男女朋友总吵架怎么破？

最好举出具体事例。如果舍得就分手，如果不舍则自省、宽容。

遇吵架先考虑自己有什么过错，即使没错也心疼对方生气。

你不说话是对的，告诉他冷静后才说事，有理不在声高，心虚才气急败坏。一个人唱独角戏，自然会冷静下来。

每次吵架后两人要分析总结教训，避免再次争吵。如果再吵架，要看是否有收敛。如果没有改善，建议坚决分手或逆来顺受，不要对吵。因为犯同样的错误，说明缺乏理智和控制力。愤怒没有理智会伤害他人或自己。

人无完人，但知错不改，不能成长是很可悲可怕的。

这种情况不分手，说明你对他有所依赖，那就努力学习工作锻炼提高自己，不要让他瞧不起你。

的确有人能做到出淤泥而不染~但是我跟你说~耳渎目染的时间长了~~好人也会染上坏毛病~~不同意她去并没错~~但是你要知道她为什么要去~她只是为了寻求刺激还是说经济方面希望得到好转？你如果有能力的话~尽量让她在物质方面不要感觉缺失！无论什么样的女人~虚荣是去不掉的天性！只是程度不同~~两个人在一起就好像彼此的老师~互相扶持互相学习~才能互相进步！吵架永远都是起反作用的~~希望你能学会合理有效的疏导~~如果你能说的再具体点或者再清楚点介绍一下你俩的处境~~我愿意帮你想想办法！

What You Are - Jewel

I'm driving around town

Kinda bored with the windows rolled down

See a girl on the bus stop bench

Dressed to draw attention

Hoping everyone will stare

If she don't stand out she thinks she'll disappear

Wish I could hold her, tell her, show her

What she wants is already there

A star is a star

It doesn't have to try to shine

Water will fall

A bird just knows how to fly

You don't have to tell a flower how to bloom

Or light how to fill up a room

You already are what you are

And what you are is beautiful

Heard a story the other day

Took place at the local VA

A father talking to his dying son

This was his conversation

"It's not supposed to be like this

You can't go first I can't handle it"

The boy said "Dad now don't you cry,

Remember when I was a child what you used to tell me when I'd ask why"

（You'd say） Gravity is gravity

It doesn't try to pull you down

Stone is stone

It can't help but hold its ground

The wind just blows, though you can't see

It's everywhere like I'll always be

You already are what you are

And what you are is strong enough

Look in the mirror

Now that's another story to tell

I give love to others

But I give myself hell

I'd have to tell myself

"In every scene there's a perfect plan"

Everything I hoped to be

I already am

A flower is a flower

It doesn't have to try to bloom

And light is light

Just knows how to fill a room

And dark is dark

So the stars have a place to shine

The tide goes out

So it can come back another time

Goodbye makes a love so sweet

And love is love so it can teach us

We already are what we are

And what we are is beautiful

And strong enough

And good enough

And bright enough