父母经常因为我的学习吵架,该怎么劝他们?

父母经常因为我的学习吵架,该怎么劝他们?,第1张

父母经常会因为我的学习吵架,该怎么劝他们呢?

这也是难免的,父母为了孩子的学习事情吵架,不可以避免的,所以如果面对这种情况,我们应该做的就是劝说父母,可以从以下方面劝说父母。

一、减少担心

你的学习是家里面很看重的,说明父母对于你的学习很在意,并且有着不一样的建议,所以才会有分歧,面对这样的情况,你只能让你的父母减少不必要的担心,如果只是因为你一次成绩没有考好,那就更加不用担心了,可以告诉他们你后面一定会考的更好的,让他们感到很放心,如果是因为补课这些事情,你可以说你自己的想法,让父母不要争吵了,你要说出自己的内心真实想法,这样你父母就不会担心你了,这样后面争吵也会减少的。

二、单独交流

你可以找自己的父母进行交流,如果当着两个人都在的时候不能够解决问题,那么你可以单独找你的爸妈进行沟通交流,说白了父母也是因为太关心你了,所以才会吵架,但是你要告诉他们吵架肯定解决不了问题的,应该坐下来用心讨论这件事。你是沟通父母之间的桥梁,说出你真实的想法,父母肯定也不希望当着你总是吵架,也确实会影响你的心情。

一个家庭的家庭氛围是特别重要的,如果父母总是吵架只会让孩子感觉很压抑,孩子学习肯定也会受到很大的影响,所以你一定要及时地与父母进行沟通和交流,及时解决父母内心在意的地方,这样只有让父母安心了,得到了自己满意的答案,父母才会不会吵架,你一定要发挥好中间的作用,让父母知道吵架解决不了根本的问题,这才是最关键的。

Recently I heard that you were arguing with your parents Here are a couple of suggestions I have for you to deal with the relationship with your parents:

You can't compare anybody to them Yes, on days you may feel like saying "I wish my mum is extremely rich", but you don't really mean it, even if you think you do Parents are the people you should love a lot in your life

A nice, simple greeting like "Hello," "Hi," or "Good morning," will brighten their day They just yearn for an "I love you" from you

Take care of them, mentally and physically If they are feeling sick, make them some chicken soup and give them a box of tissues, and if they're feeling stressed, give them a massage and chat to them about the good things in their life

Write/text/email things to them every day, about how much you love them Call them up at work to say hello and check how they're doing Parents love nothing more than talking to you

Hope you will find them helpful

Everyone has a friendA friend is a person who will help you when you are in difficultyBut sometimes we have something unhappy between we and friendsMaybe we can quarrel with each other because of somethingWhat should we do if we quarrel with our friendsLet me tell you

Being a friend,you must understand your friendIf he has something different from youYou should respect your friend's idea and try your best deal with the thingsBut if you really can't get the same idea,even quarrel about itI think you should applogize him or her when you get calmSay "sorry" to him or her,and he or she will forgive youYou can get on well each other later

rk We couldn’t agree with each other and after a while it became worse and we fell out I said to him that he was not capable of it and I will not do the project with him anymore Now I regret I said that and want to apologise to him since he is my friend and I don’t want to lose him But I feel embarrassed and don’t know how to do this Please anybody can give me same advice

“忘子成龙,望女成凤”。是每个家长的心愿,但太过的把压力施加给孩子,只会让孩子更加厌倦学习,更加厌倦你们。我虽然也望女成凤,但他并没有过度的施加压力于我。我每天学习时间安排完整,每当我下午从图书馆内走出来回到家时,都会看见一个身影在厨房里还不时传来叮叮当当的乐曲,我知道,这是妈妈正用心敲击着爱的琴键。我不忍心去打断他,应为我想让他多沉醉在幸福中。

七天的封闭式训练终于可以告一段落了,我的心早已飞到了家里,看到那温馨的家,我心中有一种说不出的冲动,我走过家门,妈妈坐在书桌上玩电脑,我一进门丢下书包便蹦像妈妈给了他一个大大的吻。妈妈便会心的笑了,帮起身,问我这个累不累那个好不好,我洗完澡,见妈妈在厨房里忙的叮叮响,我知道这是妈妈正用心敲击着爱的琴键。我真想冲过去,抱着妈妈说:“我爱你”。但我不能,我不能打破妈妈的满足,不能打破妈妈在幸福中的沉醉。

如果世上有一支永远唱不完的歌,那就是母爱。珍惜母爱,永远流淌在我心中的歌。

自己翻译一下吧,我的水平也不高

  Avoid Misunderstanding

"Why do they keep misunderstanding me" We often hear people complainMisunderstanding seems to be one of the most disturbing issues in interpersonal relationshipsWe often see how it undermines the harmonious relationships between people

Several factors contribute to misunderstandingFirst,people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectives in interpreting one behaviorSecond,the language we use as a vehicle of conveying thought can be ambiguous,and various ways of decoding (解码) words may result in barriers in communicationThird,misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trustIf you have prejudice (偏见) against someone,whatever he says may sound iii intentioned to you

Having gone so far in the exploration of the causes of misunderstanding,we can easily arrive at the ways to avoid themFirstly,we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among peopleSecondly,we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language,avoiding misleading wordsThirdly,we should be constructive and patient in dealing with peopleIf we try hard enough,there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world

If this is your best friend's words Jiugen him to explain to the contrary,if it is not very important person,would not have had

(2)Because it explains also no use,but people think you have problems

In fact,a person's life there are many things you do will be misunderstood

The best way to appease the quarrel is just sit down and have a sincere talk with your parentsThere is nothing that cannot be solved between you and your parentWhat you need is just communication and listeningAll things that make you unhappy will disappear after communication and understanding

I want to be a successful manIf my dream come true,maybe,I own a company,then I can create a substantial number of job opportunities to ease the pressure of unemploymentMeanwhile the company is also creating great weath for the societyFor another reason,I have the ability to fully assume my responsibility to take care of my parent to appreciating their effor of bringing me into this world and raising me up

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