所有的不开心和吵架都源于想见你

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有时不由自主感叹，人生遇到一个全心全意对你好的人有多不容易。

可是，如同鱼在水里游，却忘了有水；鸟乘着风飞，而不知有风，我们也常常因为有了感情而忘了感情，在理所应当中丢了最重要的人。

很多的爱情故事，因为时间而消散于某个不知名的角落，只有偶尔吹过的一阵风，才会让你想起来，原来爱情它曾经来过。

都说爱而不得痛苦，可是真正痛苦的是，爱而且得，最后确因为不珍惜彼此分开，辜负了相遇，辜负了真心。曾经有人不远万里，从他的城市到你的城市，你就感动的红了眼眶；曾经有人一个月吃泡面只为给你买一件像样的礼物，你就觉得这辈子非他不可；曾经有人像个老婆子一样，天天嘱咐你这，嘱咐你那，让你像个孩子一样被关怀，你就觉得此生遇见了真爱。

但不知道从何时开始，对方所有的好，你都觉得理所当然，精心准备的礼物，为你做的每一件事情，你的心里都不会再有波澜。你开始厌烦，你觉得没有新鲜感，你想找一个更有趣的人。

可是，你知道吗？ 好的爱情是俩个旧人去做新鲜的事情，而不是找一个新人去做旧的事情。

恋爱中的激情总会回归于平淡，可只有平淡才能细水长流啊。错过了一个人，以后可能再也遇不到 只是因为你是你而喜欢你的人 。

我们太容易对另一半的付出习以为常，甚至觉得理所当然，而真正的感情，是需要彼此去呵护，彼此去付出。在荒芜中开出花朵，在平淡中寻找欢喜。

尘世间，最幸福的事情就是你爱的人爱你，你们携手共度人生冷暖，看红尘繁华。

此文献给正在爱情边缘游走的你，你要学会感谢那个正在爱着你的人， 感谢在这个漫长的岁月中，有人与你立黄昏，有人问你粥可温，有人不论贫穷或者富有，都伴你左右。

相逢不易，相爱更难。可以相遇相知相爱，是有多么大的福分呀。

这个特殊的时刻，短时间内你们可能无法想见，而且平时呆在一起挺好的，也不吵架，为什么现在一点小事情就争吵不休？ 你想要的答案就是：所有的不开心和吵架都源于想见TA。

古人都说“两情若是长久时，又岂在朝朝暮暮”，所以，珍惜眼前人，好好相爱吧。

1 美方的立场可以归纳为这样一种说法, 即我们比中国更重视创造性和独立性。双方文化的差异也体现在我们双方怀有的担心。中国教师担心如果学生不在早期掌握技能，他们可能永远无法掌握技能。另一方面，不必急于鼓励创造力。美国教育工作者担心，除非早期掌握创造力，要不创造力可能永远不会涌现。而技能可以以后再学。

2 当我处在这状态时，我也和我的男友争吵，因为我们打字聊天中缺乏情感线索而误会他的用意。因为系统持续瘫痪，这种争吵可以持续数小时。我写一行，他再写一行，然后系统瘫痪！可是我们还是固执地继续争吵。

3 我从来没意识到像为上班梳装打扮，按时睡觉等日常作息的重要性。我从来没有想过我是如此依赖同事们的陪伴。我开始理解为什么长期的失业会有如此的危害性，为什么人生没有外界支持的日常计划会导致吸毒、犯罪和自杀率上升。

1、爱是帆情是船，爱是深沉执着明白！

Love is love is a boat, love is deep persistent understand!

2、拥有你美丽的爱情，太阳就永远明媚。

With the beauty of your love, the sun above always shines

3、牵着我的手，闭着眼睛走你也不会迷路。

Hold my hand, close your eyes, you won't get lost

4、生活最沉重的负担不是工作，而是无聊。

The heavy burden of life is not work, but boredom

5、说什么永不相忘，时间久了就什么都忘了。

Never forget what to say, what a long time to forget

6、爱使我们有了距离，距离使我们爱得永久。

The love we have distance, distance makes our love forever

7、我的爱情，长了蛀虫，我的爱情，出了毛病。

I love long worms, my love is wrong

8、就算世界荒芜，总有一个人，他会是你的信徒。

Even if the world is barren, there is always a person, he will be your followers

9、人并不是因为美丽而可爱，而是因为可爱才美丽。

Person is not because of the beautiful and lovely, but because of cute and beautiful

10、我爱上了你，无可救药，中毒已深，已入，膏盲。

I love you, past hope, have deep poisoning, has been in the blind, paste

11、我的心只有一颗，给了你，没什么可以给自己的。

My heart is only one, to you, nothing can give their own

12、我还是会相信爱情，只是不会再相信爱情能永远。

I still believe in love, just don't believe that love can be forever

13、主动，是因为在乎，不联系，是因为觉得自己多余。

Initiative, because of care, do not contact, because feel that they are redundant

14、爱情不是避难所,想进去避难的话，是会被赶出来的。

Love is not a refuge, if you want to take refuge, then it will be driven out of the

15、与被爱的人长期相处的秘诀是：放弃改变对象的念头。

The secret to being loved in the long term is to give up the idea of changing the subject

16、人类终于发明了爱情，并使它变成为人类最完美的宗教。

Man finally invented love, and made it become the most perfect religion for mankind

17、时间对于我来说只是忘记你的过程，这过程将会是永远。

Time for me just forget your process, this process will be forever

18、没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry。

19、初恋是雾，你是雾中的玫瑰，隔着青纱看你，叫我心醉！

Love is the mist, you are in the fog rose, across the green yarn to see you, call me!

20、我们永远不说再见好吗？再见，也是为了下一次见，好吗？

We will never say goodbye Goodbye, but also to see you next time, okay

21、你的痛苦，不是因为我；那么，我的悲伤，便不是因为你。

Your pain, not because of me; then my sorrow is not because of you

22、没有你，就没了世界。你是我的世界，我的宇宙，我的所有。

Without you, the world is gone You are my world, my universe, my all

23、爱，直至成伤。之后就是永远。对不起，即使你感觉不到我。

Love until it hurts Is forever after Sorry, even if you don't feel me

24、可以放弃不再辉煌的命运，但不要放弃心中曾经激扬的青春。

You can give up the glorious fate, but don't give up the hearts of youth have soared

25、人生的大部份时间里，承诺同义词是束缚，奈何我们向往束缚。

Most of the time in life, commitment synonym is bound, but we yearn for restraint

26、蓝天上，手指划过的痕迹，暖了阳光，暖了眼眸，却湿润了心。

The blue sky, the finger across the traces, warm sunshine, warm eyes, but moist heart

27、要做的事情总找得出时间和机会；不要做的事情总找的出藉口。

Things always find time and opportunity; don't do things always find a Ptext

28、一句问候填满青春，别人的话都听不见，岁月凝结在你的视线。

A greeting is filled with youth, others can not hear, time setting in the sight of you

29、既然爱，为什么不说出口，有些东西失去了，就在也回不来了！

Since love, why not say it, some things lost, will never come back!

30、我们放下自尊，放下骄傲，放下任性，只因我们放不下一个人。

We put down self-esteem, pride, headstrong down, because we do not put a person

31、也许爱情只是因为寂寞。需要找一个人来爱。即使没有任何结局。

Maybe love is just because of loneliness Need to find a person to love Even if there is no end

32、有时候，我们并非走出了伤痛，不过是学会了带着伤痛继续生活。

Sometimes, we are not out of the pain, but it is learned to live with the pain

33、如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记好了。真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。

If you can not forget him, so don't forget Really forget, is not to

34、一个有理智的人恋爱时，可能像一个狂人，但他决不会像一个傻子。

A sensible man, love, like a madman, but he will never like a fool

35、现在才懂，原来一个人可以难过到，没有情绪，没有言语，没有表情。

Now I understand, the original one can be sad, no emotion, no words, no exPssion

36、一见钟情，不过是擦身而过的流星，能够一起变老，才是明亮的恒星。

At first sight, but the passing of the meteor, able to grow old together, it is a bright star

37、雪落黄河时，黄河知道她的难过，春雨落到黄河时，黄河知道她的伤感。

Snow falls in the Yellow River, the Yellow River know her sad, rain fell on the the Yellow River, the Yellow River know her sad

38、我并没有忘记，我们曾许下的约定。即使我背叛了约定，也是情非得已。

I did not forget, we have made the agreement Even if I betrayed the agreement, but also of unwillingness

39、吵架也好，斗嘴也好，开心也好，出气也好，你永远是我心中最好的死党！

Fight or quarrel or happy or gas or, you will always be my best friend!

40、婚姻从来不能用来挽救一段破碎的爱情，破碎的爱情只能得到破碎的婚姻。

Marriage can not save a broken love, broken love will get a broken marriage

41、我曾听人说过，当你不能够再拥有，你唯一可以做的，就是令自己不要忘记。

I have heard people say, when you can no longer have, the only thing you can do is not to forget

42、如果有一天我们在路上重逢，而我告诉你：“我现在很幸福。”我一定是伪装的。

If one day we meet again on the road, and I tell you: "I am very happy now" I must be fake

43、只想找一个在我失意时可以承受我的眼泪；在我快乐时，可以让我咬一口的肩膊。

Just want to find a can take me when I'm sad tears; I am happy that I can bite one's shoulders

44、缘是爱的开始，情是爱的过程，就让我们共同在缘和情的海洋里寻找爱的结果吧！

Margin is the beginning of love, love is the process of love, let us together in the edge and love of the ocean to find the results of love it!

45、有人说：真正的爱情，背后没有秘密。说这话的人，既不明白爱情，也不明白秘密。

Some people say: true love, there is no secret behind To say this, neither understand love, nor understand the secret

46、爱你使我忘记了你的长相，爱你使我忘记了时间，爱你使我变得如此孤单，如此寂寞。

Love you make me forget your looks, love you make me forget the time, love you make me become so lonely, so lonely

47、想你想的睡不着觉，念你念的心怦怦直跳；恋你恋的鬼迷心窍，爱你爱的肉直往下掉！

You want to can't sleep sleep, read your heart pounding; possessed by ghosts love you, love you love meat straight out!

48、但是，酒在肚子里，事在心里，中间总好象隔着一层，无论喝多少酒，都淹不到心上去。

However, the wine in the stomach, things in the heart, like a layer across the middle, no matter how much wine to drink, do not drown

49、有了你，我不再作孤飞于蓝天的雄鹰，宁愿停歇在你门前的那棵树上，看着你，守护你。

Have you, I no longer solitary eagle flying in the sky, would rather stop looking at you in the tree in front of you, protect you

50、真正的爱情，是在能爱的时候，懂得珍惜；真正的爱情，是在无法爱的时候，懂得放手！

True love, is in can love, know how to cherish; true love, is unable to love, know how to let go!

51、红颜薄命，空有一世才情，一泓情泪，种成两世相思，再相逢时，桃花还依旧，人面已全非。

Unlucky, empty have a talent in the world, Yihong Casely, into worlds of Acacia, when to meet again, peach blossom still, people have been beyond recognition

52、即使在你最失魂落魄的时候，也要努力微笑，也许，会有人，因为你带着落寞的笑容而爱上你。

Even in your most driven to distraction, but also strive to smile, perhaps, will someone, because you lonely smile and falling in love with you

53、女人还没得到自己的一份家业，自己的一份忧愁负担与喜乐，是常常有那种注意守侯的神情的。

The woman hasn't got himself a house, own a sad burden and joy, is often the kind of attention kept look

54、我嫁你，是想与你一起面对现在的困境；我嫁你，是想做你坚强的后盾。我嫁你，是因为我爱你。

I married you, I want to be with you in the face of the Psent Pdicament; I married you, want to be your strong backing I married you, because I love you

55、考右学家说：爱情如水，覆地难收。爱情如瓷器，碎了难以复原。爱情如出土文物，既古老新鲜。

An examination of the right experts say: love, such as water, covered with hard to close Love is like China, it is hard to recover Love, such as cultural relics unearthed, both old and new

56、有点落寞，我不懂该怎么说，让它在无声中逝去，我走了，其实它没有来过，只是夜晚心异常柔软。

A little lonely I don't know what to say, let it die in silence, I go, but in fact it did not come off, just the night heart soft exception

57、有很多很多的话想对你说。有很多很多的无奈想请你来帮助解决，但最终一句话。想你的感觉真好！

There are a lot of words to say to you There are a lot of frustration to ask you to help solve, but in the end a sentence Think you feel so good!

58、我最幸福的时刻，就是找对了人，你纵容我的习惯，并爱着我的一切。太残忍的话我只说，因为爱很重。

My happiest moment, is to find the right people, you indulge my habit, and love my all Too cruel to say, I only say, because love is very heavy

59、那一个月，我没有见人，可那一个月，不能没有你的声音，虽然飘渺，但却满足。虽是虚幻，但很心甘。

That month, I did not see a person, it can be a month, can not do without your voice, although misty, but to meet the Although it is unreal, but is willing to

60、爱情是会让人成长的。有些事的确不堪回首，但是请不要逃避。我们应该从中吸取教训，而不是累积伤痛。

Love makes people grow up Some things really cannot bear to think of the past but please don't escape We should learn from it, not the cumulative pain

61、这个忧伤而明媚的三月，从我单薄的青春里打马而过，穿过紫堇，穿过木棉。穿过实隐实现的悲喜和无常。

This sad and beautiful in March, from my youth in the horse, through the Corydalis, through the kapok Through the real secret of feeling and realize impermanence

62、爱，对于婚姻来说，是很沉重的。我想，结婚，不需要太多的爱，只要合适就行。这个合适，是合适结婚。

Love, for marriage, is very heavy I think, get married, do not need too much love, as long as the right line The right, is the right to get married

63、无法厮守终生的爱情，不过是人在长途旅程中，来去匆匆的转机站，无论停留多久，始终要离去坐另一班机。

Love can not be together for a lifetime, but is one in a long journey, and hurried to the transit station, regardless of the length of their stay, always to leave to sit another flight

64、你那一瞥，像一股晶莹的泉水流注我的心头，它比诗还深远，比画还优美，恰如我生命的一个新世纪的早晨。

You glance, like a crystal fountain lingers in my mind, more profound than poetry, gesture is beautiful, is my life a new century of the morning

65、爱一个人意味着什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从中得到快乐。

What does it mean to love a person It means to be happy for his happiness, to be able to do what needs to be done, and to be happy

66、眼睛对于爱的萌芽起着极其重要的心理作用。真正的爱是在双方审美观和道德观逐渐统一的过程中发展起来的。

Eyes play a very important role in the bud of love True love is developed in the process of the gradual unification of both aesthetic and moral values

67、世间有一种爱情，是天上人间，是没有时间和地域界限，尽管有生死大限，可是，她始终就是他的人间四月天。

The world has one kind of love, love will tear us apart, there is no time and geographical boundaries, despite the doomsday of life and death, but she is always his world April days

68、我们不一定形影不离，但一定心心相惜；不一定锦上添花，但一定雪中送炭；不一定常常联络，但一定时时牵挂！

We do not necessarily inseparable, but certain Xinxin phase pity; not be icing on the cake, but some timely help; not always contact, but must constantly worried about!

69、想知道一个人的内心缺少什么，不看别的，就看其炫耀什么；想知道一个人自卑什么，不看别的，就看其掩饰什么。

Want to know what a person's heart is missing, do not look at anything else, to see what they show off; want to know what a person is inferior, do not look at anything else, to see what they hide

70、爱是一种感受即使痛苦也会觉得幸福。爱是一种体会即使心碎也会觉得甜蜜。爱是一种经历即使破碎也会觉得美丽。

Love is a feeling even if the pain will feel happy Love is a kind of experience, even if the heart will feel sweet Love is a kind of experience, even if it is broken, it will feel beautiful

71、一直以为用眼睛就能分辨色彩，孰不知太多的层叠已使我们看不清对方，又或者，那些颜色一直未变，只是心，动了。

Always thought that eyes will be able to distinguish colors, which I do not know too much stack has enabled us can't see each other, or, the color that has remained the same, but the heart,

72、哭泣只是一个人的宣泄，泪滴只是让自己知道悲伤，所以忧郁的阿修罗只会选择一个人在角落里去品尝孤独和伤心……

Cry just a personal catharsis, tears to just let yourself know how sad, so sad the Asuras will only choose a person in the corner to taste loneliness and sad

73、擦肩而过，你我，并不是属于彼此的，无所谓的珍重与再见，无所谓的感受与苦涩已化作尘埃飘过，我们该珍惜现在。

Pass, you and me, not to each other, without the so-called treasure goodbye, called the feelings of bitterness has turned into dust drifting away, we the treasure now

74、一次的朝思暮想，两次的整夜无眠，三次的茶饭不思，四次的心语心愿，无数的爱恋汇成片语只言：亲爱的，想你了。

A passionate, twice the sleepless night, three Chafanbusi, four times the Xinyu aspiration, countless love merged into a phrase only words: dear, I think of you

75、当你读这短讯，你已欠我一个拥抱；删除这短讯，欠我一个吻；要是回复，你欠我全部；要是不回复，你就是我的了。

When you read this message, you have owed me a hug; delete this message, owe me a kiss; reply if you owe me all; if not reply, you are mine

76、真正的爱往往表现在恋人对他的偶像采取含蓄，谦恭甚至羞涩的态度，而决不是表现在随意流露的热情和过早的亲昵。

True love is often performed in lover of his idol take implied, the attitude of humility and even shy and never in the intimacy of the random reveals the passion and Pmature

77、我无法保证，无法向你承诺什么，但我会做到。如果有一天你有饥饿的感觉，那时你定会看到，我已含笑饿死在你的怀抱中。

I can't promise, I can't promise you anything, but I'll do it If one day you feel hungry, then you will see, I have a smile of hunger in your arms

78、幸福是比较级，但并非与别人比较，而是与自己曾经的不幸福比较。一个人只要经历过坏透了的日子，就会真正懂得感激幸福。

Happiness is a comparison, but not with others, but with their own unhappy comparison As long as a person experienced rotten day, will really apPciate happiness

79、我把月光采摘下，熔化在爱的甜蜜中；我把星光取下来，镶嵌在爱的幸福中；我把时光读一遍，让承诺刻画在你我一生中，爱你！

I pluck the moonlight, melt in the sweet of love; I take the star of the stars, inlaid in the happiness of love; I read it again, let the promise in your life, love you!

80、当两人之间有真爱情的时候，是不会考虑到年龄的问题，经济的条件，相貌的美丑，个子的高矮，等等外在的无关紧要的因素的。

When there is true love between two people is not considering the age, economic conditions, the appearance of beauty and ugliness, tall height, and so irrelevant external factors

81、不管爱情，还是友情，终极的目的不是归宿，而是理解默契——是要找一个可以边走边谈的人，无论什么时候，无论怎样的心情。

Regardless of love, or friendship, the ultimate goal is not to end home, but to understand the tacit understanding - is to find a person can talk while walking, no matter what time, no matter how the mood