和别人发生了争吵,事后想和好,寻求建议的英语作文

I had an argument with my friend John todayIt was started from how to do a project for the schoolworkWe couldn’t agree with each other and after a while it became worse and we fell outI said to him that he was not capable of it and I will not do the project with him anymoreNow I regret I said that and want to apologise to him since he is my friend and I don’t want to lose himBut I feel embarrassed and don’t know how to do thisPlease anybody can give me same advice

Dear Liu Jie,

I think it is too early to say whether or not your friend is over As George Washing once said: " True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adveristy before it is entitled to the appellation" When you have a quarrel with our closest friend, two of you may feel hurt emotionally Sometimes it is easy for us to hurt someone we cherish best because we feel that we are no longer two people Pure friendship has joined us as a whole Friendship is a place where we can understand ourselves with someone else

I am sure that your friend will feel that as the time goes by, for time is called the best remedy to heal the wound True friendship is durable , which is not easy to be destroyed Please show your sincerity to him and write a note to remind him of the past you two have experience Recollect the moving stories which happened between you and your friend If you really treasure the friendship between you two, he is sure to come back to you by shaking off all the unpleasant past By doing that, you may figure out whether he deserves you or not Remeber: A true friendship never fades away for easily

俗话说：“让一步风平浪静，退一步海阔天空。”争吵的最佳解决方法就是——谦让。

我还清楚地记得今年暑假发生的一件事，那天我和妈妈去商场购物，我们来到了商场，商场的人好多，一个个货柜前都站满了顾客，售货员忙得不亦乐乎，货柜上的商品经常是刚摆上就卖完了。我环视着商场四周，这时，一阵喧闹声打断了我的思绪，我扭头一看，原来是前面一个货柜发生争吵，我对妈妈说去买冰棒，趁机溜去看热闹了。我凭着我瘦小的身材，左扭右转一下子就钻了进去。我看见一位男青年正与一位中年妇女争吵，他们都带着小孩，看起来只有五六岁吧，都蛮可爱。经一番打听，我知道事情原来是这样：事情发生在不久前，正当那位中年妇女的小女孩要拿柜台里的一个可爱的洋娃娃的时候，那个男青年家的小女孩也要那个洋娃娃，而柜台里洋娃娃目前就只有这一个，就这样，两个人就争了起来，争得面红耳赤。先是小孩争，后来就发展到大人帮着孩子争，真是你不让我，我不让你，好激烈的，弄得两个小女孩都哇哇哭了起来。我见状，急忙走到两个小女孩中间，因为我深信自己是解劝的专家。我一边安慰着她们，一边讲笑话给她们听。可是这惯用的两招都不灵，不管我怎么逗，她们也笑不起来。就当我束手无策时，只见那个男青年的女儿说：“爸爸，算了，这次没得洋娃娃不要紧，这洋娃娃就让给她吧。”我听了大吃一惊，真不知道这小女孩觉悟怎么一下就提高了这么多。但暂且不管什么原因，还是接着说结果吧。那个中年妇女的女儿见对方把洋娃娃礼让给自己，就有点不好意思了，也高姿态地说：“妈，我这次也不要这洋娃娃了，就让她拿去吧。我们下次再来买。”结果又互相推让得面红耳赤。然而这次却是充满喜庆的，是在友好的气氛中进行的。那两个小孩笑了，那两个家长也开心地笑了。……

我目睹这一切确实很有感触，刚才我用特招也不能化解的矛盾，现在竟在一方仅说了一句谦让的话就发生了逆转，就这样顺利地解决了，可见谦让的力量真神奇啊。

谦让，就是解决争吵的最佳方法。