关于友谊的托福写作素材整理

　 关于友谊的托福写作素材整理

　How to maintain a good friendship

　表示感激：

　Keeping Your Friendship Rewarding

　Show APpreciation Sometimes when you have known people for a long time, you can start to take them for granted This doesn't have to be the case

　Always thank your friend when he or she does something for you

　Return favors when your friend goes out of his or her way to help you

　Do nice things like getting their favorite candy at the grocery store, buying them lunch, or getting them a card and gift for their birthday

　Tell your friend how much you appreciate them This doesn't have to be an awkward or long-winded speech that you have prepared It can be as simple as, "Hey, thanks for always being there for me I appreciate it"

　展示兴趣：

　Show interest in your friend's life A good friendship should be two-sided — and hopefully, you have a friend who shows interest in you as well

　Be a good listener When your friend talks to you about something that's going on in his or her life, really listen Good relationships are built on communication, so don't ignore your friend

　Take the time to really hear what they're saying, and offer advice only if they ask for it

　Don't fidget or play with your cell phone while they're talking to you

　If your friend is involved in an activity that they care about, show your support and interest Offer to go to their events For example, if your friend plays a sport or is acting in a play, go to a game or performance to cheer them on

　建立信任：

　Build trust This seems simple, but you have to both constantly show each other that you can be trusted and depended on as friends

　Don't gossip about your friend Gossip spreads quickly, and you do not want to hurt your friend's feelings and damage the relationship

　Keep your promises, even if it's something as small as showing up when you are supposed to meet

　Don't go behind your friend's back This includes flirting with their significant other or inviting other friends out without including them

　Keep secrets safe If your friend tells you something personal, don't share it with other people They need to know that they can trust you with their secrets

　一起开心的玩耍：

　Have fun together This might be obvious, but sometimes we can get into the trap ofjust using our friends for emotional support and not taking the time to enjoy their company Do things that you both enjoy together

　Learn something new Take a rock climbing or pottery class, go on a sailing trip, or try out Zumba together The experience will bring you closer

　Make an open invitation Call up your friend and ask them what they've been wanting to do You can say, "I think we should hang out this weekend What do you think would be fun"

　Throw a party together Celebrate your friendship, a birthday, or nothing in particular

　Plan a fun evening Invite your friend over for dinner and spend the night eating, drinking, playing board games, or watching your favorite movies

　患难与共：

　Being a Friend When Things Get Tough

　Support each other when things get rough Sometimes friendships can get rocky or friends can have a hard time dealing with their own personal problems Though it may not be fun, these are situations where a real friend has to step in and be there

　Demonstrate your support Tell your friend, "I'm here for you Just let me know what you need and I'll help you out"

　Offer to listen If there are personal or family problems going on, tell your friend that you are always there when your friend needs to vent

　Provide distractions If your friend is going through a breakup, come over and spend time with them so they don't feel alone Take them out to do things that will take their mind off the problem You can go out to eat, see a movie, or even just go for a walk

　寻找解决办法：

　Help your friend find solutions If you know your friend is struggling, do what you can to help! Even small gestures to brighten his or her day can make a big difference

　Call or drop by to check in on your friend regularly if they are having a hard time Make sure they don't feel like they're alone

　Let your friend use you as a shoulder to cry on Just let them get it all out and hand them tissues when they need them

　If your friend is sick, bring over soup, a good book, or fun movies that they can watch while they're in bed

　合理解决争端：

　Handle arguments maturely When you and your friend have a conflict, don't lash outand yell at them Instead, talk about your problems calmly and listen to both sides of the story

　Don't raise your voice or storm out when you're having an argument Sit down and talk through the problems

　Don't complain about your friend to other people, especially before you've talked to them about the conflict If they have no idea that you're mad at them, it will be confusing if they hear that you're talking about them behind their back

　Use "I" statements when you're talking to your friend For example, you might say, "I feel left out when you invite all our friends out to dinner but don't include me" This makes the statement about your feelings instead of blaming them

　Apologize if you've done something wrong If you have hurt your friend's feelings, take responsibility and say, "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings"

真正的友谊是不但彼此信任的，彼此支持的，而且是真心对待彼此并且敢在彼此面前表露真实心理的，真正的友谊也会敢于指正对方的错误，并且不会放弃对方的……

——题记

一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣，一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿荆；一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰，一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰；一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束，一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没吵过架就不叫真正的友谊；一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他，一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁……

真正的好朋友就是在你伤心的时候可以安慰你，在你难过的时候可以开导你，在你开心的时候可以陪着你开心，把你的事看成了自己的事，尽力帮你做任何事情的人……和好朋友在一起就会很舒服，无拘无束的，想干嘛干嘛，想说啥说啥，虽然也会有点小“插曲”，但彼此不会往心里去，多年以后，大家还是像当年一样，既使分开好久，还是觉的就在身一样，在你最困难时会想起她，你会知道她会一直与你站在一起……真正的好朋友就是一个愿意把自己所做的不光彩的事说给你听的人，一个随时就想把心里话打电话告诉你，一个在你面前不带面具想哭就哭想笑就笑的人，一个冬夜里和你拥被而睡彻夜长谈的人，一个和你有时话不多但彼此都很关心对方的人，好朋友就是有悲伤我陪你一起掉眼泪，有欢乐和你一起傻傻的笑……

好朋友不一定常常联系，但也不会忘记，每次偶尔念起，还是感觉那么温暖、那么亲切、那么柔情；好朋友是关怀放在心里，把关注藏在眼底；好朋友是想起时平添喜悦，忆及时更多温柔。好朋友的美不在来日方长好朋友最真是瞬间永恒、相知刹那；好朋友的可贵不是因为曾一同走过的岁月，好朋友最难得是分别以依然会时时想起，依然能记得：你，是我的好朋友！

有好朋友的日子里总是阳光灿烂，花朵鲜艳。有好朋友的时候才发现自己已经拥有了一切。我们可以失去很多，但却不能失去好朋友。好朋友也许并不能成为一段永恒，更或许他只是你生命中某段时间的一位过客，但是却使生命变得美丽起来，使好朋友的情感更加生动和珍贵，即使没有将来又有何妨？至少，曾经我与你一起走过好朋友的路……

友情是一种最纯洁、最高尚、最朴素、最平凡的感情；也是最浪漫、最动人、最坚实、最永恒的情感。人人都离不开友情，一旦没有了友情，生活就不会有悦耳的和音。所以每个人都要珍惜自己身边那份珍贵的友谊，因为，它会让你的生活更加绚丽多姿，缤纷美妙！

我和我的好朋友吵架了

这真是一次让人难忘的回忆。

想一想，我也有做的不对的地方，光阴似箭，一转眼又到了放暑假的时候，这也是每个小孩子心中最渴望的事情。当然我也不例外。

这是发生在去年的故事了，那是也不知道怎么了，突然想创造出一种新的游戏。于是，我便和自己的好朋友一同商量，终于创造出来。由于我不太喜欢人多玩这个游戏，可我的好朋友偏偏喜欢人多玩。我们两个人就争执起来。你一句，我一句。谁也不肯让谁，谁也不肯理谁。我不知道出于什么原因，一做完操，我就对我的好朋友说:"人多也可以，但能分成两个人一组吗"我，本想听听她怎么说，这一说不要紧，一说，我简直对他失望透了。她摆着一副苦瓜脸，漫不经心地说：“为什么要分成两组，何况大家一块玩不更好。何况老是玩了一会，玩了一会又不玩了。这可让我火冒三丈。心想：行，我说不过你，大不了我保持沉默。哼。

到了下午，不知怎么原来上午说不理她，但是现在忍不住想给她说话。她现在的语气也比上午的好多了。我们俩互相看着对方谁也不说话，就像犯了错的孩子一样。不知过了多久，我们俩又重归于好

友情的力量，真是让人不可思议。

好朋友之间没有对错，只要不破底线，就不要计较。要看长远。

看来你还是学生，一生要走很多路，不同人不同对待。

职场交友，利益为主，一定要让对方感到你对他有帮助，且对他没有威胁。

生意场交友，看长期利益，如果不能成为生活中朋友，宁可保持距离，但不可忽视对方，让对方感到舒服。

生活中交友，分三类：

1、挚友，能把老婆、钱托费给他的那个人，对他交心，要体贴和包容对方。对方也能这样对待你。一生有一个这样的朋友足矣！

2、趣友，有共同爱好，经常聚。相互交换，提供信息，定期聚会。不一定要对你有特别帮助。但可以一起玩。

3、异性知己，神交胜性交。人的一生难免有红颜知己，如果太多的肉体接触，会降低精神交往的愉悦感！因此，如果能神交，定会给你一生带来难忘的记忆！

4、不可推卸的朋友，这一类对你一生的工作、幸福、生活等有重大影响，你可以做一个跟随者，让他充满成就感，他的资源会惠及你的！

上述供参考！