美国时间2月17日(即北京时间2月18日早上),受好友易建联之邀,陈建州和范范一同从纽约前往新泽西观看篮网对热火的比赛。中场休息时段,陈建州突然掏出一枚闪爆的Tiffany &Co钻戒下跪向范玮琪求婚,一脸错愕的范玮琪激动得流下了开心的眼泪。易建联在一旁也观看了“求婚好戏”,“黑人”在得到范范肯定的答复后,开心地大喊“阿联”向他报喜,阿联为他们鼓掌庆祝。 陈建州整个求婚过程被同行友人拍下片段,2月18日下午时分,陈建州已迫不及待将片段上载脸谱网公告喜讯,获逾千人留言祝贺。陈建州写道:“今天的求婚非常的紧张啊……从今天开始我的第一也是唯一就是我的未婚妻范玮琪啦……”范玮琪也写道:“计划赶不上变化,太突然了。谢谢大家满满的爱……相爱的人能在一起,感到很踏实、开心!” 另外,陈建州好友棒棒堂成员小杰、王子和黑girl成员小婕也纷纷在其脸谱网上留言祝贺。小杰顽皮地表示:“恭喜黑人哥哥,范范姐这朵花终于开了!”
我觉得自己不会被感动,反而会有一种被伤害、被欺骗的感觉。
不知大家的反应是否和我一致。
第一,伪装车祸现场求婚,整个事情的前提就是欺骗,虽然是白色谎言。
虽然西方人提倡生活中需要适度的白色谎言,可是,伪装车祸现场这个谎言,可是闹腾的有点大。首先是占用了宝贵的医疗资源,拿医院、医生、护士等这些市政公共资源来成全自己的私人恋情,着实让人不刚恭维;其次是造成了恋人的惊吓。试想,如果恋人的心情承受能力差点,或者心脏机能弱点,那这个求婚现场还会这样幸福结尾吗?
第二,伪装车祸现场求婚,说明对方对自己还是不够自信。
一段感情,但凡要借助外力才能成功,肯定是因为条件不成熟,或者说感情的一方还是不够充足的自信。正因为这样,他才会想到伪装出一个车祸现场,自己生死未卜的情况下,心中还在惦记着恋人这种苦情戏,这样的拙劣表演,只会暴露出此人对感情的极端不自信。
第三,伪装车祸现场求婚,这种欺骗伎俩谁知下次又以什么理由重新出现。
大家想一想,他为了求婚,可以处心积虑的想出这么一出名堂。那要是以后感情出现矛盾,或者生活中出现其他什么问题时,你永远预测不到对方又会上演出一个新剧目?或者,那句话是真?那句话是假?整个人都像生活在影视剧情里。
不管别人怎么想,反正我是不会感到。
导读:“你愿意嫁给我吗?”——它应该是人生最重要的问题之一,选择一个恰当的地方可能让美好记忆更加弥足珍贵。精品酒店旅游网站Mr&Mrs Smith选出了全世界最棒的十家适合求婚的酒店,每一处都
“你愿意嫁给我吗?”——它应该是人生最重要的问题之一,选择一个恰当的地方可能让美好记忆更加弥足珍贵。精品酒店旅游网站Mr&Mrs Smith选出了全世界最棒的十家适合求婚的酒店,每一处都美不胜收,感觉各异。
1、意大利威尼斯的PALAZZO BARBARIGO酒店
这家本身就是威尼斯旅游景点之一的精品酒店拥有18个房间,豪华的装饰洋溢着现代气息。客房内的小吧台可圈可点,定一个普通套房,欣赏美丽绝伦的大运河美景,然后拉伴侣去酒店附近的水上“刚朵拉”平底船共度美好时光。
2、摩洛哥马拉喀什的NOIR D’IVOIRE
NOIR D’IVOIRE酒店赏心悦目之处在于细节:宽大的牀与巨大的浴室;冬季有真正的炉火;每晚都有新鲜的橘子;美味可口的干果。如果两人感情八字已有一撇,还想进一步发展的话,那就定个“皇家套间”,那里有只属于你们两个人的露天阳台和冷水浴池。
3、伯利兹卡潘多岛度假酒店Cayo Espanto
这家度假酒店距离伯利兹海岸三英里,四周都是棕榈树。做为私人、专属性小岛度假村,它却给人一种悠闲、谦逊的感觉。
4、澳大利亚大堡礁威尔森岛WILSON ISLAND
威尔森岛为大堡礁的一个单独的热带小岛,其上仅设有六个沿海的豪华帐篷。这里可说是全世界最最浪漫的宿营地。你可以从帐篷内舒适的牀上直接远望碧蓝的大海,或与爱侣在点缀着珊瑚的海滩上漫步,亦或在可以容纳两个人的吊牀上度过闲散的时间。如果想要求婚,那选择“Isolation”吧,它是六间海边帐篷中最为悠静和私密的一间。
5、新西兰奥克兰OLLIES酒店
美味的食物和天籁般音乐形成了OLLIES酒店优雅又闲适的风格,为爱侣们营造了浓浓的爱情培养氛围。钢琴、歌剧、美食与spa相融合,让人仿佛置身童话世界。
6、美国纽约CROSBY STREET酒店
Cro y Street酒店有一种英式的优雅氛围,你可以定酒店11层与10层的普通套间。在这个高度通过房间的大窗向外望去,曼哈顿南部最美丽的风景尽收眼底。
7、澳大利亚布诺萨山谷“THE LOUISE”
酒店在美食方面首屈一指,这里处处都折射着酒店对客人情绪和对美食美酒热情的重视。酒店亦非常重视私人空间。
8、南非“LA RESIDENCE”
LA RESIDENCE的波斯毯、充满异域风情的古董与艺术品令人眼前一亮。住在这里会给爱侣们一种居住在私人皇宫的错觉。
9、不丹AMANKORA
Amankora经营理念特别,并非单独一家酒店,而是由五个分布在不丹全景的高档旅舍组成。AMANKORA对入住游客十分贴心,无论是10日游也好,或者是时间受限选主要景点游也好,AMANKORA都能为游客量身定做,做出适当安排和确定游玩路线。
10、柬埔寨暹粒酒店DE LA PAIX
这家疗养酒店的外观异常豪华,内部亦毫不逊色。白色作为酒店的主色调,与深色的砖瓦、色彩单一的寺庙雕刻等形成鲜明对比。酒店整体透露着一种低调的奢华。
跪拜在西方是一种仪式和尊敬的表示,一般的跪拜场合有:
西方男人对宗教下跪。在教堂中,做祈祷时,他们有时会抵近地跪下来,向上帝祈祷。在政教合一的国家,如欧洲的一些王室,王位加冕等重大仪式,常由主教将王冠戴在国王或女王的头上的。所不同的是加冕仪式有所不同,在中世纪,主教通常是坐着的,国王跪在他面前接受王冠;现在有些变化,改为国王坐着,主教站着将王冠戴到国王的头上。
西方男人对王室下跪。在王位传递交接仪式上,接受王位者要跪下来,常由老国王将王冠戴在继位者的头上。**上看到的,在王室颁发勋位的授勋仪式上,授勋者要跪下来,至少是单腿跪下,由女王用剑点一下,就可由平民升为爵士。
西方男人对女人下跪。郑重的求婚仪式,男人通常要单腿下跪,手中拿着戒指和玫瑰花,问女人,愿意嫁给我吗。记得多年前,看过美国获奥卡的**,月色撩人,其中的两个男主人公,都是跪下向女主角求婚的。现代人不太讲究这种古老的求婚仪式了,不过,如果有男人跪下向女方求婚,会令女方惊喜不已,至少女方会认为, 这是很郑重的人生承诺。
跪拜的方式有单膝和双膝,单膝都是左膝单膝触地,右膝成直角!这和中国古代的请安也称"打千儿"的“左腿前屈,右腿后蹲”是不一样的!
你要的是克林顿昨天在美国民主党代表大会上的讲话?下面是你要的那部分:
In the spring of 1971,I met a girl The first time I saw her, we were, appropriately enough, in aclass on political and civil rights She had thick blond hair, big glassesWore no makeup And she exuded this strength of self-possession I found magnetic
After the class, Ifollowed her out, intending to introduce myself I got close enough to touchher back, but I couldn't do it Somehow, I knew this would not be just anothertap on the shoulder, that I might be starting something I couldn't stop I saw herseveral more times the next few days but still didn't speak to her Then onenight in the law library talking to a classmate who wanted me to join the YaleLaw Journal, he said it would guarantee me a job at a big firm or a clerkshipwith a federal judge I really wasn’t interested — I just wanted to go home toArkansas
Then I saw the girlagain, standing at the opposite end of that long room Finally, she was staringback at me So I watched her She closed her book, put it down, and startedwalking toward me She walked the whole length of the library, came up to me,and said, "Look, if you are going to keep staring at me, we at least oughtto know each other's name I'm Hillary Rodham, who are you" I was soimpressed and surprised that, whether you believe it or not, momentarily, I wasspeechless
Finally, I sort ofblurted out my name and we exchanged a few words, and she went away Well, Ididn't join the Law Review, but I did leave that library with a whole new goalin mind A couple days later, I saw her again, wearing a long, white, floweryskirt, and I went up to her and she said she was going to register for classesfor the next term I said I would go too
We stood in line andtalked — you had to do that to register back then I thought I was doing prettywell until we got to the front of the line and the registrar looked up andsaid, "Bill, what are you doing here You registered this morning"
I turned red and shelaughed that big laugh of hers and I thought, well, heck, since my cover hasbeen blown, I asked her to take a walk down to the art museum We have beenwalking, and talking, and laughing together ever since
And we have done it ingood times, through joy and heartbreak We cried together this morning on thenews that our good friend and a lot of your good friend, Mark Weiner, passedaway early this morning We built up a lifetime of memories After the firstmonth and that first walk, I drove her home to Park Ridge, Illinois, to meether family and see the town where she grew up, a perfect example of post-WorldWar II middle-class America Street after street of nice houses, great schools,good parks, a big public swimming pool And almost all white
I really liked herfamily, her crusty, conservative father, her rambunctious brothers, allextolling the virtue of rooting for the bears and the cubs And for the peopleof Illinois here, they even told me what waiting for next year meant — could benext year, guys
Now, her mother wasdifferent She was more liberal than the boys She had a childhood that mademine look like a piece of cake She was easy to underestimate with her softmanner and she reminded me all over again of the truth of that old saying thatyou should never judge a book by its cover Knowing her was one of the greatestgifts Hillary ever gave me
I learned that Hillarygot her introduction to social justice through her Methodist youth minister,Don Jones He took her downtown to Chicago to hear Martin Luther King Jr speakand he remained her friend for the rest of his life This will be the onlycampaign of hers he ever missed
When she got tocollege, her opposition to the Vietnam War compelled her to change parties andbecome a Democrat And then between college and law school, on a total lark,she went alone to Alaska and spent time sliming fish
More to the point, bythe time I met her she had already been involved in the law school's legalservices project and she had been influenced by Marian Wright Edelman She tooka summer internship interviewing workers in migrant camps for Sen WalterMondale’s subcommittee She had also begun working in the Yale New Havenhospital to develop procedures to handle suspected child abuse cases
She got so involved inchildren's issues that she actually took an extra year in law school working atthe child studies center to learn what more could be done to improve the livesand futures of poor children She was already determined to figure out how tomake things better
Hillary opened my eyesto a whole new world of public service by private citizens In the summer of1972, she went to Dothan, Alabama, to visit one of those segregated academiesthat enrolled over a half a million white kids in the South The only way theeconomics worked was if they claimed federal tax exemptions to which they werenot legally entitled She got sent to prove they weren't
So she sauntered intoone of these academies all by herself, pretending to be a housewife that justmoved to town and needed to find a school for her son And they exchangepleasantries and finally, she said, "Look, let's get to the bottom lineIf I enroll my son in this school, will he be in a segregated school Yes orno" And the guy said "Absolutely" She had him I’ve seen it athousand times since
And she went back andher encounter was part of a report that gave Marian Wright Edelman the forcethey needed to keep working to get the Nixon administration to take those taxexemptions away and give our kids access to an equal education
Then she went down toSouth Texas, where she met one of the nicest fellows I ever met, the wonderfulunion leader Franklin Garcia, and he helped her register Mexican-Americanvoters I think some of them are still around to vote for her in 2016 Andthen, in our last year in law school, Hillary kept up this work She went toSouth Carolina to see why so many young African-American boys — I mean, youngteenagers — were being jailed for years with adults in men's prisons She fileda report on that, which led to some changes too Always making things better
Meanwhile, let's getback to business I was trying to convince her to marry me I first proposed toher on a trip to Great Britain, the first time she'd ever been overseas Wewere on the shoreline of this wonderful lake, Lake Ennerdale I asked her tomarry me and she said, "I can't do it"
So in 1974, I wenthome to teach in law school and Hillary moved to Massachusetts to keep workingon children's issues This time, trying to figure out why so many kids countedin the census weren't enrolled in school
She found one of themsitting alone on her porch in a wheelchair Once more, she filed a report aboutthese kids and that helped influence ultimately the Congress to adopt theproposition that children with disabilities, physical or otherwise, should haveequal access to public education You saw the result of that last night whenAnastasia Somoza talked She never made fun of people with disabilities Shetried to empower them based on their abilities
Meanwhile, I was stilltrying to get her to marry me The second time I asked, I tried a differenttactic I said, "I really want you to marry me, but you shouldn't doit" She smiled and looked at me like what is this boy up to She said,"That is not a very good sales pitch" I said, "I know but it'strue" And I meant it It was true I said, "I know most of the youngDemocrats our age who want to go into politics, they mean well and they speakwell, but none of them is as good as you are at actually doing things to makepositive changes in people's lives"
So I suggested she gohome to Illinois or move to New York and look for a chance to run for officeShe laughed and said, "Are you out of your mind Nobody would ever votefor me" So I finally got her to come visit me in Arkansas And when shedid, the people at the law school were so impressed, they offered her ateaching position And she decided to take a huge chance
She moved to a strangeplace, more rural and conservative than anywhere she had been Where she knewgood and well that people were wondering what in the world she was like andwhether they could or should accept her Didn't take them long to find out whatshe was like
She loved herteaching She got frustrated when one of her students said, "What do youexpect, I'm just from Arkansas" She said, "Don’t tell me thatYou’re as smart as anybody You just have to believe in yourself and work forit and set high goals" She believed anyone could make it She alsostarted the first legal aid clinic in northwest Arkansas, providing legal aidservices to poor people who couldn't pay for them
One day, I was drivingher to the airport to fly back to Chicago when we passed this little brickhouse that had a for-sale sign on it and she said, "Boy, that's a prettyhouse" It had 1,100 square feet, an attic fan and no air conditioner inhot Arkansas, and a screened-in porch Hillary commented on what a uniquelydesigned and beautiful house it was
So I took a bigchance I bought the house My mortgage was $175 a month When she came back, Ipicked her up and said, "You remember that house you like" I said,"While you were gone, I bought it, and you have to marry me now" Thethird time was the charm We were married in that little house on October 11,1975 I married my best friend
1童话般的旋木求婚
如果女友是个有童心的人,你可以带她到游乐场,你们一起坐旋转木马,趁女友玩得开心时你突然消失,在她着急地找你时,灯光亮了,你捧着鲜花出现,单膝跪地,请求她嫁给你。
2登峰造极
如果你的女友是运动型,你可以在一天的攀岩活动之后,站在山峰的制高点向她求婚。其他可行的方法包括:跳伞时在半空中,潜水时在深海中,如此等等。
3录像表心意
制作一盘向她求婚的录像带很可以打动她的心,特别是如果你能够同她一起观看这盘录像。她一定会高兴得跳起来,立刻就要和你去度蜜月……
4空中“要挟”
一种更公开的方式是利用你们一起坐飞机的机会。你可以请求机长通过无线电通话系统将你的求婚传达给身边的女友。例如,你可以请机长说:“我们正飞行在青藏高原的上空,再有将近40分钟就可以到达目的地。顺便说一句,安娜,李可问你他是否有幸能够娶你为妻。”在众目睽睽之下,相信你得到的只可能是一个“愿意”,当然,还有安全降落。
5银幕为媒
你勉强同意陪她去看最新上映的超级言情大片。就在影片正式开演之前,播放了只有一行字幕的加片:“xxx,你愿意做我的妻子吗”虽然你不会因为精心导演此片而荣获奥斯卡奖,至少它会作为浪漫一幕被记录在该**院的“院史”之中。
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