特别好的朋友因为一些事吵架了，和好以后改了对我的称呼，从叫我欣怡变成喊我英文名？

那别好的朋友那别好的朋友因为一些琐事而吵架了 和好和好了以后对和好了以后，对我的称呼改了重叫我。心里变成汗，我英文名 这也是一个重大的改变，改革 说明经过一次事情以后，就要有新的改革

贫贱夫妻百事哀，结婚以后会遇到很多困难，柴米油盐酱醋茶，生活的琐事很多，难免会因为一些小事吵架。都是普通人，吵架是很正常的事，也是一种情绪宣泄。因为生活琐事发生吵架的时候，要一起来解决这件事，不要把吵架升级，影响到感情就不好了。

1、过了蜜月期，会因为生活琐事发生争吵

一对情侣因为互相爱着对方，所以想走进结婚殿堂，两个人结婚了，过了蜜月期，接下来的日子就是考验对方的时候。生活中不可能总是甜甜蜜蜜的，还有一些生活琐事，因为两个人年轻气盛，两个人的经济条件等影响，所以两个人会因为这些生活琐事吵架。这就是寻常夫妻要经历的一些事情，两个人不可能不吵架，吵架是正常的，没架可吵反倒是不正常的。因为两个人吵架，说明两个人还想交流，如果两个人不吵架，就不想交流了，两个人的感情正在一点点变淡。

2、因为生活琐事发生吵架，是很正常的一种情况

都是普通人，难免会因为生活的琐事发生争吵，老百姓过日子最难，没钱会为钱发愁，所以发生争吵是一种很正常的情况。夫妻过日子，吵架拌嘴，这都是寻常事，几乎每个家庭都会发生这样的事，没必要过分纠结因为生活琐事吵架会不会影响感情的事。相信缘分，是你的缘分，吵架也不会失去，不是你的缘分，不吵也会失去，人生在世相遇就是缘分，日子要好好过，能不吵架就不吵架了。

3、因为生活琐事发生争吵，该怎么去正确处理？

在寻常日子里，无法避免因为生活琐事发生争吵，但是发生争吵后要想着该怎么去正确处理。如果是因为一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事，就没必要继续生气，有个台阶下就行了。家和才能万事兴，不要因为生活琐事持续发生争吵，最后导致两个人离心离德。夫妻之间要互敬互爱，生活中的琐事，一切都有解决的方法，两个人之间要互相商量，一起来解决问题。

     夫妻之间经常为一些小事吵架，我认为啊并不能算是大问题，夫妻之间相处得久了，肯定会出现一些小矛盾，毕竟不像是谈恋爱的时候涉及到的只是爱与不爱，结婚之后就会发现生活完全变得不一样了，之前的爱情慢慢一点点地就会变成了亲情，还要整天被生活中的鸡毛蒜皮等琐事烦扰，更要面对工作中及生活中方方面的压力，所以很多夫妻之间就会经常为一些生活中的琐事吵架。

     我觉得想要解决的这个问题，最好的办法绝对不是离婚，除非真的到了那种感情已经破裂的程度了，但凡有复合的可能，请尽量不要选择这种过激的做法，俗话说的好生活中总是一地鸡毛，双方都一样总会有一些不顺心，或者是压力大的时候，所以难免的牙齿碰嘴唇的。

     既然选择了结婚，那么一定要懂得夫妻双方的相处之道，夫妻双方相处最重要的一点就是懂得相互包容，相互理解，切忌无休止的抱怨，就像上面提到的，现在的人处处都是压力，生活压力，工作压力等等，因此如何面对这些压力，并且学会如何的排解才是最关键的，比如说男方或者是女方在外面受到了压力或者生了气，难免的回到家里有些抱怨，这个时候如果你懂得如何的理解对方，并且适当的倾听对方的倾诉，就一定会好一些，相反的如果你嫌烦的话，问题就会激化，对方就会将遇到的压力用吵架的方式发泄出来，就会出现上面您说的那种情况。

    因此我认为夫妻双发只要不是遇到了，不可调和的本质性的问题的话，完全是可以通过相互的沟通，相互的包容和理解去解决问题的，毕竟是曾经相爱的人，如果问题真的到了那种不可调和的地步了的话，也可以选择离婚，毕竟婚姻自由么？

　　100字英语美文摘抄(1)

Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time, a particular location, Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain, Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever, No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So, only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness, when will come

人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时间，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？

100字英语美文摘抄(2)

Dark light, just light each other The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together, the such as one dust covers up Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness

暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的责任，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜数不尽的孤单 美文摘抄

100字英语美文摘抄(3)

Always insisting Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop, engraved veins safely, engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old Just as happiness born in the years, not insolent, the every act and move blooms quietly

一直坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放

100字英语美文摘抄(4)

Hope is always more expect, engrave a bone is a fat lot looked Clear can touch, just don t know where end is Can not find to come to the road of hour, just because of eying foot too very carefully

希望总是多过盼望，刻骨而又络络可见， 清晰可触，只是不知道终结在哪儿。 找不到来时的路，只是因为太小心翼翼的注视脚下。

100字英语美文摘抄(5)

Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly, Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other, But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time, Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to come and go, Sunset west

再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把希望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。

100字英语美文摘抄(6)

Six words really talk to solveeach round to return to bitterness Heart of lotus opens, body side of genial breezes walks Constantly, only one pond water Ripple but have no language, guarded happiness of this pond This is from cradle to the grave one a life time

六字真言解每一个轮回苦。 心头荷花开，身畔暖风走。 不变的，只有那一池水。 荡漾而无语，守住了这一池的幸福。 这就是一生一世

100字英语美文摘抄(7)

Happiness is so much simple, on your center of palm, wwwshusuorg a match a hand can grasp; Happiness is also very difficult, before your heel, A thousand mountains and rivers but blunder away because of Doing not turn a head

幸福好简单，就在你手心上，一合手就能握住； 幸福又好难，就在你脚跟前， 千山万水却因没有转头而错失

100字英语美文摘抄(8)

Never believe, next will be better, Blunder away, never repair return of regret Even met the god of shining in a dream, Never ask: "Next happiness, when will come"

千万不要相信，下一个会更好， 错失了，就是补不回的遗憾。 即使在梦中，遇见了那熠熠的神明， 也永远不要问：“下一班幸福，几点开 ？"

9don't know what I do now is right, those are wrong, and when I finally Laosi when I know these So I can do now is to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural deathSometimes I can be very happy to talk to everyone, can be very presumptuous, but no one knows, it is but very deliberatelycamouflage, camouflage; I can make him very happy very happy, but couldn't find the source of happiness, just giggle中文：我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的,那些是错的,而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事,然后等待着老死有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话,可以很放肆的,可是却没有人知道,那不外是伪装,很刻意的伪装；我可以让自己很快乐很快乐,可是却找不到快乐的源头,只是傻笑

10If not to the sun for smiling, warm is still in the sun there, but wewill laugh more confident calm; if turned to found his own shadow, appropriate escape, the sun will be through the heart,warm each place behind the corner; if an outstretched palm cannot fall butterfly, then clenched waving arms, given power; if I can't have bright smile, it will face to the sunshine, and sunshine smile together, in full bloom中文：如果不向太阳索取微笑,温暖仍在太阳那里,但我们会笑得更加自信从容；如果转过身去发现了自己的影子,适当的躲让,阳光便可穿越心灵,温暖每一处身后的角落；如果摊开的掌心不能点落蝴蝶,那就紧握成拳挥动臂膀,给予力量；如果我不能够微笑得灿烂,那就将脸投向灿烂的阳光,与阳光一起微笑,烂漫

11Time is like a river, the left bank is unable to forget the memories, right is worth grasp the youth, the middle of the fast flowing, is the sad young faint There are many good things, buttruly belong to own but not much See the courthouse blossom,honor or disgrace not Jing, hope heaven Yunjuanyunshu, has no intention to stay In this round the world, all can learn to use a normal heart to treat all around, is also a kind of realm!中文：岁月就象一条河,左岸是无法忘却的回忆,右岸是值得把握的青春年华,中间飞快流淌的,是年轻隐隐的伤感世间有许多美好的东西,但真正属于自己的却并不多看庭前花开花落,荣辱不惊,望天上云卷云舒,去留无意在这个纷绕的世界里,能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切,也是一种境界!

12Swim, let nature cleanse your heart; read, let the words warmyour stillness; keep a raise, let free conditioning your exhaustion; put out of your mind, let things Fun, let laughteraround your heart; sing, let the song express your memories; let a let, let pass to retain your tolerance; say, let you unlock your doubts; look, let the distance from your hope中文：游一游,让自然荡涤你的心胸；读一读,让文字温馨你的沉静；养一养,让清闲调理你的疲惫；放一放,让琐事跳出你的脑海乐一乐,让笑语缠住你的心窝；唱一唱,让歌声表达你的回忆；让一让,让狭路留住你的宽容；说一说,让知己解开你的疑惑；望一望,让远方捎来你的希望

13The sun, not only from the sun, but also from our hearts Have a heart of the sun, can see the bright side of the world; there is sunshine in the heart, with the wrong people heart to heart; the heart of sunshine, even in a sad day, will retain the warmth andenthusiasm; the heart of sunshine, can improve the quality of life Self-confidence, tolerance, give, love, gratitude, let the heart of the sun, illuminate the little drops of life, the heart of the sun, the sun makes the fate中文：阳光,不只来自太阳,也来自我们的心心里有阳光,能看到到世界美好的一面；心里有阳光,能与有缘的人心心相映；心里有阳光,即使在有遗憾的日子,也会保留温暖与热情；心里有阳光,才能提升生命品质自信、宽容、给予、爱、感恩吧,让心里的阳光,照亮生活中的点点滴滴,阳光的心,造就阳光的命运

14Childhood is a cup of coffee, drink a people lead a person to endless aftertastes; childhood is a book, each page is a record of our hours of the passions; childhood is a cup of tea, after drinking, the mouth is also revealing the sweet taste; childhood is a painting, we have a colorful life picture An insect, a toy, a discovery, a quarrel Not worth mentioning are full ofhappiness, the pursuit of dreams and Childhood innocence,unforgettable years中文：童年是一杯咖啡,喝着让人回味无穷；童年是一本书,每一页都记录着我们小时的喜怒哀乐；童年是一杯茶,喝完后,嘴里还流露着甘甜的味道；童年是一幅画,画里有我们五彩的生活一只昆虫,一个玩具,一次发现,一场争执……微不足道却饱含着我们的快乐、梦想和追求童年是纯真、难忘的岁月

15Sometimes you dream to be a kind of happiness, sometimes the dream is also a kind of happiness; sometimes is a kind of happiness, sometimes the loss is also a kind of happiness;sometimes success is a kind of happiness, sometimes failure is also a kind of happiness Sometimes the rich is a kind of happiness, sometimes poverty is also a kind of happiness "Not happy" today, now can not be "happy", while it may be tomorrow or later become "happiness"!中文：有时你的梦想达到是一种幸福,有时梦想破灭也是一种幸福；有时得到是一种幸福,有时失去也是一种幸福；有时成功是一种幸福,有时失败也是一种幸福有时富有是一种幸福,有时贫穷也是一种幸福“不幸福”今天或者现在不能成为“幸福”,而明天或者以后却可能变成“幸福”!

16Sometimes when we don't want to work, sometimes will suddenlywant to drink, sometimes you want to travel alone, sometimes you want to get married There are so many thoughts in our minds, but just think about it Perhaps we really need some courage, for some sudden ideas to try Maybe, it will give you a big surprise!中文：有时候突然就不想工作了,有时候会突然想要喝几杯,有时候会想要独自旅行,有时候就想结婚了……我们的脑子里有那么多的念头,可是仅仅只是想想而已或许我们真的需要一些勇气,为一些突然蹦出的念头而尝试一下也许,它会带给你惊喜!

Nothing in life is to be feared It is only to be understood (Marie Curie)生活中没有什么可怕的东西，只有需要理解的东西。（居里夫人）

A man is not old as long as he is seeking something A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams (J Barrymore)只要一个人还有追求，他就没有老。直到后悔取代了梦想，一个人才算老。（巴里摩尔）

A man can succeed at almost anything for which he has unlimited enthusiasm (C M Schwab)只要有无限的热情，一个人几乎可以在任何事情上取得成功。（施瓦布）

One thing I know: The only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve (A Schweizer)有一点我是知道的：在你们之中，只有那些愿意寻求发现如何为别人服务的人，才是真正幸福的。（施韦策）

The important thing in life is to have a great aim, and the determination to attain it (Goethe)人生重要的在于确立一个伟大的目标，并有决心使其实现。（歌德）

To live is to function That is all there is in living (Holmes)活着就要发挥作用，这就是生活的全部内容。（霍姆斯）

Man can only be free through mastery of himself ( S E Morison)只有通过掌握自己，才能使自己得到解放。（莫里森）

Fear not that thy life shall come to an end, but rather fear that it shall never have a beginning (J H Newman)不要害怕你的生活将要结束，应该担心你的生活永远不曾真正开始。（纽曼）

Choose a life of action, not one of ostentation ( C Nepos)要选择行动的一生，而不是炫耀的一生。（内波斯）

When the fight begins within himself, a man's worth something ( R Browning)当一个人内心开始斗争时，他就有了价值。（布郎宁）

There is only one success --- to be able to spend your life in your own way (C Morley )只有一种成功，那就是能够用自己的方式度过自己的一生。（莫利）

We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope ( Martin Luther King, Jr)我们必须接受失望，因为它是有限的，但千万不可失去希望，因为它是无穷的。（马丁。路德。金）

We grow neither better nor worse as we grow old but more like ourselves ( M L Becker )随着年龄的增长，我们并不变得更好也不变得更坏，而是变得更象我们自己。（贝克尔）

If a jewel falls into the mire, it remains as precious as before; and though dust should ascend to heaven, its former worthlessness will not be altered ( AL Jaber )宝石即使落在泥潭里，仍是一样可贵；尘土纵然扬到天上，还是没有价值。（贾比尔）

Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness ( Strong)与其诅咒黑暗，不如燃起蜡烛。（斯特郎）

A man can fail many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else ( J Burroughs )一个人可以失败许多次，但是只要他没有开始责怪别人，他还不是一个失败者。（巴勒斯）

Work is the grand cure of all the maladies and miseries that ever beset mankind ( Carlyle )工作是医治人间一切病痛和疾苦的万应良药。（卡莱尔）

At twenty years of age, the will reigns; at thirty, the wit; and at forty, the judgment ( B Franklin) 二十岁时起支配作用的是意志，三十岁时是机智，四十岁时是判断。（富兰克林）

The tragedy of life is not so much what men suffer, but what they miss ( T Carlyle )生活的悲剧不在于人们受到多少苦，而在于人们错过了什么。（卡莱尔）

To sensible men, every day is a day of reckoning ( J W Gardner )对聪明人来说，每一天的时间都是要精打细算的。（加德纳）

Genius is formed in quiet, character in the stream of life (Goethe )天才形成于平静中，性格来自于生活的激流。（歌德）

Wherever valour true is found, true modesty will there abound ( W S Gilbert )真正的勇敢，都包含谦虚。（吉尔伯特）

We can't all be heroes Somebody has to sit on the curb and clap as they go by (W Roger )我们不可能都成为英雄。总得有人在英雄走过的时候坐在路边鼓掌。（罗杰）

Whom the gods destroy, they first make mad (Euripides )上帝要谁灭亡，必先让他疯狂。（欧里比德斯）

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Life is a leaf of paper white, thereon each of us may write his word or two ( A Lowell )生活是一张白纸，每个人都在上面写上自己的一两句话。（洛威尔）

On earth there is nothing great but man; in the man there is nothing great but mind ( A Hamilton )地球上唯一伟大的是人，人身上唯一伟大的是心灵。（哈密尔顿）

Everything ought to be beautiful in a human being: face, and dress, and soul, and ideas ( Chekhov )人的一切——面貌、衣着、心灵和思想，都应该是美好的。（契诃夫）

Life is just a series of trying to make up your mind ( T Fuller )生活只是由一系列下决心的努力所构成的。（富勒）

Live as though you intend to live forever, and work as though your strength were limit less ( S Bernhardt )要这样生活，仿佛你寿命永恒；要这样工作，仿佛你精力无穷。（波恩哈特）

Other man live to eat, while I eat to live ( Socrates )别人为食而生存，我为生存而食。（苏格拉底）

Life is the art of drawing sufficient conclusions from insufficient premises ( S Butler )生活是一种艺术，要在不充足的前提下得出充足的结论。（巴特勒）

Life is not all beer and skittles ( T Hughes )人生并非只是吃喝玩乐。（休斯）

For man is man and master of his fate ( A Tennyson )人就是人，是自己命运的主人。（丁尼生）

The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved |( V Hugo )生活中最大的幸福是坚信有人爱我们。（雨果）

Have an aim in life, or your energies will all be wasted ( R Peters )人生应该树立目标，否则你的精力会白白浪费。（彼得斯）

None is of freedom or of life deserving unless he daily conquers it anew( Erasmus )只有每天再度战胜生活并夺取自由的人，才配享受生活或自由。（伊拉斯漠）

What makes life dreary is the want of motive (George Eliot )没有了目的，生活便郁闷无光。（艾略特）

Don't believe that winning is really everything It's more important to stand for something If you don't stand for something, what do you win ( Lane Kirkland )不要认为取胜就是一切，更重要的是要有信念。倘若你没有信念，那胜利又有什么意义呢？（柯克兰）

Towering genius disdains a beaten path It seeks regions hitherto unexplored ( Lincoln )卓越的天才不屑走旁人走过的路，他寻找迄今未开拓的地区。（林肯）

Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards( Kierkergaard )只有向后才能理解生活；但要生活好，则必须向前看。（克尔凯郭尔）

While there is one untrodden tractFor intellect or willAnd men are free to think and act,Life is worth living ( A Austin )只要还有一块知识和意志尚未征服的领域，只要人们能自由思考和行动，生活就是值得的。（奥斯汀）

Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it( I Berlin )生活有百分之十在于你如何塑造它，有百分之九十在于你如何对待它。（柏林）

The great use of life is to spend it for something that overlasts it( W James )生命的最大用处是将它用于能比生命更长久的事物上。（詹姆斯）

No man is useless in this world who lightens the burden of someone else ( C Dickens )在这个世界上能为别人减轻负担的人都是有用的。（狄更斯）

Life is measured by thought and action, not by time ( J Lubbock )衡量生命的尺度是思想和行为，而不是时间。（卢伯克）

The value of life lies not in the length of days, but in the use we make of them ( Montaigne )生命的价值不在于能活多少天，而在于我们如何使用这些日子。（蒙田）

Ideas are like the stars --- we never reach them, but like mariners, we chart our course by them ( C Schurz )理想就象是星星——我们永远无法到达，但是我们象水手一样，用它们指引航程。（舒尔茨）

I tell you hopeless grief is passionless ( E B Browning )我告诉你，没有希望的悲伤是没有感情的。（勃郎宁夫人）

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He who has never hoped can never despair ( Bernard Shaw )从来没有抱什么希望的人也永远不会失望。（萧伯纳）

Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value ( A Einstein )不要为成功而努力，要为作一个有价值的人而努力。（爱因斯坦）

Our greatest glory consists not in never falling but in rising every time we fall ( O Goldsmith )我们最值得自豪的不在于从不跌倒，而在于每次跌倒之后都爬起来。（哥德斯密斯）

It is not enough to be industrious, so are the ants What are you industrious about ( H D Thoreau )光勤劳是不够的，蚂蚁也是勤劳的。要看你为什么而勤劳。（梭罗）

You have to believe in yourself That's the secret of sucess ( Charles Chaplin )人必须相信自己，这是成功的秘诀。（卓别林）

A wise man never loses anything if he has himself ( Nietzche )聪明的人只要能掌握自己，便什么也不会失去。（尼采）

To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness ( Russell )有些东西你想要而没有，这是幸福不可缺少的一部分。（罗素）

Something attempted, something done ( Longfellow )有所尝试，就等于有所作为。（朗费罗）

Victory won't come to me unless I go to it ( M Moore )胜利是不会向我们走来的，我必须自己走向胜利。（穆尔）

The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want, and if they cannot find them, make them ( Bernard Shaw )在这个世界上取得成功的人，都努力去寻找他们想要的机会，如果找不到时，他们就自己创造机会。（萧伯纳）

A great man is always willing to be little ( R W Emerson )伟大的人物总是愿意当小人物的。（爱默生）

Death is the only pure, beautiful conclusion of a great passion ( D H Lawrence )死是伟大的激情的唯一的纯洁、美丽的终结。（劳伦斯）

Great men are rarely isolated mountain-peaks; they are summits of ranges ( T W Higginson )伟人很少是突兀的山峰；它们是众山中的最高峰。（希金森）

The crash of the whole solar and stellar systems could only kill you once( T Carlyle )即使整个太阳系和星系崩溃，你也只死一次。（卡莱尔）

Many people's tombstones should read: " Died at 30, buried at 60" ( N M Butler )许多人的墓碑上应该刻上：“三十而死，六旬而葬。”（巴特勒）

To feel that one has a place in life solves half the problem of content ( G Woodberry )如果感觉到自己在生活中有了一个位置，满足的问题就解决了一半。（伍德贝利）

We should so live and labor in our time that what came to us as seed may go to the next generation as blossom, and what came to us as blossom may go to them as fruit This is what we mean by progress( H W Beecher )我们一生应该这样地生活和劳动，使给予我们的种子能在下一代开花，使给予我们的花朵能在下一代结果，这就是我们所说的进步的意义。（比彻）

What's a man's first duty The answer's brief: To be himself ( Ibsen )人的第一天职是什么？答案很简单：不伪饰自己。（易卜生）

It is while you are patiently toiling at the little tasks of life that the meaning and shape of great whole of life dawn on you ( P Brooks )在你耐心地操劳于生活的琐事的过程中，你才能领悟整个生活的伟大意义和形象。

（布鲁克斯）

Dare and the world always yields If it beats you sometimes, dare it again and again and it will succumb ( W M Thackeray )大胆挑战，世界总会让步。如果有时候你被它打败了，不断地挑战，它总会屈服的。（萨克雷）

Destiny: A tyrant's authority for crime, and a fool's excuse for failure ( A Bierce )命运是暴君施虐的权威，傻瓜失败的借口。（比尔斯）

Have no fear of perfection ---- you'll never reach it ( S Dali )不要为十全十美担心——你永远作不到十全十美。（达里）

The sum of behaviour is to retain a man's own dignity, without intruding upon the liberty of others ( F Bacon )人的行为准则是，维护自己的尊严，不妨碍他人的自由。（培根）

One may overcome a thousand men in battle, but he who conquers himself is the greatest victor ( Nehru )一个人能在战场上制胜千军，但只有战胜自己才是最伟大的胜利者。（尼赫鲁）

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The greater the man, the more restrained his anger ( Ovid )人越伟大，越能克制怒火。（奥维德）

It is easier to fight for principles than to live up to them ( A E Stevenson )为原则而斗争容易，按原则的要求活着难。（史蒂文森）

There is nothing permanent except change ( Heracleitus )惟有变化才是永恒的。（赫拉克利特）

Those who expect to reap the blessings of freedom must undergo the fatigue of supporting it ( T Paine )想要收获自由之果的人，必须承受维护自由的劳苦。（潘恩）

No road of flowers lead to glory ( La Fontaine )没有一条通向光荣的道路是铺满鲜花的。（拉封丹）

Do not, for one repulse, forgo the purpose that you resolved to effort ( Shakespeare )不要只因一次挫败，就放弃你原来决心想达到的目的。（莎士比亚）

The man who has made up his mind to win will never say " Impossible"( Napoleon )凡是决心取得胜利的人是从来不说“不可能”的。（拿破仑）

Miracles sometimes occur, but one has to work terribly for them ( C Weizmann )奇迹有时候是会发生的，但是你得为之拼命蒂努力。（魏茨曼）

There is no such thing as darkness; only a failure to see ( Muggeridge )没有黑暗这种东西，只有看不见而已。（马格里奇）

It never will rain roses When we want to have more roses we must plant trees ( G Eliot )天上永远不会掉下玫瑰来，如果想要更多的玫瑰，必须自己种植。（艾略特）

Time is a bird for ever on the wing ( T W Robertson )时间是一只永远在飞翔的鸟。（罗伯逊）

If you do not learn to think when you are young, you may never learn ( Edison )如果你年轻时不学会思考，那就永远不会。（爱迪生）

A day is a miniature of eternity ( Emerson )一天是永恒的缩影。（爱默生）

The course of true love never did run smooth ( Shakespeare )真诚的爱情之路永不会是平坦的。（莎士比亚）

Love is stronger than death爱的力量大于死亡。（《圣经》）

When I was young, I admired clever people Now that I am old, I admire kind people ( A J Heschel )少时喜欢聪明人，老来喜欢仁厚人。（赫歇尔）

All good things are cheap, all bad things are very dear ( H D Thoreau )一切好的东西都是便宜的，所有坏的东西都是非常贵的。（梭罗）

Patience! The windmill never strays in search of the wind ( Andy J Sklivis )耐心等待！风车从不跑去找风。（斯克利维斯）

Morality may consist solely in the courage of making a choice ( L Blum )品德可能仅仅在于有勇气作出抉择。（布鲁斯）

Fame usually comes to those who are thinking something else ( O W Holmes )通常是没想到成名的人反而成了名。（霍姆斯）

The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves ( W Penn)妒忌者对别人是烦恼，对他们自己却是折磨。（佩恩）

If there were less sympathy in the world, there would be less trouble in the world ( O Wilde )如果世界上少一些同情，世界上也就会少一些麻烦。（王尔德）

Many a man's reputation would not know his character if they met on the street ( E Hubbard )许多人的名声如果在街上遇到自己的品德会互相不认识。（哈伯德）

Don't waste life in doubts and fears ( Emerson )不要把生命浪费于怀疑与恐惧中。（爱默生）

The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere ( A M Lindbergh )生活中最使人筋疲力尽的事是弄虚作假。（林德伯格）

It is discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit ( N Coward )令人沮丧的是，有那么多人对诚实感到吃惊，而对欺骗感到吃惊的人却那么的少。（科沃德）

The worst bankrupt is the person who has lost his enthusiasm

--HW Arnold

最惨的破产就是丧失自己的热情。

--HW 阿诺德

It has been my philosophy of life that difficulties vanish when faced boldly

--Issac Asimoy

如果勇敢的正视困难， 困难就会消失， 这一直是我的人生哲学。

--艾萨克·阿西莫艾

Learning is an ornament in prosperity, a refuge in adversity, and a provision in old age

—— Aristotle

学问在成功时是装饰品，在失意时是庇护所，在年老时是供应品。

—— 亚里士多德

Travel, in the younger sort, is a part of education; in the elder, a part of experience

--Francis Bacon

旅行对青年人而言是一种教育；对老年人来说则是一种经历。

--培根Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested —— F Bacon一些书可以浅尝辄止；一些书可以狼吞虎咽；而有些书则需要细嚼慢咽，好好消化。

—— F培根

The best proof of love is trust

--Joyce Brothers

爱的最好的证明就是信任。

-- 乔伊斯·布拉泽斯

What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others

--Confucius

己所不欲，勿施于人。

-- 孔子 You shall judge a man by his foes as well as by his friends —— Joseph Conrad 你可以通过一个人的朋友，也可以通过一个人的敌人来判断他的为人。

—— 约瑟夫·康拉德

The three foundations of learning: seeing much, suffering much, and studying much —— Catherall 求学的三个基本条件是：多观察，多吃苦，多研究。

—— 加塞罗尔

1Great hopes make great men

伟大的理想造就伟大的人。

2Judge aman by his questions rather than his answers

要判断一个人，看他的回答不如看他的提问。

3Cleverness does not take place of knowledge

聪明代替不了知识。

4The strong man and the waterfall channel out their own path

坚强的人像瀑布一样自己开辟道路。

5A little of everything at all --Montaigne

凡是浅尝止，终将一事无成。-蒙田

6Learning is like rowing upstream, not to advance is to drop back

学习如逆水行舟，不进则退。

7Not to know is bad; not to wish to know is worse

无知很糟，不能求知更糟。

8With hope, no one shall fail

只要怀有希望，谁也不会失败。

9The dictionary is the only place where success comes before work

只有在字典里，成功才出现在工作之前。

10A misty morning may have a fine day --Kelly

一个多雾的早晨仍可能有一个明朗的白天。-寄里

在爱和交谊之间盘旋

我们是已经不同的背景和从不同的区域但是我不知道当我们被变得如此熟悉的时候…在我的记忆…在开始，最后称，我有关他没有深的印象 ,但是非常奇怪的 ,我们慢慢地成为好朋友…

在我总是不非常相信那有男孩和女孩之间的真实的团体之前 ,但是我发现事实不如此…

当我们遇见的时候，我们只说哈罗先,一步但是 sith 我们变成熟悉逐渐…我们以星状物装饰吵架大约一些小的琐事 , 但是不发生不快乐的事物。 我们喜欢吵架…他总是丢出关于我的平局的许多错误 ,让我感觉平局如此可怕…而且我将会努力地拉更加。有时我教他英语。。。 我们总是有很多的字说。 当我们是愉快的时候，我们可以一起分享。 有时 ,当我们是不快乐的时候 ,我们可以在公司中分担与, 和我们总是鼓励彼此一定冒着或乐观主义。 我知道那不火把婚姻之神 , 那是友谊 ,未变成世故的友谊。我知道他照料我、但是较多的同类一位兄弟

希望我们总是如此没有物质现在或未来。