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你相信我，我在国外念书不需要翻译器，不过语法方面请你看一下！^^

看完了我也学到了很多。。。

今天是公元2009年，一直都想写一个关于自己的故事，但却不知从何说起。也许是要说的太多太多。

Today is 2009 AD, I have always wanted to write a story about myself, but I don’t even know where to start Perhaps there is just too much to say

当时光匆匆流逝，我们不在年轻的时候。惘然回首才回忆起了很多往事

When time starts passing by us quicker than ever, when we are no longer young, looking up I suddenly remembered many things about the past

爱情,是生命中无法远离的主题每个人都希望有一份感情,它真真切切地只属于我们自己或许是浪漫的,或许是感伤的,或许是平淡的就如鱼儿离不开水。

Love, is the one thing live is nothing without Everyone hope to have they kind of feeling, and it really only belongs to ourselves, maybe it was romantic, maybe it was sad, or maybe it was just plain……just like a fish is nothing without water

人,离得开爱情吗 失去后才珍惜,还有什么意义,还是有人不肯去忘记,忘不了那一段回忆。

People, can they really leave love behind Only after it’s gone will people start cherishing it, then what meaning is there, or are there people unwilling to forget, forget that particular piece of memory

刹那间,开始怀疑,自已的命运像一场**,不断的重复上映,抓不住的情绪逃不了的陷阱,凌乱的心情,这样纠缠下去,该怎么去抚平。

At that moment, I start doubting myself, my life is like a movie, it kept playing and playing before me, the intangible feeling and inescapable trap, those messy strands of feeling, how do I sort out this sort of entanglement

爱总是在离别之前,让每个人能看清一点,犯下的错,该如何放下,该如何放手,再怎么去挽回,一道裂痕隐隐约约的掠过

Love always shows everyone its true side before its departure, letting each person know the mistakes they made, and how to let go, how to make up, all the pieces of scars vaguely passing by…

2002年夏日，学生时代永远是最美好的时光。我们跟其他恋人一样，在老套的剧情下相恋了。她给了我很多帮助。

The summer of 2002, many fond memories of student life We are just like the other lovers, falling in love like in those cliché movies She gave me a lot of help

一天中最希望的事情就是能在睁开眼睛的时候就见到她。她给了我太多的第一次。。。。她叫于哲！

The one thing I look forward to the most is opening my eyes and seeing her She has been my firsts, for a lot of things…her name was Yu Zhe!

2004年夏日，一个女孩不知不觉的就爱上我了。她并没有很漂亮的外表，但有着善良般的心灵。

The summer of 2004, a girls somehow fell in love with me She was no beauty to the eye, but she was a kind hearted soul

她不张狂，很稳重。她不求回报，只是一味的付出又付出。如果非让我选择个恋爱结婚的人。我想我无疑的会选择她。她叫葛清。

She was not impudent, but a very sedated person, she is a constant giver If I were ever given the choice to choose someone to fall in love and marry, doubtlessly it would be her, her name was Ge Qing

2006年4月15日，晴。这一天我遇见了至今为止我最爱的女孩，那一夜我没有回家。

April 15th, 2006 Weather: Sunny Today I met a girl that even till today, I’m still in lover with, that night I did not return home

我不知道该怎么去形容她。她有点坏，有点清秀，还有点小文学。她喜欢大清早起床就开启电视机看《百家讲坛》，她喜欢洗澡的时候不打沐浴露，她喜欢吃我做的炒苦瓜（即使做的很难吃），她喜欢把衣服折叠的像专卖店那样整齐。她叫谷小牧！

I don’t know how to describe her She is a bit bad, yet a bit refreshing and pretty, a bit literate too She likes to wakeup early in the morning and turn on the TV to watch百家讲坛(怎么翻译你自己看吧)， she doesn’t like to put on shower lotion when she takes a shower, she likes to eat the stir fried bitter melon I made (it actually tastes really bad), she likes to fold clothes like those ones on display in stores, her name was Gu Xiao Mu

2007年2月14日，大雪。故事总是那么戏剧化的在不断进行着，一个网络聊天室引发了一段恋情。

February 14th, 2007 Weather: Heavy snow The story always keeps on going in such dramatic ways, an online chatting room started my next relationship

在还没有放下上一段感情的前提下，其实我们是不应该开始新的一段恋情的。而我却伤害了她。

But this was before I could put behind my feelings from my previous relationship, we actually shouldn’t have started this in the first place But I did hurt her

我一直不敢承认对她的伤害，那是因为我自私。她有点可爱，有点聪明，还有一些经历。我喜欢她吻我的唇，我喜欢她大半夜偷跑出来就为见我一面，我喜欢她坐在电脑前关注屏幕可爱的样子，她也是我今生第一个送花女孩。她叫赵枫桐！

I never could admit the hurt I brought upon her, it was because I was selfish She is a bit cute and a bit smart, and has had some experience before I like the feeling of her lips on mine, I like her sneaking out at night just to see me, I like that adorable look she has when she is sitting in front of the computer focusing on the screen She was the first girl I gave flowers to, her name was Zhao Feng Tong

2008年9月，晴。人生总是那么无常，明天要发生什么事情你永远不会知道，她就这样的闯入了我的生活。

September, 2008 Weather: sunny Life is always so unpredictable, you will never know what’s going to happen to you tomorrow, and just like that, she came into my life

她很男人性格，豪爽，大方，善良，勤劳，贤惠。甚至在某些事情上我到成了女人。她什么都不会做，但依然过的很快乐。

Her personality is quite masculine, she’s bold, generous, kind-hearted, hard-working, virtuous Even making me the woman in some cases She doesn’t know how to do anything, but we were still very happy

我想，可能她才找到了人生的真谛。跟她在一起的时候感觉很踏实。但她对我而言，只适合做朋友，却不是情侣。她叫奕萍！

I think she may have found the true meaning of life I feel so steady when I’m with her But to me, she is only fit to be a friend, not a lover Her name was Yi Ping

关于友情常听人说，人世间最纯净的友情只存在于孩童时代。

One of the most often heard sayings about friendship is that friendship in its purest form can only be found in childhood

这是一句极其悲凉的话，居然有那么多人赞成，人生之孤独和艰难，可想而知。

Such a sad and dreary thing to say, yet so many people agree to it, you can imagine the hardships and loneliness in life

我并不赞成这句话。孩童时代的友情只是愉快的嘻戏，成年人靠着回忆追加给它的东西很不真实。

I don’t quite agree with this saying The friendship in childhood were merely happy giggles and play, it is unreal for adults to relay on things formed through past memories

友情的真正意义产生于成年之后，它不可能在尚未获得意义之时便抵达最佳状态。

The real meaning of friendship forms years later in adulthood, it can not reach it’s best when the meaning of it is still unclear

其实，很多人都是在某次友情感受的突变中，猛然发现自己长大的。

Accutallly, many people find themselves quickly growing up after a sudden emotional change

仿佛是哪一天的中午或傍晚，一位要好同学遇到的困难使你感到了一种不可推卸的责任，你放慢脚步忧思起来，开始懂得人生的重量。

It’s like some day, afternoon or night, a good friend of yours is in trouble and you feel this undeniable responsibility, you slow your steps to think, and start to understand the weight of life

就在这一刻，你突然长大。 印象中有几个一辈子的朋友足够了，至于其他人对我来说根本不是很重要。关于亲情，在我来说以前和现在都是一样的，从来没有改变过。

And at that moment you suddenly grew up Looking back, only a few lifelong friends are needed, the others are of no importance to me When it comes to family, it is the same to me as before, it never changed

也是唯一能让我欣慰的情感。人生一世，亲情、友情、爱情三者缺一，已为遗憾；三者缺二，实为可怜；三者皆缺 ，活而如亡。

And this is the only sort of emotional comfort I can get One life time, family friendship, love, even if you lack just one, you will surely regret, if you lack two, then it is pitiful, if you lack all three, then your life would equal death

感觉自己没有什么情感，是为什么？

有感情也不一定动容，有“哀莫大于心死”一说，最深最浓的情感往往无须言语神情。你不是没有感情，只是不愿轻易表露罢了。也许是你害怕伤害把心封闭起来，努力划开自己和外界的距离，把自己放在高处，有点唯我独尊，俯瞰众生的感觉。

没有人天生冷漠。人是拥有感情的，不管自己是否感受得到。

但是你是可以认为自己好像感受不到感情，因为缺少觉察，可能和成长经历有关。

不过如果你只是只爱情，那有的人个体性比较高，不需要亲密关系也可以过得很好，这个没有问题。

导致没有情感的原因非常多，具有个性特点，通过心理咨询讨论这些情绪情感是非常有益的。

如果因现实条件暂时不能做心理咨询，我们还是可以做些什么。在给出建议前，我想再赘述几句情感的发展过程。

一个人首先有感觉，感觉是由感官刺激或想法所致；有不同的感觉产生不同的情绪，情绪相对短暂，如高兴、生气、紧张、害怕等等；情感是一系列的情绪组合，会相对稳定、深刻，如对真理的热爱、对某种美的欣赏等

还有一种情况，当小剂量的危机持续不断的入侵我们的生活，让我们频繁的产生不适的感觉，我们也有可能会将情感隔离作为生存策略长期使用下去。

毕竟感受不到情绪，可以免除我们一部分痛苦，增加掌控感，但是需要付出的代价是我们可能会觉得活得并不真实，生活缺乏丰富的层次。

或许是想要得更多，人都是自私的，顾好自己就好，活得“干净清爽”就好，人生而孤独，存在即是孤独，做自己感兴趣的事情最重要，如果喜欢旅游最好了，好好挣钱，有空就一个人勇敢走四方，管它什么交际圈，对别人做一个假的自己同时对自己真，你会发现越活越自在！

翻译如下

最伤人的感情莫过于,你对我没了新鲜感,我对你却有了深深的依赖感。

The most hurtful feeling is that you have no fresh feeling for me, but I have a deep sense of dependence on you

这种情况很严重，你要好好改变你生活的现状。

要试着多与人接触，聊天交流，多上街走走。可以先从身边的同事，朋友，家人开始慢慢来。

丰富自己的自己的社交活动。

没事多看看书，做自己喜欢的事，找回自己的梦想，给自己找个小目标，去努力，去奋斗。

这种感觉很正常，也很平常，因为你的生活很平淡，没有太大太多的波澜，所以你感觉不到这些情感的存在，当你经历过一些事情以后，你就会体验到它们，它们是否一直在你身边，是否一致的对你好，是否牢固，是否一直牵连着你和你的亲人，朋友，