和朋友闹矛盾,怎么解决的
Trouble with friends, how to solve
老实说,我一般不和朋友闹矛盾,基本一旦问题出现的时候,我会等待回复,没有回复和将问题展开,一般情况下面来说,我会自己将问题说明,然而,没有任何解释的前提条件下,我一般会采取当机立断的处理方式,一刀两断。然而,这种情况也很少发生在我的人际交往关系里,我不太喜欢没什么礼貌,别人不分青红皂白的骂我一顿,通常,这种相处模式我都会就此不再理睬对方,我不太喜欢性格暴烈的人,所以,我包括我的朋友们都是性格温和的人,没有一个(脾气)暴烈的人。
To be honest, I'm not usually friends make antinomy, basic when problems arise, I will wait for a response, and will not reply to questions, generally below, I will own the problem description, however, the premise condition without any explanation, I usually make a prompt decision mining processing ways, make a clean break with However, this situation rarely occurs in my interpersonal relationship, I don't like what not polite, people indiscriminately scold me, usually, this live mode I will no longer speak to each other at this point, I don't like violent people, so, I include my friends is a gentle man, not a violent person
但是,总的来说,我身边的好朋友脾气都很温和,我们几乎从来不吵架,拌嘴会有,多是她们来惹我,与我本身,基本不吵架。有事说事,事情说完了,拉倒。
But, in general, my side good friend temper are very mild, we almost never quarrel, quarrel there will be, is often to mess with me, and I in itself, the basic do not quarrel Something that, things finished, pull down
另外,一般情况下,我的处理危机的方法是:在问题可以第一时间解决的前提条件下,我会在第一时间去把问题说明,从而来解决问题,而不是到了别人心灰意冷的时候再去面对问题。
In addition, under normal circumstances, method of handling crisis my is: the problem can be the first time under the premise to solve, I will for the first time to put the description of the problem, so to solve the problem, not the time to go to face the problem of others downhearted(一般情况下,即使问题出现了,我也不会直截了当的指责别人,不会用一些非常尖锐的话语去刺伤别人,让朋友们感到不舒服。绝对不会是那种很生硬的口气,甚至有的时候,我啥也不高兴说了,又不是什么原则性问题,顶多换个人发通牢骚,发完了,自己也忘记了。第二天,又跟没事人一样了。总得来说,是人都有缺点,只是看,她的缺点是不是在你能够接受的范围之内而已。所以,还是要学会包容,宽容别人。还是得说,我这个人比较的粗线条,只要朋友们不是3个月,6个月不来找我,1个月不打一通电话,我也不会有什么反应,反正又不是男朋友。呵呵。我也绝对不可能会多想什么,我只知道她告诉过我,她很忙,就那么简单。像是平时说她们在忙,要挂电话,我都说,好,然后,直接挂了。自己也不会多想。在交友方面,我比较的主动,所以,只是付出,回报知道有就可以了。其他的事情也不那么的在意。)
you:you are pig
you friend:you are pig too
you:you are SB
you friend:you are SB too
you:fanily all are SB
you friend:you 8899174
you:you 8899174 too
you friend:I am sorry(哭着走回了家)
你好楼主;
That day, I came to school early, see my desk is a mess, be indignant I was only seen in the classroom only you, and you quarrel, didn't you explain, two people quarrel
那天,我早早的来到学校,看见我课桌上一团乱,愤愤不平的我当时只看到教室只有你,就和你争吵,没等你解释,两人就吵得不可开交了。
Then I angrily sat down, just pick up the things on the desk, then the teacher found, told I was a teacher accidentally, the finishing time before, now know misunderstood you, I'm sorry, after a while, his courage to apologize, you said no; relationship, after all, is a misunderstanding, so civilized become friends for life
随后我便气呼呼地坐下来了,只顾着收拾课桌上的东西,后来老师发现后,告诉我是老师不小心弄的,这还没来得及整理,现在知道误会你了,我感到抱歉,过了一会儿,鼓起了勇气向你道歉,你说;没关系,毕竟是个误会,于是文明成为了一辈子的好朋友。
Life will inevitably have a misunderstanding, as long as we have more exchanges, then the misunderstanding will dissolve
生活中难免会有误会,只要我们有更多的交流,那么误会就会化解。
祝楼主平安快乐!~~
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I had a big argument with my good friend yesterday because of the baseball teams During the break time, we argued about which team is the best in the league big I thought it is Yankees and he thought it is Red Sox After the argument, he went of to say goodbye to me and close the door loudly I was so angry with him
Then he still didn't talk to me during the next break time He didn't even look at me I started to feel sad because he is my best friend When it was time to go home I asked him if he wanted to go with me as usual He looked at me with a strange look and still turned away But this time, he did say goodbye to me quietly
In the end, while I was watching TV the phone ring It was him and he said he was sorry about what he did, he felt childish I said never mind we are still good friends Now I feel much better I hope we won't argument any more
My Best Friend
My best friend is one of my classmates His name is Tom Every day, we go to school together and go back home together We often help each other and learn from each other in study
We have the same hobby-collecting stamps He has many nice stamps He is very proud of them Sometimes he gives some of them to me I think he is a very good boy We will be good friends forever 我最好的朋友我最好的朋友是我的一个同班同学,他的名字叫Tom。我们每天一起上学,一起回家。我们经常互相帮助,并向对方学习。我们有着相同的爱好——集邮。他有很多漂亮的邮票,并为此十分自豪。有时,他会把其中的一些邮票给我。我认为他是个非常好的男孩。我们会成为永远的朋友。
你想怎麼样吵架
argue → 指提出理由或证据为自己或自己一方的看法或立场辩护,着重说理、论证和企图说服。
quarrel → 指两人之间或两个团体之间不友好的、吵吵嚷嚷地大声争论某事,尤指“吵嘴、吵架”。
debate → 侧重指意见等对立的双方之间正式或公开的争辩。
dispute → 侧重对分歧进行激烈或热烈的争论或争辩,带一定感情色彩,常隐含“各持已见”或“争论不休”意味。
discuss → 最常用词,指就某一或某些问题表明观点、看法等,以便统一认识,解决问题。
reason → 指据理力争以说服对方或求得对问题作更深入的研究
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