生气或吵架时，哪些英文话不该脱口而出？

当一个人正在气头上时，他/她可能会口不择言，脱口而出一些伤人的话。在英文里，有些句型在吵架时也带有指责意味，反而可能更加恶化两人的关系。

Go Natural English的讲师Gabby Wallace提出了两个在吵架时不应该使用的句型，与两个可以用来取代的句型。她希望任何人在吵架时都能试着保持理智，并用平和的语气、不过度情绪化的说词来沟通喔！

1 Two phrases to avoid 两个该避免的句型

(1) You always / never Eg You have always been so selfish 你总是这么自私。 eg You never care about me! 你从不在乎我！

(2) If you really…, you will… eg If you really love me, you will buy the purse for me 如果你真的爱我，你就会买那只皮包给我。

2 Two suggestions to say instead 两个建议的句型

(1) I’m upset that…… eg I’m upset that we didn’t meet the deadline 我对于我们没有在时限内完成感到沮丧。 eg I’m upset that you didn’t take care of the dirty dishes 我对于你没有洗完这些碗盘感到不高兴。

(2) I feel like…… eg I feel like we should work harder 我觉得我们应该更努力。

always, anger, angry, feel like, fight, never, upset, 吵架 英文, 英文 吵架

第三人称： first,you should be clam down

second,think about thingmaybe you have something wrongyou cann't angry with herit is not unfair

third,write a letter to her,tell her your idea

last,you will be good friends later 自我角度：I am glad to hear from you but sorry to hear that you have some problems You didn't get a satisfactory results in the examinationThere is nothing to be worriedI believe that as long as you prepared carefully next time you will certainly be able to play wellAs for the quarrel, I think there must be a misunderstanding between you and your friend You two will return to good friends through further exchangeEverything will be well up

Have a good day!

基本上没有什么语法错误,也很简单,如果有什么地方不懂可以问我,希望对您有所帮助

rk We couldn’t agree with each other and after a while it became worse and we fell out I said to him that he was not capable of it and I will not do the project with him anymore Now I regret I said that and want to apologise to him since he is my friend and I don’t want to lose him But I feel embarrassed and don’t know how to do this Please anybody can give me same advice