中国人的情感观

当然是不会原谅的，和自己都好了五年了。却突然背叛了自己。首先自己心里就不平衡了。

如果是我，我就逃避了，就和她分手了，但是我不会报复她的。也不会让她一无所有的，更不会报复那个男人的。

这种事情，一般人都谴责那个男人，我想，应该和他没有什么太大关系，毕竟是自己的女友拉着人家的。

如果我实在离不开和自己相恋了五年的女友，我也学着尝试着原谅她 。但是这点很难办到，天天看见她 就会想起她的错误。肯定自己是堵心的。毕竟没有结婚，如果婚后再这样的话，岂不是更恶心。

总之 就看她在你心里的定位了。其实，谁都会犯错误的。有些可以原谅，而有些却是不能原谅的。

We Chinese people express emotions, mostly implicit bias, just leave people thinking, guess room for words to express their viewsUnlike Europeans and unassuming, plain talkOne is the Chinese people to other people when it comes to when it comes to own business, often using "respects", such as when sent to others is a gift, presentation said that "sending a little gift, not a tribute ”And the Europeans are not so, they even sent a little gift, to say "I have sent to you are beautiful, precious gift ”, Western like this instead of performance, there are many, many

This situation was formed after a long history of environmentalAround 2,500 years ago, Laozi advocated "sound thin", Confucius, when finishing note to the history of the spring and Autumn Annals, "a style of writing in which sublime words with deep meaning are used" to "line by line", is to use a method described in veiled terms to facts suggesting that one occurredSong dynasty writer Ouyang Xiu, the editor of the new book of Tang, the new history of the five dynasties time, Confucius also renewed style, extensive use of implied "a style of writing in which sublime words with deep meaning are used" to describe historyThis is culture in the history of our common style, of course, will lead to civil partners in working practices

Recently I looked my reading notes, see a recorded song Luo Ye (people of Luling, today jiangxijian) edit a note book in an old drunkard on record of a seven quatrains, proved once again in veiled terms of performance practices, not only in the history books, in most people's views have also become used to itThis poem is saying: "Kai Kiss under the green screen, a paper from scratch completely emptyExpect penny Lang Huai don't hate, recalling the people speak ”This is used to express the most sincere feelings of ordinary people in China, it can make people enjoy endless aftertastesIf, as Europeans did, wrote a letter to miss his wife's letters, in order to express the "Miss deep", wrote at great length, its center was a "love" WordThis and Chinese people the implicit expression was so immeasurably!Chinese "is not a Word, very style", not only saving and concentratedHow smart people!--Of course, it is said that on the bright side

Chinese convey emotion in veiled terms there are dangerous sideIt is very easy to cause someone else's misconceptionsIf that is the case of a wise man, and he (she) and accurate understanding, that effect is good;However, if a less clever, or understand a bit misplaced people, would probably have had a misunderstandingFor example, a woman received his letter came Lang Chun, top without a Word, may have a stupid girl thinks its Lang Chun parted company with her too!If this woman was disappointed, emotions or out of control, very serious consequences

Therefore, westerly winds to the East of trends in China todayIs a straightforward way to express emotions in the West, also influence the ChineseYou see, today young people in love, than their parents was straightforward, unobtrusive components decliningIn this way, instead of emotional expression and Western fusion, if they can get in the Middle, it is a very good folk

1、爱国并不是一个抽象而空洞的语汇，初听起来它是一种崇高的情怀，但其实也是十分朴素的情感。这是因为，国家与家庭、社群、乡邑、城市、地区一样，也是不同人群基于社会关系构建而成的共同体，尽管国家的地域范围更广，不像家庭、社群这样的小共同体能提供给人们一种亲密的感情联结，但一国之内的人们毕竟拥有共同的政治-文化身份，彼此之间仍然分享着共同的历史传统。因此，爱国也就自然而然成为人们的一种情感诉求。

2、爱国包含着“自爱”的成分，但它首先要求人们跳脱私人生活的限制，以更高远的眼光来审视自身存在的价值。因此，相较于一般的私人感情而言，爱国是一种超越私我利益的深沉之爱。只有当人们认识到国家利益高于个人利益，并愿意为了国家利益而牺牲个人乃至团体利益的时候，才算是真正的爱国。

3、对于普通人而言，爱国不一定非要通过壮烈的方式来实现，兢兢业业做好手头的工作，以善意诚心对待身边的人，对家庭尽到一份责任，对社会贡献一点爱心，对有困难的群体伸出援手，对不文明的现象尽力制止。

《中国人》创作于1997年，是刘德华为庆祝香港回归创作的。香港回归结束了百年飘零，香港人也终结了无以为根的生活。举国上下无不为之欢庆，是对香港未来的期待和祝福，也是对中华民族大一统的期许和冀望。在这个万众瞩目的时刻，刘德华的一曲《中国人》可以说来得恰逢适宜，正应了那句话：“没有最好的，只有最合适的”。在这个特殊的时刻，这样特殊的历史节点，《中国人》这首歌拉近了亿万中国人的心，凝聚了五千年的民族血脉。