人，你却是整个世界。

To the world you may be just one person To the person you may be the world

56 哪里有爱，哪里就有希望。

Where there is love, there are always wishes

57 你不会因为美丽去爱一个女人，但她却会因为你的爱而变得美丽。

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her

58 爱是永恒的，外表可能改变，但本质永远不变。

Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence

59 爱情不是数着日子过去，它让每个日子都变得有意义。

Love is not a matter of counting the days It's making the days count

60 拥有你美丽的爱情，太阳就永远明媚。

With the wonder of your love, the sun above always shines

61爱情是一方织巾，用自然编织，用幻想点缀。

Love is a fabric that nature wove and fantasy embroidered

62 初恋是永生难忘的。

First love is unforgettable all one's life

63 哪怕是最小的茅舍，对一对恋人来说都有足够的空间。

In the very smallest cot there is room enough for a loving pair

64 情绵绵，爱无边。

Love without end hath no end

65 爱情的话语全在双眼之中。

Love's tongue is in the eyes

66 恋爱中，干傻事总是让人感到十分美妙。

In love folly is always sweet

67 什么也瞒不过恋人的眼睛。

There is no hiding from lover's eyes

68 爱所祈求的唯一礼物就是爱。

The only present love demands is love

69 真挚恋爱过的心永不忘却。

The heart that once truly loves never forgets

70 爱情的炽热胜过千万团的火。

Love warms more than a thousand fires

71 你嫣然的微笑是我每日享受到的魅力。

Your smiling at me is my daily dose of magic

72 你的吻还在我的唇上发烫，从此我的日子变得如此美丽。

Your kiss still burns on my lips, everyday of mine is so beautiful

73 相爱的心息息相通，无需用言语倾诉。

Love understands love; it needs no talk

74 不求情意绵绵，但求天长地久。

Love me little and love me long

75 第一次听到你对我说"我爱你"，我的世界一瞬间鲜花绽开。

When the words "I love you" were said by you for the first time, my world blossoms

76 爱情是无形燃烧的火焰。

Love is a fire which burns unseen

77 不知道什么是忧伤，就不会真正感激幸福。

You cannot appreciate happiness unless you have known sadness too

1、信任也是一种爱。爱你，所以相信你。

Trust is also a kind of love Love you, so trust you

2、对你最初的印象，久久难以忘怀。

First imPssion of you is most lasting

3、爱情就像沙漏，心满了，脑子就空了。

Love is like an hourglass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties

4、爱情是无形燃烧的火焰。

Love is a fire that burns unseen

5、我没有哭泣啊，只是突然学会了思念而已。

I did not cry, but suddenly learned to miss it

6、身无彩凤双飞翼，心有灵犀一点通。

Cai Feng Shuangfei body without wings, heart to heart

7、来日方长、终究长不到白发苍苍。

The coming days would be long after all do not grow, grey-haired

8、我需要他，正如我需要呼吸空气。

I need him like I need the air to breathe

9、人生就像一条单行道，一去不复返。

Life is like a one-way street, gone forever

10、凡我放不下的，必是因为我拥有不了的。

What I can't let go, it must be because I can't afford it

11、爱上像我这样的一个人。

Falling in love with a person like me

12、从来就是别离时，才知爱有多深。

You never know how deep your love is when you're leaving

13、要爱又兼有理性是不可能的。

It is impossible to love and to be rational

14、有爱，即使没有幸福，一个人也能生存。

Without love, a man can live without happiness

15、爱是长在我们心里的藤蔓。

Love is a vine that grows into our hearts

16、爱所祈求的唯一礼物就是爱。

The only gift of love is love

17、你嫣然的微笑是我每日享受到的魅力。

Your smiling at me is my daily dose of magic

18、别人爱怎么想那是他们的事，你就是你。

What other people think of you is none of your business

19、通往爱人家里的路总不会漫长。

The road to a lover's home is never long

20、恋爱中，干傻事总是让人感到十分美妙。

In love folly is always sweet

21、此情可待成追忆，只是当时已惘然。

Remembrance into, but was already frustrated

22、新的爱情来，旧的爱情去。

New love comes, old love goes

23、你不在身边时，有一种空虚的感觉。

There's a sense of emptiness when you're not around

24、爱情的话语全在双眼之中。

The words of love are in both eyes

25、把活着的每一天看作生命的最后一天。

Live every day as the last day of your life

26、不求情意绵绵，但求天长地久。

No lingering sentiments, but enduring as the universe

27、我们付出的爱是我们唯一长久拥有的爱。

The love we give is the only love we've ever had

28、总有那么一首歌，让你陷入深深的回忆。

There's always a song that brings you back to deep memories

29、无论你走到哪里，我都会在你身后。

No matter where you go, I'll be behind you

30、幸福是孤寂的灵魂遭遇爱的邂逅。

Happiness is when the lonely soul meets love

31、我想和你在一起，却也只是想想而已了。

I want to be with you, but I just want to think about it

32、愿你的爱乘着飞翔的白鸽，展翅高飞。

May your love soar on the wings of a dove fly

33、你说谎。在我面前沉默不语。

You lie。 Silent in front of me

34、当我需要动力时你鼓励我。

Encourage me when I need motivation

35、爱是一盏永不昏暗的明灯。

Love is a light that never dims

36、并非地球引力使人坠入爱河。

It's not gravity that makes people fall in love

37、爱很难投入，但一旦投入，便更难走出。

Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of

38、命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求。

Sometimes the end must have life, life in no time it

39、真挚恋爱过的心永不忘却。

The heart that once truly loves never forgets

40、没有你的日子就像一本没有书页的书。

Every day without you is like a book without pages

41、爱情是美德的试金石。

Love is the touchstone of virtue

42、过去的不再回来，回来的不再完美。

The past doesn't come back, the back is no longer perfect

43、每一个沐浴在爱河中的人都是诗人。

At the touch of love everyone is a poet

44、没有友谊的滋润灌溉，生命只是一种浪费。

Without friendship irrigation, life is just a waste

45、没有了你，这个世界多么寂寞。

How lonely the world is without you

46、你在时你是一切，你不在时一切是你！

You are everything when you are with me, and everything is you when you are away!

47、我喜欢星星，而你就跟星星般美丽。

I like stars, and you're as beautiful as a star

48、不是怕你丢弃，只是怕失去你。

Not afraid of discarding you, just afraid of losing you

49、在乎才会乱想，不在乎连想都不会想。

Care will want, don't care don't even want to

50、人生总有些人，忘不了，戒不掉。

There are always some people in life, can not forget, can not quit

51、爱情是一个精心设计的谎言。

Love is a carefully designed lie

52、忍不住流下眼泪，还坚强的笑着。

Can not help shedding tears, but also strong smile

53、凋谢是真实的，盛开只是一种过去。

Fading is true, while flowering is only past

54、我也喜欢你啊，就想你喜欢我一样。

I like you too, just like you like me

55、不知道什么是忧伤，就不会真正感激幸福。

You cannot apPciate happiness unless you have known sadness too

56、纸飞机飞的再远带不走我的心情。

Paper airplanes fly far away and don't leave me in the mood

57、只是埋怨时间的手，把相爱写成相爱过。

Just complain about the hands of time, love in love

58、不要放弃任何人，奇迹每天都会发生。

Don't give up on anybody Miracles happen every day

59、内心只要有爱在燃烧，就不然有快乐。

As long as there is love burning in the heart, otherwise there is happiness

60、生命如花，爱情是蜜。

Life is the flower for which love is the honey

61、爱情就像月亮，不增则减。

Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases

62、此生若能得幸福安稳，谁又愿颠沛流离。

If you can get happiness safe, who may displaced

63、爱情，扯淡的东西，是你让我懂得！

Love, living things, is you let me know!

64、太多人有太好的演技，却不知道在演戏。

Too many people have great acting skills, but they don't know how to act

65、你的心里有一面墙，推开就能看见天堂。

You have a wall in your heart, you can see heaven by pushing it away

66、哪里有爱，哪里就有奇迹。

Where there is love, there are always miracles

67、在爱人眼里，一千里的旅程不过一里。

In lover's eyes, the journey of one thousand miles is no more than one mile

68、要善待爱情，因为它不会一辈子跟着你！

Be good to love, because it will not follow you forever!

69、爱情，它让我爱上寂寞。

Love, it makes me fall in love with loneliness

70、你的专属的味道，让我的心紧紧依靠。

Your own taste, let my heart rely on

71、我没有哭泣，只是突然学会了思念而已。

I did not cry, but suddenly learned to miss it

72、我颠倒了整个世界，只为摆正你的倒影。

I reversed the whole world, just to straighten out your reflection

73、爱，意味着永不说后悔。

Love means never having to say you're sorry

74、有点缺点没关系，这样才真实。

It doesn't matter, it's true

75、我假装不在乎你，但痛的是我自己。

I Ptend I don't care about you, but it hurts me

76、一个不欣赏自己的人，是难以快乐的。

A person who does not apPciate himself is difficult to be happy

77、你那熟悉的模样已经深深烙印我心中。

Your familiar looks have branded my heart

78、时间是最好的医生，也是最差的美容师。

Time is the best doctor and the worst beautician

79、苍白无力的述说，只是在狡辩而已。

Feeble story, just making excuses

80、哪里有真爱存在，哪里就有奇迹。

Where there is great love, there are always miracles

英语教学中如何巧妙地运用情感态度 情感态度是指兴趣、动机、自信、意志和合作精神等影响学生学习过程和学习效果的相关因素。解决情感问题有助于提高语言学习效果。积极的情感态度有利于发挥学习者主体潜在的各种技能，提高学习效率；相反，很多消极情感态度影响语言学习能力活动，影响学习潜力的正常发挥。

一、情感态度与英语教学的关系

基础教育阶段的英语课程不仅要发展学生的语言知识和语言技能，而且有责任和义务培育学生积极向上的情感态度。与其他学科领域相比，语言与情感态度的关系更加密切。因此，情感态度与英语教学有密切的联系。

1、语言与情感态度的关系

语言的重要功能之一是促进人际关系，人际交往又不可避免地涉及人的情感态度。情感态度在很大程度上需要通过语言来表达和传递，恰当、合理地使用语言，有助于沟通情感，增进友谊和相互尊重，改进人际关系，语言和情感态度有着千丝万缕的关系。

2、情感态度对英语教学的影响

情感态度在很多方面直接或间接地影响语言学习，对英语学习的影响则更加明显。积极向上的情感态度、活泼开朗的个性有助于学生积极参与语言学习活动，获得更多的学习机会；强烈的学习动机、浓厚的学习兴趣和大胆实践的精神有利于学生提高学习效果；坚强的意识和较强的自信心有助于学生克服英语学习中遇到的困难。相反，很多消极的情感态度则影响英语学习。比如，过度的害羞心理、过度的焦虑和胆怯心理不利于学生大胆地用英语表达，不利于展现自己的语言知识和语言技能。

二、如何在英语学习中培养和发展学生积极的情感态度

基础教育阶段是青少年情感态度发展的重要时期。目前，正在进行的基础教育课程改革的一个重要方面就是关注学生情感态度的发展，把情感态度的培养渗透到学科教育和教学中。教育教学过程不仅是“传道、授业、解惑”的过程，而且是师生情感交流、心灵碰撞的过程。德国著名教育家第斯多惠说过：“教育的艺术不在于传授知识和本领，而在于激励、唤醒和鼓舞。”所以，在教育教学过程中，教师必须以情入手，以情换情，以情激情，才能开启学生蒙昧的心扉，才能弹奏出教学艺术的美妙乐章。我在英语教学过程中做了以下一些探索，并且有了一些心得。

1、分析学习动机，激发学生的求知欲，揭示学习目标

要求教师在揭示学习课题的过程中，联系学生生活经验，或创设相应的活动情境，激发学生对学习内容的兴趣、动机，形成本堂课的学习目标。“兴趣是最好的老师”，英语教学欲达到良好的效果，重要的是引起学生的兴趣。爱动是青少年的天性，在活动中让学生动口、动手、动脑，无论是观察力、注意力、想象力、思维等智力因素，还是意志、情感、性格等非智力因素都会得到有益的发展。灵活的教学法能使学生真正的成为学习的主体，能激活他们内在的动力，最大限度地把他的智力和潜能发挥出来。同时，教师的教学方法应多样化。如在教授desk，chair，rubber，ruler等单词时，可直接演示实物。而对于某些知识，可迅速在黑板上画上寥寥几笔，既形象生动，又能使学生很快掌握。有动机的英语学习效果好，而无动机的英语学习往往把英语学习作为一种负担，学习效果不佳。因此，要开发情感资源，激发学习动机。

首先，要有情趣，以学生身边的事和感兴趣的事为切入口，设计相关情景，唤起学生的感情，求得感情的共鸣。

其次，教师要善于利用教材中的教学内容引发学生积极的情感体验。英语学习中的动机是指学习英语的愿望和推动力，它是个体发动和维持行动的一种心理状态。英语学习动机表现为渴望英语学习的强烈愿望和求知欲，它是直接推动英语学习的一种内部动力，是英语学习者在学生活动中的一种自觉能动性和积极性的心理状态。 2、建立良好的师生关系，营造和谐的情感氛围

师生之间坦诚、无拘无束的交往有利于调动学生的积极性。因此，教师应当热情，具有同情心，采用恰当的鼓励方式，提高学生的学习兴趣和自尊心，建立依赖、理解类型的情感人际关系。课堂气氛要融洽，不宜过于拘谨、死板或严肃。对学生在语言学习中所犯的错误，应采取谨慎的态度，多使用积极反馈，以免伤害学生的自信心和自尊心，引起他们对教师的反感甚至紧张、焦虑、恐惧。同时，教师既要鼓励学生大胆使用外语进行交流，又要允许学生有保持沉默的权利，把学生吸引到课堂中来，使他们乐意参加到师生共同进行的活动中来。教和学是双向的，老师要和学生建立融洽、民主的互动关系，经常和学生反思教学过程和学习效果，互相鼓励和帮助，做到教学相长。要做到这一点，教师要以一个服务者的身份从培养学生动机入手，通过赏识教育培养他们的自信心，采取心理疏导，降低学习焦虑，获得愉快感，保持长久的兴趣，从而提高英语教学效果。只有这样，我们的课堂才会成为有意义的师生交流与学生提高的平台，成为学生努力和探索的天地。

3、开展积极评价，强化成功体验

教学中，教师要善于捕捉学生的闪光点，对学生的点滴进步要及时给予表扬和鼓励，对不足要进行正确的归因，使学生感到努力就有希望；重视使用积极鼓励语，帮助学生树立自尊心、自信心，产生学习动力。

积极评价使学生在英语学习中不断体验进步与成功，认识自我，建立自信，调整学习策略，促进学生综合语言运用能力的全面发展。皮格马利翁效应亦证明：教师的肯定性评价对学生的学习信心能起到较好的鼓励作用。当学生回答问题时，教师总是认真倾听，面带微笑，眼光流露出热情。答对了，应及时肯定，如“Good！Excellent! Interesting! I’m glad to hear that”等，教师的表情话语会给学生带来成功的喜悦，从而不断强化其参与的信心。答错了，要使用建议性的、易接受的、委婉的表达，如“Would you like to think it over Work harder, and I’m sure you can do better next time”等，使学生重树信心。作业中积极的评语可促进师生情感的沟通，如“Your handwriting is wonderful! You are creative, but why not be more careful next time”等。语言的重要功能之一是促进人的交流，人际交往就不可避免地涉及人和情感态度，情感态度在很大程度上通过语言来表达和传递，恰当、合理地使用语言，有助于彼此交流情感，增进友谊和相互尊重，改进人际关系，从而达成共识。