在恋爱中需要争对错吗？

在恋爱中，争论所谓的对错是没有意义的。

首先，爱情，亦是“俗世俗物”不过是有些许特殊的光环罢了。只要跳不出红尘俗世，任何事都有对错之分。是非对错，本就是很模糊的东西。立场、角度、认知，都会影响对是非对错的判断。

其次，恋爱是一种极其感性的东西，在恋爱中真的要拿对错来分的情况很少，大多数吵架、争执都来自认知不同导致的分歧。更多的是“应该怎样做” “不应该怎样做”。

其实，真正能做到互相理解的人很少，所以也不必总是纠结对错。感情中的对错只是因为一方的做法不如人意罢了。因此，没有必要在恋爱中争对错。

I want to talk about a love never broke up, even if the quarrel, even angry, even if separated to be together

恋爱中的两人老是吵架怎么办

　恋爱中的两人老是吵架怎么办，百年修得同船渡，千年修得共枕眠。夫妻之间吵吵闹闹是常事，不过偶尔的吵架也是生活的添加剂，但夫妻吵架需要掌握方寸，以下分享恋爱中的两人老是吵架怎么办？

恋爱中的两人老是吵架怎么办1

　 1、情侣经常吵架应该多给爱情一些时间

　快节奏的工作，无情的挤压着你的时间，你们共处的时光是不是越来越少。交往越久，越需要时间来巩固爱情，从百忙中抽出一些时间，一起看**，喝咖啡，甚至可以一起去买菜。

　 2、情侣经常吵架应该懂得原谅

　爱情中磕磕碰碰是难免的，吵吵闹闹只要有度，就不会对感情造成多大伤害。学会原谅，适时的停止责备，会让对方心生感动，不依不饶只能让事情变得更糟。

　 3、情侣经常吵架应该给他一个空间

　每个人都需要有自己的空间，就算你是他最最爱的那个人，他也需要有一些属于自己的时间和空间，也需要有自己的隐私，而不是全部曝光在你的面前。

　 4、情侣经常吵架应该记住更多细节

　爱情的经营不应该是一种压力，它是一种源于爱的自然表达，会让你很自然的记住关于对方的一切细节，他的生日、他的`口味、他爱看的杂志、他喜欢的笑话。

　 5、情侣经常吵架应该为回忆注入新的内容

　如果你们两人在一起已经到了只能反复回忆那几个特定的情景时，你需要计划一些新的，有趣的，值得回忆的事情去做，为你们的回忆注入新的内容。

恋爱中的两人老是吵架怎么办2

　 1、第一时间要冷静

　吵架的时候彼此间说出严重的话时，第一时间要了冷静，就事论事。在气头上不要紧缠借口不放，双方暂定冷静，等思绪清楚，恢复理智之后，用另一种语气说出来。而不是用吵架的方式，让对方感受到你的诚意和想法，从对方的角度出发去处理问题。

　 2、放低姿态主动道歉

　两个人既然在一起，难免不吵架。既然选择了对方，吵架时候多为对方考虑一下。恋爱中总吵架该怎么办？主动放低姿态去道歉，道歉的人往往更珍惜这段感情。彼此那么亲密又谈何面子。主动道歉吧，也许对方只是撒娇在等待你的主动。

　 3、彼此冷静一段时间

　如果双方间吵架吵得很厉害，几乎到伤害对方的地步，那这时候千万不要一时冲动说出分手之类的话。一定要在冷静的分析下，分析自己是否做错了，一旦发现错的地方一定要及时改正。

　 4、先礼后兵处理

　不可能对方全都听你的，所以才会发生摩擦。恋爱中总吵架该怎么办？先礼后兵的处理吵架，重点就在于你要认真的听取对方的一件，和它一起分析。在彼此交流时切勿带有过激的个人情绪，这样男人才会心甘情愿的顺着你给的线路走。

　 5、一个拥抱就能缓和

　谈恋爱一月总吵架怎么办？情侣之间，女生总会有无理取闹的几天。既然选择了这个人，那么尽量去包容她的脾气。吵架的`时候，不知道怎么办的话，就直接冲过去给她一个拥抱，无声的说：你爱她。这时候，女生多半就没气了。

恋爱中的两人老是吵架怎么办3

　 1、不要涉及到伤害双方感情的话题

　夫妻间吵架，常常往各自的短处去说，尤其是婚前或者婚后的一些敏感话题，又老生常谈。这往往是吵架的导火索，可谓旧事不提，就是这个理，拿旧事说事，往往会大煞风景，大伤感情。要是双方能够做到这一点，吵架自然而然地会熄火。

　 2、男人要大度些心胸要开阔些

　作为男人，吵架时，一副男子汉的样子，雄赳赳气昂昂，恨不得要把妻子给吃了。作为男人，有时也要给妻子一个面子，一个下台 的台阶，不要为点小事就格格不入，心要大度些，开阔些，在吵架问题上，男人要想占上风，这本来就错误了。夫妻间本是平等的。也许忍一忍，或者退让一步，大 事化小小事化了了，难道不是幸事，干嘛要吵得鸡犬不宁呢

　 3、作为妻子不要喋喋不休小鸡肚肠

　有些女人，吵架时，总喜欢喋喋不休，这也是女性所共有的特性。那么，知道自己的这身毛病，就努力地去改正，纠正，不要为了一些生活琐事儿小鸡肚肠，这样会影响夫妻间的感情。

　 4、可以冷处理用温柔感化男人

　有时吵架已经到了不可退让的地步，作为妻子，适当地做些谦让，毕竟男人很要面子。可以选择冷处理，不要继续激怒他。等冷化后，说些体贴入微的话，这时的男人就像棉花糖，很快就会心软下来，也能达到和解的目的。

　 5、夫妻间是平等的要学会包容

　一旦吵起架来，男人总是不肯包容。其实，大可不必这样。在家庭里，夫妻生活在一起，谁都不容易，要为各自想一想，说白了， 吵来吵去，都是为了这个家的好。所以，夫妻间要平等对待，不要用异样的眼光和心态来对待，如果有这样的心态，就难以维持婚姻的继续。

　 6、不要揭相互之间的老底

　有些夫妻间吵架，吵吵就不上路子了，喜欢揭相互之间的老底，这样不但不会平息吵架的风波，反而会变本加厉，会使吵架升级。揭相互之间的老底，是吵架之大忌，要慎记。

　 7、多为对方去想一想不妨退避三舍

　吵架时，不妨多为对方想一想，这场架有没有必要去争去吵，如果单纯是一些小事起事端，不妨选择退避三舍，会起到意想不到的效果。

　 8、不要吵架时拿别人来做比较

　有些夫妻间吵架时，总喜欢拿别人来做比较，什么谁比你强，比你好，这虽然是气话，但有时会起到反作用。更会激化矛盾的升级。

　 9、尽快和解不需要外人来评理

　家和万事兴。有句话叫做关起门来吵架。夫妻间吵架，千万不要让别人来插嘴或者评理，这样不但没有给各自的面子，反而会有理 说不清，更会越描越黑。还有，有的夫妻吵架了，打冷战，多日谁也不搭理谁，这样不好，吵架后，要热处理，要尽快和解，不要生闷气，这样不利夫妻和睦还会憋 坏身子，得不偿失。

　 10、是不管谁有道理都要主动向对方赔礼道歉

　夫妻双方不管吵架谁有道理，平息后都要主动向对方赔礼道歉，这样会更加增进夫妻间的感情，也有利于解开心结，使夫妻间的感情更升华更融洽。

翻译如下

恋爱中

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she

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她大概是恋爱中。

What greater thing is there for two human souls that to feel that they are joined to strengthen each other to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories

~ George Eliot

In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing

~ Mignon McLaughlin

For one human being to love another that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks; the ultimate, the last test and proof; the work for which all other work is but preparation

~ Rainer Maria Rilke

There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread

~ Mother Teresa

Love cannot endure indifference It needs to be wanted Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low

~ Henry Ward Beecher

You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love

~ Henry Drummond

Treasure the love you receive above all

It will survive long after your good health has vanished

~ Og Mandino

The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being His heart withers if it does not answer another heart His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration

~ Pearl S Buck

Love works in miracles every day: such as weakening the strong, and stretching the weak; making fools of the wise, and wise men of fools; favouring the passions, destroying reason, and in a word, turning everything topsy-turvy

~ Marguerite De Valois

All love that has not friendship for its base,

is like a mansion built upon the sand

~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time:

effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end

~ Germaine De Stael

Love is the history of a woman's life; it is an episode in man's

~ Germaine De Stael

The loving are the daring

~ Bayard Taylor

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible

~ Mother Teresa

The only gift is a portion of thyself

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The best portion of a good man's life,

His little, nameless, unremembered acts,

Of kindness and of love

~ William Wordsworth

Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be

~ Robert Browning

Love is a thing, well, its kind of like quicksand:

The more you are in it, the deeper you sink

And when it hits you, you've just got to fall

~ UB40

Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion

that each include the other,

each is enriched by the other

~ Felix Adler

Think about it, there must be higher love

Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above

Without it, life is a wasted time

Look inside your heart, I'll look inside mine

~ Steve Winwood

Love is an electric blanket with somebody else in control of the switch

~ Cathy Carlyle

Love does not consist in gazing at each other

but in looking together in the same direction

~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Romance has been elegantly defined as the offspring of fiction and love

~ Benjamin Disraeli

Find the person who will love you because of your differences and

not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life

~ Leo Buscaglia

Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes

There抯 too much fraternizing with the enemy

~ Henry Kissinger

To laugh often and love much to appreciate beauty,

to find the best in others, to give one's self

this is to have succeeded

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Kindness in words creates confidence

Kindness in thinking creates profoundness

Kindness in giving creates love

~ Lao Tzu

The heart has reasons that reason does not understand

~ Jacques Benigne Bossuel

Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed:

our love to others, and others' love to us

~ Thomas Trahern

Love is always bestowed as a gift --

freely, willingly, and without expectation

We don't love to be loved; we love to love

~ Leo Buscaglia

It is best to love wisely, no doubt;

but to love foolishly is better than

not to be able to love at all

~ William Thackeray

Love is a mutual self-giving which ends in self-recovery

~ Fulton J Sheen

We find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place

in ourselves for those who love us

~ Saint Bernard of Clairvaux

Love grows by giving The love we give away is the only love we keep The only way to retain love is to give it away

~ Elbert Hubbard

The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable

~ Victor Hugo

There is no instinct like that of the heart

~ Lord Byron

We are all born for love

it is the principle existence and it's only end

~ Disraeli

To fear love is to fear life,

and those who fear life are already three parts dead

~ Bertrand Russell, Earl Russell

We can only learn to love by loving

~ Iris Murdoch

May no gift be too small to give,

nor too simple to receive,

which is wrapped in thoughtfulness

and tied with love

~ LO Baird

Spread love everywhere you go:

first of all in your own home

Give love to your children, to a wife

or husband, to a next-door neighbor

~ Mother Teresa

The dedicated life is the life worth living

You must give with your whole heart

~ Anne Dillard

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness

~ Oliver Wendell Holmes

You come to love not by finding the perfect person,

but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly

~ Sam Keen

What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose

~ Henry Ward Beecher

Love doesn't make the world go 'round

Love is what makes the ride worthwhile

~ Franklin P Jones

The truth [is] that there is only one terminal dignity-love And the story of a love is not important-what is important is that one is capable of love It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity

~ Helen Hayes

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http://wwwtheromanticcom/lovequotes/love1htm

●喜欢、爱上……

汤姆是个美男子。

Tom is a lady-killer lady-killer直译是“少女杀手”，其实不是杀手，而是指一下子就能迷住女人的男子。

Tom dates around a lot (汤姆和好多女人来往。)

Tom is a real playboy (汤姆真是个花花公子。)

汤姆真让我神魂颠倒。

Tom really turns me on turnon“有性方面的吸引力”、“使人着迷”。

Tom really turns me on (汤姆真让我神魂颠倒。)

I didn't know you felt that way (我一点儿都不知道你的感觉。)

I'm crazy about Tom

I have strong feelings for Tom

I love Tom

I have the hots for Tom 俚语。

克里斯长得真帅。

Chris is really a heartbreaker 用heartbreaker表示“长得很帅，对异性有吸引力的人”。进一步讲，“heartbreaker”是指给异性带来撕心裂肺的痛苦和失望的人，魅惑他人，让人沉醉的人。Elvis Presley (爱尔维斯·普里斯利)有一首成名曲“Heartbreak Hotel”，指的就是“(因恋爱而)绝望的人住的饭店”。

Chris breaks a lot of hearts (克里斯使很多女人尝到了失恋的痛苦。)

Chris dates a lot of women (克里斯和许多女人有来往。)

珍妮特真迷人。

Janet is a knockout 如同拳击中的“knock out”一样，表示极具魅力、使对方晕头转向的人，多指女性。

Janet is a knockout (珍妮特真迷人呀。)

You can say that again! (颇有同感。)

Janet is sexy

Janet is beautiful

他好像看上你了。

I think he has a crush on you have a crush on“看上……”。

I think he has a crush on you (他好像看上你了。)

Give me a break (别随便瞎说。)

I think he is infatuated with you be infatuated with“被……迷住，为……神魂颠倒”。

I think he likes you

简好像喜欢上我了。

Jane seems to like me seem“好像，看上去像……”。

I've got the feeling that Jane likes me

I think Jane likes me

I have a hunch (that) Jane likes me

戴安娜对杰克有意思。

Diana's been coming on to Jack

我不敢打像她那样的姑娘的主意。

I can't handle a girl like her handle 表示“对待，对待(人)”。

She's too much for me

我非常想见到她。

I'm dying to see her dying to“忍耐不住地想做某事”。

我想追求她。

I'm trying to make a pass at her make a pass at“(特别是对女性)挑逗，求爱”。

I'm trying to make a pass at her (我想追求她。)

I don't blame you (［她对你来说很有魅力，］我理解你的心情。)

I'm trying to pick her up (我打算把她弄到手。) pick up 是口语“把异性弄到手”、“勾搭女人”、“追女人”的意思。

I'm trying to get a date with her (我打算和她约会。) get a date with“和……约会”、“约会”。

你也太狠心了。

You broke my heart breakheart在恋爱中“使……十分痛苦”，用于甩掉自己的人。

You broke my heart (你也太狠心了。)

I didn't mean to (我不是那个意思……)

●约会

今晚有空吗

Are you free tonight free“空闲的”。

Are you free tonight (今晚有空吗)

Yes Why (有空，干嘛)

Do you have plans tonight (今天晚上有事吗)

Are you available tonight

Are you busy tonight (今天晚上忙吗)

今晚你能和我约会吗

Do you want to go out with me tonight go out并不一定就是“约会”，但是如果go out的后面直接跟with me的话，就一定是“约会”了。

Let's go out tonight (今晚出去吧。)

If you're free, why don't we go out tonight(要是晚上有空，我们出去走走行吗)

愿意和我一起去看**吗

Would you like to go to the movies with me

Would you like to go to the movies with me (愿意和我一起去看**吗)

I'd love to (当然，我很乐意。)

我们喝点茶什么的吧。

Let's have tea or something

Let's have something to drink (我们喝点什么吧。)

How about having a cup of tea

能陪陪我吗

Please keep me company for a while keep me company“和我在一起”、“交往”、“亲近”。

我想请你去看演出。

I'd like to invite you to a show

Would you like to go to a show with me (愿意和我一起去看演出吗)

我能和你约会吗

May I ask you out ask out“约会”。

May I ask you out (我能和你约会吗)

Sorry, I have a boyfriend (对不起，我有男朋友了。)

Would you mind if I took you out

Would you go on a date with me

你是想和我约会吗 (你想勾引我吗)

Are you trying to pick me up pick up“勾引(男人/女人)，欺骗”。

Are you asking me out

Are you asking me for a date

Are you asking me out on a date

在哪儿见面

Where do you want to meet

Where do you want to meet (在哪儿见面)

Any place you want (你觉得哪儿合适就在哪儿。)

我们几点见面

What time should we meet

What time should we meet (我们几点见面)

How about seven (7点怎么样)

●表白

我有话要对你说。

I want to talk to you

Can we talk

I'd like to talk with you

你现在有朋友吗

Are you seeing anyone now see 除了表示“看见”之外，还可表示“与……交往”。

Are you seeing anyone now (你现在有朋友吗)

Yeah, kind of (嗯，怎么说呢……)

Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend now (你现在有男/女朋友吗)

Are you dating anyone now

Do you have a partner

Are you going steady with someone 比较旧的说法。

你觉得我怎么样

What do you think of me

What do you think of me (你觉得我怎么样)

I think you're great (我觉得你挺棒的。)

What do you think about me

我爱你。

I love you

I love you (我爱你。)

I love you, too (我也爱你。)

I'm in love with you

你是我见到过的最美的女人。

You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen

You're the most beautiful woman I know

你使我发疯。

I'm crazy for you

I'm crazy about you

I'm infatuated with you (你使我神魂颠倒。) 感觉比“I'm crazy about you” 更强烈。

别装腔作势。

Don't play hard to get play hard to get一般多用在男女之间。特别是指女性为了吸引男性而使对方着急、故弄玄虚的行为。

She wouldn't even talk to me (她连话都不跟我说。)

She's playing hard to get (她只是在吊你的胃口。)

Don't be a tease

Don't play games

Don't pretend you don't want me

我还不想太认真。

I don't want to get serious yet

I want you to meet my parents (我想让你见见我的父母。)

I don't want to get serious yet (我还不想太认真。)

I'm not ready for a commitment

I don't want to be tied down

I just want to have fun (我现在只是想玩玩。)

我是一见钟情。

It was love at first sight at first sight“第一眼”、“见到的第一面”。

I fell in love with you the first time I saw you

I loved you the first time I laid eyes on you

我真希望我从来都没遇到过你。

I wish I had never met you 这句是虚拟语气的一种，表示与过去事实相反或者不可能实现的事情，用“had+过去分词”的形式。本句紧接在“I wish”的后面，表示“要是……就好了，可……”。

I regret meeting you (我真后悔认识了你。)

I wish you were never a part of my life

你是我喜欢的那种类型。

You're my type 也可以用于女性对男性。

Why do you like me (你为什么喜欢我)

You're my type (因为你是我喜欢的那种类型。)

You're the right girl for me

You're my kind of woman/man (你是我喜欢的那类女人/男人。)

你使我感到幸福。

You make me happy

You make me happy (你使我感到幸福。)

You do, too (你也是。)

能认识你我非常幸福。

I'm happy to have known you

I'm happy to have been a part of your life

I'm glad I've gotten to know you

你的眼睛真美。

You have beautiful eyes

Your eyes are beautiful

你真好。

You're sweet

You're so kind

你真性感。

You're sexy

You're hot

我们拉着手走吧。

Let's walk hand in hand hand in hand指“手拉着手”、“手牵着手”。

Let's hold hands (我们手握手吧!)

我可以牵你的手吗

May I hold your hand

May I hold your hand (我可以牵你的手吗)

Sure you may (当然可以。)

你真漂亮。

You're beautiful 只用于男性对女性。

我想知道你的一切。

I want to know all about you

I want to know everything about you

Tell me all about yourself (请告诉我有关你的一切。)

我想要你。

I want you 男女都可以使用。

我需要你。

I need you

你是我的一切。

You're everything to me

你是我的。

You're mine

You belong to me

我是你的。

I'm yours

I'm all yours (我属于你。)

没有你我无法活下去。

I can't live without you

I don't want to live without you

Life isn't worth living without you in my life

You mean everything to me

You mean the world to me

再靠近我些。

Come closer

你想什么呢

What's on your mind

What are you thinking about

我时时刻刻都想着你。

I think of you night and daynight and day“无论是睡着还是醒着，不分昼夜”，此句直译为“我无论是白天还是黑夜都想着你。”

I think of you constantly

You have won my heart

你是这个世界上独一无二的人。

There will never be another you

I'll never find another girl/boy like you

You are very unique (你是如此独特。)

你的连衣裙真漂亮。

I like your dress

I like your dress (你的连衣裙真漂亮。)

Oh, thank you You like it (噢，谢谢。你喜欢)

That's a nice dress

That dress looks good on you (你这条连衣裙真合适。)

You look good in that dress (你这条连衣裙真合适。)

为你我在所不惜。

Nothing is too good for you

You deserve the best

你在引诱我吗

Are you seducing me seduce 特指引诱年轻的女性。

Are you coming on to me

抱紧我。

Hold me tight

别离开我。

Don't go away 比较随便的说法。表示“呆在这儿”、“别离开。”

Stay around

Stick around

我无法不爱你。

I can't help falling in love with you

I can't stop myself from loving you

我从来没有过这种感觉。

I've never felt like this before

你是我的惟一。

You're the one for me

我永远爱你。

I'll love you forever

I'll always love you (我会永远爱你。)

I'll love you my whole life (我一生都会爱你的。)

我一直都说的是真心话。

I always speak my mind

I always say what's on my mind

I'm always honest (我一直很诚实。)

既然那样，那你也要爱屋及乌噢。

Love me, love my dog这是一句有名的谚语，意思是在爱一个人的同时，也要去爱他的朋友，去接受他的缺点和毛病。“爱屋及乌”。

请温柔些。

Be gentle

Be soft

Please do it gently

再多爱我一些。

Love me more

看着我!

Look at me!

我爱上了罗丝。

I fell in love with Rose fall in love“坠入爱河”、“谈恋爱”、“迷恋”。

I fell in love with Rose (我爱上了罗丝。)

Does she love you (她爱你吗)

我深深地爱着罗丝。

I'm deeply in love with Rose

I love Rose from the bottom of my heart

I love Rose with all my heart

唧!

Smooch! 表示男女接吻时发出的声响。

●结婚

愿意和我结婚吗

Will you marry me 用于求爱时，男女都可以用。

Will you marry me (愿意和我结婚吗)

Yes, I will marry you (是的，我愿意。)

Will you be my wife/husband (你愿意成为我的妻子/丈夫吗)

I want to share the rest of my life with you (我愿今生今世和你在一起。)

I want to grow old together (我愿意和你白头到老。)

我还不想订婚。

I don't want to get engaged yet

I don't think we should get engaged yet (我觉得我们还不到该订婚的时候。)

我还不想结婚。

I don't want to get married yet

I don't want to get married yet (我还不想结婚。)

When will you be ready (那你想什么时候呢)

I'm not ready to settle down yet

I'm not ready for married life yet

结婚，我还没想过呢。

I haven't thought about marriage yet 当对方问到When are you going to get married (你打算什么时候结婚)时的回答。

我爱你，可是不能和你结婚。

I love you but I can't marry you

我还下不了决心和她结婚。

I hesitate to marry her hesitate“踌躇”、“没心思”、“犹豫”。

I hesitate to marry her (我还下不了决心和她结婚。)

Why (为什么呢)

I'm not sure if I want to marry her

I'm hesitant to marry her

他刚刚结婚。

He's a newlywed newlywed“新婚的人”。

He looks very happy lately (最近他看上去好幸福呀。)

He's a newlywed (因为他刚刚结婚。)

He is newly married

He just got married

婚后生活怎么样

How's (your) married life

How's (your) married life (婚后生活怎么样)

Not bad (不错哟。)

我们俩都感到很幸福。

We're happy together now

我很爱我的妻子。

I love my wife

我们夫妻俩性格相似。

We're two of a kind two of a kind“性格相似的人”。

We're very similar

Like husband, like wife

我们俩很般配。

We're a well-matched couple

我是个顾家的人。

I'm a family-centered person

I'm a family man

她想要个孩子。

She wants to start a family

我怀孕了。

I'm pregnant

Guess what I'm pregnant (你猜怎么着，我怀孕了。)

Really (真的吗)

I'm going to have a baby

I'm expecting

怀的是男孩还是女孩

What did she have

What did she have (怀的是男孩还是女孩)

It's a girl (是女孩。)

问题总会解决的。

We can work it out

我首先想到的是我妻子。

I think of my wife first

My wife is very important to me

I'm very close to my wife

我们夫妻从不吵架。

We (as a husband and a wife) don't have any fights

拖家带口的人。

Family man

●离婚

我们经常吵架。

We fight a lot

Do you two fight (你们吵架吗)

Yes, we fight a lot (嗯，我们常吵架。)

我不再爱我的妻子了。

I don't love my wife any more

我老婆有外遇。

My wife's cheating on me cheat on“在男女关系上表现的不忠”。

My wife's a two-timer

My wife's secretly dating someone else

My wife's having an affair

我们感情不和。

We had a falling-out falling-out“感情不和”、“失和”。

We had a big disagreement (我们之间意见分歧很大。)

We don't get along anymore (我们再也不能在一起了。)

我已经改变心意了。

I've changed my mind

I've reconsidered (我想重新考虑。)

你变了。

You have changed

You're not the same as before (你和以前不一样了。)

你现在是不是和谁交往呢

Are you seeing someone now

Are you seeing someone now (你现在是不是和谁交往呢)

Actually, no (没有，谁也没有。)

我和妻子没什么共同语言。

I don't see eye to eye with my wife see eye to eye with“和……意见一致”。

How's married life (婚后生活怎么样)

I don't see eye to eye with my wife (我和妻子没什么共同语言。)

我们俩合不来了。

We just don't get along

我想我很了解你。

I thought I knew you

我和我的秘书有了婚外情。

I had an affair with my secretary

和你在一起没意思。

I don't enjoy being with you

We don't have any fun anymore

我们离婚吧。

Let's get divorced divorce“离婚”。

I don't love you anymore (我不再爱你了。)

Let's get divorced (我们离婚吧。)

现在我和我妻子分居了。

I'm separated from my wife separate“夫妻分居”。

We are living separately now

我不能失去你。

I can't get over losing you get over“(从疾病、痛苦中)恢复，重新站起”。

I can't recover from breaking up with you (我无法接受和你的分手。)

I can't forget you (我无法忘记你。)

和你分手是我的痛苦。

Breaking up is hard to do break up“朋友、夫妻间的分手”。

make up (和好，言归于好)

请不要伤我的心。

Don't break my heart break one's heart“使……万分痛苦，让对方因失恋而痛苦”。

I want to break up (我想和你分手。)

Don't break my heart (请不要伤我的心。)

Don't make me sad

我们争论了好几个小时。

We argued for hours argue“是用理论来说服对方”或“各自坚持自己的主张而争论不休“。

在恋爱时，跟女朋友吵架是常态吗？两个人为什么会吵架呢？许多时候，我们不难发现，同样的矛盾，发生在朋友之间，也许笑笑就过了。但如果是恋人之间，却会带来一次战争的爆发。每一次争吵，其实都是一次评估，评估对方是否能够达到自己最终想要的要求。许多情侣吵着吵着感情越来越好，因为他们之间的小矛盾不断出现，于是两人不断磨合，改变对方的同时，也改变自己，于是两人越来越契合，成为一个完整的圆形。有的情侣吵着吵着就散了，因为他们会在吵架中发现彼此的观念和想法实在是差距太太，日后生活在一起一定十分困难，于是一拍两散，这叫及时止损。恋爱中，吵架不可怕。比吵架更可怕的是冷战。

谈恋爱吵架其实是很正常的。设想一下喔，谈恋爱的你们我们大多数都是没有一起生活过的两人，你想想我们跟父母兄弟姐妹一起生活了那么多年了，都熟悉彼此都会争吵啊，争吵只是代表观点习惯不一样，你们两个本来没有关系的陌生人现在产生联系喔，还很可能一起住，而你们将来很可能要相伴一生的人，那刚开始的时候观点习惯不一样，都没有深入了解的阶段，那争吵很正常，在我们生活工作中其实很多时候在观点不一致的时候都会有争吵，谈恋爱的时候有了争吵更重要的是你们争吵后，这个争吵的点是不是解决了后续再遇到同样的问题是不是不争吵了。

是不是经过争吵后你们达成了更多的一致，你们更多互相理解互相体谅对方的不一样，因此为后续的共同生活奠定和睦生活，和解决未来要面对更多的家庭关系家族关系的一致性。当然你会说为什么有人谈恋爱就没有争吵，很可能人家一对人儿都是互相体谅对方的人儿，因为双方都退一步那就没争吵啦，还有可能时间比较短，大家暂时没有不一致的观点吧。其实我个人觉得谈恋爱的时候吵吵也是件好事，也算交流沟通的一种方式，只是方式比较激烈。