Our class next Sunday on whether to go to visit a local museum launched a debate 观点因人而异。 Views vary 有的同学认为去参观当地博物馆是很有价值的。 Some students think that a visit to a local museum is very valuable 一方面,有助于我们更好地通过体验了解当地的历史,这能使我们对历史感兴趣。 On the one hand, help us to better understand the local history through experience, which enables us to be interested in history 同时也会拓展我们的视野。 Will also expand our horizons 另一方面,在一周努力学习之余,参加这项活动,能丰富我们的生活,让我们感到轻松自在。 On the other hand, in a week to learn and to participate in this activity, can enrich our lives, makes us feel comfortable 然而,事物都具有两面性。 However, everything has two sides 有的同学对此持不同的态度。 Some students have a different attitude 他们认为如果当地博物馆不值得参观,这既浪费时间又浪费钱。 They believe that if the local museum is not worth visiting, it is both a waste of time and a waste of money 最重要的是,正如大家所知,星期天的作业很多。 The most important thing is, as we all know, a lot of Sunday's operation 最后,班级经过表决,我们大家达成一致意见。 Finally, the class voted, and we reach a consensus 决定下周按计划下星期天要去参观当地博物馆。 Decided to go to next week as planned next Sunday to visit local museums
Dear friend,
I have heard that you sometimes argue loudly with your parents I would like to offer you some suggestions, and therefore I am now writing to you In my opinion, parents are our best friends in the world They love us and dedicate everything to us I love my parents so I alwasy ask myself to be kind, generous, and good to them Every time I went to some places for travelling, I brought my parents some gifts I would suggest you that not to argue loudly with your parents because it is a rude behavior If there is something that you don't agree with your parents, please discuss the issue with them patiently and quietly I hope you can be a good friend with your parents
Sincerely,
Dear Mom and Dad:
Feeling very sorry ,I was writing this letter to apologize to you for arguing with youI knew what you said is good for meAnd I promise I won't do that again
does it feel like you and your parents just can't see eye to eyelare you always fighting with them about your lifeis all the arguing and butting2 heads (主要部分,要点) stressing you outfollow these steps to find some peacehere's how:
1make a list of the things that you and your parents fight about the most
2identify(确定) what it is that gets you so upset or angry--are you mad that your parents disagree with you,or are you upset that they can't/won't see your point of view3
3decide on a fair compromise (和解,妥协)--a resolution (解决)that you can live with and that you think your parents' will acceptnote:a compromise means you give up some of your demands--it does not mean that you get your way4
4set up a time to talk to your parents,do not just bring it up over dinner but make an actual ap- pointment and tell them that you have an important proposal(提议,建议) to make
5bring your notes with you to the meeting so you can stay on track if/when emmotions get highyou may even want to consider reading the note to your parents like a speech
6before talking to your parents,take a few deep breaths and think calming thoughtsmake a promise to yourself that you will not raise your voice or get angry even if your parents "turn up the volume"
7when you have presented your case(实情,情况)take another deep breath and let your parents talkreally listen to what your parents have to sayeven if you do not like what they are saying hold back your anger and keep your ears and mind open
8avoid shutting down or growing frustrated5avoid interrupting them or jumping in with a rebuttal(反驳)just listen and absorb what they say
9if your parents reject your proposal,stay focused and avoid getting emmotional (情绪激动的)thank them for their time and express your disappointmentthatyoucouldnotreacha compromise
10if your parents accept your proposal,be grateful and assure them that you will not let them downthen do everything necessary to show them they made the right decision in going along6 with you
11whatever the outcome,besure to do what your parents ask of youby going along with their wishes you build trust and show your maturity(成熟) which in turn may make them more willing to relax their stand at a future date
12if the topic is a very sensitive one and you still can't see eye to eye,ask your parents what they need from you in order for them to consider your proposal
13make a vow(誓言,誓约) to give them what they need and ask them if you can agree to revisit the subject in a few weeks time
14if the outcome disappoints you,do not throw a fit7go to your room and write your feelings in a journal or go outside and ride your bike or punch(猛击) a pillow to blow off steam8
你是否感到和父母的意见不能完全一致你是否在生活方面经常和父母发生争执所有这些争执和冲突是否都让你感到有压力试试下面的方法,来找寻一些安宁
I had a big argument with my good friend yesterday because of the baseball teamsDuring the break time,we argument about which team is the best in the league bigI thought it is yangqi and he thought it is redsocksAfter the argument,he went of to say goodbye to me and close the door loudlyI was so angry with him
Then he still didn't talk to me during the next break timeHe didn't even look at meI started to feel sad because he is my best friendWhen it was time to go home I asked him if he wanted to go with me as usualHe looked at me with a strange look and still turned awayBut this time,he did say goodbye to me quietly
In the end,while I was watching TV the phone ringIt was him and he said he was sorry about what he did,he felt childishI said never mind we are still good friendsNow I feel much better I hope we won't argument any more
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