chris medina个人简介 　　 Chris Medina曾经是星巴克的服务员，他向和她相恋8年的女孩求婚并且约定在两年

　　个人简介 Chris Medina曾经是星巴克的服务员，他向和她约会8年的女孩求婚并且最后在一起了。但是后来那个美丽的女孩因为车祸事故使脑部受到重创，康复后智力只有2岁，生活完全不能够自理，但Chris仍然不离不弃。 后来Chris参加了美国偶像，为的就是想赚到更多的钱让妻子受到更好的治疗过上更好的生活，虽然最后还是止步于全国24强，但 What are words 这首歌已经牢牢地印在人们的心里 ！有一种感情，能让旁观者为之动容，那就是爱！ 《美国偶像》（American Idol）在24强预选中，一对患难夫妻感动全场，评委拉丁天后詹妮弗·洛佩兹（Jennifer Lopez）泪洒演播厅。据报道，《美国偶像》目前正在进行男女24强预选，63位选手，将有39人被直接淘汰出局，克里斯·梅迪纳（Chris Medina）就是其中的一位。不过，克里斯·梅迪纳的被淘汰，却让人依依不舍，当然，这并非克里斯·梅迪纳歌唱能力多么优秀，而是，克里斯·梅迪纳的事迹，确实非常感人。2009年，克里斯·梅迪纳与未婚妻胡莉亚纳（Juliana）结婚时遭遇车祸，胡莉亚纳因此脑瘫，如今只能坐上轮椅度日，生活不能自理。但是，克里斯·梅迪纳义无反顾，肩挑起了照顾患病未婚妻的重任。克里斯·梅迪纳是本届《美国偶像》评审詹妮弗·洛佩兹最喜欢的选手之一，但随着赛程的进行，克里斯·梅迪纳在众多强大对手的冲击下，不得不提前出局。詹妮弗·洛佩兹对于这个结果，按耐不住自己的悲伤，在演播厅宣布克里斯·梅迪纳淘汰后，泪流满面，并哭泣着说，“我很高兴能认识像克里斯·梅迪纳这样有情有义的男人，他的出局让人难舍难分。太残酷了，早知道，我就不做这个评审了。”在另外两位评审摇滚巨星史蒂芬·泰勒（Steven Tyler）和兰迪·杰克逊（Randy Jackson）的安慰下，詹妮弗·洛佩兹才控制住情绪，录制接下来的节目 也许说很多很多话，做很多很多介绍。都不能涵盖他对女友深深的爱，如果能让我们明白到：什么是最糟糕的？而它也不过如此，永远打不倒我，击败不了我们之间的爱。 也许刚开始只是被他深情的唱着《What are words 》而吸引，但是单曲中穿插着断断续续的画面：他单膝跪地向美丽的女友求婚，女友感动的不知所措、他们那本相簿里记载着这么多年来一切美好的事物，里面一个很帅的男人和一个很美丽的女人、 他扶着出车祸后女友走路、帮她坐上轮椅、换上鞋子所有的动作，都包涵着他深深的爱，不离不弃的爱! 看到现在的他和以前的他的区别吗？长头发、啤酒肚，这是用什么换来的？！用爱。 有谁能用下半辈子无怨无悔的去照顾一个生活无法自理的人我们都不懂得用自己一辈子换自己爱的人健康快乐的这种牺牲，是多么伟大而幸福的。他的爱已远远不止是爱~

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　　What are words 歌词 英文 Anywhere you are, I am near Anywhere you go, I'll be there Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see How every single promise I keep Cuz what kind of guy would I be If I was to leave when you need me most What are words If you really don't mean them When you say them What are words If they're only for good times Then it's on When it's love Yeah, you see them as lover's words They never go away They live on, even when we're gone And I know an angel would say Just from me and now know I'm meant To be where I am and I'm gonna be Standing right beside her tonight And I'm gonna be by your side I would never leave when she needs me most What are words If you really don't mean them When you say them What are words If they're only for good times Then it's off When it's love Yeah, you see them as lover's words They never go away They live on, even when we're gone Anywhere you are, I am near Anywhere you go, I'll be there And I'm gonna be here forever more Every single promise

夏日里的春天 领衔主演：马苏饰春天 王林饰高原 周娜饰演妙 高磊饰司徒南 青春偶像云集，星友情加盟，联袂打造巨作！ 五个大学生的青春爱情宣言，对撼“红苹果”F5！ 在青春爱情的驿站上，一段段真实的情感在故事中起起落落…… 今夏，一部轻松时尚的偶像剧《夏日里的春天》将在舟山电视台综合频道与你见面。该剧洋溢着自然纯真的青春气息，似夏日里的一股春风吹进了我们的视野。 三个美术学院四年级学生，高原、司徒南、彦真，品学兼优，受同学爱戴。 春天，在加拿大念MBA，毕业后回国进修美术，与高原等三人成为欢喜冤家。春天喜欢上高原，高原却倾情于青梅竹马的妙，奈何妙却喜欢上不羁的司徒南。 春天和高原因为一架水晶飞机展开了云雾般的爱情；自卑的彦真暗恋着春天，希望自己的付出能打动春天的芳心。 大学毕业后，大家开始为自己的事业奔波，或者开，或者替人打工，爱情在现实生活的冲击下渐渐发生了微妙的变化… 爱情是偶像剧永远的主题，《夏日里的春天》对爱情的表现出奇出新，互有交叉。憨厚的“高原”和好动的“春天”、不羁的“司徒南”和文雅的“妙”、功利的“彦真”和纯洁的“珍珠”，分别演绎出三种爱情， 作为青春偶像剧，《夏日里的春天》对男女主演的外形要求自然很高。马苏、王林、高磊、周娜等几位主演都是首次担当主演的新人，而且在入行前都是业界有名的模特。谈到起用新人的做法，导演唐辉说：“我们从剧本策划开始，就想打造一个真正接近青春的作品。所以编剧请的是正在北影读研究生的刘芳。她自己是学生，绝对熟悉年轻人的生活。而演员方面，从一开始我们就想到从模特中挑选。偶像剧看的就是漂亮，他们出众的外形条件就已经保证了该剧一半的成功。我们是朝着打造全新偶像的目标努力的，他们绝对能够刮起娱乐圈的偶像新旋风。” 新人的打造少不了实力派明星的助阵，《夏日里的春天》除了有众多新面孔出现，、原华、张延、郑晓宁等影视圈中如日中天的“青衣”、“老生”们无疑也构成观众的收视期待。脱下“和|”的官服，穿上颇有活力的粉红衬衫，和原华组成一对夫妻。张延饰演一个界的女强人，与一刚毕业的大学生凑在一起显得成熟、果断;郑晓宁则是商界成功人士的形象，既有事业成功的自信一面，又有对待儿子因愧疚而痛楚的一面。四人的加盟是这出偶像剧的又一大亮点。 该剧专程取景时尚感极强的海滨城大连，现代的建筑、不息的车流、透明的空气、浪漫的沙滩、绚烂的街景等都构成这部偶像剧连续不断的风景 第1集 校园的跳蚤场里，三个帅气的男生高原、司徒南、彦真在自己组装的模型车…… 女孩春天，是富有人家的独生女，从加拿大转学回到中国，今天是她到学校报到的第一天。春天碰上了中学时的同学李青青，通过她知道了高原三人既是系里长得最帅的男生，同时又是学习成绩最好的。小克儿和司徒南是非常要好的朋友，他从小父母双亡，和爷爷相依为命，对电脑有着非凡的天赋。小克儿请春天去自己家吃饭，春天两杯啤酒下肚后就醉得不省人事。高原、司徒南、彦真四人翻春天的包想要找到她的住址，被李青青碰个正着，李青青以为他们对春天别有企图。高原接到，他的中学同学梅妙要来了。妙在另一个城的某大学读中文系，到这里的报社来实习 第2集 第一天坐公交车上学，春天就忘了带钱包，只好拨通了高原的。为了感谢高原为她解围，春天请大家去高级酒店吃海鲜，结账的时候却发现卡上没有钱了，大家好不容易才凑足了钱离开。春天回家埋怨母亲何芸芸没有告诉她就将她的取消，请何芸芸先替她把欠同学们的钱还了，再从她以后的零用钱里扣。系里让高原组织一个小组做一单作品，既当毕业创作又参加全国一次重要的比赛。春天得知何芸芸的要出宣传册，说服母亲将这个活交给高原等人来完成。 第3集 李青青在靠近学校的一家发廊找了份工作，发廊老板怂恿春天到发廊当钟点工。春天的父亲李铮从欧洲回来，李铮多年的好友陈正东请春天一家吃饭，席上陈正东请李铮给他的明光百货投入一些资金。这所百货是以他的发妻司徒明光的名字命名的，陈正东现在的妻子也因此耿耿于怀，一心想将它。春天得知陈正东的儿子是司徒南，于是约司徒南和陈正东见面，司徒南转身就走。司徒南告诉春天自己的身世。春天整天帮高原找资料，李青青提醒她自己到了该交作业的时候了，春天急得不行，高原批评她没出息，春天委屈地哭了。在心怡的劝说下，司徒南答应了高原一起做参加全国比赛的作品，小克儿也加盟进来。李铮给陈正东出主意，建议一边进行入主明光的准备，一边放出明光的风声。 第4集 司徒南终于同意加入高原等人组成的创作小组,一起参加全国的比赛妙帮高原找到一间废弃的仓库,几个人把仓库租下来作为工作室高原等人的参赛作品进入复赛司徒南鼓起勇气向妙表白自己的感情,妙没有答复,她想等出差回来再做决定,两人在汽车站依依惜别,妙将福星宝宝留给司徒南 第5集 春天送给高原一个水晶飞机,让他以后把它送给他爱的人高原他们的作品果然获奖,高原在给妙了一串诞生石项链妙出差回来,司徒南热烈的追求终于打开她的心扉,二人开始恋爱高原回来后发现妙已选择和司徒南在一起十分失落彦真将汽车模型送给春天妙因作品没有司徒南的名字,为司徒南不值,两人因此而产生分歧,不欢而散 第6集 有人给高原介绍了一单宣传册业务,风险大但利润可观,彦真明知是骗局却不告诉高原妙正式被报社录用,高原准备把春天送给他的水晶飞机转送妙,他征求春天的意见,春天对高原哭诉对他的感情,高原一时不知如何是好 第7集 妙回老家一个月,司徒南和妙在火车站依依惜别司徒南得知陈正东要将明光,去找陈正东小克爷爷为修灯摔伤腰住院却交不起住院费,护士说有人已交了钱,原来司徒南的爸爸为了感谢小克和爷爷对司徒南的照顾交了住院费司徒南的饭卡事件被学校查了出来,他可能会被学校开除,为给司徒南筹罚款,高原低价了电脑和自行车 第8集 春天偷偷地给高原准备生日,想给他一个惊喜,春天的执著感动了高原,他接受了春天的爱宣传册交货的那天,工商局告知高原,他接下的是一个虚假,印刷品全部被没收厂家已人去楼空,印刷厂让他赔偿损失,高原深受打击,春天决定暗里帮他 第9集 陈正东来找司徒南,交给他一套钥匙,希望他生活得舒适一些彦真的设计方案又一次被否定,他心灰意冷被雨淋病,珍珠请假去照顾他高原瞒着春天拼命干活还债,春天心疼找父母借钱替高原还债 妙从老家回来,知道高原遇到麻烦,竭力帮助他妙遇到从美国到大陆投资的邓风 第10集 高原感谢妙借钱给他还债,将诞生石项链送给她高原发现春天替他还清债务后大发脾气,春天也为他宁可接受妙的帮助而不接受她心中难受,她又发现妙带着高原的诞生石项链和高原吵翻因项链事件,司徒南和高原的关系紧张起来,司徒南搬出工作室,住进父亲给他的妙和同事吃饭遇见邓风,邓风送妙回家被司徒南碰见,司徒南对妙产生看法 第11集 高原找春天和好,被春天父亲看见,得知春天并不是和司徒南谈恋爱为了女儿幸福,春天的父母决定见一见高原司徒南与朋友吃饭时,碰到妙与邓风吃饭,深夜,找妙,二人因此感情进一步恶化司徒南碰见住在隔壁的沈明,两人成为朋友春天让高原去见自己的父母,高原觉得时机还不成熟拒绝了 第12集 沈明是个有学识,懂生活,聪慧而精明的女强人,有一家很大的,司徒南和沈明互相欣赏沈明发现明光百货账目上的问题,决定帮助阿南高原得到经理的赞赏,彦真又起妒心春天在司徒南的帮助下,在百货开了一个经营民族工艺品的专柜,决心不靠家里自力更生春天妈何云云反对春天和高原恋爱,不断给春天介绍男朋友,春天离家搬到高原工作室沈明给司徒南介绍对百货业有经验的朋友一起吃饭碰见妙,妙产生误解妙因司徒南没有将自己是命光未来的总经理告诉她,离布会现场妙找高原倾吐心事,高原也把自己对春天患得患失的心情告诉妙,碰巧被门外的春天听到,春天为自己努力地付出,却没有得到高原的心而难过 第13集 彦真所在承接了一单业务,他发现高原的才华对他产生威胁时,故意泄露方案给竞争对手嫁祸高原,使高原在遭到排挤妙向司徒南提出分手,高原去找司徒南,看见他和沈明在一起包饺子,高原误会司徒南移情别恋,对他大打出手,春天目睹两人为了妙打架,明白高原心中一直忘不了的人是妙,她向高原提出了分手邓风向妙坦白自己的感情 第14集 春天父母从司徒南口中得知春天和高原已经分手,劝她搬回家去住的经理怀疑高原泄露秘密,高原提出辞职沈明知道高原有才华,邀请他加入她的春天带来新男友琪峰,高原的心里不是滋味暗暗和琪峰较劲春天和司徒南相互揭穿对方,其实春天还深爱着高原,司徒南也深爱着妙 第15集 妙和邓风约会,邓风送给她戒指,妙没有接受邓风送妙回家碰到司徒南来向妙道歉,邓风明白妙爱的是司徒楠，知难而退高原发现春天已有了琪峰十分失落妙带来他们第一次约会时听的CD碟,司徒南没在家,她把CD碟留在门外司徒南看到CD碟去找妙,没见到妙,却看见一些新婚物品,他误会妙要结婚了,二人再次失之交臂 第16集 彦真在努力工作,经理欣赏他的才能,把侄女江蓓介绍给他做女友,两人非常投缘琪峰带春天的父母来劝她回家,大家高兴地和解了高原的空调企划案大获成功,终于凑够了偿还所有债务的钱,他找春天还钱,表明要重新追求她,但他依然如前的骄傲却刺伤了春天妙接到采访女强人沈明的任务,二人成为朋友妙试探地问沈明的感情生活,沈明说她心里爱着一个人,妙误会沈明说的是司徒南心中非常痛苦 司徒南也不断向沈明打听妙的近况,显然司徒南心里依然深爱着妙 第17集 江蓓到彦真宿舍来找他,正好珍珠也来了,虚伪的彦真向江蓓介绍说珍珠是小时工,珍珠伤心离开他春天打算和琪峰去美国,春天的父母很惊讶高原回家见琪峰在等他,琪峰告诉高原,他和春天不是在恋爱,而是为了应付家人,他要高原好好待春天高原将水晶飞机快递给春天并追到机场,临上飞机的最后一刻春天改变了主意,她和赶来的高原相遇,两个有情人再度紧紧拥抱在一起 第18集 沈明的张经理因收受回扣被开除,他请彦真帮他找工作被拒绝高原上门拜见春天父母,春天父母终于接受了高原司徒南在健康体检中发现肺部有阴影,要做检查才能确诊是否癌症,司徒南瞒着大家继续工作他怕连累妙,所以对妙表现很冷淡,妙心情低落经理试探出彦真曾做过的事将他解雇沈明得知妙误会她和司徒南的关系,和春天一起想办法让司徒南和妙和好珍珠来找高原,希望他能帮助困境中的彦真,高原不计前嫌答应珍珠 第19集 沈明接下一家跨国企业在中国场的,她成立了一个部门交给高原负责高原邀请彦真重新回到工作室,彦真感动开始人生反省司徒南请春天来帮忙,他独自回到儿时居处司徒南走时因忘记把私人留下来,的支票和合同都不能签定,春天作主把他的书桌打开,发现他的病历妙打听寻找司徒南 第20集 彦真找到珍珠向她道歉,并希望再给他一次机会重来,珍珠告诉他自己准备去实现理想,她祝福彦真妙历经辛苦终于在海边的小渔村找到司徒商,有情人在晚霞中相拥,春天也赶来,好朋友重逢在一起一家大软件商请小克去他们工作被拒绝,小克用专利得到的钱自费去国外留学高原向春天求婚司徒南手术醒来,妙拉开窗帘,外面阳光明媚……

婚姻是双方自愿缔结婚姻的必要仪式。一般来说，一生只有一次婚礼，所以每个地方都很重视自己的婚礼，每个地方都有自己的婚礼。让让我们来看看池州的婚礼习俗。

提议

男女双方到了适婚年龄，双方父母认为门户平等，男方可以委托媒人向女方提亲，也有女方向男方提亲的家庭。媒人应该是一个小康人，且以二至四人为偶数为宜，即所谓四大媒人，包括主媒人和陪媒人。媒人s求婚主要是介绍双方的情况，在谈到男方或者女方的时候，大多是夸大其词，夸大其词。常言道，媒人不我不会说谎，但他们会。我不知道他们什么时候坐下。他还说媒人可以两头作弊，十个媒人说九个谎，红娘张开嘴，又吹又哄诸如此类。这些骗局经常使许多年轻男女上当受骗。请媒体求婚叫启动媒体或者变红。

组合特征

在求婚之后，父母写下生日、日期等。和十二生肖，媒人会把它们交给对方，然后算命先生会计算出这段婚姻是否是拉什或者不是，比如所谓的火与金；鸡可以t配猴子，鸡见猴，夜夜愁；龙能tmatchtiger说不吉利。龙虎斗。还有公羊，颤抖而忙碌，母羊，守着空屋，鼠马对峙诸如此类。

项家

媒人把女人带到男人面前的房子，并会见了男子的父母。相亲对象由女方接待的父亲，还有那个人的母亲扮演主角。男人s的母亲邀请女子到里屋打听，仔细观察她的衣服、鞋子和装饰品，以此来衡量她的缝纫技术，衡量她的性格。然后女人借此机会检查男人的房子和家具s的房子，尤其是新房里的家具设备，这是男女双方未来共同生活的直接利益所在。在安徽西部，当一个女人找到一个男人房子，男人s父母很满意，就以糖水代茶，加些荤菜，招待他们吃晚饭，临走时还赠送礼物。如果女方喝糖水，吃酒饭，收钱东西，说明女方已经完全同意了。做完这一切，你就可以准备结婚仪式了，两个家庭可以根据自己的喜好确定婚姻的一些安排，然后你就有了一个盛大的结婚仪式。

原 片 名The Bachelor

中 文 名亿万未婚夫(中)/亿万未婚夫(台)/给我一口嫁(港)/单身贵族(其他)/单身汉

出品公司新线 New Line

出品年代1999

MPAA级别PG-13级

IMDB链接http://wwwimdbcom/title/tt0120596/

IMDB评分49/10 (4,872 votes)

国 家美国

类 别罗曼史 / 喜剧

导 演加里·辛尼 Gary Sinyor

主 演克里斯·奥唐纳 Chris O'Donnell

蕾妮·齐薇格 Renee Zellweger

爱德华·阿斯纳 Edward Asner

哈尔·胡尔伯克 Hal Holbrook

詹姆斯·克伦威尔 James Cromwell

玛丽娅·凯利 Mariah Carey

彼得·乌斯蒂诺夫 Peter Ustinov

波姬·秀丝 Brooke Shields

阿迪·兰格 Artie Lange

文件格式XviD + AC3

文件大小2CD 2x49x15MB

视频尺寸688 x 368

影片长度102 Mins

对白语言英语原声

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杰米沙浓向来认为他的自由远比生活本身重要得多。眼看他的同龄人们（甚至最好的朋友马可）一步步走进婚姻的殿堂，杰米矢志不改，坚持享受自己幸福多彩的约会，并走马观灯似的换着女友。

但他绝没料到，在人生的十字路口，会碰到娇媚可人的安娜，并情不自禁地陷入爱河。

3年的热恋弹指一挥，虽然内心对婚姻极为怀疑，但在巨大的压力下，杰米终于在爱情的承诺中放弃了自由，在他认为最有浪漫情调的餐厅的“星光房间"不情愿地向安娜求婚，这里到处是兜里揣着戒指盒的紧张兮兮的男人。杰米面露失败地说：“You Win。（现在你赢了）。"感觉到杰米对爱情的不真诚，尤其听到他笨拙牵强，根本站不住脚的求婚理由，安娜愤怒地说：“我才不想嫁给一个不渴望娶我的人呢！"，言罢离去，将杰米孤零零地留在他单身贵族的世界里。

就在这个时候，杰米的祖父去世，临终前他一直都在梦想着能参加杰米的婚礼却未能如愿。为了让杰米延续香火，祖父给杰米留下1亿美元的遗产，但却在遗嘱中声明要想得到这笔钱，杰米必须在他30岁生日之前结婚，甚至超过24小时这笔钱都将不属于他。现在属于杰米的时间也只24小时了，自由过，爱过的杰米在1亿美元的遗产面前更加不知所措，但任何人都知道1亿美元意味着什么。

征求了家庭律师格鲁克曼和股票经纪人奥戴尔的意见，绝望的杰米只好匆匆安排了一个神父，告诉他随时奉命，杰米将很快确定新娘（这可真是先订日子再选人）。杰米这边试图与安娜和好如初，那边又不停地游走于几位前女友中，向她们展开了一系列疯狂的求婚行动。这些前女友（巴克蕾，一位富有的社会女郎；美丽的歌手伊莱娜；厨师莫妮卡；警察达芙妮；橱窗模特祖儿；清纯的大学生卡洛琳和品牌代理人斯坦茜）却无法让杰米满意，照他的话说，她们“不是女权主义书呆子，就是成天粘粘糊糊的。"陷在众多美女中，杰米搞不清她们到底是被他的男人魅力所吸引，还是觊觎自己的财产。反正顾不得那么许多了，1亿美时间有限，那个“幸运新娘"到底是谁？

如果你也有超过一打的女朋友，各个貌美似波姬小丝、玛利亚凯莉，你会静下心来专侍一人吗？杰米从一个单身贵族、不情愿的新郎到最后终于意识到了婚姻的真正价值，经历了个人思想的重大转变。

自由的杰米会有一个完美的世界，这当然不必诸位费心。在那一连串让人捧腹的闹剧中，观众也要为自由、爱与金钱的问题而大伤脑筋，其实任何一个善良的人都能猜准这个bachelor最后的答案。

你要的是克林顿昨天在美国民主党代表大会上的讲话？下面是你要的那部分：

In the spring of 1971,I met a girl The first time I saw her, we were, appropriately enough, in aclass on political and civil rights She had thick blond hair, big glassesWore no makeup And she exuded this strength of self-possession I found magnetic

After the class, Ifollowed her out, intending to introduce myself I got close enough to touchher back, but I couldn't do it Somehow, I knew this would not be just anothertap on the shoulder, that I might be starting something I couldn't stop I saw herseveral more times the next few days but still didn't speak to her Then onenight in the law library talking to a classmate who wanted me to join the YaleLaw Journal, he said it would guarantee me a job at a big firm or a clerkshipwith a federal judge I really wasn’t interested — I just wanted to go home toArkansas

Then I saw the girlagain, standing at the opposite end of that long room Finally, she was staringback at me So I watched her She closed her book, put it down, and startedwalking toward me She walked the whole length of the library, came up to me,and said, "Look, if you are going to keep staring at me, we at least oughtto know each other's name I'm Hillary Rodham, who are you" I was soimpressed and surprised that, whether you believe it or not, momentarily, I wasspeechless

Finally, I sort ofblurted out my name and we exchanged a few words, and she went away Well, Ididn't join the Law Review, but I did leave that library with a whole new goalin mind A couple days later, I saw her again, wearing a long, white, floweryskirt, and I went up to her and she said she was going to register for classesfor the next term I said I would go too

We stood in line andtalked — you had to do that to register back then I thought I was doing prettywell until we got to the front of the line and the registrar looked up andsaid, "Bill, what are you doing here You registered this morning"

I turned red and shelaughed that big laugh of hers and I thought, well, heck, since my cover hasbeen blown, I asked her to take a walk down to the art museum We have beenwalking, and talking, and laughing together ever since

And we have done it ingood times, through joy and heartbreak We cried together this morning on thenews that our good friend and a lot of your good friend, Mark Weiner, passedaway early this morning We built up a lifetime of memories After the firstmonth and that first walk, I drove her home to Park Ridge, Illinois, to meether family and see the town where she grew up, a perfect example of post-WorldWar II middle-class America Street after street of nice houses, great schools,good parks, a big public swimming pool And almost all white

I really liked herfamily, her crusty, conservative father, her rambunctious brothers, allextolling the virtue of rooting for the bears and the cubs And for the peopleof Illinois here, they even told me what waiting for next year meant — could benext year, guys

Now, her mother wasdifferent She was more liberal than the boys She had a childhood that mademine look like a piece of cake She was easy to underestimate with her softmanner and she reminded me all over again of the truth of that old saying thatyou should never judge a book by its cover Knowing her was one of the greatestgifts Hillary ever gave me

I learned that Hillarygot her introduction to social justice through her Methodist youth minister,Don Jones He took her downtown to Chicago to hear Martin Luther King Jr speakand he remained her friend for the rest of his life This will be the onlycampaign of hers he ever missed

When she got tocollege, her opposition to the Vietnam War compelled her to change parties andbecome a Democrat And then between college and law school, on a total lark,she went alone to Alaska and spent time sliming fish

More to the point, bythe time I met her she had already been involved in the law school's legalservices project and she had been influenced by Marian Wright Edelman She tooka summer internship interviewing workers in migrant camps for Sen WalterMondale’s subcommittee She had also begun working in the Yale New Havenhospital to develop procedures to handle suspected child abuse cases

She got so involved inchildren's issues that she actually took an extra year in law school working atthe child studies center to learn what more could be done to improve the livesand futures of poor children She was already determined to figure out how tomake things better

Hillary opened my eyesto a whole new world of public service by private citizens In the summer of1972, she went to Dothan, Alabama, to visit one of those segregated academiesthat enrolled over a half a million white kids in the South The only way theeconomics worked was if they claimed federal tax exemptions to which they werenot legally entitled She got sent to prove they weren't

So she sauntered intoone of these academies all by herself, pretending to be a housewife that justmoved to town and needed to find a school for her son And they exchangepleasantries and finally, she said, "Look, let's get to the bottom lineIf I enroll my son in this school, will he be in a segregated school Yes orno" And the guy said "Absolutely" She had him I’ve seen it athousand times since

And she went back andher encounter was part of a report that gave Marian Wright Edelman the forcethey needed to keep working to get the Nixon administration to take those taxexemptions away and give our kids access to an equal education

Then she went down toSouth Texas, where she met one of the nicest fellows I ever met, the wonderfulunion leader Franklin Garcia, and he helped her register Mexican-Americanvoters I think some of them are still around to vote for her in 2016 Andthen, in our last year in law school, Hillary kept up this work She went toSouth Carolina to see why so many young African-American boys — I mean, youngteenagers — were being jailed for years with adults in men's prisons She fileda report on that, which led to some changes too Always making things better

Meanwhile, let's getback to business I was trying to convince her to marry me I first proposed toher on a trip to Great Britain, the first time she'd ever been overseas Wewere on the shoreline of this wonderful lake, Lake Ennerdale I asked her tomarry me and she said, "I can't do it"

So in 1974, I wenthome to teach in law school and Hillary moved to Massachusetts to keep workingon children's issues This time, trying to figure out why so many kids countedin the census weren't enrolled in school

She found one of themsitting alone on her porch in a wheelchair Once more, she filed a report aboutthese kids and that helped influence ultimately the Congress to adopt theproposition that children with disabilities, physical or otherwise, should haveequal access to public education You saw the result of that last night whenAnastasia Somoza talked She never made fun of people with disabilities Shetried to empower them based on their abilities

Meanwhile, I was stilltrying to get her to marry me The second time I asked, I tried a differenttactic I said, "I really want you to marry me, but you shouldn't doit" She smiled and looked at me like what is this boy up to She said,"That is not a very good sales pitch" I said, "I know but it'strue" And I meant it It was true I said, "I know most of the youngDemocrats our age who want to go into politics, they mean well and they speakwell, but none of them is as good as you are at actually doing things to makepositive changes in people's lives"

So I suggested she gohome to Illinois or move to New York and look for a chance to run for officeShe laughed and said, "Are you out of your mind Nobody would ever votefor me" So I finally got her to come visit me in Arkansas And when shedid, the people at the law school were so impressed, they offered her ateaching position And she decided to take a huge chance

She moved to a strangeplace, more rural and conservative than anywhere she had been Where she knewgood and well that people were wondering what in the world she was like andwhether they could or should accept her Didn't take them long to find out whatshe was like

She loved herteaching She got frustrated when one of her students said, "What do youexpect, I'm just from Arkansas" She said, "Don’t tell me thatYou’re as smart as anybody You just have to believe in yourself and work forit and set high goals" She believed anyone could make it She alsostarted the first legal aid clinic in northwest Arkansas, providing legal aidservices to poor people who couldn't pay for them

One day, I was drivingher to the airport to fly back to Chicago when we passed this little brickhouse that had a for-sale sign on it and she said, "Boy, that's a prettyhouse" It had 1,100 square feet, an attic fan and no air conditioner inhot Arkansas, and a screened-in porch Hillary commented on what a uniquelydesigned and beautiful house it was

So I took a bigchance I bought the house My mortgage was $175 a month When she came back, Ipicked her up and said, "You remember that house you like" I said,"While you were gone, I bought it, and you have to marry me now" Thethird time was the charm We were married in that little house on October 11,1975 I married my best friend

美国一男子4000米高空跳伞，向自己的女友求婚，我认为这种求婚方式是非常特别的，是非常浪漫的，求婚对于很多女人来说都是非常特别的，所以说我认为每个男人如果深爱自己的女人的话，一定要给自己的女人策划一场特别的求婚仪式，这样会让你们的感情升温，会让你深爱的女人铭记你们求婚的瞬间。其实还有很多浪漫的求婚仪式，网络上也有很多的浪漫感人的求婚视频，我认为其实无论哪一种求婚形式都好，只要心意在，其实无论哪种方式对于女人来说都是铭记于心的。

不知道大家喜欢什么样的求婚仪式呢？有的人喜欢轰轰烈烈的求婚仪式、有的人喜欢简简单单的求婚仪式，每个人有每个人不同的看法，我认为其实不同的求婚仪式能够带来不同的效果和感受，在我看来其实只要情侣之间彼此相爱，无论哪一种求婚方式都好，其实对于两个人来说都是没有什么太大关系的，求婚其实只是一个仪式。

美国这一男子的行为其实是非常浪漫非常特别的，可以看出他精心策划了这一场求婚，目的就是让自己的女友能够开心，看出这名男子非常看重他的女友，我认为这一种求婚方式其实并不是每个人都能够模仿，因为这种行为还是具有一定的危险性的，大家在求婚的过程当中要量力而行，根据自己的实际能力进行选择。

其实还有很多浪漫的求婚方式可以进行选择，网络上也有很多视频可以供大家学习。有一名男子用无人机向自己的女友求婚，无人机上面挂了一枚戒指，飞到了女友的家中，用这种方式远程告白；有一名在军队当兵的男子，在放假期间偷偷给女友准备惊喜，向自己的女友求婚。