原文出自魔戒三国王归来
Witch-king: You fool No man can kill me! Die now
Éowyn: I am no man!
这其实是一个双关，Witch-king（安格玛巫王，也就是戒灵王）的意思是“没有人可以杀死我”
而Éowyn（伊欧温）的意思则是“可我不是男人”（因为她是Woman，女人）
这句话在魔戒的故事中是有背景的，并不只是一个语言上的取巧
第三纪1975年，也就是魔戒战争暴发1044年之前，中土的北方发生了福诺斯特战役
北方王国阿尔诺的最后分支阿瑟丹王国遭到安格玛巫王的围攻，形势危机，阿拉贡的直系祖先——北方王国末代国王阿维杜依勉力抵抗，但已是穷途末路，王国眼看就要灭亡
听到危机消息，南方王国刚铎的国王埃阿尼尔二世命令其子埃阿努尔带兵乘船北上救援他们的亲戚，同为伊伦迪尔后裔的北方王族
可惜为时已晚，当埃阿努尔的大军到达之时，北王国已然覆灭，阿维杜依出逃时淹死在海上，其子阿拉纳斯则躲了起来
精灵船王齐尔丹领导来自林顿的军队，而刚铎王储埃阿努尔率领来自刚铎的勇士，向安格玛的军队进攻，当巫王向安格玛撤退的时候，一只由来自瑞文戴尔的精灵领主格洛芬德尔带领的军队与齐尔丹和埃阿努尔三军联手，将安格玛的主力摧毁。此时，巫王出现了，埃阿努尔的坐骑受惊，转身逃开。格洛芬德尔催马上前，巫王看到他后却策骑飞走。当埃阿努尔驾着他的坐骑赶回来的时候，格洛芬德尔预言：“Do not pursue him! He will not return to this land Far off yet is his doom, and not by the hand of man will he fall"
“别追了！他不会回到这片土地来了。他的末日远未来临，而且他不会死于Man之手。”
格洛芬德尔是当时中土最强大的精灵之一，也是历史上明确记载死后复活过来的三个精灵之一，拥有极强的力量，预言也很准
当时的人们以为格洛芬德尔的预言是指的巫王不能被人类杀死，在伊欧温应验了预言后人们才发觉这个Man指的是男人
酷狗音乐里有啊，各位bf可以去看啊。。。
Love Style
没错，我再也无法忍受对你的思念 。无可否认，没有你一天漫长无比
哪怕瞬间，我也只想拥有你。如果你想拥有比回忆更美好的爱情（我会给你）
如果你想拥有比**更浪漫的爱情（我会给你）
如果你想拥有无人能比的可靠男人（我能做到）
如果你不想受到伤害，委屈落泪 Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na
非我莫属 woo woo wo yeah 你所渴望的 love style
我都 会做到 now now now 定会成为你所期许的完美男友
We’re high We’re right We’re high We don't stop
We’re high We’re right We’re high We don't stop
We’re high We’re right We’re high We don't stop
We’re high We’re right We’re high We don't stop
就算事关生死 我也只看向你，我的心脏 只为你跳动 没错
虽然我看似没什么过人之处
但我为了成为你的最佳之选 正拼尽全力
如果你想拥有比回忆更美好的爱情（我会给你）
如果你想拥有比**更浪漫的爱情（我会给你）
如果你想拥有无人能比的可靠男人（我能做到）
如果你不想受到伤害，委屈落泪 我会对你认真负责 我的小公主
只可以信任我 紧紧跟随我 相信我吧？
你怎么可以 如此美丽 让我手足无措
我不是没主见的人 但你想要任何style都会呈现给你
我会对你毫无保留 看着我的眼睛告诉我你的答案好吗
你所渴望的 love style 我都 会做到 now now now
到那时 到那时 我会做到（做到）
定会成为你所期许的完美男友
如果你想拥有比曾经刻苦铭心的爱情（我会给你）
如果你想拥有比童话更梦幻的爱情（我会给你）
如果你想拥有别人望尘莫及的帅气男人（我能做到）
若果你讨厌软弱无比的懦夫
有事会想要simple一些 内心却越来越火热
我比任何人都懂你的小心思
你你你 只凝望着你的 一 二 六个人
故作纯真的我这样的少年
看似青涩 其实心中有数 也许爱情 我还不懂
希望采纳啊O(∩_∩)O~
Alizée - I'm Not Twenty!
Looking for paradise 去寻觅一方乐土，
Is always on my mind 总让我魂牵梦绕
Morning light shining right 当晨光轻抚大地，
Sing me a lullaby 请为我哼唱一首摇篮曲
Oh! Baby come to me oh,宝贝，到我这来，
Bring back simplicity 带回天真与纯朴
I'm here, you see ! 你知道我就在这！
So why hang on to me 为何紧握我不放？
Just write me poetry 只管给我写首诗。
If you're okey dokey ! 假如你感觉正好，
Get up and start to smile, guy 起来冲我笑笑，伙计
Do it for me 不要迟疑
Wake up I'll come around man 醒来吧，让我看到男子汉的你
Let's do "boogie-woogie" 让我们来玩“boogie-woogie"
It's not even a game 这并非一场游戏，
Get over your pain 战胜你的苦痛
I'm not twenty 我已不是二十，
Not even ashamed 甚至不再害羞
Could we celebrate 让我们一起庆祝
Cause'I'm not twenty 因为我已不是二十
And life goes on and on 时光渐渐流逝，
I go as I come 而我还是我
Mélodie de vie 这是生活的旋律
I fly all alone 我一直独自飞翔
A light little stone 你这颗小却闪光的石子
You get old at twenty 快快长到二十岁，
And I want to be free ! 我渴望能够自由飞
Oh! Baby baby mine oh ,宝贝，我的宝贝
You're always on my mind 让我一直牵挂的宝贝
Having fun is just fine 拥有快乐吧，它是如此美好
Your love, I shall deny 而你回报的爱，我会拒绝
Falling for me, indeed 情系于我，
Is diving in someone's need 并乐于助人
Love is too strong ! 这样的爱如此强烈
I've fallen into me 而此时我已深深陶醉
And freedom's eestasy ! 并获得自由的狂喜
You can never go wrong ! 相信我，你必将永不迷失方向
alizée-hey!amigo!（嘿！朋友！）
Déambule,
游荡
Déhanche-toi plus
你继续游荡
Elle déambule,
她游荡
Dans tes avenues, tes rues,
在你的大街上，在你的街上
"Mets les hommes"
让那些男人
A ses pieds si tendres,
拜倒在她温柔的脚下
Barcelone, fais lui bien comprendre :
Barcelone，让他明白
Qu'elle se trompe
她错了
Quel qu'en soit l'émoi
无论为谁心动
Elle se trompe,
她错了
Car elle est comme toi, un chat
因为她和你一样，是只猫
Qui ondule
游荡
Qui fait le dos rond
弓起身子
Elle manipule, celui qui dit non
她控制所有说“不”的人
Hey ! Amigo !
嘿！朋友！
Elle veut du haut, elle veut ta peau
她高高在上，她要你臣服
Et sur son dos, un tatouage
在她的背上，一个图腾
Hey ! Amigo !
嘿！朋友！
Mi amigo, elle veut du beau
我的朋友，她要帅哥
Et d'un amour, sans maquillage
还有爱情，不要虚假的爱情
Déambule,
游荡
Déhanche-toi plus
你继续游荡
Elle déambule,
她游荡
Dans tes avenues, tes rures
在你的大街上，在你的街上
"Mets les voiles"
戴上面纱
A son doux visage
在她甜美的脸上
Barcelona, prends-la en otage
Barcelona,绑架她
Elle se donne
她伪装
Quel qu'en soit le poids
无论重点在哪
Oui, elle se donne,
是的，她伪装
Car elle est comme toi, un chat
因为她和你一样，是只猫
Qui minaude
飘荡着
Qui feint, et salue l'homme
伪装着，迎合着男人
Elle se sauve d'un bond
她一跳而逃
Comme elle s'envole !
像消失了一样
Hey ! Amigo !
嘿！朋友！
Elle veut du haut, elle veut ta peau
她高高在上，她要你臣服
Et sur son dos, un tatouage
在她的背上，一个图腾
Hasta luego,
嘿！朋友，
Mi amigo, elle veut du beau
我的朋友，她要帅哥
Et d'un amour sans maquillage
和爱情，没有虚假的爱情
bon jovi(邦乔维)-it's my life
It`my life
这是我的生活
This ain't a song for the broken-hearted
这不是一首给伤心人的歌
No silent prayer for the faith-departed
信仰破灭，无声地祈祷
I ain't gonna be just a face in the crowd
我不想变成茫茫人群中微不足道的一个
You're gonna hear my voice
你将会听到我的声音
When I shout it out loud
当我大声唱出自己的声音
It's my life
这是我的生活
It's now or never
要么现在就开始努力，不然永远都不会有改变
I ain't gonna live forever
我不奢望永恒的生命
I just want to live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年好好活着
(It's my life) （这就是我的生活）
My heart is like an open highway
我的心像高速公路
Like Frankie said
就像法记所说的
I did it my way
我用自己的方式
I just wanna live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年做好自己
It's my life
这是我的生活
This is for the ones who stood their ground
这是为了那些坚持自己立场的人
For Tommy and Gina who never backed down
为了汤米和吉娜，他们从不退缩
Tomorrow's getting harder make no mistake
明天我们将更坚强，再不犯任何错误
Luck ain't even lucky
卢克（运气）也并非很幸运
Got to make your own breaks
做自己的蛋糕
It's my life
这是我的生活
And it's now or never
要么现在开始努力，不然永远不会有改变
I ain't gonna live forever
我不奢望永恒的生命
I just want to live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年好好活着
(It's my life) （这是我的生活）
My heart is like an open highway
我的心像高速公路
Like Frankie said
就像法记所说的
I did it my way
这是我自己的方式
I just want to live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年好好活着
'Cause it's my life
因为这是我的生活
Better stand tall when they're calling you out
当他们叫你出去，你最好站直了
Don't bend, don't break, baby, don't back down
别弯腰，别害怕，别退缩
It's my life
这是我的生活
And it's now or never
要么现在开始努力，不然永远不会有所改变
'Cause I ain't gonna live forever
因为我不想永远地活着
I just want to live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年好好活着
(It's my life) (这是我的生活)
My heart is like an open highway
我的心像高速公路
Like Frankie said
就像法记所说的
I did it my way
我用自己的方式
I just want to live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年好好活着
It's my life
这是我的生活
And it's now or never
要么现在开始努力，要么永远不会改变
'Cause I ain't gonna live forever
因为我不能永远活着
I just want to live while I'm alive
我只想在有生之年好好活着
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
我的心像高速公路
Like Frankie said
就像法记所说的
I did it my way
我用自己的方式
I just want to live while I'm alive
'Cause it's my life!
我只想在有生之年好好活着，
因为这是我的生活
westlife(西城男孩)-my love
An empty street 空寂的街道
An empty house 空寂的房间
A hole inside my heart 空寂的思念深藏在我的心中
I'm all alone 孤孤单单
The rooms are getting smaller 无尽的孤寂压迫着我
I wonder how 我想知道怎样
I wonder why 我想知道是何原因
I wonder where they are 我想知道他们去哪了
The days we had 那些我们在一起的时光
The songs we sang together 那些我们共同吟唱的歌曲
Oh yeah 哦 耶
And oh my love 还有你 我的爱人
I'm holding on forever 我始终坚持着
Reaching for a love that seems so far 但得到一份爱却是那样遥不可及
So I say a little prayer 我稍稍向上帝祈求
And hope my dreams will take me there 并希望我的梦能带我到那儿
Where the skies are blue to see you once again, my love 那儿有湛蓝的天空还有你美丽的笑容 我的爱人
Over seas and coast to coast 漂过大海 翻越山岭
To find a place I love the most 去找寻一个我最喜爱的地方
Where the fields are green to see you once again, my love 那儿有翠绿的草原还有你醉人的眼神 我的爱人
I try to read 我尝试阅读
I go to work 我尽力工作
I'm laughing with my friends 我和我的朋友逍遥狂欢
But I can't stop to keep myself from thinking Oh no 但这一切都不能阻止我的幻想 哦
I wonder how 我想知道怎样
I wonder why 我想知道是何原因
I wonder where they are 我想知道他们在哪？
The days we had 那些我们曾在一起的时光
The songs we sang together Oh yeah 哪些我们曾共同吟唱的歌曲
And oh my love 还有你 我的爱人
I'm holding on forever 我始终坚持着
Reaching for a love that seems so far 但得到一份爱却是那样遥不可及
So I say a little prayer 我稍稍向上帝祈求
And hope my dreams will take me there 并希望我的梦能带我到那儿
Where the skies are blue to see you once again, my love 那儿有湛蓝的天空还有你美丽的笑容 我的爱人
Over seas and coast to coast 漂过大海 翻越山岭
To find a place I love the most 去找寻一个我最喜爱的地方
Where the fields are green to see you once again 那儿有翠绿的草原还有你醉人的眼神 我的爱
To hold you in my arms 我想抱紧你
To promise you my love 我向你保证 我的爱人
To tell you from the heart 我决不是在撒谎
You're all I'm thinking of 你是我所想念的一切
I'm reaching for a love that seems so far 但得到一份爱却是哪样遥不可及
So I say a little prayer 我稍稍向上帝祈求
I dreams will take me there 并希望我的梦能带我到那儿
Where the skies are blue to see you once again 那儿有湛蓝的天空还有你美丽的笑容
Over seas and coast to coast 漂过大海 翻越山岭
To find a place I love the most 去找寻一个我最喜爱的地方
Where the fields are green to see you once again 那儿有翠绿的草原还有你醉人的眼神
My love 我的爱人
Say a litter prayer 稍稍向上帝请求
Dream will take me there 梦想能带我到那儿
Where the skies are blue to see you once again 那儿有湛蓝的天空还有你美丽的笑容
Over seas and coast to coast 漂过大海 翻越山岭
To find a place I love the most 去找寻一个我最喜爱的地方
Where the fields are green to see you once again 那儿有翠绿的草原还有你醉人的眼神
as long as you love me
Athough loneliness has always been a friend of mine 孤独一直是我的朋友
I'm leaving my life in your hands 自从你离开我的生活
People say I'm crazy that I am blind 朋友说我疯了太盲目
Risking it all in a glance 激情总是短暂的
How you got me blind is still a mystery你为何能使我如此盲目仍是个谜
I can't get you out of my head 我就是无法忘了你
Don't care what is written in your history我不在乎你过去的种种
As long as you're here with me 只要你陪在我身边
I don't care who you are 我不在乎你是怎样个人
Where you're from你从哪里来
What you did你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Who you are你是怎样个人
Where you're from你从哪里来
Don't care what you did我不在乎你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Every little thing that you have said done所有你说过的话和做过的事
Feels like it's deep within me都深深的烙印在我心里
Doesn't really matter if you're on the run我甚至于不在乎你是否就要逃开
It seems like we're meant to be我以为我们是一对的
I don't care who you are我不在乎你是怎样个人
Where you 're from你从那里来
What you did你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Who you are你是怎样个人
Where you 're from你从那里来
Don't care what you did我不在乎你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
As long as youlove me只要你爱我就好
I've tried to hide it so that no one knows我试着把感情隐藏起来不让任何人知道
But I guess it shows但我无法不流露真情
When you look in to my eyes当你凝视着我时
What you did where you're comin from你做过什么从哪里来
As long as you love me,baby!我不在乎,只要你爱我就好,宝贝!
I don't care who you are我不在乎你是怎样个人
Where you're from你从那里来
What you did你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Who you are你是怎样个人
Where you're from你从那里来
Don't care what u did我不在乎你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Who you are你是怎样个人
Where you're from你从那里来
What you did我不在乎你做过什么
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Who you are你是怎样个人
Where you're from你从那里来
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
Who you are你是怎样个人
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
What you did你做过什么
I don't care我不在乎
As long as you love me只要你爱我就好
TaTa Young-i believe
I feel the heat around me
我感到了周围的热气
I feel the beat surrounds me
我听到了鼓声（敲打声）围绕着我
Could this be for real, I wonder
我疑惑，这是真的吗？
No need for hesitation
没有必要犹豫
It’s time for celebration
这是快乐时光
Will this be the night I’ve waited for
这会是我等待已久的那个夜晚吗？
When angels fall in love
当天使也坠入爱河
Heaven knows, does it show, oh
天堂知道，但这看得出来，哦～
If this love, will last for eternity
如果这份爱会直到永远
Set me on fire
把我放在火上（？？）
(Chorus)
I believe, I believe in love
我相信，我相信爱
And like the stars above
就像这天上的星星
They shine, let it shine over me
他们闪烁，让他们在我的头上发光
Set me free I believe in you
让我自由，我相信你
And that our love is true
我们的爱是真心的
Oh I believe, I believe
哦，我相信，我相信
I see that people dancing
我看见人们在跳舞
Boys and girls romancing
男孩和女孩多浪漫
They want this to last forever
他们希望这可以延续到永远
Cause underneath the moonlight
因为在这月夜之下
Everything is alright
任何东西都是明亮的
We’re reaching our hands up in the air
我们在空中牵到了彼此的手
To where the souls alive
在灵魂升起的地方
Heaven knows, that it shows oh
天堂知道，它看得到，哦
If this love, will last for eternity
如果这份爱可以直到永远
Set me on fire
把我放在火上（？？）
(Chorus)
How could I doubt, what was meant to be
我怎么去怀疑？这是意味着什么？
Everything I needed was in front of me
所有我需要的东西都在眼前
Your healing touch, will lift me up in the sky, so high
你的抚摸，让我上升入天，很高。
vitas-心跳
我的来电者的心跳
线路，线路蜂鸣，指示器和数字零
天空的星星坚定了吸引力的命运
不是由我们－真可惜！
圆圆的行星在环绕着飞翔
让我们混在一起在周六相遇
云，闪电和暴风雨一起来临
也比焦虑的等待一声电话铃要好
阅读我
通过寻呼机
通过电话的音节
通过传真
通过电子邮件
Com com telecom
所有的都很复杂又简单
秘密，问题……
爱的象征
都无法解决。
这手持的武器
给我电话！
我的行星和彗星
会思念你更多
我来电者的心跳
不管是否重要－你要回答
创造了吸引力的命运的
地球上的占星家
人们混乱了－当我们相遇
你是处女座还是大熊座？
云，闪电和暴风雨一起来临
也比焦虑的等待一声电话铃要好
阅读我
通过寻呼机
通过电话的音节
通过传真
通过电子邮件
Com com telecom
所有的都很复杂又简单
秘密，问题……
爱的象征
都无法解决。
这手持的武器
给我电话！
我的行星和彗星
会思念你更多
spice girls(辣妹合唱团)-2 become 1
Candle light and soul forever
A dream of you and me together
Say you believe it
Say you believe it
点燃蜡烛让心得到永恒
你和我一起的梦想
说你相信它
Free your mind of doubt and danger
Be for real Don't be a stranger
We can achieve it
We can achieve it
放开你内心的疑惑和害怕
让真实冲淡陌生
我可以完成它
Come a little bit closer baby
Get it on
Get it on
Cuz tonight
Is the night
When 2 become 1
来吧让我们靠近些宝贝
得到它
今晚
就是今晚
I need some love like I never needed love before
Wanna make love to you baby
Had a little love
Now I'm back for more
Wanna make love to you baby
Set your spirit free
Its the only way to be
我需要些爱就像我以前从不需要爱
想要把爱带给你宝贝
得到些爱
现在我
想要把爱带给你宝贝
让你的灵魂得到自由
这是唯一的方法
Silly games that you were playing Empty words we both be saying
Lets work it out boy
Lets work it out boy
你正在玩着的愚蠢游戏我们无法形容
让它离开吧孩子
Any deal that we endeavour
Boys and girls go good together
Take it or leave it
Take it or leave it
我们尽力去做那些事情
男孩子和女孩子我们一起好好的做
做到或者放弃
Are you as good as I remember baby
Get it on
Get it on
Cuz tonight
Is the night
When 2 become 1
你是我记忆中的那么好吗？宝贝
得到它
在今晚
就是今晚
让我们变成一个人
Be a little bit wiser baby
Put it on
Put it on
Cuz tonight
Is the night
When 2 become 1
做个聪明点的宝贝
放开它
就在今晚
当我们成为一个人
Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another People in love are often considered to have "good" interpersonal chemistry[1] Love is described as a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships In different contexts, however, the word love has a variety of related but distinct meanings: in addition to romantic love, which is characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire, other forms include platonic love, religious love, familial love, and the more casual application of the term to anyone or anything that one considers strongly pleasurable, enjoyable, or desirable, including activities and foods This diverse range of meanings in a single word is commonly contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for Love, reflecting the word's versatility and complexity
Although clearly and consistently defining love is a difficult task, and often a subject of much debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't "love" As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more "pure" form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, though other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts
In ordinary use, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf narcissism)
The concept of love, however, is subject to debate Some deny the existence of love Others call it a recently-invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages—though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry Others maintain that love really exists, and is not an abstraction, but is undefinable, being a quantity which is spiritual or metaphysical in nature Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self-esteem" to another Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life
Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etc Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love" Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value
Though love is considered a positive and desirable aspect of existence, love can cause a great deal of emotional harm Consider Romeo and Juliet, Othello, Great Expectations, and other classical and popular works that enumerate how love can lead to tragedy and emotional pain In human interactions, love becomes a peril when love is not bilateral, known as Unrequited love A further peril for individuals that love, or can love others, is that love is not enduring and that many people have psychological defense mechanisms inhibit their ability to accept or reciprocate love
Human bonding
Main article: Human bonding
People, throughout history, have often considered phenomena such as “love at first sight” or “instant friendships” to be the result of an uncontrollable force of attraction or affinity One of the first to theorize in this direction was the Greek philosopher Empedocles who in the fourth century BC argued for existence of two forces: love (philia) and strife (neikos), which were used to account for the causes of motion in the universe These two forces were said to intermingle with the four elements, ie earth, water, air, and fire, in such a manner that love, so to say, served as the binding power linking the various parts of existence harmoniously together
Later, Plato interpreted Empedocles’ two agents as attraction and repulsion, stating that their operation is conceived in an alternate sequence[2] From these arguments, Plato originated the concept of “likes attract”, eg earth is thus attracted towards earth, water toward water, and fire toward fire In modern terms this is often phrased in terms of “birds of a feather flock together” Later, following developments in electrical theories, such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed such as "opposites attract" Over the last century, researcher on the nature of human mating, such as in evolutionary psychology, agree that pairs unite or attract to each other owing to a combination of opposites attract, eg people with dissimilar immune systems tend to attract, and likes attract, such similarities of personality, character, views, etc[3] In recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and or affinities
Religious views
Main article: Love (religious views)
Love in early religions was a mixture of ecstatic devotion and ritualised obligation to idealised natural forces (pagan polytheism) Later religions shifted emphasis towards single abstractly-oriented objects like God, law, church and state (formalised monotheism)
A third view, pantheism, recognises a state or truth distinct from (and often antagonistic to) the idea that there is a difference between the worshipping subject and the worshipped object Love is reality, of which we, moving through time, imperfectly interpret ourselves as an isolated part
The Bible speaks of love as a set of attitudes and actions that are far broader than the concept of love as an emotional attachment Love is seen as a set of behaviours that humankind is encouraged to act out One is encouraged not just to love one's partner, or even one's friends but also to love one's enemies
The Bible describes this type of active love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8:
Love is patient, love is kind It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres Love never fails
Romantic love is also present in the Bible, particularly the Song of Songs (also known as Song of Solomon, Canticles) Traditionally, this book has been interpreted allegorically as a picture of God's love for Israel and/or the Church When taken naturally, we see a picture of ideal human marriage
"Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealously unyielding as the grave It burns like a blazing fire, like a mighty flame [like the very flame of the LORD] Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned" [8:6-7, NIV]
The passage dodi li v'ani lo ("my beloved is mine and I am my beloved," Song of Songs 2:16) is often engraved on wedding bands [citation needed]
Cultural views
Main article: Love (cultural views)
Although there exist numerous cross-cultural unified similarities as to the nature and definition of love, as in there being a thread of commitment, tenderness, and passion common to all human existence, there are differences For example, in India, with arranged marriages commonplace, it is believed that love is not a necessary ingredient in the initial stages of marriage – it is something that can be created during the marriage; whereas in Western culture, by comparison, love is seen as a necessary prerequisite to marriage
Scientific views
Main article: Love (scientific views)
Throughout history, predominantly, philosophy and religion have speculated the most into the phenomenon of love In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject Recently, however, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have begun to take centre stage in discussion as to the nature and function of love
Biological models of sex tend to see it as a mammalian drive, just like hunger or thirst Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon Psychologist Robert Sternberg created his Triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion Intimacy is a form where two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs Commitment on the other hand is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever The last and most common form of love is simply sex, or passion Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love This led researchers such as Yela to further refine the model by separating Passion into two independents components: Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion
爱是一种发乎人内心的情感，在中文里有著很多解释，由某种事物给予人少许满足(如我爱进食这些食物)至为了爱某些东西而死(如爱国心、对偶结合)。其可以用来形容爱慕的强烈情感、情绪或情绪状态。在日常生活里，其通常指人际间的爱。可能因为其为情感之首位，所以爱是美术里最普遍的主题。爱有时亦会被形容为强迫观念-强迫行为症。
爱最佳的定义可能是主动行动，以真心对待某个体（可以是人、物件或神），使整体得到快乐。简而言之，爱即主动使整体得到快乐。(Thomas Jay Oord)。
爱是与生俱来的，所以可以认为是人性的特质，换言之，爱是作为人必须具备的本质之一。虽然世界各民族间的文化差异使得一个普世的爱的定义难以道明，但并非不可能成立。请参看沙皮亚-沃尔福假设。爱可以包括灵魂或心灵上的爱、对法律与组织的爱、对自己的爱、对食物的爱、对金钱的爱、对学习的爱、对权力的爱、对名誉的爱、对别人的爱，数之不尽。不同人对其所接受的爱有著不同的重视程度。爱本质上为抽象慨念，可以体验但难以言语
吸引与依附
生物学观点普遍认为爱有两种主要意欲，性魅力与依附。成人间的依附被假设为共同协作以孕育下一代，并让其依附其父母。
2006年2月，该期的国家地理杂志的封面文章“爱：化学反应”讨论了爱与化学反应的关系。其作者史雷特解释了部份关於此领域的研究，部份重点为：
化学触发反应可以表示为热烈的爱，长期的依附的爱则要双方互相参与而非只是单人参与。
沉醉在爱河时的血清素效应(serotonin effects)拥有与强迫观念-强迫行为症相似的化学表现(这解释了为何沉醉在爱河的人无法想到其他人)。因此亦有人主张若患有强迫观念-强迫行为症的精神病人服食血清素再回收抑制剂或其他抗抑郁药，其堕入爱河的能力会被阻碍。举例：
"我知道一对夫妇在离婚边缘，那位妻子在服食抗抑郁剂。但当其停止服食后，其能再次享受性高潮，感到其对丈夫的性魅力得到更新，而其夫妇两人亦再次与对方相爱。"(38)
当刚开始时期的热爱消失后，便会转为长期依附的爱，这是因为催产素等化学物的影响。按摩与做爱可以帮助触发催产素的作用。
为了触发吸引力，进行费神的活动如驾驶云霄飞车很有作用。即使只是做了十分钟的工作，亦可使其对他人的吸引人增加，这是因为其心跳加速与其他生理反应加速。
友爱与热爱
传统心理学的观点认为爱是由友爱与热爱组成。热爱是强烈的渴望，通常陪随著生理激起(呼吸急促、心跳加速，如堕入爱河)。友爱是由紧密的行为而引起的爱慕与感觉，但不陪随著生理激起(如君子之交)。
爱情三角理论
主条目：爱情三角理论
在1986年，心理学家史登堡在《心理评论》(Psychological Review (Vol 93, No2, 119-135))里发表了其著名的爱情三角理论，对爱作出几何学的假设。根据爱情三角理论，爱由三部份组成：
亲密 – 包括了紧密感、联络感与约束感。
激情 – 包括了驱使人恋爱、互相吸引与进行性行为的动力。
承诺 – 包括了短期的爱恋与长期的爱的维系。
对其他人的爱的程度主要是看这三个组成部件的绝对强度；而对别人的爱的种类则是看这三个组成部件的相对强度。这三个组成部件可当为三角形，互相影响，使得爱出现很多不同类别。三角形的大小代爱的程度，越大代表越爱对方。而三角形的形状则代表爱的种类，普遍分为激情阶段(三角形倾向右方)、亲密阶段(正常三角形)、承诺阶段(三角形倾向左方)。这三个元素可以构出七种不同的爱的组合：
亲密 激情 承诺
好感 或 友谊 x
迷恋 或 深恋 x
虚爱 x
浪漫之爱 x x
友伴爱 x x
热爱 x x
圆熟之爱 x x x
[编辑] 爱的风格
苏珊·汉迪斯与克莱德·汉迪斯根据李约翰的理论开发了爱的态度指标，称为爱的风格。其将人际关系分为六个基本类别：
情欲之爱 — 基於对方的外表而产生的热爱。
游戏之爱 — 爱就如游戏，充满乐趣，通常不重视承诺而著重征服对方。
友谊之爱 — 缓慢发展的重情义的爱，基於双方互相尊重与友善。
现实之爱 — 倾向选取可以帮助自己的朋友，使双方皆可由此得益。
依附之爱 — 重情绪的爱，不稳定，是由浪漫之爱衰退而成，充满妒忌与争执。
利他之爱 — 完全无私的爱，重视神交。
两位汉迪斯认为男人会渐渐趋向游戏之爱与依附之爱，反之女人则会渐渐趋向友谊之爱与现实之爱。而两者之间的关系若是具有相类的爱可维持得更为长久。
[编辑] 爱的阶段
费雪提议爱有三种主要的状态：情欲、吸引、依附。爱通常会由情欲状态开始，主要著重激情而忽略其他元素。此阶段最基本的推动力是基本性本能、如外表、气味与其他相似的因素是选取伙伴的主要因素。然而随著时间的流逝，其他元素可能会增多而激情则减少，但这却是每个人皆不同。在吸引阶段，人们会将注意力集中在其对对方的影响上，而此时忠诚最为重要。
与此相似，当一个人长时间被爱，其将会与其伙伴发展出依附的关系。根据现代科学对爱的解释，由吸引至依附转移需要三十个月时间。其后激情消失，爱会由热爱转向友爱，或由浪漫之爱转向好感。
"神圣的爱对比肉体的爱" ，由乔凡尼·巴里欧列所绘
[编辑] 文化观点
[编辑] 中华文化
现代汉语与中华文化里，少数的词汇被用作描绘爱的慨念∶
爱这个字可用作动词如我爱你或名词，如爱情。
恋这个字并不会作单词用，通常会与其他字组合，如谈恋爱、恋人或同性恋。
情这个字通常解作感觉或情绪，通常指代为爱，而其可与其他字组合为相爱的意思，如爱情、情人。
在儒家学说里，恋是纯爱之意。恋为所有人追求的东西，为道德生活的反映。而中国的哲学家墨子则发展出与儒家的恋慨念相对的爱的慨念。爱在墨家学说里为兼爱之意，即爱无等差，对众生皆持对等的爱。浪费与攻伐对爱则不利。虽然墨子的想法亦有一定影响力，但儒家的恋仍是大部份中国人对爱的慨念。
感情指两人之间的感觉。两人会以建立良好感情来表达对对方的爱，如互相帮助。而且可以对万物存有感情，不只限於人。
缘份是指两人间命运的关连。俗语说∶有缘千里能相聚，无缘见面不相识。
早恋是在当代中国常用的概念，指的是青年 、童年时发生的“爱情”或者对某异性人“感兴趣” 或“痴情”。早恋包括青年“男女朋友”以及儿童的早恋感觉（跟英文的“crush”这概念有一点关系）。这概念表示当代中国文化 、社会上的普通观点，就是未成年人由于学习的压力，不应该谈恋爱，否则对他们前途和出息可以有坏处。很重要一种原因是当代中国教育制度的极大竞争性。报纸和别的媒体也报导早恋这现象对学生的危险与家长的担心。
[编辑] 大和文化
在日本佛教里，爱意味著关怀、热情与基本渴望。其可发展为自私或无私与教化两方面。
甘え，在日语里指撒娇，是日本人抚养子女的文化。日本母亲通常会紧抱与纵容其子女，其子女则会通由依赖与孝顺来回报其母亲。部份社会学家(最著名的为土居健郎)认为日本人在长大后的社交手法很大程度建基於童年时对母亲撒娇的手法。
在日语语言学里，最常见与爱相关的两个字为爱与恋。通常非浪漫之爱均以前者表示，而浪漫之爱则以后者表示。父母之爱则称为亲の爱，而与人相恋则称为恋する。当然亦有特例，爱人此词解为相爱之人并暗示为非法的关系，通常表示为婚外情，反之恋人则有男朋友、女朋友或伴侣的含意。
在每天的交谈里，爱与恋却较少用到，反之以爱している或恋している来表示我爱你的人较多，例如日本人会说好きです来表示我喜欢你 -- 好き解为喜好，亦可以用作表示对食物、音乐或其他事件的爱好，就如寿司が好きです解为喜欢寿司，其暗示爱，但没有淡化其情感。
Diligere解为尊重，较少在浪漫之爱里使用。这个字可以通常用以形容两个男性之间的友谊。其对应的名词为diligentia，然而其有著努力、细心之意，与其动词形态只有少量意义重叠。
Observare为'diligere'的同义字，其对应的名词'observantia'亦解为尊重或影响。
Caritas在拉丁文圣经里解为慈爱，但在古典罗马非基督教文学里却无此解。因为其由希腊文字演变而得，所以并没有对应的动词。
[编辑] 印尼与马来亚文化
在印尼与马来西亚的语言里，爱可以有数种定义∶
Cinta代表性欲。
Jatuh cinta指刚堕入爱河。
Sayang指无条件去爱，但亦指损失某些东西产生的遗憾。
guess I'm a dreamer 假想自己是个梦想家
My heart is gold 内心是高贵的
I had to run away high 我不得不往上跑
So I wouldn't come home low 向下是回不到家的
Just when things went right 当一切都像好处发展的时
Didn't mean they were always wrong 并不代表他们过去就是错误的
Just take this song听听这首歌
And you'll never feel left all alone那么你就永远不会感到孤单
Take me to your heart带我进入你心扉
Feel me in your bones 感觉我就在你的骨髓中
Just one more night 又是另一个夜晚
And I'm coming off this long and winding road我将结束这漫长而又曲折的道路
I'm on my way 我正走在我的旅途中
I'm on my way
Home sweet home 家，甜美的家
I guess that I seem 我猜想
To make romantic dreams 我会点燃着浪漫的梦
Up in lights
Fallin' off the silver screen
My heart's like an open book 我的心就像一本敞开的书
For the whole world to read全世界都可以阅读
Sometimes nothing, keeps me 有时候
Together at the seams 使我在裂缝中紧紧地结合
It's a bittersweet symphony, 这是一首苦乐参半的交响曲
This life这就是生活
Just tryin' to make ends meet只是为了勉强糊口
You're a slave to the money, 你是着金钱的奴隶
Then you die 然后你死亡
There's no change 没有任何变化
I can't change, 我无法改变
I can't change, 我无法改变
I can't change
But I'm here in my mind 但是在我内心有另一个自我
I'm here in my mind
I'm a million different people 我是与众不同的
From one day to the next 从今天到明天
I can't change my mind 我不能改变我的想法
No, no, no 不，不，不
直译过来是——《死亡罗曼史》
in a rainy night
在这雨夜
can you hear me
你能否倾听我
in a rainy night
在这雨夜
can you help me
你能否帮助我
man,what are you thinking of
人啊你在思考着什么
man,what do you need
人啊你需要什么
man,nobody tell you what to do
人啊你是否已感到无人建议的困惑
man ,you need somebody to hurt
人啊你真的需要一些人去伤害你吗
in a rainy night
在这雨夜
can you hear me
你能否倾听我
in a rainy night
在这雨夜
can you help me
你能否帮助我
man,you feel so lonely
人啊你感到如此孤独
man,can you hear the message come from the sky
人啊你能否听见来自上帝的讯号
man,you are driving into the rain
人啊你正让自己淋着雨
man,you know it's time to find the prey
人啊现在你可以找到充饥的食物了
in a rainy night
在这雨夜
can you hear me
你能否倾听我
in a rainy night
在这雨夜
can you help me
你能否帮助我
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Dead Romance (Part II) 曲/ 词:黄家驹 《再见理想》 1=A4/4 E #Fm in a rainy night can you hear me 在这雨夜 你能否倾听我 E #Fm in a rainy night can you help me 在这雨夜 你能否帮助我 Bm #Fm man what are you thinking of 人啊 你在思考着什么 Bm #Fm man, what do you need 人啊 你需要什么 Bm #Fm man, nobody tell you what to do 人啊 你是否已感到无人建议的困惑 Bm #Fm man you need somebody to hurt 人啊 你真的需要一些人去伤害你吗 E #Fm It's a rainy night can you hear me 这是一个雨夜 你能否倾听我 E #Fm It's a rainy night can you help me 这是一个雨 你能否帮助我 Bm #Fm man, you feel so lonely 人啊 你感到如此孤独 Bm #Fm man, can you hear the message come from the sky 人啊 你能否听见来自上帝的讯号 Bm #Fm man, you are driving into the rain 人啊 你正让自己淋着雨 Bm #Fm man, you know it's time to find the prey 人啊 现在你可以找到充饥的食物了 E #Fm in a rainy night can you hear me 在这雨夜 你能否倾听我 E #Fm in a rainy night can you help me 在这雨夜 你能否帮助我
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