为什么年轻女孩吵架吵不过大妈？

吵架和辩论是有本质不同的。辩论存在第三方裁决，有观众有评委，而吵架其实看的不是谁更有道理，而是看谁更坚定。

而大爷大妈之所以那么坚定，往往是为了背后的利益。你以为吵的是道理，大爷大妈则以为吵的是利益。年轻人总想把道理掰扯清楚，往往不会过于在乎那一星半点的利益。而农村的大爷大妈，往往为了一丁点的利益，死也不肯让步。这其实也是一种悲哀，农村的老一辈是从物质极度匮乏的年代过来的，有一种骨子里的匮乏感，即使生活水平提高了，也很难抹去。如果吵架的背后不存在任何利益纠纷，大爷大妈才懒得跟你吵呢。总之不太建议跟大爷大妈掰扯道理，因为你们吵的根本不是同一个架。还有一种典型的场景，也是很难吵出个道理的，

那就是在网络上跟人吵架。和你争执的人不一定是不讲理的，他可能只是真心不赞同或者不理解你的观点，当然由于利益相关，他肯定要捍卫自己的立场和利益。这种情况下，谁能触及到对方的核心利益逻辑并将其推翻，谁就能说服对方。

Amanda Holden( 阿曼达 霍尔顿)

阿曼达·霍尔登 Amanda Louise Holden

1971年2月16日生于英国英格兰东南部的汉普郡沃尔瑟姆市

有一个妹妹黛比，是个模特。

身高1米63，三围：34B-24-34

与英国演员里斯·丹尼斯于1995年结婚，2002年因她与另一名英国男演员的尼尔·莫里斯的绯闻两人分居，2003年离婚。

2004年宣布与英国音乐制作人克里斯·休订婚。

2006年产下一女

曾在伦敦学了3年的表演。

第一次在电视上展露头角是在1990年她19岁时，参加的一个相亲节目，不过以失败告终。

2004年曾被提名劳伦斯·奥利弗戏剧奖最佳女主角奖。

在她18年的演艺生涯当中，大多时候只出现在电视银幕上，参加了10几部剧集和**电视的演出。参演的影片只有2-3部，而且都是比较小的角色。

Amanda Louise Holden (born 16 February 1971 in Bishop's Waltham, Hampshire) is an English actress She made her television debut as an unsuccessful contestant on the long-running ITV series Blind Date Amanda trained at the Mountview Academy of Theatre Arts Her first television role was in the BBC soap opera EastEnders in 1994 but she is perhaps best known for playing Mia Bevan in the BAFTA Award nominated drama series Cutting It from 2002 to 2004

She married television presenter Les Dennis in 1995, but separated from him following her affair with actor Neil Morrissey These events made her a popular target for the British tabloid press The couple were divorced on 18 November 2003

Amanda Holden has appeared in several stage musicals and in 2004 was nominated for a Laurence Olivier Theatre Award for Best Actress in a Musical for her performance in the West End production of Thoroughly Modern Millie, but did not win On 19 November 2004 she appeared on the BBC's Children in Need charity appeal singing Aretha Franklin's "(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman" On that night also, she announced her engagement to record boss Chris Hughes

Her most recent TV appearance was in the ITV1 drama Wild at Heart, alongside Stephen Tompkinson The first series aired in 2006 and a second series followed in early 2007

Amanda's other TV credits include three series of the hit comedy Kiss Me Kate alongside Caroline Quentin, three series of the ITV comedy series The Grimleys, Celeb with Harry Enfield, the critically acclaimed BBC series Hearts and Bones alongside Damien Lewis, the comedy series Mad About Alice with Jamie Theakston, and a Boxing Day special Marple alongside Geraldine McEwan and John Hannah She also co-starred with Bill Nighy and Sir Tom Courtenay in Ready When You Are, Mr McGill, Jack Rosenthal's classic comedy drama

On 21 January 2006, she gave birth to her first child, Alexa Louise Florence Hughes, by Caesarean section<ref>Actress Holden has baby daughter, BBC News, January 22, 2006</ref>

In June 2007 she appeared as one of the judges, alongside Simon Cowell and Piers Morgan, on the talent show Britain's Got Talent The show was hosted by Ant and Dec and won by opera singer Paul Potts

[编辑]Filmography

Wild at Heart (2006) (TV Series)

Mad About Alice (2004) (TV Series)

4:50 From Paddington (2004) (TV Movie)

Eternal Rectangle (2003) (TV Series)

Cutting It (2002) (TV Series)

Celeb (2002) (TV series)

Now You See Her (2001) (TV Movie)

Happy Birthday Shakespeare (2000) (TV Movie)

Hearts and Bones (TV series) (2000) (TV Series)

The Grimleys (1999) (TV Series)

Virtual Sexuality (1999)

Don't Go Breaking My Heart (1998)

Kiss Me Kate (1998) (TV series)

Intimate Relations (1996)

EastEnders as Carmen (1994) (TV series)

具有深资经验。根据查询中央音乐学院官网显示，中央音乐学院考级评委老师均为院专业教师、教授、优秀毕业生、声乐专业考官等具有深资经验的老师，并邀请了北京市国立公证处公证员对决赛全程进行监督。

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