你和父母吵架,你很郁闷，但是告诉了朋友后感觉很好 英语作文

青少年和父母的争吵Teenager’s argument with parents

Teenager is at the sensible age, on the one hand, they are not mature enough, on the other hand, they are very bolshy, they don’t listen to what their parent tell them, they will go against parents So teenager always have argument with their parents, it hurts so much, parents have to deal with such situation

青少年处于一个敏感的年纪，一方面，他们还不够成熟，另一方面，他们很反叛，不听父母的话，和父母作对。所以青少年总是和父母争吵，这很受伤，父母不得不处理这样的情况。

As a teenager, they want to chase for freedom, they are at the age of pursing individualism They want to show that they are mature enough, they can make their own decision While as parents, they watch their kids all their life, they haven’t realized that their kids are already mature enough, so they always treat their children as the small one, making every decision for them That is why the conflict comes, the only way to solve it is to understand each other

作为青少年，他们追求自由，他们处在追求个性的年纪。他们想要展示自己的成熟，可以自己做决定。然而对父母来说，他们一生都在看着孩子，还没有意识到孩子已经成熟了，所以他们总是把孩子当小孩子看待，替孩子做一切的决定。这就是矛盾的来源，唯一的解决方法就是彼此理解。

For parents, they must have the though that the kids are growing up, they are no more the small ones, they should learn to let them go For teenagers, they should have a good talk with their parents, trying to explain and show the courage they have They should not be angry with parents, to find a better to solve argument

对于父母来说，他们必须意识到孩子已经长大，不再是小孩子，他们应该学会放手。对于青少年来说，应该和父母好好谈谈，试着解释和展示自己的勇气。他们不应该生父母的气，找到觉得争端的更好解决方法。

Though teenagers are at the sensible age, there is always a way to find the solution about the argument The better understanding between parents and teenagers is the key point

虽然青少年处于敏感的年纪，但是总是会有解决争端的好方法。父母和青少年之间的理解是最重要的点。

I want to communicate with their parents, a reflection of who is right and who is wrong, to find a solution to resolve contradictions, sincerely apologize to them

我要和父母沟通,反思谁对谁错,找到解决的办法来化解矛盾,真诚向他们道歉

　　Avoid Misunderstanding

"Why do they keep misunderstanding me" We often hear people complainMisunderstanding seems to be one of the most disturbing issues in interpersonal relationshipsWe often see how it undermines the harmonious relationships between people

Several factors contribute to misunderstandingFirst,people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectives in interpreting one behaviorSecond,the language we use as a vehicle of conveying thought can be ambiguous,and various ways of decoding (解码) words may result in barriers in communicationThird,misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trustIf you have prejudice (偏见) against someone,whatever he says may sound iii intentioned to you

Having gone so far in the exploration of the causes of misunderstanding,we can easily arrive at the ways to avoid themFirstly,we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among peopleSecondly,we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language,avoiding misleading wordsThirdly,we should be constructive and patient in dealing with peopleIf we try hard enough,there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world

If this is your best friend's words Jiugen him to explain to the contrary,if it is not very important person,would not have had

（2）Because it explains also no use,but people think you have problems

In fact,a person's life there are many things you do will be misunderstood

抱歉，我的邮箱出了问题，只能贴在这了。

I stomped into my room this afternoon and threw the door shut I was just so angry, so sad For the millionth time, my parents and I disagreed at the question of getting me tutoring My father persisted that if I don’t go to Maths and English tuition, then I would fail my exams, get kicked out of school and wind up poor and starved on the streets! That is so unfair! Why can I not get good grades through my own effort and talent There is something in this world that is more important than that number on your exam paper, and that something is your own ability to learn and create But my parents just don’t understand that Well, perhaps that is called the generation gap But I really hope that we can communicate with each other and solve this problem