怎么给内向男人惊喜

生活中经常会出现这样的情况。一对本来可以相识，相恋的男女，因各自的心里作祟，或者在一个清风习习的早晨，或者一个月朦胧的夜晚，却擦肩而过了。这种情况固然有一种神秘的美丽，但终究没有收获和拥有，是不是感到有一些遗憾？甚至是终身的遗憾。如果他们不擦肩而过，如果她们擦肩而过后双双回首，给对方一个信号，那么是不是会发生一段动人的爱情故事？

所以，爱除了心灵的感应与感觉外，还有行动的表白，所以，遇到喜欢的人一定要大胆的告诉他。找到你的亚当一定要让他明白，你就是他的夏娃。

女孩儿要学会发挥自己的魅力，用魅力来吸引自己心仪的男人，下面一些技巧，你不妨一试。

1、记住对方的资料

在男女交往中，免不了互相介绍，这时候你一定要全神贯注，要记住他的名字，否则他会觉得你过于高傲或者心不在焉，可能对你敬而远之。除了对方的名字，他的职业，籍贯，电话号码，兴趣爱好，饮食口味儿等，都要牢记在心里。在适当的时候，不经意的让他知道，你对他的小细节记得很清楚，他便会开始留意。

2、不露声色的展示自己

中国人普遍都有着含而不露的性格特征，男性大多喜欢含蓄，内向型的女性，开放型的女性虽然可以朋友遍天下，但在绝大多数男性心中，她们容易“走近”却不容易“走进”，只可为友却不可为妻。假如你觉得自己没有足够的能力改变他的这种观念。却又无法割舍对他的感情，不妨投其所好，经常让他眼睛一亮，发出由衷的惊叹：原来她是这样的优秀！

3、与其他异性交往要把握分寸

事实证明，男人的嫉妒心是一笔可以利用的资源，一个被若干异性爱慕着女性比落落寡合的女性魅力大得多。使用得当，你所钟情的男人会出于对其他异性的嫉妒而对你产生兴趣，但是最好是点到为止。“欲擒故纵”不失为一种好办法，但要记住“物极必反”，你如果过于讨人喜欢，而且来者不拒的话，你的形象将大打折扣。

4、要做一个“变形金刚”

太阳每天都是新的，人也是一种喜新厌旧的动物。当你心仪的男人对你无动于衷的时候，不要着急，冷静思考一下，是不是自己哪些地方落伍了，也许在忙忙碌碌的生活中，你放弃了自我更新。你不妨时时改变自己。让他每次见到你都有一种全新的感觉。比如，改一下打扮，变一下发式。。。。。当然，最根本的还是精神面貌的改变，注意万变不离其宗，需要改变的是你的弱点，而不是优点，盲目改变不如不改。

5、学会鼓励那个自己暗暗喜欢的男人

有人曾做过一个小测试，如果遇到一个你极满意的异性，你是否会主动搭讪，建立联系？答“会”的女人为557%，而男人竟比女人们还低57个百分点。

如果不主动与那个自己喜欢的异性搭讪，有243%的女性和285%的男人，是因为，认为这样做有违自己的行事准则。23%的女人和213%的男人是因为担心受到冷意，4%的女人和143%的男人怕被笑话，因为缺乏勇气而不与自己喜欢的异性搭讪的男人为499%，女人为308%，可见男人在表达爱意时比女人更胆怯，女人应该学会鼓舞那个自己心中暗暗喜欢的男人。

如果你能掌握以上方法并灵活运用，相信你心仪的男人一定会乖乖到你身边来。

　　执子之手，一生何求相敬到白头，宽容才长久。有梦一起追，有愁相互谋。是夫妻也是朋友，也曾争执，也曾泪流，怎敌得过这一场姻缘真情难催爱意永久!一场浪漫的爱情是每个人所渴望的。下面是我为大家准备的，希望大家喜欢!

篇一

Veronese story took place in the city, Montague family and Kaibulaite family two doors to a giant family, generations of hatred Jieyuan plot stirred up a new dispute over the fate of the doomed the two enemies gave birth to a pair of unfortunate lovers , Rational and crazy Romeo and Juliet in the beautiful gentle family vendetta in bination The misery of their tragic Yunmie, reconciliation of their Jiaoe Zunqin This section of the Sang Sang stubbornly love, and the rift that two parents, one-to-many situation of the children killed, has bee today's speech this drama The conflict is tragic Romeo and Juliet love and hatred between the two families and confrontation

篇二

　　My aunt died back in about 2003 She was eighty-four and so was my uncle When she passed he was devastated They had been married for over 60 years We expected him to pass on quickly after she died He attended his church more frequently and his mourning was nearly unbearable to witness His only daughter lived clear across the country so he had only the rest of the extended family and church family to fort him

My cousin talked him into selling the house that he and my aunt had built together about twenty-five years before It was very hard to part with the home they built together He was going to move into an apartment, but at the last moment, my cousin and he saw a new house for sale, that was close to his business She helped him buy furniture and a flat screen television He had not watched television for years because of his religion He was like a kid with a new toy but still grieved horribly for my aunt

One day he called my cousin who was living in Texas and told her that he reconnected with a lady from a church that he and my aunt went to forty years previously She played piano and his church was looking for new music Her hu and had died about seven years previously He said he just wanted someone to go out to dinner with and spend time with We were happy for them but had no idea how it would turn out They were both almost eighty-seven years old

They were like lovebirds and spent as much time together as they could They both had one child each, she a son, he a daughter She had a house that her father built for her when she got married to her first hu and She was content there

The other fly in the ointment was that they were both very busy people They both still worked! They were in their mid-eighties and both had their own family businesses She worked for her son who took over the family business and he had his own business The clash in their relationship came when they neither wanted to leave their respective churches She went to her Baptist church that she had attended for many years and he went to his, which was a Pentecostal They decided to remain friends but nothing more He was broken-hearted, but felt that his religion was the only way She didn’t want to leave her church and didn’t like the extreme of his

Before too long they realized that they did not want to be apart They would find a new church together They planned to marry When he took her to a jewelry store and bought her a diamond, the employees were so impressed that they had a big write up in our own local paper, "'The Truth' for Valentines' Day" They prepared for their wedding They moved the wedding date up because neither wanted to wait any longer to "be together," and it was not proper to "be together" without being married

They got married in her house, where they decided they would live It was such a beautiful refreshing thing to see, two people who you would have thought had pretty much lived their lives, were beginning a new one together I have never seen my uncle happier He is still in love and she loves him as much as he loves her

篇三

A girl and a boy were on a motorcycle, speeding through the night

they loved each other a lot

girl:" Slow down a little I'm scared"

boy: "no, it's so fun"

girl: "please it's so scary"

boy: "then say that you love me"

girl: "finei love youcan you slow down now"

boy: "give me a big hug"

the girl gave him a big hug

girl: "now can you slow down"

boy: "can you take off my helmet and put it on it's unfortable and It's bothering me while i drive"

the next day, there was a story in the newspaper a motorcycle had crashed into a building because its brakes were broken

there were two people on the motorcycle, of which one died, and the other had survived

the guy knew that the brakes were broken he didn\'t want to let the girl know, because he knew that the girl would have gotten scared

instead, he was told the last time that she loved him, got a hug from her,put his helmet on her so that she can live, and die himself

once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale

感觉这个创意不错可以借鉴等到她过生日的前一天晚上，或者后一天晚上（还没有想好，因为当天她肯定有安排，晚上不知道几点才回家了。。。），我早早安排好一切，然后打电话叫她出来，（就在她家附近），等她从她家楼下出来时，（时间大概安排在晚上9点~9点半之间）就会看到不远处有一个蜡烛，顺这蜡烛走，会到我所在的地方，（这个地方很特别，只有一小块平台，但是我们在的一边几乎不会有别人，旁面是对面家属区的活动区，有好多健身器材，所以会有很多人，但是和他们之间有铁栅栏阁开），我会提前用蜡烛在地上摆好心型，中间有I LOVE U 提前点好，等她来的时候我还会点燃冷烟花，效果图如下：

｜浪漫主义时期｜• 简介

英国浪漫主义时期一般被认为始于1798年，标志为华兹华斯与柯勒律治的《抒情歌谣集》的出版，终于1832年，标志为沃尔特•司各特的去世及议会的第一个改革提案的通过。

Gothic novel ,a type of romantic fiction that predominanted in the late eighteenth century, was one phase of the Romantic movementIts principal elements are violence, horror,and the supernatural,which strongly appeal to the reader’s emotion 

哥特式小说是浪漫主义运动的一种形式 盛于浪漫主义前期18世纪末。

小说主要元素：暴力，恐怖，超自然力量的描写。

VIP :

1William Blake

2William Wordsworth

3Percy Bysshe Shelley

4Jane Austen

How is Romanticism different from Neoclassicism Provide brief evidence from the literary works you know best

1: Neoclassicists upheld that artistic ideals should be order,logic, restrained emotion and accuracy, and that literature should be judged in terms of its service to humanity, and thus, literary expression should be of proportion, unity, harmony and grace

2: Romanticists tended to see the individual as the very center of all experience, including art, and thus, literary work should be “spontaneous overflow of strong feelings ”, and no matter how fragmentary those experiences were, the value of the work lied in the accuracy of presenting those unique feelings and particular attitudes

3: In a word, Neoclassicism emphasizes rationality and form but Romanticism attached great importance to the individual’s mind

威廉•布莱克 生于伦敦一个爱尔兰裔小商人家庭，一生中，他都身兼诗人与雕刻家两重角色，他的天才在他的有生之年是默默无闻的，只是在他去世后才被人挖掘出来并一举成名。

在文学上，布莱克是第一位重要的浪漫主义诗人，表现出对理性至上的轻视，对18世纪古典主义的叛逆以及对个人幻想的重视。

布莱克的代表作《天真之歌》表述了一个愉快而纯洁的世界，尽管这个世界也偶有苦难与罪恶。《经验之歌》则描绘了一个截然不同的世界，一个充满苦难、贫穷、疾病与战争的世界，笔调极为忧伤压抑。

《天真之歌》中不少诗篇都在《经验之歌》中有着姊妹篇。比如“孩童之欣喜”与“孩童之忧愁”对应，纯洁的羔羊与燃烧的猛虎对应。两部诗集主题相似，笔调不同。

1| Songs of Innocence & Songs of Experience |

Brief introduce

A The Songs of Innocence is a lovely volume of poems, presenting a happy and innocent world, though not without its evils and sufferings

B His Songs of Experience paints a different world, a world of misery, poverty, disease, war and repression with a melancholy tone

C Childhood is the central to Blake's concern in the Songs of Innocence and Songs of Experience

2 | Tyger |

What does "symmetry" mean

The well-proportioned body of the tiger

What does "tyger" refer to

There are different opinions about the tiger Some say the tiger is made by God Others say it is made by men One more idea thinks that The Tyger is a poem about work, about artistic creation

  Please make a comment on William Blake's poetry

A His first collection of poems Poetical Sketches is one of youthful verse with joy, laughter, love and harmony as its prevailing notes

B The second volume of his Songs of Innocence presents a happy and innocent world

C The third --- Songs of Experience paints a different world, a world of misery, poverty, disease, war and repression with a melancholy tone

The last two hold the similar subject-matter, but their tone, emphasis and conclusion differ Childhood remains central to the poet's concern in the two, with a number of poems from them can be pairs

For example, the two poems both entitled "Chimney Sweeper" are such pairs, for the one in the Songs of Innocence indicates the conditions of the exploitation of child labor, which make religion a consolation, but the one in the Songs of Experience reveals the true nature of religion which helps bring misery to the poor children

D The maturity of Blake's poetry is shown in his poem Marriage of Heaven and Hell in which the relationship of the contraries is explored, for in the poet's eyes, "without contraries, there is no progression"

  What does the poem "The Chimney Sweeper (from Songs of Experience)" reveal

The two “Chimney Sweeper”poems are good examples to reveal the relation between an economic circumstance, iethe exploitation of child labor, and ideological circumstance iethe role played by religion in making people compliant to exploitationIn the Songs of Experience reveals the true nature of religion which helps bring misery to the poor children

威廉•华兹华斯

• 1797年，结识了科勒律治，两人成为知心密友，合作完成了《抒情歌谣集》。

• 诗人骚塞、科勒律治、和华兹华斯三人一并成为“湖畔诗人”。

• 1842年，华兹华斯荣获政府津贴，次年他压倒骚塞成为“桂冠诗人”（Poet Laureate）

• 华兹华斯被称为“大自然的膜拜者”。

• 华兹华斯是一个怀旧的诗人，对他来说，生命犹如轮回的旅程，生命之始也是生命之终。他的这种人生哲学体现在他的代表作《序曲》中。

• 华兹华斯追求简洁朴素的风格，厌恶粉饰真实。他强调诗歌创作最要紧的是把握素材的真实来源，即“在静谧中找回情感”。他的创作理论核心是普通人的生活经历。

• 华兹华斯是英国诗歌史上的巨星，是浪漫主义时期的杰出代表，他号召人们用清新、自然、关心的目光去看待周围的事物，开创了运用百姓生活语言写诗的新道路，并号召人们回归自然。

作家作品：

The Prelude

Composed upon Westminster Brige

Lyrical Ballads

I Wondered Lonely as a Cloud

The Solitary Reaper

1 | I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud |

This poem typically depicts the author's respect for nature / His love for the daffodils

2 | Composed upon Westminster Brige |

3 | She Dwelt Among the Untrodden Ways |

《独自幽居》By comparing a country girl (Lucy) to a violet, the poet intends to show her quality of beauty and her virtue which are often neglected by the common people just like a wild flower blooming by an untrodden road

4 | The Solitary Reaper |

《孤独的收割者》It tells us, to Romanticists, poetry is an expression of an individual's feelings and experience no matter how fragmentary and momentary these feelings and experiences are (无论他们的情感是微不足道的还是伟大的)

| Questions |

Please discuss the significance of William Wordsworth's poetry in the history of English literature

A First of all, Wordsworth's theory, as stated in his "preface" to the second edition of the Lyrical Ballads, serves as a manifesto of Romanticism The poet takes the direct experience of the senses as the source of poetic truth as poetry comes from the "emotion recollected in tranquillity" The significance of the "Preface" also presents itself in the poet's advocation of the writing of the common people in ordinary language

B Secondly, his practice is what his theory implies, for the joys and sorrows of the common people are his themes, in many of his poems such as the "Lucy poems"

C Thirdly, natural scenery with its beauty and mystery acts also as one of his favorite themes and the sympathy out of the poet's nature towards the poor in rural places becomes part of his concern

D Finally, the seemingly simplicity of the poet both in diction and description is immersed in a profound and sympathetic longing for a better world So the most important contribution he has made is that he has not only started the modern poetry, the poetry of his growing inner self, but also changed the course of English poetry by using ordinary speech of the language and by advocating a return to nature

雪莱 出生于一个富有家庭，父亲是个保守的乡绅，母亲貌美。

• 雪莱对自由的渴望及对暴政的憎恶都体现在诗作中，如《自由颂》《那不勒斯颂》等。

• 雪莱最著名的政治抒情诗是《致英格兰人民》，诗中号召工人，农民起来斗争，在宪章运动时期成为英国***的战歌。

• 雪莱最著名的抒情诗当属《西风颂》。瑟瑟寒风熄灭了一年的生机，却孕育着新春的希望，诗人希望自己也化作这西风，把他对未来的预言传遍人间。

• 雪莱最有造诣的作品是他的四幕诗剧《被解放的普罗米修斯》。

• 雪莱的诗歌语言清新别致，文化底蕴深厚，含有丰富的典故，并多用拟人和隐喻，将我们看到的事物完全生动地描绘出来。

作家作品：

To a Skylark

Men of England

Ode to the West Wind

| Men of England | 

《致英格兰人民》It is not only a war cry calling upon all working people to rise up against their political oppressors, but an address to them pointing out the intolerable injustice of economic exploitation

"drones" refers to the parasitic class in human society

"bees of England" refers to the laboring people in England

| Ode to the West Wind | (theme)

The poem expresses his eagerness to enjoy the boundless freedom from the reality

奥斯汀一生完成六部作品，她的处女作《理智与情感》讲述了一对姐妹的恋爱经历》；《傲慢与偏见》是她最著名的作品。在写作风格上，她倡导新古典主义，坚持理性、秩序、典雅的原则。奥斯汀的创作主题总与个人的生活及人际关系有关，正因如此，她的作品具有普遍的意义。

| Pride and Prejudice | (Theme)

A It was oringinally drafted as "First Impressions" in 1796, is the most delightful of Jane Austen's works The title tells of a major concern of the novel: pride and prejudice

| Questions |

What are Austen's writing features

Jane Austen is one of the realistic novelists Austen's work has a very narrow literary field Her novels show a wealth of humor, wit and delicate satire

Based on her writings discuss Jane Austen's greatest contribution to English literature

A Jane Austen is one of the most important Romantic novelists in English literature She creates six influential novels

B Her main literary concern is about human beings in their personal relationships She makes trivial daily life as important as the concerns about human belief, career and salient social event This is what makes her important in English literature

C Jane Austen has brought the English novel, as an art of form, to its maturity because of her sensitivity to universal patterns of human behavior and her accurate portrayal of human individuals

D She describe the world from a woman's point of view, and depicts a group of authentic and common women

Make comments on Austen's attitude towards the three kinds of motivations of marriage the middle class people had in the second of the 18th century (with specific examples from Pride and Prejudice )

A Motivation one: to pursue material interest through marriage;

B Motivation two: to seek sensual pleasure and beauty; Lydia and Mr,Bennet are examples of this kind

C Motivation three: to search for true love and also take personal merits and financial position into consideration; Elizabeth Bennet is a typical example of this kind

Austen celebrated the third kind of motivation of marriage while criticizing the first two wrong motivations

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