俗话说:“让一步风平浪静,退一步海阔天空。”争吵的最佳解决方法就是——谦让。
我还清楚地记得今年暑假发生的一件事,那天我和妈妈去商场购物,我们来到了商场,商场的人好多,一个个货柜前都站满了顾客,售货员忙得不亦乐乎,货柜上的商品经常是刚摆上就卖完了。我环视着商场四周,这时,一阵喧闹声打断了我的思绪,我扭头一看,原来是前面一个货柜发生争吵,我对妈妈说去买冰棒,趁机溜去看热闹了。我凭着我瘦小的身材,左扭右转一下子就钻了进去。我看见一位男青年正与一位中年妇女争吵,他们都带着小孩,看起来只有五六岁吧,都蛮可爱。经一番打听,我知道事情原来是这样:事情发生在不久前,正当那位中年妇女的小女孩要拿柜台里的一个可爱的洋娃娃的时候,那个男青年家的小女孩也要那个洋娃娃,而柜台里洋娃娃目前就只有这一个,就这样,两个人就争了起来,争得面红耳赤。先是小孩争,后来就发展到大人帮着孩子争,真是你不让我,我不让你,好激烈的,弄得两个小女孩都哇哇哭了起来。我见状,急忙走到两个小女孩中间,因为我深信自己是解劝的专家。我一边安慰着她们,一边讲笑话给她们听。可是这惯用的两招都不灵,不管我怎么逗,她们也笑不起来。就当我束手无策时,只见那个男青年的女儿说:“爸爸,算了,这次没得洋娃娃不要紧,这洋娃娃就让给她吧。”我听了大吃一惊,真不知道这小女孩觉悟怎么一下就提高了这么多。但暂且不管什么原因,还是接着说结果吧。那个中年妇女的女儿见对方把洋娃娃礼让给自己,就有点不好意思了,也高姿态地说:“妈,我这次也不要这洋娃娃了,就让她拿去吧。我们下次再来买。”结果又互相推让得面红耳赤。然而这次却是充满喜庆的,是在友好的气氛中进行的。那两个小孩笑了,那两个家长也开心地笑了。……
我目睹这一切确实很有感触,刚才我用特招也不能化解的矛盾,现在竟在一方仅说了一句谦让的话就发生了逆转,就这样顺利地解决了,可见谦让的力量真神奇啊。
谦让,就是解决争吵的最佳方法。
您好!
The other week I had a bitter quarrel with one of my roommates Six of us live in small room about eight square meters, desperate for more space Weeks ago, one of my roommates brought in a very large suitcase and placed it under her bed, but days later she (he) found something wrong with her (his) suitcase As we live on the ground floor, her case soon got wet She took it out and, after drying it up, she/he just put it on her desk because she had no other choices I happened to be opposite her desk and her suitcase was so large that it not only occupied the whole of her desk but half of mine as well I was very much annoyed, so I angrily pushed it forward without first talking to her about it I pushed a bit too hard and the case fell off her desk, messing up everything it contained On seeing this, she flew into a temper and angrily shouted at me The quarrel started and lasted about two hours When I calmed down days later, I thought over the quarrel and began to see something I should have talked to her about it first and then worked with her to find a solution to the problem Living in a room with limited space, we should learn to get on well with one another
希望采纳!!!
Dear friend,
I have heard that you sometimes argue loudly with your parents I would like to offer you some suggestions, and therefore I am now writing to you In my opinion, parents are our best friends in the world They love us and dedicate everything to us I love my parents so I alwasy ask myself to be kind, generous, and good to them Every time I went to some places for travelling, I brought my parents some gifts I would suggest you that not to argue loudly with your parents because it is a rude behavior If there is something that you don't agree with your parents, please discuss the issue with them patiently and quietly I hope you can be a good friend with your parents
Sincerely,
Everyone has a friendA friend is a person who will help you when you are in difficultyBut sometimes we have something unhappy between we and friendsMaybe we can quarrel with each other because of somethingWhat should we do if we quarrel with our friendsLet me tell you
Being a friend,you must understand your friendIf he has something different from youYou should respect your friend's idea and try your best deal with the thingsBut if you really can't get the same idea,even quarrel about itI think you should applogize him or her when you get calmSay "sorry" to him or her,and he or she will forgive youYou can get on well each other later
写作思路:可以写自己和爸爸之间因为小狗在阳台的地砖上撒了一泡尿从而引发了矛盾,最终和爸爸化解了矛盾。
正文:
Dad often said to me: "do things from each other's point of view" Every time I turn a deaf ear to that
爸爸经常对我说:“做事情要多从对方的角度考虑。”我每次都把这话当耳旁风。
One day, the naughty dog pissed on the tile on the balcony Father saw it in the room and asked me to wipe it off I picked up the rag and wiped it several times, but my father kept saying, "I didn't wipe it clean Wipe it again" I am very aggrieved: clearly clean, why still let me clean My father said angrily, "if I say yes, then yes Why don't you wipe it"
有一天,顽皮的小狗在阳台的地砖上撒了一泡尿。父亲在房间里看见了,让我赶紧去擦掉。我拿起抹布擦了好几遍,可父亲一直说:“没擦干净,再擦一下。”我十分委屈:明明擦干净了,为什么还让我擦?父亲则火冒三丈地说:“我说有就是有,你为什么不擦?”
At this time, my father came, he first sprinkled a few drops of water on the balcony tiles, and then asked me: "can you see the drops now" I looked at it Why can't I see it "Dad said:" you stand to the father's position to have a look
这时,爸爸走过来,他先把几滴水洒在阳台的地砖上,然后问我:“你现在能看见水滴吗?”我看了看,咦,怎么看不见?爸爸又说:“你再站到父亲那个位置看一下。”
I went over, eh, why did I see it again Dad said with a kind face:
"water will reflect light, dripping on the white tiles, you can't see it
in the front, you can see it from the side" My father and I suddenly
realized and apologized to each other
我走过去,咦,怎么又看见了?爸爸和颜悦色地说:“水是会反光的,滴在白色的地砖上,你在正面看不见,站在侧面就看见了。”我和父亲都恍然大悟,互相道了歉。
Through this fight, I
finally understand what my father used to say to me: think more from
other people's point of view Maybe there are different views from
another angle!
通过这次吵架,我终于明白了爸爸以前经常对我讲的话:要多从别人的角度考虑问题。也许换个角度就有不同的观点呢!
你的看上去是信件吧,,,,
那个,,,我不知道你要的是句型还是内容,,,,
给你几个句型,内容翻译过来往上套就可以了。。。
中间找连接词穿起来
其实挺好写的。。。。
开头
1i have just heard that you have a quarrel with your parents
2i feel about shocked when knowing that
3regarding your problem abouti'd like to make some suggestions
建议
1you may consider doing if you do this
2it would be a good idea if you That's way
3you had better/might as well do By doing this
4if i were you /in your situtation,i would
5it's necesssary for you that
连接词
1to begin/start with 、first、firstly、first of all、 in the first place
2besides、what's more、in addition、futher more、second/secondly
3last but not least、third/thirdly、finally、above all
结束语
1i will be more than delighted if my suggestion are useful
2i'm willing tu discuss this matter with you whenever you need help
好银,,,,看我这么辛苦的打字,,,给个最佳答案吧。。。。
最近,少年宫开班了,许多家长都忙着要帮孩子去报名,我的爸爸妈妈也不例外,瞧,他们又在催我快点呢!说实话,我可不想报名,平时,在学校已经有那么多作业,回到家还要接受坦克、战斗机的轮番轰炸(说实话爸妈布置的作业跟这也差不多),如果周六、周日还要再去上那些无聊的补习班,哦,天哪!正是因为这个,我和爸爸妈妈的矛盾连连升级。瞧,红脸老爸和黑脸老妈轮番上阵劝说,听听,他们都说了些什么,“好好呀,你瞧,人家小孩都去上了,你不去,要退后很多呀!”,“就是就是,妈妈让你上那个英语班,也是为你好,现在英语很重要,不得不巩固呀!那个数学班也很好,里面还有奥数这一项目,你要多学学!俗语说:‘黑发不知勤学早,白首方悔读书迟。’你现在正是学习的黄金时期,都学点知识,也是为了将来嘛!”看看,真弄不懂,大人的嘴皮子怎么那么厉害,不过,我也不是说上就上,说下就下的,我使出看家本领,就是不答应,爸妈看我不吃软,就脱下温柔的面具,露出那邪恶的嘴脸(好象太夸张了,嘿嘿),加封了电视机、电脑、食品储藏室、冰箱、书柜,甚至连厨房都加上了封条。老天,我的命怎么这么苦啊!难道给一点点施舍都这么难啊!无奈,我只好背着大书、小书,加班加点地上补习班去了。每当看着那些大大小小的孩子们,背着、带着、提着各种学习用品,奔波在各种实习班中,风雨无阻,都不禁感叹:现在的孩子,真累!
大致可以这样说;
Dear ,
There are a lot of things you chould do You could talk about the problem with your parents, and tell them you felt sad when they argued with each other Then you could do more chors to help your mother or study hard to make your parents happy Or may be you could tell jokes to make them laugh or ask them to communicate with each other better
Don't worry, everything will be fine!
Good luck!
Yours,
name
(英语课本上有很多句子可以现成用的,希望这篇文章对您有帮助!)
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