结婚的时候教堂里教父说的那些话是什么？

神父对新娘说：（新娘名），你是否愿意这个男子成为你的丈夫与他缔结婚约？无论疾病还是健康，或任何其他理由，都爱他，照顾他，尊重他，接纳他，永远对他忠贞不渝直至生命尽头？

新娘回答：

我愿意。

神父又问新郎：（新郎名），你是否愿意这个女人成为你的妻子与她缔结婚约？无论疾病还是健康，或任何其他理由，都爱她，照顾她，尊重她，接纳她，永远对她忠贞不渝直至生命尽头？

新郎回答：

我愿意。

To have and to hold from this day forward

for better, for worse

for richer, for poorer

in sickness and in health

to love and to cherish

till death do us part

翻译：

无论顺境还是逆境

无论贫穷还是富有

无论健康还是疾病

相亲相爱 不离不弃

直到永远

你愿意吗？

西式婚礼简介：

1、 新郎新娘分别前往教堂，会合后开始举行婚礼（一般是下午）。

2 、婚礼一般由神甫或牧师主持，亲朋或有心聆听“福音”的人一般都欢迎观礼（意大利人 希腊人除外），大家静侯新人到来。

3 、主持者说完祷告词后，问新郎新娘是否愿意接受对方？

4 、互相说完“我愿意”之后双方交换戒指，接吻，签字后婚礼便具法律效力。

5 、一般情况下，新郎新娘分别有伴郎 伴娘，花童若干，统称BRIDAI PARTY。

6、 婚礼完成后，新人及BRIDAI PARTY一干人等前往外景地，公园 海边等特别景点拍摄自然风格的婚礼，除传统惯例要拍的合影镜头外，其余镜头常常是即兴发挥。

7、 晚上，一对新人及BRIDAI PARTY，双方父母聚于酒店，酒吧或餐厅甚至海边开PARIY，程序为入场——就坐——伴郎致辞——宴会——切蛋糕——新人跳第一支舞——舞会+自助餐——新娘抛花球（新郎抛袜圈）——吻别。

8、 新郎新娘赴酒店或度假地欢度新婚夜。

　　第一种：

　　1问(男)：×××你确信这个婚姻是上帝所配合，愿意承认接纳×××为你的妻子吗 (男)答：我愿意。

　　2问(男)：上帝使你活在世上，你当以温柔耐心来照顾你的妻子，敬爱她，唯独与她居住，建设基督化的家庭。要尊重她的家庭为你的家族，尽你做丈夫的本份到终身。你在上帝和众人面前愿意这样行吗 (男)答：我愿意。

　　3问(女)：×××你确信这个婚姻是上帝所配合，并愿意承认×××为你的丈夫吗 (女)答：我愿意。

　　4问(女)：上帝使你活在世上，你当常温柔端庄，来顺服这个人，敬爱他、帮助他，唯独与他居住，建设基督化家庭。要尊重他的家族为本身的家族，尽力孝顺，尽你做妻子的本份到终身，你在上帝和众人面前，愿意这样行吗 女)答：我愿意。

　　第二种：

　　1(新郎跪着并随着主礼人念)我×××愿意承受接纳×××做我的妻子，诚实遵照上帝的旨命，和她生活在一起。无论在什么环境，愿意终生养她、爱惜她、安慰她、尊重她、保护她，以至奉召归主。

　　2(新娘跪着，并随着主礼人念)我×××愿意承认×××做我的丈夫。诚实遵照上帝的旨命和他生活在一起，无论在什么环境愿顺服他、爱惜他、安慰他、尊重他、保护他，以至奉召归主。×××弟兄×××姐妹结婚感恩礼拜程序　

　　1序乐…………新郎入席…………司琴

　　2结婚进行曲…………新郎入席…………会众起立

　　3唱诗…………爱的真谛…………会众

　　4祷告…………×××神父(牧师)

　　5献诗…………婚礼颂…………×××诗班

　　6献诗…………一首情歌…………×××诗班

　　7婚姻颂词…………×××伉俪

　　8献诗…………每当我想起你……×××诗班

　　9勉励…………×××神父(牧师)

　　10证婚…………誓约、交换信物、用印、宣告、揭纱…×××神父(牧师)

　　11献诗…………诗篇二十三篇

　　12献诗…………快乐的婚礼

　　[西方传统婚礼上牧师的证言]

　　Minister We are gathered here today in the sight of God, and in the face of this company, to join together (Groom’s Name) and (Bride’s Name) in holy matrimony; which is an honorable estate, instituted of God, since the first man and the first woman walked on the earth Therefore; it is not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently and soberly

　　Into this holy estate these two persons present come now to be joined

　　If any one can show just cause why they may not be lawfully joined together, let them speak now or forever hold their peace

　　Who gives this woman to be married to this man

　　Father My wife and I do

　　(Then the bride is given away)

　　Minister I require and charge you both that if either of you know any impediment why you may not be lawfully joined together in matrimony, you confess it now Be assured that if any persons are joined together otherwise than as God’s word allows, their marriage is not lawful

　　(Minister addressing the groom)

　　(Groom’s Name), do you take (Bride’s Name) for your lawful wedded wife, to live together after God’s ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony Will you love, honor, comfort, and cherish her from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto her for as long as you both shall live

　　Groom I do

　　(Minster addressing the bride)

　　(Bride’s Name), do you take (Groom’s Name) for your lawful wedded husband, to live together after God’s ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony Will you love, honor, comfort, and cherish him from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto him for as long as you both shall live

　　Bride I do

　　(At this point the couple may improvise by playing a favorite song, reading a scripture, etc suggested scriptures might be genesis 221-25, mark 106-8 and 1 cor 134-7)

　　Reader 1 A reading from the book of Genesis, chapter 2, versus 21 through 25

　　So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man The man said, “this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ’woman, ’ for she was taken out of man“ for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame

　　Reader 2 A reading from the gospel of Mark, chapter 10, versus 6 through 8

　　But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh So they are no longer two, but one

　　Reader 3 A reading from the Apostle Paul, the first letter to the Corinthians, chapter 13, verses 4 through 7

　　Love is patient, love is kind It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth It alwaysprotects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres

　　Minister Let us pray for this man and woman as they make their marriage vows

　　Father, as (Groom’s Name) and (Bride’s Name) have chosen each other, help them and bless them that their love may be pure, and their vows may be true Through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen

　　(Minister addressing the groom who repeats the marriage vows)

　　I (Groom’s Name) take thee (Bride’s Name) to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor, and cherish, ’til death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance; and thereto I plight thee my troth

　　(Minister then to the bride who repeats the marriage vows)

　　I (Bride’s Name) take thee (Groom’s Name) to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor, and cherish, ’til death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance; and thereto I plight thee my troth

　　(The Minister then gets the brides ring from the best man)

　　Minister (praying over brides ring) Lord, bless this ring that he who gives it and she who wears it may abide in your peace, and continue in your favor until life’s end, through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen

　　(Groom placing ring on bride’s finger)

　　With this ring I thee wed Wear it as a symbol of our love and commitment

　　Minister (praying over groom’s ring) Lord, bless this ring that she who gives it and he who wears it may abide in your peace, and continue in your favor until life’s end, through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen

　　(Bride placing ring on groom’s finger)

　　With this ring I thee wed Wear it as a symbol of our love and commitment

　　(Music may be inserted here)

　　(The wedding song)

　　Minister Let us pray

　　Father, we pray for all married persons, that they may continue to give, be able to forgive, and experience more and more of the joy of the Lord with each passing day And especially for (Groom’s Name) and (Bride’s Name), now beginning their married life together, that they may have divine assistance, the constant support of friends, and a long life with good health May your fullest blessing come upon (Bride’s Name) and her husband (Groom’s Name), from this day forward, for ever and ever, Amen

　　May Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, always be at the center of the new lives you are now starting to build together, that you may know the ways of true love and kindness May the Lord bless you both all the days of your lives and fill you with his joy Amen

　　(The minister now joins their right hands together and says)

　　Those, whom God has joined together, let no man put asunder

　　In so much as (Groom’s Name) and (Bride’s Name) have consented together in holy wedlock, and have witnessed the same before God and this company, having given and pledged their troth, each to the other, and having declared same by the giving and receiving of a ring, I pronounce that they are husband and wife

　　Minister (to the couple) Seal the promises you have made with each other with a kiss

　　(The couple kisses)

　　Minister Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you Mr and Mrs

　　Now let us pray as Jesus has taught us

　　Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name

　　Thy kingdom come Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven

　　Give us this day our daily bread

　　And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors

　　And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil

　　for thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever and ever Amen

那么久了还没人回答啊，没人准备西方式结婚么：）那我这里随便写写咯。以下都是神父会说的：

对两人：Will you now clasp your right hands

对新郎：Do you, 男方名字, take 女方名字 to be the wife of your days, to love and to cherish, to honor and to comfort, in sorrow and in joy, in hardship and in ease, to have and to hold from this day forward

新郎说：I do

对新娘：Do you, 女方名字, take 男方名字 to be the husband of your days, to love and to cherish, to honor and to comfort, in sorrow and in joy, in hardship and in ease, to have and to hold from this day forward

对新郎：男方名字，what pledge do you offer in token of these vows

新郎说：This ring，As you place this ring, symbol of your commitment in marriage, on the third finger of Laura's left hand, repeat after me: With this ring, I marry you and pledge my faithful love

新郎于是就重复遍：With this ring, I marry you and pledge my faithful love

让后神父会把刚才和新郎说得这些关于以戒指起誓的话和动作会再让新娘重复下。

神父再继续说：Brian and Laura have consented together in wedlock, and have pledged themselves each to the other in the presence of this company, I do now pronounce that they are husband and wife Let all others honor their decision and the threshold of their home

May these people, now married, fulfill this covenant which they have made May they openly give and take from each other, encouraging each other in whatever trials may befall them, sharing in each other's joys, helping each other as each occasion requires

We who are present, and those not here who care, hope that the inspiration of this hour will not be forgotten May they ever seek to achieve the perspective of serenity amidst conflict and of courage amidst any twilight of despair

男方名字 and 女方名字, let your new life begin in the spirit of this Apache wedding blessing:

"Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter to the other

"Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other

"Now there is no loneliness for you: Now you are two persons, but there is one life before you

"Go now to your dwelling place, to enter into the days of your togetherness, and may your days be good and long upon the earth"

You may kiss the bride

激动人心的一幕过后，神父正式宣布双方是夫妻啦：Congratulations

Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you 男方名字 and 女方名字, husband and wife

Edward Cullen(Bella Swan), are you willing to take you Bella Swan(Edward Cullen),to have and to holdFor better or for worse, for richer, for poorerIn sickness and in health, to love,and to cherishas long as we both shall live