经典爱情英文短语

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经典爱情英文短语

 我导语:爱情来得太快,就像是龙卷风,在外国影视剧中爱情总是来得很快,而且非常浓烈,那么下英文中关于爱情的短语有哪些呢我整理一些中英文对照的爱情短语,希望你们喜欢。

 经典爱情英文短语一

 1、Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened

 ——不要因为结束而哭泣,微笑吧,为你的曾经拥有。

 2、I miss you so much already and I haven't even left yet!

 ——尽管还不曾离开,我已对你朝思暮想!

 3、Every day without you is like a book without pages

 ——没有你的日子就像一本没有书页的书。

 4、Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of

 ——爱很难投入,但一旦投入,便更难走出。

 5、May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight

 ——愿你的爱乘着飞翔的白鸽,展翅高飞。

 6、No words are necessary between two loving hearts

 ——两颗相爱的心之间不需要言语。

 7、The road to a lover's house is never long

 ——通往爱人家里的路总不会漫长。

 8、Every day without you is like a book without pages

 ——没有你的日子就像一本没有书页的书。

 9、May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight

 ——愿你的爱乘着飞翔的白鸽,展翅高飞。

 10、Passionate love is a quenchless thirst

 ——热烈的爱情是不可抑制的渴望。

 11、Passionate love is a quenchless thirst

 ——热烈的爱情是不可抑制的渴望。

 12、Love is a carefully designed lie

 ——爱情是一个精心设计的谎言

 13、Love makes man grow up or sink down

 ——爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

 14、I'll think of you every step of the way

 ——我会想你,在漫漫长路的每一步。

 15、At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet

 ——每一个沐浴在爱河中的人都是诗人。

 16、Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases

 ——爱情就像月亮,不增则减。

 17、If I know what love is, it is because of you

 ——因为你,我懂得了爱。

 18、I'll think of you every step of the way

 ——我会想你,在漫漫长路的每一步。

 19、Faults are sick when love is thin

 ——一朝情义淡,样样不顺眼。

 20、One love drives out another

 ——新的爱情来, 旧的爱情去。

 21、Love is blind

 ——爱情是盲目的。

 22、Brief is life, but love is long

 ——生命虽短,爱却绵长。

 23、Love never dies

 ——爱情永不死。

 24、Love without end hath no end

 ——情绵绵,爱无边。

 25、You make my heart smile

 ——我的心因你而笑。

 26、She who has never loved, has never lived

 ——人活着总要爱一回。

 27、Life is the flower for which love is the honey

 ——生命如花,爱情是蜜。

 28、Love me little and love me long

 ——不求情意绵绵,但求天长地久。

 29、Love is a fire which burns unseen

 ——爱情是无形燃烧的火焰。

 30、I'll think of you every step of the way

 ——我会想你,在漫漫长路的每一步。

 31、I miss you so much already and I haven't even left yet!

 ——尽管还不曾离开,我已对你朝思暮想!

 32、Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of

 ——爱很难投入,但一旦投入,便更难走出。

 33、Love is a fabric that nature wove and fantasy embroidered

 ——爱情是一方织巾,用自然编织,用幻想点缀。

 34、I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you

 ——我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

 35、To the world you may be one person, but to me you may be the world

 ——对于世界而言,你是一个人;但是对于我,你是我的整个世界。

 36、If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain

 ——离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

 37、Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation

 ——从来就是别离时,才知爱有多深。

 38、One word frees us of all the weight and pain in lifeThat word is love

 ——有一个词可以让我们摆脱生活中所有的负担和痛苦,那就是“爱情”。

 39、Love is not a matter of counting the days It's making the days count

 ——爱情不是数着日子过去,它让每个日子都变得有意义。

 40、Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence

 ——爱是永恒的,外表可能改变,但本质永远不变。

 41、1ut if the while I think on thee, dear friend, all losses are restored,and sorrows end

 ——只要我一想起你,亲爱的人,所有的失落和遗憾烟消云散。

 42、Listen, my heart, to the whispers of the world with which it makes love to you

 ——静静地听,我的心呀,听那世界的低语,这是它对你求爱的表示呀!

 43、No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry

 ——没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣!

 44、Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you

 ——无论你身在何处,无论你为何忙碌,我都会在此守候。

 45、I'll take one Minute to say “I love You”,One Hour to explain it,A whole life to prove it

 ——我将用一分钟说“我爱你”,一小时去解释这句话,用一生去证明这句话

 46、The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart

 ——在这个世界上,男人最珍贵的财产就是一个女人的心。

 47、One word frees us of all the weight and pain in lifeThat word is love

 ——有一个词可以让我们摆脱生活中所有的负担和痛苦,那就是“爱情”。

 48、Precious things are very few in this world That is the reason there is just one you

 ——在这世上珍贵的东西总是罕有,所以这世上只有一个你。

 49、Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you

 ——无论你身在何处,无论你为何忙碌,我都会在此守候。

 50、Precious things are very few in this world That is the reason there is just one you

 ——在这世上珍贵的东西总是罕有,所以这世上只有一个你。

 51、In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

 ——在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

 52、The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them

 ——失去某人,最糟糕的莫过于,他近在身旁,却犹如远在天边。

 53、Never frown,even when you are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile

 ——纵然伤心,也不要悉眉不展,因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

 54、To the world you may be one person,but to one person you may be the world

 ——对于世界而言,你是一个人;但是对于某人,你是他的整个世界。

 55、Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have

 ——爱你的'人如果没有按你所希望的方式爱你,那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。

 56、Never wait for love to come to you, for you will be waiting lifetime

 ——不要坐等爱情的到来,因为你将会等待一生。

 57、Love is patient and kind, love is not jealous or boastful, it is not arrogant or rude

 ——爱情就是耐心与善良,不是妒忌与自夸,也不是傲慢与无礼。

 58、If we give love, we get love And even in the most difficult times, we find there is always a way to get through

 ——如果付出爱,我们就能得到爱。即使在最困难的时候,这都是真理。

 59、Therefore, if you desire love, try to realize that the only way to get love is by giving love, that the more you give, the more you get

 ——如果你渴望爱情,你需意识到得到爱的唯一方法就是付出爱,你付出的越多,得到的就越多。

 60、I love you not because of who you are,but because of who I am when I am with you

 ——我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。新的爱情来, 旧的爱情去。

 经典爱情英文短语二

 1、When there's no expectation,losing won't bring hurt, gaining makes you surprised

 不去期望。失去了不会伤心,得到了便是惊喜。

 2、You are the one I have been looking for

 你就是我一直在追寻的幸福。

 3、Be crazy if you love If you don't then be strong

 爱就疯狂,不爱就坚强。

 4、To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world

 对于世界而言,你是一个人;但是对于某个人,你是(她)的整个世界。

 5、I have searched a thousand years And I have cried a thousand tears I found everything I need You are everything to me

 我寻觅了千万年,我哭泣了千万次,我已经找到了需要的一切,你就是我的一切。

 6、It is universally ackonwledged that you are indispensible to me

 全世界都知道你是我不可或缺的。

 7、We've sticked for a long time but finally defeated by eternity

 我们撑了好久,最后输给了天长地久。

 8、Loving you is closely to my life

 爱与我的生活息息相关。

 9、When I met you I knew would forever be by your side -- forever your partner and forever your love

 当我遇到你的那一刻,我知道我将永远在你身边!

 10、I will always keep a warm place in my heart for you

 在我心里永远有一块最温暖的地方属于你。

 11、Within you I lose myself,without you I find myself wanting to be lost again

 有了你,我迷失了自我。如果失去你,我多么希望自己再度迷失。

 12、My heart beats for you every day I am inspired by you every minute, and I worry about you every second It is wonderful to have you in my life

 每一天都为你心跳,每一刻都被你感动,每一秒都为你担心,有你的感觉真好。

 13、There's always that one song that brings back old memories

 总有那么一首歌,让你陷入深深的回忆。

 14、Stepping forward can't finish the distance while going backwards can't get rid of the memory

 前进走不完距离,后退走不出回忆。

 15、Will we at last forget ourselves result from the continuous affectation

  我们会不会终有一天在不断地假装里,忘记自己。

 16、If you are the wind, I am the sand If you are the shoe, I am the brush If you don't love me, I just wanna die

 如果你是风,我就是沙;如果你是鞋,我就是刷;如果你不爱我哦,我就会死。

 17、Love is like an hourglass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties

 爱情就像沙漏,心满了,脑子就空了。

 18、Your eyes close, I die your eyes open, I come back alive Your eyes close and open again and again, I die and come back time after time

 你的眼睛闭上,我的魂就飞;你的眼睛睁开,我的魂就回;你的眼睛眨呀眨,我就死去活来千百回。

 19、I'm just a sunflower ,waiting for my only sunshine

 我只是一朵向日葵,等待着属于我的唯一的阳光。

 20、Happiness is when the desolated soul meets love

 幸福是孤寂的灵魂遭遇爱的邂逅。

 21、No matter the ending is perfect or not, you cannot disappear from my world

 我的世界不允许你的消失,不管结局是否完美。

 22、Please don't pretend to be good to me I'm so naive that I will take it seriously

 请不要假装对我好,我很傻,会当真。

 23、I will not beat you, not scold you, but torture you with all my love

 不打你,不骂你,专用感情折磨你!

 24、Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be

 与我白头偕老,是最美好的事。

 25、I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you

 我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。

 26、Thank me for loving you no way anyone has ever tride

 从来没有一个人像我这样爱你,谢谢我!

 27、I need him like I need the air to breathe

 我需要他,正如我需要呼吸空气。

 28、Love doesn't require you to be perfect, but it does require you to be forgiving

 爱情并不需要你处处完美,但需要你变得宽恕。

 29、Every man is a poet when he is in love (Plato ancient Creek philosopher)

 每个恋爱中的人都是诗人。(古希腊哲学家 柏拉图)

 30、It is graceful grief and sweet sadness to think of you, but in my heart, there is a kind of sofe warmth that can't be expressed with any choice of words

 想你,是一种美丽的忧伤的甜蜜的惆怅,心里面,却是一种用任何语言也无法表达的温馨。

 31、You'e the girl in my dream

 你是我梦中的女孩。

 32、Do you understand the feeling of missing someone It is just like that you will spend a long hard time to turn the ice-cold water you have drunk into tears

 你知道思念一个的滋味吗就像喝了一大杯冰水,然后用很长很长的时间流成热泪。

 33、I know you like this song most and I know what you are thinking about, too, I miss you

 我知道你最喜欢这首歌,我也知道你的心思,我想你。

 34、Those days when we were together appear in my mind time after time, because they were so joyful, happy, blest, disappointing, sad and painful I miss you, and miss you so much

 常常想起曾和你在一起的那些日子。开心、快乐、幸福、失落、伤心、痛苦的所有日子。很想你,很想你……

 35、Do you know there is someone thinking of you and caring you all the time Your smiling eyes are just like the sparkling stars hanging on the curtain of my heart

 你知道么,有个人时时想念着你,惦记你,你含笑的眼睛,像星光闪闪,缀在我的心幕上,夜夜亮晶晶。

 36、Listening to my heart beating Seeing how much I love you, I dare to admit how much I love you When thinking of you, I hope you can receive the passionate words I left for you!

 心要让你听见,爱要让你看见,不怕承认对你有多眷恋;想你的时候,盼你能收到我的真情留言!

 37、I miss you not because of my loneliness but I do feel lonely when I miss you Only when I miss you deeply I feel so lonely

 不要因为寂寞才想你,是因为想你才寂寞。孤独的感觉这所以如此之重,只是因为太想你。

 38、I miss you so deeply that my love just like a kite has broken its line and won't stop flying until it reaches you at last

 长长的思念,就像风筝断了线,飘啊飘啊,飘到你的身边。

 39、Oh, How much I miss you! If the passionate refreshing breeze knows my heart, it can tell you that I miss you and care you for my life's time If graceful white cloud knows my heart, it can tell you I love you and would be together with you forever

 好想,好想你!如果清风有情,请带去我对你的思念,这一生都为你牵挂;如果白云有意,请带去我对你的爱恋,生生世世都愿和你共缠绵!

 40、For our ever-lasting friendship, send sincere blessings and warm greetings to my friends whom I miss so much

 一份不渝的友谊,执着千万个祝福,给我想念的朋友温馨的问候。

 41、The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside him knowing you cant have him

 思念的痛苦在于他就在你身边,你却不能拥有他。

 42、Dont cry because it is over, smile because it happened

 不要因为爱而伤心落泪,曾经拥有才是最重要的。

 43、Where there is great love, there are always miracles

 哪里有真爱存在,哪里就有奇迹。

 44、Love is like a butterfly It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes

 爱情就像一只蝴蝶,它喜欢飞到哪里,就把欢乐带到哪里。

 45、If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden

 假如每次想起你我都会得到一朵鲜花,那么我将永远在花丛中徜徉。

 46、Look into my eyes - you will see what you mean to me

 看看我的眼睛,你会发现你对我而言意味着什么。

 47、Distance makes the hearts grow fonder

 距离使两颗心靠得更近。

 48、If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me

 如果没有相等的爱,那就让我爱多一些吧。

 49、Love is a vine that grows into our hearts

 爱是长在我们心里的藤蔓。

 50、Absence to love is what wind is to fire It extinguishes the small; it inflames the great (Roger de Bussy-Rabutin, French writer)

 离别之于爱情好比风之于火,它能将小火熄灭,使大火熊熊燃烧。(法国作家 比西-拉比旦R)

 51、First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity (George Bernard Shaw)

 初恋就是一点点笨拙外加许许多多好奇。(英国剧作家 肖伯纳G)

 52、Friendship is like earthenware: once broken, it can be mended; love is like a mirror: once broken, that ends it (Josh Billings American humorist)

 友谊就像陶器,破了可以修补;爱情好比镜子,一旦打破就难重圆。(美国幽默作家 比林斯 J)

 53、Friendship is love without his wings (George Gordon Byron, Bdritish poet)

 友谊是没有羽翼的爱。(英国诗人 拜伦G,G)

 54、Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love (Albert Einstein, American scientist)

 并非地球引力使人坠入爱河。(美国科学家)

 55、I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you

 我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。

 56、No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won"t make you cry

 没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

 57、The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can"t have them

 失去某人,最糟糕的莫过于,他近在身旁,却犹如远在天边。

 58、Just because someone doesn"t love you the way you want them to, doesn"t mean they don"t love you with all they have

 爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你,那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。

 59、Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to

 不要着急,最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

 60、Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful

 在遇到梦中人之前,上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人;在我们终于遇见心仪的人时,便应当心存感激。

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淅淅沥沥的雨,下在最为落寞的人世,孤单的花,开在了岁月里。在过往的时光中,曾在不经意之间,转身恍惚之时,邂逅爱情,遇见美好。那些与爱情于岁月的英文翻译,美丽了无算的芳华。

1I love you andthat’s all I really know it’s a love story,baby

一生心系于伊,此乃吾心深许。

2I like you,butjust like you

纵然万劫不复,纵然相思入骨,我也待你眉眼如初,岁月如故。

3First I needyour hand,then forever can begin

执子之手,与子偕老。

4Don’t yourealize she did it for you tonight

心悦君兮君可知?

5I will love youmore than yesterday,but less than tomorrow

我会爱你永远比昨天多一点,比明天少一点。

6Well,not thatemotional but i move the heart

情如风雪无常,却是一动情殇。

7Love melittle,love me long

慕尔如星,愿守心一人,从天光乍破,走到暮雪白头。

8Catch one’sheart,never be apart

愿得一人心,白首不分离。

9I love threethingsThe sun,the moon and youThe sun for the day,the moon for the night andyou forever

吾爱有三:日、月、卿。日为朝,月为暮,卿为朝朝暮暮。

10Cause we wereboth young when I first saw you

若人生只如初见。

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1、只不过刚好伤心不已,只不过刚好决定放弃,只不过刚好忘记哭泣,只不过刚好遇见你。

Just sad, just just decided to give up, just forget to cry, just happen to meet you

2、我不知道该说什么,我只是突然在这一刻,很想你。

I dont knoe memories, even if the pain, still have to remember, only because of the beauty of that time

6、我太笨明知道这不是缘分明知道你是错的人,我还是奋不顾身。

Im too stupid to knopany of the first plete! To become all the other is to be himself

29、爱情,并不是婚姻的唯一。但是,你却是我的唯一。

Love is not the only one in marriage But you are the only one in me

30、人生若只如初见,何事秋风悲画扇。等闲变却故人心,却道故人心易变。

If the life is only like the first sight, e an indispensable habit in life

67、幸福是爱情完美的独特,泪流是错爱美丽的邂逅。

Happiness is the perfect love is unique, tears are so beautiful

68、人有悲欢离合,月有阴晴圆缺,此事古难全,但愿人长久,千里共婵娟。

people with the moon waxes and wanes, grief at separation and joy in Union, all this ancient hard, danyuanrenchangjiu, partings

69、我不是碰不到更好的,而是因为有你,我不想再碰到更好的。

I dont touch the better, but because of you, I dont want to meet better

70、我爱你,为了你的幸福,我愿意放弃一切包括你。

I love you, for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything including you

71、幸福是当我失落,你像天使给我快乐。

Happiness is when I am lost, you are like an angel

72、有一种奢侈品相得到却不敢要,一旦失去了就失去了。

There is a kind of luxury that can not be obtained, and once lost, it is lost

73、梦已逝,心已碎,留下只是在为离开做准备。

The dream is dead, the heart is broken, leaving only to prepare for the departure

74、你无法理解我的无理取闹,就像我不懂你一直对我视而不见。

You cannot understand my vexatious, I dont know you always ignore me

75、此刻我很挂念你,请为我小心照顾自己。

Now I miss you very much, please take care of myself

76、爱情是个变幻莫测的家伙,它渴望得到一切,却几乎对一切都感到不满。

Love is a fickle guy It longs for everything, but it is almost dissatisfied with everything

77、一个人就算再好,但不愿陪你走下去,那他就是过客。

If a man is good, but he does not want to go with you, he is a passer-by

78、我也想拥抱你,可是人群太挤你始终不会是我的唯一。

I want to hug you, but you will not always crowded crowd is the only one for me

79、爱一个人感觉大概就是什么都会在意,又什么都可以原谅。

Love a person feels about what all care about, and everything can be pardon

80、开始的时侯,我们就知道,总会有终结。

When we begin, we know that there will always be an end

浪漫爱情短语

1、你永远都不懂我,就像白天不懂夜的黑。

2、给我一张爱的地址,在你的世界不再走失。

3、别拿你的爱撒得到处都是,我只想我拥有。

4、不要轻易说爱,许下的承诺就是欠下的债!

5、微小的幸福就在身边,容易满足就是天堂。

6、爱情,就是一个人相信了另一个人的谎言。

7、思念已经化成了眼泪,一滴一滴刺痛我的心。

8、要铭记在心:每天都是一年中最美好的日子。

9、如果我是配角,那么我会配合你,祝你幸福。

10、痴情的一方注定伤的最深,自古痴情终成空。

11、我的忧伤飘散在远方,没有你我感觉好孤单。

12、今来古往,物是人非,天地里,唯有江山不老。

13、不要说我用情不专,因为你从来就不属于我过。

14、我的记忆里有你的痕迹,我的爱在寂寞世界里。

15、孤单的你,孤单的我,孤单的灵魂,流离失所。

16、我再也不会奋不顾身的去爱一个人了,哪怕是你。

17、假如有一天我们不在一起了,也要像在一起一样。

18、你的世界,我进不去。我的未来,你也不必参与。

19、爱情不是轰轰烈烈的誓言,而是平平淡淡的陪伴。

20、原本以为已经忘记了,一个电话唤醒所有的记忆。

21、不去求谁给我幸福,因为我的幸福早死在你的心里。

22、许放弃,才能靠近你;不再见你,你才会把我记起。

23、虽然知道自己没资本,可是某人我一直在等你爱我。

24、你要我为你祈祷,我会的!和你妈妈一样为你着想!

25、我还是会因为你的一句话而感动,因为一件事而触动。

26、谁?千百年固守的执着,只因一句承诺:来世我等你!

27、不要轻易许下承诺,做不到的承诺,比没许下更可恶。

28、宠和爱是不同的两件事,宠可以没有交流,而爱则不能。

29、一个姑娘爱上一个男子的时候,决不会看出他的缺点来。

30、在这世上珍贵的东西总是罕有,所以这世上只有一个你。

31、不要依赖别人,是你还有人可以依赖的时候才说得出来的。

32、有些话,适合烂在心里;有些痛苦,适合无声无息地忘记。

33、我像是一个你可有可无的影子,和寂寞交换着悲伤的心事。

34、受过一次伤害,还是不懂得放弃,非得遍体鳞伤才会放弃。

35、高兴,就笑,让大家都知道。悲伤,就假装什么也没发生。

36、爱上一个人的时候,总会有点害怕,怕得到他;怕失掉他。

37、获得爱情你可以随便用什么办法,而保持爱情却需要智慧。

38、那一场说好不诉离殇的爱情,其实也抵不过一场风花雪月。

39、一个人有生就有死,但只要你活着,就要以最好的方活下去。

40、我从我单薄的青春里打马而过,穿过时隐时现的悲喜与无常。

41、我大概是一只鸟。充满了警觉,不容易停留。所以一直在飞。

42、不要去羡慕别人的表面风光,其实每个人都有自己内心的苦。

43、逆风的地方,更适合飞翔,我不怕万人阻挡,只怕自己投降。

44、要做的事情总找得出时间和机会,不要做的事情总找得出借口。

45、虽然你对我问过的问题含糊其词,但我付出的依然是最真的心。

46、再让我多活一秒,让我和你在一起,拥抱薰衣草在风中的味道。

47、永远不要把别人的感受当成是笑话,你不知道那样有多伤不起。

48、恋爱的女人的最大快乐就是她所爱的男人承认她是他的一部分。

49、我们缺少的不是机会,而是在机会面前将自己重新归零的勇气。

50、我知道就算没有迩我乜可以过的很好、可是没有迩的未来我不要。

51、淋过雨的空气,疲倦了的伤心,我记忆里的童话已经慢慢的融化。

52、走的最快的都是最美的风景,伤的最深的也总是那些最真的感情。

53、记住该记住的,忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的,接受不能改变的。

54、寻寻觅觅,冷泠清清,凄凄惨惨戚戚。乍暖还寒时候,最难将息。

55、我不会再为你停留,我会慢慢学着放下,然后去找那属于我的幸福。

56、爱情应当山盟海誓,只有专一的、忠贞不渝的爱情,才是真正的爱情。

57、没有人因水的平淡而厌倦饮水,也没有人因生活的平淡而摒弃生活。

58、眼泪是女人最原始的武器,也是男人唯一无法抵抗的最厉害的武器。

59、曾经我们十指相扣,说再也不分开。如今那个人,已经消失在人海。

60、我真的爱你,闭上眼,以为我能忘记,但流下的眼泪,却没有骗到自己。

浪漫爱情英文句子

1s。第一次听到你对我说我爱你,我的世界一瞬间鲜花绽开。

4I knoance, and you find out you still care for that person。爱情是:当感觉、热情和浪漫统统拿掉之後,你仍然珍惜对方。

21Look into my eyes - you the moment that I eone in the es to a man in this as Ford她的一举一动,她的一颦一笑;她的聪慧,她的声音将我的心俘虏;将我的心俘虏。我不明白个中缘由,但我会爱她到永远。

40Dont struggle so much,best things happen an is e b没有了爱,地球便成了坟墓。

46To lost in something you love is better than to e one who reaches for your hand and touches your heart一个真正的朋友是向你伸出手,触动你心灵的人。

51And time goes by so slowly, and time can do so much而时光难熬,它能改变许多事。

浪漫爱情表白短语

1、下雨时,我们打一把伞,我向往和你挤在一起走路。

2、我们总是握住了左手的幸福,却遗忘了自己右手的孤独。

3、我是一个没有吃过苦的孩子,但为了你我什么苦都能吃。

4、如果出台相关的法律,我希望可以和你结婚,虽然只是一张纸。

5、吃过晚饭后,我们出门散步,找一处安静的地方数天上的星星。

6、有条件的话,我想和你一起去海边度假,让我们感受海风的清新。

7、没有你,我的天空少了一片色彩;没有你,我的世界多了一种思念。

8、爱,原来并没有专属的夜晚,然而你来到我身边,星光却如此灿烂!

9、我给你拍照时,你要按我的要求摆pOSE,我要把你最美的一面拍下来。

10、因为她生的美丽,所以被男人追求;因为她是女人,所以被男人俘获。

11、别说我每天动你的歪脑筋。地球如果不歪对着太阳转,我们怎会有春天?

12、一天一点爱恋,一夜一点思念,给我一句真的誓言,让我可以期待永远。

13、十里平湖霜满天,寸寸青丝愁华年,对月行单望相互,只羡鸳鸯不羡仙。

14、有些人用嘴巴去爱,而我是用心去爱,也许我会失去很多,但我不会后悔。

15、你是一股清凉的凉水流入我的心田,泉水化成美酒,令我沉醉在幸福中间。

16、鱼儿爱上了飞鸟,然而,他们的窝建在哪儿好呢?所以,勉强是没有幸福的!

17、你是岸,我是船,你是太阳,我为你转,幸福有你才能算,给我世界都不换。

18、我们来玩游戏猜硬币。你输了就做我的男朋友,我输了就做你的女朋友。

19、爱是冷冷的冬夜里,一杯热腾腾的咖啡;爱是春暖花开时,对你满满的笑意。

20、不要让我孤独,不要给我寂寞,过度的孤独与寂寞会让我无止地伤感与悲痛。

21、你对我说的那些美好的未来,相对我而言,不单单是说说而言,因为我会当真。

22、我喜欢你一对水灵灵的眼睛,因为你爱用眼睛说话,双瞳中还充溢着无限深情。

23、过去,你我只是连擦肩都没有的陌生人,未来,你将是我所拥有、最幸福的回忆。

24、永远太过遥远,我不奢求你永远的承诺,我只希望你能和我一起度过仅剩的人生。

25、第一次哭是因为你不在,第一次笑是因为遇到你,第一次笑着流泪是因为拥有你!

26、你就像一颗美丽的水晶,洁白无霞,我就像别人手里的擦布。不擦你就不够漂亮。

27、如果真的有鹊桥,我要跟你走到桥的尽头,然后把桥拆了,绝不让你走,愿意吗?

28、你问我爱你有多深,爱了就不分,不许说分手,不许说拜拜,天亮以后还要一起走!

29、爱加爱等于非常爱,爱减爱等于爱的起点,爱乘爱无限的爱,爱除爱等于唯一的爱。

30、你要时常唱歌给我听,随便唱什么都好,只要是你唱的,最好让我在你的歌声中入睡。

31、是偶然还是奇迹,引你翩翩走进我生命,用那沾满柔情的爱意,挥洒永不褪色的诗句。

32、如果生活是个圆,那么你我各占一半。有了你,我是完整的;而有了我,你是快乐的!

33、你是我的爱人,像泸沽湖一样的女人,你用你那明镜般的心灵,照亮我五彩斑斓的人生!

34、你是我的情人,像月牙泉边的星星,你那双明亮的眼睛告诉我,你就是我今生最爱的人!

35、玫瑰开在九月里,我的心中只有你,好想和你在一起,没有什么送给你,只有一句我爱你!

36、牵你的手,朝朝暮暮,牵你的手,等待明天,牵你的手,走过今生,牵你的手,生生世世。

37、你是我的恋人,像含苞待放的花蕾,你那双含情默默的眼神告诉我,你是我今生该等的人!

38、有人说!通往心脏的血脉是在无名指上,今生,我多想倾尽所有,牢牢的拴住你的无名指啊!

39、没有你的时侯,色彩是单一的,没有你的时侯,饭菜是无味的,没有你的时侯,我是空心的!

40、如果把我内心的愧疚真说出来,怕你觉得我没出息,可是不说出来,自己又觉得自己没出息。

41、遇见你以后我就成了傻子,你就是我的骗子,虽然我甘心情愿的被你骗,但你得骗我一辈子。

42、这一生有了你,就算有再大的风雨,再大的不如意,我都要和你走过每一个春夏秋冬,我爱你。

43、我爱你,不是一天两天,也不是一年两年,更不是一生,而是永远!爱是我们一生最美的时光。

44、那些美好的过往,让我们坚信,无论是爱情还是婚姻,依然值得用生命去追求,用一生去守候。

45、在一年的每个日子,在一天每个小时,在一小时的每一分钟,在一分钟的每一秒,我都在想你。

46、传一束生物电波,递一种生命信息,人世虽有众多的美好灵魂,而只有你我在无声的感应中默契。

47、我不敢说生生世世在一起,因为我没有把握。我只要在今生有限的时间里,每一天,我们都相爱。

48、很想把你从我的记忆中抹去,却总是身不由己地想起你:在梦中的每时每刻,在醒时的分分秒秒。

49、真想亲你的鼻子。鼻梁高挺的男人多少会有点自豪,夸他鼻子好看,就意味着说他性能力强。

50、情书,是我写的;电话,是我打的;玫瑰,是我送的;别问我是谁,我就是爱你的和你爱的可人儿。

51、我爱你,就像你也爱我,我永远是你的,你也永远是我的,永远不分开,永远在一起,爱你一万年!

52、夜深了!无数的星辰亮起,在天空写下你的名字,当流星划过时,就能将我的思念与祝福传送给你!

53、失去的永远是最珍贵的,但如果只知道去珍惜过去而没有好好把握现在,那你将失去更美好的明天!

54、你我相见是一种缘份,我们彼此珍惜着这份来之不易的感情,希望在以后的路上能陪伴着你一生一世。

55、我希望50年后,陪在我身边的那个老头子,还是你。你还愿意将我揽在怀里,就像现在一样,不嫌弃。

56、面对你默默的等待,我无法喊出那圣洁的爱,只好立于相思树下,用岁月的剪刀,把思念精心地剪裁。

57、这里是一片美丽的大海,可是还没有人来遨游,我期待着你的到来,在这片平静的海里荡起层层波浪!

58、我爱你,胜过爱我自己;没有你的声音,我就像个聋子;看不到你的身影,我就如瞎子般见不到光明。

59、我想嫁你,是想与你一起面对现在的困境;我想嫁你,是想做你坚强的后盾。我想嫁你,是因为我爱你。

60、时间的流逝,洗涤旧迹,仅留下微漠的平淡与悲哀。濮水之边,你翩然离去,仅留下楚使的瞠目与叹息。。

61、日日夜夜,孤孤单单,默默静静,泪眼思涵,我等待你的关心,等的快要关上了心,难道你还不明白吗?

62、是因为爱才悄悄的躲开,躲开的是身影,躲不开的是默默的情怀;今天我终于鼓起勇气,向你表达我的爱。

63、一份不愉的友情,执着千万个祝福,送给我最思念的好友,不管我们的距离有多远,关怀你的心永远不变。

64、你的手机,贴着你的身体;我的信息贴着手机,真想冲破这屏幕,让我抱着你,生死轮回,我爱的唯有你!

65、今生非你不娶,丫头,快在我家户口本上盖个章吧!从此以后你就成了我的人了,做我最亲爱的老婆大人吧!

66、原来希望另一半要帅,现在更贪心了,希望内外兼具。而且因为年龄的关系,现在必须要考虑婚姻和家庭了。

67、我不知道该说什么、彼此都好过才是最重要的、没有你、我也可以活得更好、活出更漂亮如今我只剩下伤痛。

68、你的身影越来越频繁地出现在我的眼前,渐渐地,意如呼吸一般,一秒钟也不中断,弄得我吃不好饭,睡不好觉。

69、你是我的影子,有阳光的时候就有你!你是我的阳光,有风雨的日子需要你!你是我的风雨,同路的日子不忘彼此!

70、杯子里面装满了水再多一滴就会流出,不如全部倒掉,让杯子和水都有新的经历,也许这次不会流出,一直到永恒!

71、不要轻易过分对我迁就,不要使我感觉到你的顺从,其实迁就与顺从同样是不屑一顾,它会使我丧失自立而不知天高。

72、孤独时,想起你;失意时,想见你;无助时,想靠你;落泪时,想搂你;开心时,想谢你;兴奋时,想亲你;好想你!

73、目光相对,呼吸开始微笑。把陌生击碎,幸福在脸上点缀。一抹红晕,一缕甜蜜,时间在灵动中定格。我等待的人来了!

74、你是一本好看的书,我怎么读也读不厌;你是一首好听的歌,我天天听也听不烦,你就是我的大宝贝,我怎么爱你都不够!

75、早熟的果子早上市,往往能卖好价钱。这也符合市场规律吧,为何父母老师都要我们不要早恋?真不明白她们是怎么想的。

76、男人都喜欢听话的女人,但男人若是开始喜欢一个女人时,就会不知不觉听那女人的话了。你说,我怎么会这么听你的话?

77、天空中有你我最喜爱的颜色,现实中有你我最相配的角色,白云依靠着蓝天,蓝天包容着白云,就像现在的你和我,多美!

78、没有你的日子我和星星对唱,和孤单做伴,但一想到你我的心就充满欢欣,为你,我可以等待,限你在今生给我一个答复!

79、遇上一个人要一分钟的时间,喜欢一个人只需一小时的时间,爱上一个人要一天的时间,可要我忘记你却要用上一生的时间。

80、水拍沙滩,一行脚印代表着我们的缠绵;月穿层云,一阵轻风见证我们的痴恋。未来我看不见。此刻,与你相拥是我的心愿。

81、我无法保证,无法向你承诺什么,但我会做到。如果有一天你有饥饿的感觉,那时你定会看到,我已含笑饿死在你的怀抱中。

82、爱上你我劫数难逃,为你坐爱情的牢,一辈子让情锁在我胸口绕;爱上你我劫数难逃,心为你整个碎掉,还不断迷恋着你的好。

83、一个人,一颗心,一生等待。一个人,一座城,一生心疼。一个人,一条路,一生眷恋。912就要爱,亲,你若一直在,我便一直爱!

84、千年之前或千年之后,我都是一个孤独的游人,只有那一刻我在生命峰巅上俯视一切,你灿烂笑容的开放,使我成为拥有万物的帝王。

爱情英文短句

1、不是我不懂你,是因为我还爱你。IsnotthatIdon'tunderstandyou,becauseIstillloveyou

2、女人,恋爱的时候,就像,与世隔绝般。Women,love,like,isolated

3、无论多好的望远镜,也望不到幸福边缘。Nomatterhowgoodthetelescope,cannotseetheedgeofhappiness

4、我想有一天,你在做饭,我在捣乱。Ithinkoneday,you'recooking

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Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another People in love are often considered to have "good" interpersonal chemistry[1] Love is described as a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships In different contexts, however, the word love has a variety of related but distinct meanings: in addition to romantic love, which is characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire, other forms include platonic love, religious love, familial love, and the more casual application of the term to anyone or anything that one considers strongly pleasurable, enjoyable, or desirable, including activities and foods This diverse range of meanings in a single word is commonly contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for Love, reflecting the word's versatility and complexity

Although clearly and consistently defining love is a difficult task, and often a subject of much debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't "love" As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more "pure" form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, though other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts

In ordinary use, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf narcissism)

The concept of love, however, is subject to debate Some deny the existence of love Others call it a recently-invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages—though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry Others maintain that love really exists, and is not an abstraction, but is undefinable, being a quantity which is spiritual or metaphysical in nature Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self-esteem" to another Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life

Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etc Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love" Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value

Though love is considered a positive and desirable aspect of existence, love can cause a great deal of emotional harm Consider Romeo and Juliet, Othello, Great Expectations, and other classical and popular works that enumerate how love can lead to tragedy and emotional pain In human interactions, love becomes a peril when love is not bilateral, known as Unrequited love A further peril for individuals that love, or can love others, is that love is not enduring and that many people have psychological defense mechanisms inhibit their ability to accept or reciprocate love

Human bonding

Main article: Human bonding

People, throughout history, have often considered phenomena such as “love at first sight” or “instant friendships” to be the result of an uncontrollable force of attraction or affinity One of the first to theorize in this direction was the Greek philosopher Empedocles who in the fourth century BC argued for existence of two forces: love (philia) and strife (neikos), which were used to account for the causes of motion in the universe These two forces were said to intermingle with the four elements, ie earth, water, air, and fire, in such a manner that love, so to say, served as the binding power linking the various parts of existence harmoniously together

Later, Plato interpreted Empedocles’ two agents as attraction and repulsion, stating that their operation is conceived in an alternate sequence[2] From these arguments, Plato originated the concept of “likes attract”, eg earth is thus attracted towards earth, water toward water, and fire toward fire In modern terms this is often phrased in terms of “birds of a feather flock together” Later, following developments in electrical theories, such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed such as "opposites attract" Over the last century, researcher on the nature of human mating, such as in evolutionary psychology, agree that pairs unite or attract to each other owing to a combination of opposites attract, eg people with dissimilar immune systems tend to attract, and likes attract, such similarities of personality, character, views, etc[3] In recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and or affinities

Religious views

Main article: Love (religious views)

Love in early religions was a mixture of ecstatic devotion and ritualised obligation to idealised natural forces (pagan polytheism) Later religions shifted emphasis towards single abstractly-oriented objects like God, law, church and state (formalised monotheism)

A third view, pantheism, recognises a state or truth distinct from (and often antagonistic to) the idea that there is a difference between the worshipping subject and the worshipped object Love is reality, of which we, moving through time, imperfectly interpret ourselves as an isolated part

The Bible speaks of love as a set of attitudes and actions that are far broader than the concept of love as an emotional attachment Love is seen as a set of behaviours that humankind is encouraged to act out One is encouraged not just to love one's partner, or even one's friends but also to love one's enemies

The Bible describes this type of active love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8:

Love is patient, love is kind It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres Love never fails

Romantic love is also present in the Bible, particularly the Song of Songs (also known as Song of Solomon, Canticles) Traditionally, this book has been interpreted allegorically as a picture of God's love for Israel and/or the Church When taken naturally, we see a picture of ideal human marriage

"Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealously unyielding as the grave It burns like a blazing fire, like a mighty flame [like the very flame of the LORD] Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned" [8:6-7, NIV]

The passage dodi li v'ani lo ("my beloved is mine and I am my beloved," Song of Songs 2:16) is often engraved on wedding bands [citation needed]

Cultural views

Main article: Love (cultural views)

Although there exist numerous cross-cultural unified similarities as to the nature and definition of love, as in there being a thread of commitment, tenderness, and passion common to all human existence, there are differences For example, in India, with arranged marriages commonplace, it is believed that love is not a necessary ingredient in the initial stages of marriage – it is something that can be created during the marriage; whereas in Western culture, by comparison, love is seen as a necessary prerequisite to marriage

Scientific views

Main article: Love (scientific views)

Throughout history, predominantly, philosophy and religion have speculated the most into the phenomenon of love In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject Recently, however, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have begun to take centre stage in discussion as to the nature and function of love

Biological models of sex tend to see it as a mammalian drive, just like hunger or thirst Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon Psychologist Robert Sternberg created his Triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion Intimacy is a form where two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs Commitment on the other hand is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever The last and most common form of love is simply sex, or passion Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love This led researchers such as Yela to further refine the model by separating Passion into two independents components: Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion

爱是一种发乎人内心的情感,在中文里有著很多解释,由某种事物给予人少许满足(如我爱进食这些食物)至为了爱某些东西而死(如爱国心、对偶结合)。其可以用来形容爱慕的强烈情感、情绪或情绪状态。在日常生活里,其通常指人际间的爱。可能因为其为情感之首位,所以爱是美术里最普遍的主题。爱有时亦会被形容为强迫观念-强迫行为症。

爱最佳的定义可能是主动行动,以真心对待某个体(可以是人、物件或神),使整体得到快乐。简而言之,爱即主动使整体得到快乐。(Thomas Jay Oord)。

爱是与生俱来的,所以可以认为是人性的特质,换言之,爱是作为人必须具备的本质之一。虽然世界各民族间的文化差异使得一个普世的爱的定义难以道明,但并非不可能成立。请参看沙皮亚-沃尔福假设。爱可以包括灵魂或心灵上的爱、对法律与组织的爱、对自己的爱、对食物的爱、对金钱的爱、对学习的爱、对权力的爱、对名誉的爱、对别人的爱,数之不尽。不同人对其所接受的爱有著不同的重视程度。爱本质上为抽象慨念,可以体验但难以言语

吸引与依附

生物学观点普遍认为爱有两种主要意欲,性魅力与依附。成人间的依附被假设为共同协作以孕育下一代,并让其依附其父母。

2006年2月,该期的国家地理杂志的封面文章“爱:化学反应”讨论了爱与化学反应的关系。其作者史雷特解释了部份关於此领域的研究,部份重点为:

化学触发反应可以表示为热烈的爱,长期的依附的爱则要双方互相参与而非只是单人参与。

沉醉在爱河时的血清素效应(serotonin effects)拥有与强迫观念-强迫行为症相似的化学表现(这解释了为何沉醉在爱河的人无法想到其他人)。因此亦有人主张若患有强迫观念-强迫行为症的精神病人服食血清素再回收抑制剂或其他抗抑郁药,其堕入爱河的能力会被阻碍。举例:

"我知道一对夫妇在离婚边缘,那位妻子在服食抗抑郁剂。但当其停止服食后,其能再次享受性高潮,感到其对丈夫的性魅力得到更新,而其夫妇两人亦再次与对方相爱。"(38)

当刚开始时期的热爱消失后,便会转为长期依附的爱,这是因为催产素等化学物的影响。按摩与做爱可以帮助触发催产素的作用。

为了触发吸引力,进行费神的活动如驾驶云霄飞车很有作用。即使只是做了十分钟的工作,亦可使其对他人的吸引人增加,这是因为其心跳加速与其他生理反应加速。

友爱与热爱

传统心理学的观点认为爱是由友爱与热爱组成。热爱是强烈的渴望,通常陪随著生理激起(呼吸急促、心跳加速,如堕入爱河)。友爱是由紧密的行为而引起的爱慕与感觉,但不陪随著生理激起(如君子之交)。

爱情三角理论

主条目:爱情三角理论

在1986年,心理学家史登堡在《心理评论》(Psychological Review (Vol 93, No2, 119-135))里发表了其著名的爱情三角理论,对爱作出几何学的假设。根据爱情三角理论,爱由三部份组成:

亲密 – 包括了紧密感、联络感与约束感。

激情 – 包括了驱使人恋爱、互相吸引与进行性行为的动力。

承诺 – 包括了短期的爱恋与长期的爱的维系。

对其他人的爱的程度主要是看这三个组成部件的绝对强度;而对别人的爱的种类则是看这三个组成部件的相对强度。这三个组成部件可当为三角形,互相影响,使得爱出现很多不同类别。三角形的大小代爱的程度,越大代表越爱对方。而三角形的形状则代表爱的种类,普遍分为激情阶段(三角形倾向右方)、亲密阶段(正常三角形)、承诺阶段(三角形倾向左方)。这三个元素可以构出七种不同的爱的组合:

亲密 激情 承诺

好感 或 友谊 x

迷恋 或 深恋 x

虚爱 x

浪漫之爱 x x

友伴爱 x x

热爱 x x

圆熟之爱 x x x

[编辑] 爱的风格

苏珊·汉迪斯与克莱德·汉迪斯根据李约翰的理论开发了爱的态度指标,称为爱的风格。其将人际关系分为六个基本类别:

情欲之爱 — 基於对方的外表而产生的热爱。

游戏之爱 — 爱就如游戏,充满乐趣,通常不重视承诺而著重征服对方。

友谊之爱 — 缓慢发展的重情义的爱,基於双方互相尊重与友善。

现实之爱 — 倾向选取可以帮助自己的朋友,使双方皆可由此得益。

依附之爱 — 重情绪的爱,不稳定,是由浪漫之爱衰退而成,充满妒忌与争执。

利他之爱 — 完全无私的爱,重视神交。

两位汉迪斯认为男人会渐渐趋向游戏之爱与依附之爱,反之女人则会渐渐趋向友谊之爱与现实之爱。而两者之间的关系若是具有相类的爱可维持得更为长久。

[编辑] 爱的阶段

费雪提议爱有三种主要的状态:情欲、吸引、依附。爱通常会由情欲状态开始,主要著重激情而忽略其他元素。此阶段最基本的推动力是基本性本能、如外表、气味与其他相似的因素是选取伙伴的主要因素。然而随著时间的流逝,其他元素可能会增多而激情则减少,但这却是每个人皆不同。在吸引阶段,人们会将注意力集中在其对对方的影响上,而此时忠诚最为重要。

与此相似,当一个人长时间被爱,其将会与其伙伴发展出依附的关系。根据现代科学对爱的解释,由吸引至依附转移需要三十个月时间。其后激情消失,爱会由热爱转向友爱,或由浪漫之爱转向好感。

"神圣的爱对比肉体的爱" ,由乔凡尼·巴里欧列所绘

[编辑] 文化观点

[编辑] 中华文化

现代汉语与中华文化里,少数的词汇被用作描绘爱的慨念∶

爱这个字可用作动词如我爱你或名词,如爱情。

恋这个字并不会作单词用,通常会与其他字组合,如谈恋爱、恋人或同性恋。

情这个字通常解作感觉或情绪,通常指代为爱,而其可与其他字组合为相爱的意思,如爱情、情人。

在儒家学说里,恋是纯爱之意。恋为所有人追求的东西,为道德生活的反映。而中国的哲学家墨子则发展出与儒家的恋慨念相对的爱的慨念。爱在墨家学说里为兼爱之意,即爱无等差,对众生皆持对等的爱。浪费与攻伐对爱则不利。虽然墨子的想法亦有一定影响力,但儒家的恋仍是大部份中国人对爱的慨念。

感情指两人之间的感觉。两人会以建立良好感情来表达对对方的爱,如互相帮助。而且可以对万物存有感情,不只限於人。

缘份是指两人间命运的关连。俗语说∶有缘千里能相聚,无缘见面不相识。

早恋是在当代中国常用的概念,指的是青年 、童年时发生的“爱情”或者对某异性人“感兴趣” 或“痴情”。早恋包括青年“男女朋友”以及儿童的早恋感觉(跟英文的“crush”这概念有一点关系)。这概念表示当代中国文化 、社会上的普通观点,就是未成年人由于学习的压力,不应该谈恋爱,否则对他们前途和出息可以有坏处。很重要一种原因是当代中国教育制度的极大竞争性。报纸和别的媒体也报导早恋这现象对学生的危险与家长的担心。

[编辑] 大和文化

在日本佛教里,爱意味著关怀、热情与基本渴望。其可发展为自私或无私与教化两方面。

甘え,在日语里指撒娇,是日本人抚养子女的文化。日本母亲通常会紧抱与纵容其子女,其子女则会通由依赖与孝顺来回报其母亲。部份社会学家(最著名的为土居健郎)认为日本人在长大后的社交手法很大程度建基於童年时对母亲撒娇的手法。

在日语语言学里,最常见与爱相关的两个字为爱与恋。通常非浪漫之爱均以前者表示,而浪漫之爱则以后者表示。父母之爱则称为亲の爱,而与人相恋则称为恋する。当然亦有特例,爱人此词解为相爱之人并暗示为非法的关系,通常表示为婚外情,反之恋人则有男朋友、女朋友或伴侣的含意。

在每天的交谈里,爱与恋却较少用到,反之以爱している或恋している来表示我爱你的人较多,例如日本人会说好きです来表示我喜欢你 -- 好き解为喜好,亦可以用作表示对食物、音乐或其他事件的爱好,就如寿司が好きです解为喜欢寿司,其暗示爱,但没有淡化其情感。

Diligere解为尊重,较少在浪漫之爱里使用。这个字可以通常用以形容两个男性之间的友谊。其对应的名词为diligentia,然而其有著努力、细心之意,与其动词形态只有少量意义重叠。

Observare为'diligere'的同义字,其对应的名词'observantia'亦解为尊重或影响。

Caritas在拉丁文圣经里解为慈爱,但在古典罗马非基督教文学里却无此解。因为其由希腊文字演变而得,所以并没有对应的动词。

[编辑] 印尼与马来亚文化

在印尼与马来西亚的语言里,爱可以有数种定义∶

Cinta代表性欲。

Jatuh cinta指刚堕入爱河。

Sayang指无条件去爱,但亦指损失某些东西产生的遗憾。

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